😭😭

THE ACCURACY. YES.

As someone who read The Giver in seventh grade, I can confirm that this was my first thought while listening to this

I laughed so damn hard

Literally the only time he read things enthusiastically was when he was degrading her or talking about sex

definitely

yep

I think that’s pretty obvious

Hey now, hey now, that's a bit presumptuous! I'm more like 103% sure he has.

Yup, he had 10 years to get her to this point...

oh dude where is this i NEED to see it

yesss oh my god like in Barbie

In my fanfic, Margot Robbie shows up and just straight up marries her. The ex-fiancée continues to exist, somewhere else where we can’t see or hear him.

@@kent5627 so basically: the lesbian variety of my fanfic 😁

Margot would never touch this guy in the first place 😂

Fr tho

FR

She's so PRETTY she deserves all the self-love

Or you totally don’t understand the moment or the people in it.

This part really killed me. Like WTF?! She is obviously very beautiful & her hair looks amazing. You can tell she puts a lot of thought & effort into her appearance(which is sadly probably because of his backhanded comments). Meanwhile, he looks like he's been out throwing back a cold one with Guy Fieri. But, most importantly, NO WOMAN needs to look like a "model" to be deserving of someone's love & affection!!!

See, I got more "Oh ha, boys will be boys, naughty naughty."

Clearly not embarrassed enough. If it was me and my mom up there and I was saying that stuff to my fiancée, she'd smack me up my head. And she doesn't hit. I also hate how everyone else laughs it off

@@JenniferKlumppsame

#boy-moms right...?

i would’ve felt like a failure of a mother of either of my sons expressed their “love” like this to their brides.

Negging is abuse

it is a form of abuse... but he is also an a-hole ontop of it. like a sunday, his mysogony is the ice cream, his insults is the whip cream, and the cherry on top is the obvious abuse going on behind closed doors.

Oh my god

It's ab*se babes don't sugar coat it

probably emotionally abusive

I feel like this summary puts that whole trainwreck into a better perspective

Especially in comparison to her vows, where not only was she talking about what she'd give him, she was basically constantly boosting him up as a person, meanwhile just like you said, his were literally "cook me a sandwich and give me a blowie while I picture that you're Margo Robbie so I can even mildly tolerate you"

Maybe for your vows. Those are his vows. Or should every wedding just be a charade just to keep your sensibilities satisfied?

@@alfredo1valenzuelawhat do you think vows are???

​@@Toadstoolthefroggo obviously the perfect time to practice your skills to be a stand up comedian!

The bit where she said “sleeping beauty with a temper” made me wince. 100% he’s made her believe any type of standing up for herself is her having a “temper problem”

I WAS HOPING THERE WOULD BE COMMENTS ABOUT THAT those are my thoughts exactly, not just objectifying and stereotyping, but GRAPHICALLY at that

both can be true

@@valorie444 What?

It's almost like it has nothing to do with you and bigotry is what leads to attack something you know very little about

This! This is the amount of effort to put into wedding vows! Good guy!

Ima cuban woman and I think I would cringe to death but probably also laugh my ass off xd

@@FlowerSong606 he'd been learning Spanish for a while before then but yeah she was definitely laughing at whatever he said along with her family.

Oh that’s so sweet

​@@enbyjamie3300 your uncle is a real one.🤗

And the officiant is his MOM. That’s why she said his name like that. In front of his MOM and she didn’t even like it!

Unfortunately he probably enjoyed that the wedding was all his

@@hopeadler507 and his KIDS

Pretty sure he just thought "Yeah that's right. I'm amazing. You're so lucky to have me." 🤮

I assume he's real dumb.

Right? This is so painful to see.

I get the feeling either he's the reason why she has low confidence, or he knows she has low confidence and is keeping it that way

She was 100 % gaslighted by him and his insecurities

If anything it is him who's out of her league. He took a charismatic woman and gaslit her to the point of thanking him.

IKR!

and his two kids

A pornfried brain is a broken brain

@@spotlightanimation6719that are little girls! It just keeps getting worse

he was *so* damn proud🤮

No I deadass hoped in response that she would say ,"your definitely not Ryan Reynolds." in response to the Margo Robby line.

​@@witchiesthufflepuff8574 GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE LES GOOOO 🤝🤝🤝

@@homogei LETS GOOOOO!

As much as loved to see that, I’m 100% sure he’ll be bitchy, sucky, or extremely offended (or all of em) to her. He’s definitely a glass cannon for sure

god, i fuckin would have. i would have changed my vows right then and there.

