yessss it so touching 😭😭 he can feel his dad heart

Yoonyoung Choi I really hope both of the parents can change. If they both plan to work they should alter better. If the mother especially doesn’t change her sense of priority, I say she stops working or the children needs to find a better home. Children neglect especially from such an early age, will most definitely affect the kids. It’s saddening if this continues.

Exactly!!

I mean, I don't think it is right as well, but many "fathers" out there do this as well and people will say "they are working to provide for the family" and somehow it is okay. Anyway, in a society as sexist as Korea, I don't think this is much of a concern, because that is what most men do, it is just reversed roles and because she is the mother she is getting so much more backlash. But in an ideal situation, they both should be spending quality time with their children!

@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 I see it as a concern cause it's also messing with her health tho

@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 and there has been workaholic guys in this show to

@@al2069 As I said, they both should be spending quality time with their children. But pardon me if I don't feel much sympathy for this case, when the opposite people will say "it's the way it is". I only feel truly bad about the children, because they should be wanted by both their parents and in this case, the father wanted kids when the mother obviously didn't, maybe she cave in to his wishes and that was the result, did he expected her to develop motherly feelings? That is not how it works.

@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 its partly because a kid is way closer to the mother. he has been within her for 9 months in most cases breastfed for a year. a bond between mother and child is way stronger than between father and child. in the early years that is. that's why i also believe that it is ideal for mother to stay as much with her child as possible in his first years. after he starts going to school she can work again etc. it also helps with the development of the childs mind. did you know that a baby can recognize a mother by smell? that's also why babies calm down if you put them next to the mother. that's not the case with the father. that just proves what is said in the beginning. after all the first years of your childs life are things you can only experience once. i also agree with the fact that both parents need to spend time with the child for a healthy child to grow up. but a mother is needed way more than a father.

Yep I can confirm that.

Indeed, I was so shocked when she said that!

Exactly what I was thinking! Those formative years are so so important.

Yes! This is illegal in other countries!

Same 😞

Me looks at my Sis who is home 24/7 and does nothing after reading this comment

@@meandgrandma5929 sisssss is that youuu

😂😂😂me too me too!!

Nah...... I have cousin Sis who moved back with us since she can't afford rent.. Since then she have no thought of working in or out of house

i'll do the same

Agree...

I think, maybe she raised with enough love from her parents, so she dont know impact in future if she keep do that to her family. If she raised by workaholic parent too, i think she know how that feel, how she felt lonely, so she won't do that to her family.

Who cares about her back story. She's very careless with her babies. It's obvious she doesn't have any bone of motherhood.

Shelbylee that so true

I dont think she was actually aware of it. You can see it clearly at the end how surprised she was because of peoples outbursts etc. I think her husband should have been a little more serious about the situation befor..

I do get what you mean tho. I dont think she sees herself as a career women. Its like a responsibility that has to be taken care of. Similar to parenting. Its very strange tho.

They did focus on the main issue, but also said that it’s mainly men on that show who were like her.... they didn’t shame her and pointed out the areas that she made extremely poor decisions

Do you mean contraception like contraceptive pill ?

@@yoongibear5493 Exactly! Is it correct to say "preservatives" when we talk about condoms and this kind of stuff in english?

@@TahOgawa1 preservatives are something to preserve something last longer, for example making pickles, salted fish etc. 😊

@@TahOgawa1 Do you mean "protection"? Preservatives are chemicals that help goods last long without molding.

lol i think u meant to say "prevention" XD

Agree

Maia TC I agree but disagree it takes two to have a baby so it’s both their fault for not using a condom and like he said they hardly talk so how was his supposed to know if she works all the time

Oh baloney. If she didn't want children, she should have taken the responsibility of using contraceptives. Don't blame the guy if the woman doesn't care about her own body.

They work together in a company they created so he could easily be a home dad, I think he also took care of the babies after that she directly left for work after her pregnancy. The problem is that the kids need a mom, yes their dad could give them attention and affection but they also need their mom’s affection.