This is so important. She can be “okay” with it, but she should NOT be okay with her daughters being spoken to that way. Would you want your daughter to date someone like your husband? No? Get a new husband.

He seems like the type of to “playfully” touch his children. It is really creepy. Edit: to clarify for SOME people. This playful touching isnt always sexual, but it still makes a child uncomfortable and crosses their boundaries. That was my original meaning behind my comment. Also I never meant that he does just that he reminds me of every person that has done this to me.. sexual or not. btw exposing children to sex is a pedophilic behavior that desensitizes a child to sex making it easier to groom them. Most sexual abusers of children are parents or uncles/aunts or cousins or step-family.

@@Nilufar_Nasha_Luvs_Catzz um don’t say shit like this

Ikr :((

​@@fern1550 i agree , but he would in a "adult simon says with the chipmunk simon".

I am utterly terrified of those two little girls 😢

Literally!!! The jokes you tell shouldnt be at the expense of your partner and their comfort :( Vows are literally the main way to display your love to other people in your lives, and the fact that he thought it was appropriate to *just* make crude sexual remarks about her makes me so upset :(((

they also should NOT BE SEXUAL IF CHILDREN ARE IN ATTENDANCE

Awww! That's so adorable! I hope you two have endless two-person blanket burritos for life 💕

@@kingosnake7158 EXACTLY!!!!

If I had a partner that did this I would include it too because I do it as well! It can be more of a bonding moment instead of making the other person feel uncomfortable to even be standing in front of all those people

She's literally the most gorgeous person ever, her smile is so beautiful... If I was the bride's mom, I would have thrown a punch at this guy.

Hope she gets a successful small model career just to prove him wrong on that part

Ikr?

She literally looks like a model, that statement made me so sad

who?

Especially when it is the FULL NAME That is a sign that something REALLY bad has occurred

​@@Archiver_Studioabsolutely

Especially when you're just chillin in your room and then you here the scary parent scream: "*first name* *middle name*!!!" thats when you know u might as well go start diggin ur grave, you're gonna be taken there either way 💀

@@th3k1ngdr4ws you know it's deadly when you also add the last name

@@natasha6395 oh hell yeah. Your grave aint six feet under anymore its twelve 💀💀💀

I hold both the gays and the hets to the same standard on this one: Gross.

​@@ThinWhiteAxe Definitely

The outrage would be equal. Perversion knows no sexuality.

@@ThinWhiteAxe I mean more in a broader sense. I feel like a gay couple doing this would’ve ended op on the news 💀

@@lilblondiebearno the gay couple would be weaponized and used as a ammo to protest gay marriage 💀 it wouldn’t be remotely equal.

Yeah, like, giving her the autonomy to choose is just a ~treat~ because she agreed to marry him... just a reward. You don't get basic human respect unless you earn it ig.

EWWWWW

A twinky is one of those dry, disgusting vanilla-butterflavoured things that never die on you, right? So...I have seen a toaster strudel and that wasn't nice either. Might be because of TellSell's way of displaying it. What..ehm... what is he talking about? Please don't tell me it's about the back-door or baby-door choice?

@@Widdekuu91 A twinkie has the cream inside the treat. A toaster strudel has the cream drizzled on top. The saying refers to where the man ejaculates, a "twinkie" being inside the woman, typically the vagina, and "toaster strudel" being somewhere outside of the body, but on the body, usually back or stomach

@@jadecoolness101 Yeah I googled it on urban-dictionary after I saw nobody responding (yet) and that's just such a..such a low point to end your vows on. I mean, I want a word with his father and mother, I wonder who taught him that this is how you treat the love of your life on her most special day, in front of your little girls.

frankly their families shouldn’t have let her marry him in the first place. if this is the kind of stuff he’s comfortable saying publicly around friends and close family i cannot even imagine what is said behind closed doors. he’s clearly destroyed her self esteem and at the VERY least has little respect for her to have vows that are so brazenly inappropriate.

hi

The fact that she said that during her vows then he brings up Margot Robbie… he has totally brought down her self esteem …

Changing vows wouldn't change the fact hes is a misogynistic trash ans should not get married...

They way he’s reading it sounds like he didn’t write them. Just talked and someone else put into a paragraph for him. I’m embarrassed for the bride.

If it were just generic, I'd give it a pass. Some people can have all the pretty , romantic words and still be terrible spouses and vice versa. But this? It's like something you'd see in a "How to lose a guy in ten days" type Hollywood concept movie. There is no reasonable explanation for it.

im so sorry, sending you so much love

i'm so sorry, hope you're better now 💞

Wait, was he driving the truck, or was it that he showed little to no care?

​@smolvaxxednezuko I mean, either way, it's awful.

honestly, emotional abuse is so tricky,, I know all the signs of it but I still don't realise it's happening until after a relationship (friendship or romantic) has ended

like actually...... imagine them watching this back for the first time when they're like 15 or something

Yep😢

Hell, even a few years from now. The bride (now wife) can show this to a judge at the eventual divorce proceedings.

All because he made sexual comments in his own wedding.... Will you ever grow you chronically online dimwits?

Ok to be entirely honest I don’t think he’s abusive or emotionally harmful I think he’s just clueless of when and when not to talk abt “certain” topics and is just not a very sentimental person which isn’t bad but does come off as kind of cold but she seems to genuinely love him still

EMOTIONAL DAMAGE

GOT HIM GOOD

omfg xd, that wasn't a ligth roast you fucking torched him

Oh damn, that burned and im not even that guy

violated him

I bet, he berates her every day for it.

I hope she heals herself & doesn’t search for love & validation outside herself especially from massive douche bags. I hope she becomes a good example of a high value woman if only for her daughters.

wait did she divorce him?

@@q_0191she should

@@q_0191I hope so

If he was secretly a nice dude, I feel like he would've had a behind the curtains moment where he dropped the "act" and gave really sincere, heartfelt vows. Like yes, I know it's just one clip -- also, the stark contrast between his and hers is ALL the info I need lmao.

@@EMan753 yeah, plus the tone he uses makes it sound like it's not an act, he sounds 100% serious, if it were a joke you think he'd have a joking/sarcastic tone, or expression on his face, but he doesn't even look at her or anything, he sounds like he'd rather be anywhere else

@@EMan753 Also he has a Confederate flag and MAGA hat 😰

@@bellea8429 doesn’t surprise me

@@EMan753 I think this comment kind of sums up my feelings pretty well. It kept feeling like I was waiting for the other shoe to drop, for him to say “all jokes aside” or “but seriously” and talk about how he’s lucky to have her in his life, or how she makes him the happiest man in the world etc. and he sorta half flirts with that than immediately reverts back to “joking”/degrading her. Like I get that they’re country and he had a confederate flag shirt and maga hat (🤢). So I get that his “humor” might be more crude. But honestly I feel like the odds that he is not at worst abusive and at best manipulative are pretty high. Even though her vows were a million times better calling your partner a pain in the ass on your wedding day during your vows is just not something I’d ever want in a partner. But also calling him a pain in the ass is probably actually a compliment for how he is/behaves 😂.

It was so trashy

I just wish the guy the best because I want him to change for the better

@@nehalarafa8260 I want him to live alone in a box until he learns how to treat women and children properly.

@@Ilikefrogs.. yea but I still wish him the best (as in to learn how to behave in a matter of weeks)

all people can be dumb, as a straight based white man, alot of us mf's be stupid as hell and think we funny

ESPECIALLY if it includes your parents and isnt only like some vague concept you picked up on the internet ... Yikes. Biggest yikes.

LMAOO

"I a-always told you I would gi-give you everything you want now i- what's this word?"

@@monoduck HAH😐

As soon as she doesn't want to fuck, that's it...

Honestly I hope so, she and her daughters need to gtfo from a misogynist like that. They deserve someone who actually respects them for who they are, not just cares for what they can do for him

They’ve been together for ten years. It’s going to either last and she will never realize what’s happening or this will push her into leaving him finally but from what I saw online it’s the former :(

@@hopeadler507 yea agreed it seems like their relationship is more reminiscent of 1923 instead of 2023. I would wager they stay together for a very long time due to her potentially feeling trapped or potentially being abused. I think the only way this relationship ends is if he becomes physically abusive and that might be enough for her to leave.

​@@hopeadler507 Perhaps they got married to 'save their relationship'? Some couples really think that's how it works, that if they put a ring on it, it'll get better.

I quite frankly agree with that. It is unacceptable for someone to say that to their wife in front of their whole family.

I recently watched Keith’s, from the Try Guys, wedding & omg his & his wife’s vows were so pure & beautiful-made me cry. I truly wish everyone gets to experience that kind of love at least once in their life

Fr 😭 she deserves to have a much better wedding

Bc he can’t read more than one word without having to look at the paper like a second grader 🙄

​@@swtlikecndy4119 He's very dumb.

They apparently have kids. It makes running away a little harder.

she probably couldnt slap him or she would get it later... there is clearly and imbalance of power between them and she believes she is supposed to be in her lower place

It's called humbleness dude

@@divine555 Have you been picked yet? You’ve been up and down this comment section defending this man like you’re vying for the opportunity to drain his balls.