You missed the whole point, he isn't complaining about taking care of the children, his problem is that he feels like the children need both of their parents. That means no working overtime everyday and actually going home to spend time with the kids as well, it means setting time aside to spend time as a family and as a couple instead of working non stop when she isn't the only one working at that company. It means actually being present when you are home and not on your phone or computer doing work. All he wants is what he should have and that is a life partner to not only work with but to also raise kids with, he didn't sign up to be a married single dad.

exactly. no one hardly calls this shit out when it’s the other way around. if it bothers him so much he should look after them full time or FinD someOnE to watch them. it’s not that hard. its 2019 and women want to be independent and work for their money and not be tied to being a baby machine/watcher

@@emmie599 Guess you have no idea what a marriage really is.

You do know this is in Korea and not the U.S., right?

She's the Bread winner, she works her home the way many men do. Neither is correct.

N纳迪亚 lmao a woman can have work as her priority and have kids aswell. it’s possible to balance them well, it’s just she isn’t doing it quite right as some women are capable of

alondra diaz pretty sure it aired on the 12th. They posted it to KZfaq a week later

@@icyflamer oh ok

Totally clueless.

You are wrong. There was a case like this before but the husband was the workaholic one and they were eating him alive in the comments.

@@lc4147 I might be wrong for that instance but in real life this happens all the time but people just seem shocked because the 'roles are reversed'. When a man is the breadwinner of the family and he has a stay at home wife, people keep their mouth shut. But all of the sudden when a woman is passionate about her job and the dad spends more time with the kids than the mom does then for some reason that translates to something being wrong with the mom?

@@StephJ0seph true but times have changed, as I see right now everyone is in favor of the women no matter what they do in the internet and with people that I know. For example look at any comment section of cases like this from hello counselor and you will see everyone saying that he should take care of his wife and children and not work that much etc... but in this comment section they are immediately trying to find excuses like post partum depression, or that she was not made to be a mother and that they should understand her. So why if a women does it it's right but if a men does it then it's wrong?. To me in any case that one parent or both are workaholics then they are in the wrong.

@@lc4147 welp, that's your opinion and I guess that people are entitled to their opinions.

Doesn't mean it's right.

Why if it is a woman there is always an excuse. There was a case like this before but the workaholic was the father and the entire comment section was in favor of the mother. And they all condemned the father.

She gave birth to them, though. Which she chose to do. And as a wife and a mother, she is responsible for the 2 lives that came out of her. She also has the responsibility to discuss things with him if only so they can talk about it because that's how marriage works. No one is asking her to quit her job or leave her career, the husband only wants her to spend time with her kids in their formative years

no literally all women were designed from ground up to take care of children. just like men were made to fight

@@donkeyslayer8370... No some people are just not meant to have children women or men doesn't really matter But honestly I wish people would figure out if having children is a good idea for them Instead of actually having a kid in realizing they don't want them Or at least put them up for adoption

@@AG-ev3hj They fucked and they knew the 'consequences'. Should've used a condom if they weren't ready for a child. My parents didn't even try to raise me. I had a job at 14, i fed myself, i washed myself, i did everything by myself. i was only like 4 or 5. My dad's job was to point out what i'd do wrong or make a big deal out of it. My mom's job was throwing something at me so i could play with it, so she could sit on her phone. People should know that not spending time with your child affects them emotionally. I'm almost 20. People think that i forgot about my childhood. The pain isn't gone, i just learned to live with it

DDAENG IDOL but she has a family. Especially her children. She needs to atleast make time for them . Just giving birth to them doesn’t make her a mother. She’s just a donor.

Wait untill your spouse turns like that and see if you are gonna complain

@@aaiish9097 hooo .... Harsh ... But okay , my mom is workholic nd i am lil too ... So i dont mind a workholic spouse

@@sweetbearfanfictions5575 well then to each his own i guess 🤷‍♀️

​@@sweetbearfanfictions5575but that doesn't mean she denied you breast milk while growing up, or did she?. No one have a problem with her being a workaholic but 10mins a day with you child is the worst thing you can do. Or would you tell me your workaholic mom only spent 10mins a day with you while growing?. In a week she spends the total of 1hr 10mins with you?

Soooooooooooooo wrong.