@@Athena908 dude what 💀 you act like a couple having a peculiar sense of humor is the worst thing ever, maybe try understanding that everyone has a different kind of joking around and that not everyone is going to like that, like you sadly lol

she down played herself to end up with this human MESS.

@@divine555 does up voting your own comment make you feel better about it?

Exactly this!

I hope you'd have the DJ start some boss fight music right before the ass beating

@@kaydwessie296 "DJ... start the boss fight playlist..." *pushes up sleeves*

Yeah I'd be like "hey dude, maybe tone it down. There's kids in the audience"

She has no honor, that’s it.

@@kaydwessie296 “DJ, HIT IT”

His beautiful vows mean nothing if he decided his wedding was a good time to "joke" around like that. Or ever. I wish this wedding had a walk out. Those people at the wedding you went to proved they were better people than the man who should have been taking such a commitment seriously. I applause them. I'm glad the bride left too.

@Eckertainment you say that as if ppl wont jump on the bride and call her a "Karen" for not taking a joke.

@@kracken8918 some would. others won't. It weeding, thus the people there are her firends and family not strangers on the internet.

I attended a wedding similar to this as well; my cousin was the bride. Groom showed up late to the ceremony visibly hung over with the most disinterested expression in the world as he delivered “vows” that sounded like a mixture of every nasty, misogynistic thing he could think of and some random shit generated by a bot. Reception wasn’t any better with the best man making a speech about how he and his friends thought my cousin was too fat for the groom before gesturing to the “better girl”- the woman who was bartending- the woman who was the groom’s ex girlfriend. There was a toast to the ex gf and not the bride and groom. Groom then got sloshed and attempted to assault my cousin outside the reception hall. She spent most of her wedding day outside of the photographed and recorded moments in tears. They’re divorced now.

@@adawong9585 God that's so fucking sad. I'm glad she's divorced but fuck, to have to even sit through a second of that....

How does she knows it? He tells her every day!

yeah 🤦‍♀️

Bride: "You're so selfless!" Groom: "If you don't keep my fatass full I'll leave you for Margot Robbie."

@@wiggard ALMOST LITERALLY HIS EXACT WORDS

And he didn't say what he has to offer to make that could make her happy in return. When you want something from a person, you always need to offer something to them in return.

@@kalinaribic6383 He's offering her HIS name🤷‍♀️...the name of champions 👀

​@@politereminder6284"Lentini"

The guys a little mean but besides from that she's obviously happy with him

I agree with this so much. if not for herself then for her daughters!!! they are going to grow up thinking its ok for men to publicly degrade and shame them and talk about jizzing all over them. absolutely disgusting and tbh talking like that in front of CHILDREN... I can’t even. aren't these the same people who are upset about drag queens reading to kids??? make it make sense. talking that explicitly about sex in front of children feels like something very close to psychological abuse.

@@AshLilyNeko right!!

@@divine555 weird how your quickly assuming that's she's happy with him after all he's done

@@BEYANCASLAY it's her wedding ofc she's happy just listen to her vows lol

That would have been so satisfying. FUCK that guy

My father literally would kill a man if they talked about me like that, especially on my wedding day

or most likely he thought it was funny, my guess is that her father was the first man who crushed her self-esteem

​@@FruityHachiI'm not so sure. With these types of men who are disrespectful of women, they tend to be overprotective of their daughters. Rules for thee but not for me kinda thing. And for all we know her dad could be the nicest man in the world so who's to say 🤷🏾‍♀️

I think the mother as well. I know i would.

Meaning he probably yells at them all the time or complains he’s babysitting his own kids.

100% right, growing up my parents constantly reminded me how much i enriched their lives and how thankful they were to have me, and made it a point to never make me feel like a burden (unlike those parents who joke about celebrating the end of summer break and having to be around their kids) - and now as a 22 year old i can tell that has shaped so much of my positive self worth, confidence, and standards for love in all forms... i can only imagine what growing up with the opposite does to a person

Yeah it's all about you buddy

@@wiswcBro your so obsessed commenting under literally ever comment your actually chronologically online 💀🙏

And to follow it with how he preferred his wife sexually pleasing HIM (he never talked about his wife's sexual fulfillment, not once, although sex shouldn't have been spoken about AT ALL). Dude sounds selfish as can be. Made it all about him, degraded the bride, embarrassed her by talking about their sex life, only talking about the blowys she was giving him and nothing else, not talking about their children ONCE (note that he NEVER mentioned their kids except when to say he preferred when they WEREN'T around, which is a massive, flashing, siren blasting red flag).

Awww 😊❤

your edit is honestly what makes this even more harrowing in my opinion. they're *both* setting up these little girls for a life of accepting every kind of treatment their dad gives their mom. bride/mom has been with groom/dad for a decade, around half the time they will probably be living with him, and already has been abused into *hating herself*. can you imagine how much quicker, and deeper, that teaching will run with twice the time and twice as many people hammering it home? it makes me sick.

@@sleepymothpup you're so correct. I'm so scared for these girls and we can only hope the internets outrage can have some sort of positive or helpful impact,

I agree if this is how he is OUTside how vile is he to her Inside their home?!?! she looks use to this but embarrassed I hope she is safe

@@Gothymothmoth omg this 😭

Thank you. This is exactly what bothers me about it. I know how that ends up for the daughters.

Definitely not front of your mom too 💀

@@parkchimmin7913 And let's not forget the children in the audience too

If i was her i would say no and break up with him

@@soulnightingale9443 And among those children are their kids!

@@ethan_the_alien honestly it's a take i've heard from way too many people that being married/in a relationship means you're entitled to sex whenever you please, i've legit heart a scary amount of people justify cheating by saying things along the lines of "they didn't have enough sex with me so it's their fault i cheated" it's wild

Oohhh that is so cute! :D

i love that for you! Glad you've found the one & are in a better relationship than those two ever will...

Oh that sounds so lovely. I couldn’t do that unless i was wearing zero Make-up because i would cry waterfalls

This is so lovely and made me smile, I will do this with my partner when we marry. Thank you for sharing the story!!!

That honestly sounds beautiful

Saying that to a man looking like the penguin from gotham

@@rebeccanater LMAO

@@rebeccanater god DAM (accurate tho)

he probably constantly makes fun of her weight, there's nothing wrong with her. she's being emotionally drained by all this humiliation her future husband gives her

she actually could be

And now she is beautiful and he is just ugly

Not necessarily, she could’ve always been beautiful. Self esteem doesn’t discriminate, look at how many beautiful people are with awful people.

@@bu3asalli That’s literally what an ugly duckling is. Either someone who is originally not “pretty” or doesn’t feel they are due to lack of self esteem. Why you felt the need to comment this after 2 months is beyond me. As someone who was an ugly duckling on both sides of that kindly fuck off.

@@bu3asalli True but usually an attractive teen will know their "worth" (ew, I'm sorry, I hope y'all know how I meant it) towards boys, be popular because of pretty privilege and have many options to choose from. Doesn't sound like she had that experience. But however it had gone down, I pray that she sees her true worth in the near future and either enforces boundaries towards her husband or divorces him and finds someone who's treating her right.

Nah she's in way too deep. She's genuinely excited about being tied to this crusty, dusty, musty jerk.

And the laughing is the typical 'woman laughing to try an ease an awkward situation for a toxic and abusive male'

Normal heterosexual man behavior

For sure, he never gave that woman a big O

​@@shadesofcool6510He screams his own name during sex.

The self-righteous relationship expert is here, passing judgment because the bride finds humor in her husband's unconventional wedding vows. Your unsolicited pity and hope for her to escape the relationship are projections of your insecurities and lack of understanding.

​@@jpeg..I mean, he spent his whole vows talking shit about her, and she spent her vows talking shit about herself. It's absolutely possible that they're happy with this and it's not a big deal to them, but let's not act like it's a completely left field baseless assumption to say that something seems off here, she never reciprocated that energy, I really think if she was telling jokes at his expense too nobody would really care, bur it just came off like a monotone dude talking shit about his new bride who's all weepy talking shit about herself. There's am automatic cringe factor that's kind of impossible to avoid at a surface level observation. Which is maybe why it wasn't a good idea to whip out this sense of humor as part of the filmed vows and then put it on the internet, that's the kind of thing you say amongst friends in a more adult space if its really something everyone is cool with. I really sincerely hope we're all wrong and they were laughing about it the whole ride home, but the whole thing just seems so one sided and sad from what we do see. It's hard not to feel pity when you see someone being talked down to. Even if there's context behind the scenes that changes things it's a normal response to feel this way when seeing things like this.

@@miaironstone6783 the bride actually made a response to it explaining that she's fine

@jpeg.. personally I have some reservations that go beyond that, subjecting kids/ older folks present to this kind of language for one thing seems like a massive moral line to cross for a lot of people, not to mention he clearly didn't give anyone attendiany warning that this kind of thing would be discussed, giving any family members with kids the ability to choose notbto be involved with something like that. And since she didn't seem to be directly involved, people responded with pity because they wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt in the scenario. Plus, I doubt many people knew she publicly responded, especially since this video is their first time hearing of the situation. And it's always important to remember that although we have to be careful not to act like we know for certain what their private lives are like, it's not baseless to consider this kind of behavior a massive red flag. People are just doing their best to express kindness and support for someone who seems at least at a surface level to be a really kind person who dealt with a shitty situation. And just as we can't assume abuse is DEFINITELY taking place, we can't make the opposite assumption either based on the info we have. It's entirely possible for someone who is being abused to lie to defend their abuser, especially with this much public scrutiny on them. And its also entirely possible for someone who's being abused to not be mentally ready to come to terms with whats happening to them, so they block it down and push away those emotions and might genuinely think that all is well right now. I'm just weary of assumptions either way given the nature or emotional and mental abuse and how difficult it can be to spot until someone comes forward with proof either way.

@@miaironstone6783 You're making stuff up without any proof. Cut it out with your baseless claims and pretend to know things you don't.

I don’t really feel bad for her. She chose this man and let him demean her in front of her audience. She has no spine

It’s less “to herself” and more that man has clearly torn her down over 10 years

@@thetillerwiller4696 I imagine you don't say the same to the man in the case of an unfair (to him) divorce.

​@@thetillerwiller4696Victim blaming strikes again. So insane to me that even the liberal community is so a-okay with victim blaming women for "choosing to be in an abusive relationship" when millions of studies have been done about why these women stay. How progressive of you,really!

@@yuo3670 there hasn't been any abuse found. Giving insanely inappropriate vows at your wedding isn't abuse, it's just an asshole move. Obviously if theirs something more going on I wouldnt think this. She's a grown woman. She stood their as her husband said some vile things about her and did nothing. And she's defending him right now. She obviously wants this man for whatever reason, and has chosen to be with him. So I don't feel bad for her. She seems definitive on her choice. Not victim blaming, she's not a victim.

and his mind is so set on sex, wouldn't be surprised if he was attracted to them too.

​@cole Yeah I wouldn't be surprised seeing as he said all of those sexual things with the knowledge that his young daughters were in the audience watching. Major fucked up vibes coming from this whole thing.

​​@@pissapocalypse Fr, parents with no boundaries like that deeply worry me. My mother had made very nasty comments in a sexual manor about me and or talked about me in a sexual manor at 14 years old. A parent with no filter and or boundaries is a parent who cannot be trusted.

​@@mxcksrealm😭😭😭😭😭

Hey dude, is it possible that i saw you on the comments of bertra's video?

“You can’t catch me bicth I shall remain a single Man”

I've definitely seen you around!

@@tiktokcompilation1568 YES!!

ribbittt

Lentini. But, the "teeny" part is definitely in there. I think he's overcompensating for something.

@@Dez861LMAOO 💀

Teeny Weenie Lantini

​@@epiclionsault92 Nice 👌

That man is the personification of small d*ck energy!!!

Not to mention the fact that talking very sexually in front of your children can be quite damaging. I feel like the way my mother talked about/to my dad in front of me was one of the reasons I became asexual.

My aunt called her cheating, abusive husband "the best man to ever live" at their anniversary party speeches. No hint of sarcasm, just self-brainwashing. My cousins are very successful professionals, are good friends to their friends. And as far as I can see don't abuse their wives or their children but they can be VERY abusive and ungrateful towards their mum. I wonder why...

This 😢

This guy is such a creeper I'm scared for their physical safety at puberty. He could easily already be molesting them, but he seems like an 'act like breast development is a permission slip' type.

Can confirm. My dad has been constantly sexual with my mom in front of me, from when I have my first memories to even now. I. Hate. It. My mom is constantly embarrassed by his remarks, and she has had to quite literally fight him off of her sometimes. Once again. I. Hate. It. With. Everything. I. Have. Earnestly, I think it was one of the large factors that led to me being s3xu4lly 4ss4ulted as a teenager. I grew up thinking love was screaming matches or that. So, I thought how my romantic partners treated me was normal. I still have trauma from how my dad was and what happened to me because of that, that I have yet to overcome. I'm just thankful to now live far away from him, so it's no longer an everyday occurrence, and I can begin to heal properly. :)

yeah I was really trying not to read into this bc I don't know the family situation but i would not be surprised if she had been asking him to get married for awhile and this is still the best he could do after all this time

@@c0ttage yea it screams she’s in a relationship with a narcissist. That’s she’s saying she’s not good at anything and he just cook and keep my balks empty is gross. She’s literally super model material too and says she’s not. That’s something put in her head to keep her down cause she’s SO beautiful he probably has to make her feel that way so she don’t wise up and leave him.

And so did the woman getting married, she's allowing that loser around HER chdren.

And his dad?

@@90sHONEYthis is obviously fatherless behavior

I would too. Gross pig. Then again I wouldn't want to frighten the children, so i I'd attack him later.

RIGHT?! Like it’s awful that she doesn’t understand that this is wrong, but it’s also awful that her family and friends didn’t set the precedent that it’s not okay for him to treat her like this

That’s what I was confused about… where is her family and why didn’t they let him have it way before now!

Who the fu*k are you to decide for them what's appropriate for THEIR kids? also tackling anyone gets you an assault charge genius

Super late, but not only her but also both families are teaching the daughters thats the way they need to behave for their future parterns. Eww :(

I think making jokes in your vows is fine but they gotta be good (and not put downs of your partner ). This man doesn't have the charisma to make a basic ass knock knock.joke

The largest issue here is not only were HIS vows degrading to her but SO WERE HERS! she said she felt like she wasn’t good enough for them when they met and she degraded her own looks even though she’s gorgeous. This isn’t a joke. She feels that way about herself and HE’S PERPETUATING IT! Even if your partner says they love dark/demeaning humor a good partner would not make jokes that explicitly prey on insecurities of their SO. You are allowed to draw lines on what you will say to someone about them, regardless of their sense of humor.

That's insanely insulting to that poor man. I hate people who do that. I'll never understand why people are always so focused on a couple having kids as soon as they're married! Like geez, a lot of things have to be done before they even *think* about kids! Like going on their honeymoon (if they had one) and moving and housing, expenses, groceries, possibly even medical bills. The list goes on. Believe it or not, having a baby is expensive and can be a *huge* financial burden that the couple may not be equipped for so to those people I say: Shut up and let them have their day darn it! And saying "He won't be a man if he can't get his wife pregnant" isn't funny at all, it's demeaning. I hope things get better for them!

​@@idontknowhowtochangemyusername insanely insulting to the bride too. Who would want to sit there while all your loved ones laugh about the image of you getting impregnated via turkey baster

@@cascharles3838 Not only insulting, disgusting. What kind of sense of humor even is that? I hope they cut ties.

thats so strange..i’ve only been to a few weddings but they (fortunately) have been such beautiful moments. The speeches were about the couple coming together as a unit, the couples speeches about each other were about love and their vows were such lovely promises. But this wedding sounds like a 2nd hand embarrassment you had to sit thru

Maybe it's an American thing? I've never been to a wedding that has bawdy sex jokes or "pop a kid out already!" comments. Like an embodiment of this is the garter tradition which just isn't a thing here

This, people have to remember these girls are gonna grow up and think women being treated this way is normal. That's horrifying

Exactly, her defense of their relationship is literally an example of the sunken cost fallacy.

​@Devilsadvocate23 the other day I was having a conversation with someone and they said sunken cost fallacy is the reason for like half of the world's issues. I believe they are right. When you see people do that, you just want to shake them out of it, like you can reach for something better TODAY

Aw yes let's get mad at a brainwashed victim. Makes sense🙄

@@emmamcmahon1738 nobody's being mad at her, it's just she needs to take into account that she has two little girls that she needs to protect, when your husband is so comfortable bringing up your sex life at the alter infront of each and everyone of your loved ones while he also has your two KIDS there talking about how he wants to drain his balls into the bride then there is a serious problem. When 4290+ comments have replied to your post about why your relationship is toxic as well as unhealthy for the kids then that needs to serve AT LEAST as a reminder that something's up instead of blatantly dismissing it. It's not just about her anymore as sad as her situation is, she has two kids that are being conditioned to think treating people like this is okay, not even people let's just be for real he views women this way. Bro is describing her like a hormonal teenage boy.

Like dude, I feel so bad for her. She deserves better.

I can't believe they've been together for *10 years* and that's the relationship he wants to portray to the world

Fr, I’ve been so desensitized to this bullshit that it took someone pointing it out for me to realize truly how fucked it is

Same here. South Dakota weddings are essentially this. It sounded like a normal wedding, everyone being shocked was definitely an eye opener

FR like broski if you really love this woman for more than her body ACT LIKE IT

The heck are you talking? Us "straight people's weddings" aren't like this, if they actually care and love each other it's not like this, and gay or lesbians, or lbt whatever people's weddings can be like this too, they don't only have "good" weddings or whatever 🤔

​@@Ash_NuggTato the YAP+ community doesn't know anything. Just because they groom doesn't mean they know about weddings 🎉🎉

Whyyyyyy would someone say thaaaaat, why would he be proud to say those words in that orderrrrr

omg yes i would love to see that colab

Y’all are crazy if you think I’m even a blip on the almighty Charlie’s radar but I appreciate it

I will hold out hope for this anything could happen

i also feel like if them and chad chad did a collab they'd mesh really well

Except for me they just use a bunch of ptsd triggering words, so I can't seem to watch either. I wanted to try this video because I was hoping she'd censored them, but no.

100% emotional grooming.

definitely groomed, she met him in high school and was obsessed with him, she had low self-esteem then and didn't know any better

I wonder if this is where the term "groom" comes from - hmm

​@@Cleopatress_tarotis here another type of grooming?

​@@FruityHachi so true, makes me think he was probably popular in high school and so she idolized him, then they entered the real world where he isn't shit, but yet she still sees him through that lens and he's trying everything he can to keep it that way, which includes tearing her down so she doesn't realize her real worth one day

unfortunately she’s still married

@@user-cl3vd8ix8fseriously?

It’s never too late to divorce that dude, I HOPE that she divorces him

Chronically online mfs

​@@wiswc Imagine being so delusional you think this behavior is normal at a *wedding* and on top of that have an anime profile pic. You're the last person to be calling someone chronically online, dude.

I'm not gonna lie, this is part of why I won't date anymore. This sort of thing is all I know of too and now I'm 32 and never gonna be able to navigate something healthy with all the traumas I got.

it makes me sad knowing she probably has low self esteem and thinks she doesn't deserve any better :(

@@jasperjazzie She even thinks she's not a model... This girl is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen... oO

​@@grenade8572 Literally. She's hella pretty and attractive, she is way out of this guy's league.

@@kaydwessie296 God same. I’m 27 and at this point I’m gonna take the L and just be single

They're definitely laughing uncomfortably

@@pissapocalypse Not sure... A woman and a man (the two that laugh harder than everyone else) seem to find him funny...

@@grenade8572 Okay but the rest of the audience is laughing uncomfortably

​@@pissapocalypse there was definitely second hand embarrassment laughter in there as well.

I couldnt even uncomfortably laugh, I would be holding down vomit

He probably says it in a more degrading and louder way at home. It’s all smiles for the public but this kind of put down talk is normal and on a constant basis if they’re both bringing it up. It’s how my parent’s relationship was. Make jokes in public but get in her face and say horrible degrading things on a daily basis when it’s not up to your standards.

Does she really deserve better though? I'd say we deserve the people we CHOOSE.

@@faithpearlgenied-a5517 That's a really messed up take.

@faithpearlgenied-a5517 Judging by your comment (and the fact you haven't made loads all over the page like trolls do) I am going to assume you are ignorant on abusive relationships, or more specifically how abusers work. Abusers (or at least the smart ones) don't start the abuse straight away. At the beginning they act nice, overly nice (which is called love bombing) to make them appear really sweet so when they do start acting out (which will be slow and covert, not straight into the deep end) you question if you done something wrong, not them. They gradually isolate you from your friends and family (assuming you have them in the first place, since abusers usually pick out those that are vulnerable) and put you in a position where you can't leave so easily (like they'll marry you, move in with you, baby-trapping). They start gaslighting (which is lying in a way to make you seem like your misrembering things/going crazy). They play the victim, they neg (subtle back-handed compliments purposefully designed to lower your self esteem), they compare you to others. Considering how far abusers go to 'hunt down' the victim and keep them 'in place' it's not really fair to claim that the victim chose them (since they weren't showing their true selves until long into the relationship) and considering many abuse victims grew up in abusive families they see the abuse as 'normal' or 'better than normal' because abuse is all they known. Claiming that a young woman that was often beaten half to death almost daily by her parents when she was a child deserves to be with someone that punches her daily because 'she chose him' is pretty f*cked up. I know that's not what you are saying but a comment like 'you deserve who you choose' could be seen that way (by someone like the young woman in my example.) Honestly I didn't need to write an essay about this but I really hate victim blaming. There's so much more to abusive relationships then a 'she chose the bad boy/he chose the bad girl' rhetoric.

make like forrest gump and run across america

I am. So worried for her

he's a alt right asshole so I wouldn't be surprised if he deepthoats Tate too

I'd bet my right kidney on that.

​@Cairn Owl I'd bet both and a liver

@@ckaa21 Can I meet that and also toss in a few ovaries and some of the large intestine?

i bet a leg