Would you like to change your sexual orientation? | Vinay Chandran | TEDxNITTrichy

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9 жыл бұрын

Can medical treatment cure homosexuality?
Why is the Article 377 obsolete?
What's wrong in the society's view of homosexuals?
In our society, living a homesexual life can be looked upon as a taboo. They have to put up with gender discrimination everyday. Many are forced to change their sexual orientation. Watch Vinay Chandran talk as he digs deep into Article 377 of India, enlightening us about the injustice it is causing everyday to the sexual minorities.
Vinay Chandran is the Executive Director of the Swabhava Trust, a charitable trust which reaches out to the sexual minorities who are otherwise marginalised. Swabhava Trust, in Bangalore, India, has given the LGBT community over 15 years of strong support, fighting for their rights.
In this talk, he gives a really convincing perspective about the Article 377 of India and its flaws. He also talks about the atrocities against the transgenders. His talk is an eye-opener for anyone who would want to know more about LGBT and the Article 377.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@GK1S41
@GK1S41 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I was straight. Being bullied everyday ain't fun
@Rina-or5vc
@Rina-or5vc 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I wasn't straight, same genders understand each other better so means a good relationship
@justforfun6370
@justforfun6370 2 жыл бұрын
@@Rina-or5vc but there is minority for same genders so they will not meet easily and that makes their life tough
@priteshhazare1270
@priteshhazare1270 2 жыл бұрын
@@Rina-or5vc lie...white lie!!!
@RJIS
@RJIS Жыл бұрын
You can be straight if you want. If you wish to date the opposite gender, that’s you wanting to date the opposite gender. Don’t hate yourself over it though
@sammylpt9076
@sammylpt9076 Жыл бұрын
For me it definitely is a choice. Have you analysed why exactly you’re attracted to who you are? Just exactly what features make you desire that person? I’m not saying you should change, all I’m saying is for me, I can convince myself that if the change is necessary, I can do it and believe it.
@skar8009
@skar8009 3 жыл бұрын
Everytime they say "there's nothing wrong" I instantly know it is wrong and I should be totally skeptical about what THEY want me to be.
@thelogicalaspect1323
@thelogicalaspect1323 3 жыл бұрын
I dont know why i m born with this orientation , i hate myself
@dragonheart2377
@dragonheart2377 Жыл бұрын
Is there any change?
@pluviophile5996
@pluviophile5996 Жыл бұрын
​@@dragonheart2377 nope
@anabolicstephen8387
@anabolicstephen8387 4 жыл бұрын
bisexuals: allow me to introduce myself
@pineapplejuice2930
@pineapplejuice2930 3 жыл бұрын
allow me to introduce myself
@kirstenauryana
@kirstenauryana 3 жыл бұрын
Allow me to introduce myself
@2600TC
@2600TC 3 жыл бұрын
Allow me to introduce myself
@juliethomas377
@juliethomas377 3 жыл бұрын
Allow me to introduce myself
@lamisa6719
@lamisa6719 4 жыл бұрын
Im straight and bored
@shaanp9796
@shaanp9796 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone who thinks this is an anti-LGBT(...) talk, watch the 2nd half.
@evangelianickolas6850
@evangelianickolas6850 3 жыл бұрын
Literally was scrolling though comments to see if it was haha. thanks!
@shaanp9796
@shaanp9796 3 жыл бұрын
@Dow John oh no. A pro-lgbtq opinion.
@mochi-mochi
@mochi-mochi 2 жыл бұрын
i feel like the guy genuinely does not care who does what-
@iknowdeway3949
@iknowdeway3949 6 жыл бұрын
I wanna become straight because I still have a crush on my ex gf 😂😂😂 (I'm a girl)
@plutoqueen7295
@plutoqueen7295 4 жыл бұрын
@USA Rocks IKRR but when ur tired of life and want to end it bcz the soceity ur living in is targeting u and everyone is judging id rather be straight or asexual 🙂✌️lol
@dominikbarsi746
@dominikbarsi746 3 жыл бұрын
@@spriterocks03 a lónak a faszát az Heck no it isn't
@Blaze-578
@Blaze-578 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in this statement and I dont like it
@skar8009
@skar8009 3 жыл бұрын
@@spriterocks03 "lgbt is awesome"? why would you like to be part of a minority that it's always controvertial when it comes to being represented in movies or tv shows?
@sunrose9211
@sunrose9211 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@user-sf5fk6ox4c
@user-sf5fk6ox4c 11 ай бұрын
Amazing truth spoken. Thank you good man !
@bautistabanos8729
@bautistabanos8729 4 жыл бұрын
I cant believe people like this guy can give a ted talk
@shaanp9796
@shaanp9796 4 жыл бұрын
Bautista Baños Why?
@Jake-tc3zl
@Jake-tc3zl 3 жыл бұрын
He is smart? U mad?
@peachyaesthetic8918
@peachyaesthetic8918 3 жыл бұрын
Why tf
@bobbyandersan5155
@bobbyandersan5155 3 жыл бұрын
Im aromantic and asexual and I want to change because I feel like I'm missing out on the whole purpose of life. Idk it's kinda depressing for me.
@thelogicalaspect1323
@thelogicalaspect1323 3 жыл бұрын
I hate myself , my life , everything about me bkz i have tried my level best to change my orientation but nothing happened . Now i m considering to quite
@HermitKing731
@HermitKing731 2 жыл бұрын
im in the same boat. ive been crying for the past several days thinking of what im going to miss out on. im really hoping for the day we may be able to change someones orientation some day. i really dont want to go to my grave as an asexual aromantic. this feels like a curse really. Like a cruel joke by the universe. But unfortunately there isn't much research being done on how to change someone's orientation. So I guess we will both be cursed until we die.
@boy5580
@boy5580 2 жыл бұрын
@@HermitKing731 asexuals still marry I think you need a partner who understands you and be happy with who you are Don't worry Soon you will find your honey 😊😊😊
@sammylpt9076
@sammylpt9076 Жыл бұрын
@elliot blaise, are you still feeling like that? I hope not.
@dylansvensson3336
@dylansvensson3336 6 ай бұрын
@@HermitKing731if i was you, i'd spend my life tryna find out since there are lack of studies, imagine you make it somehow
@sjamv7447
@sjamv7447 3 жыл бұрын
Oh you’ve gotta be freaking kidding me! I’m too damn broke for conversion therapy, and just when I thought I finally found a video to help this dude pulls an uno reverse card on me.
@peachyaesthetic8918
@peachyaesthetic8918 3 жыл бұрын
No need of conversion therapy love yourself the way u are
@thunderlordd4
@thunderlordd4 3 жыл бұрын
i suggest seeking Jesus, He can change it for you
@LiseteL
@LiseteL 2 жыл бұрын
Naw! You can't ever change it beside whatever they say. You can go through much conversion therapy but you can't, so it's better to love yourself as you are. :)
@ava_bndrabbs1111
@ava_bndrabbs1111 2 жыл бұрын
@@peachyaesthetic8918 Impossible when everyone hates me
@wesleyshawnwilliamsthewild4574
@wesleyshawnwilliamsthewild4574 3 жыл бұрын
Heck yeah i would
@NaveenJoshiYSFinnovations
@NaveenJoshiYSFinnovations 4 жыл бұрын
Vinay is a darling
@l705
@l705 3 жыл бұрын
am a disappointment so I wanna change and be more connected with God. 🙏😞
@caseylane9162
@caseylane9162 3 жыл бұрын
love yourself the way you are dawg
@personanon2879
@personanon2879 Жыл бұрын
I'm straight and want to change
@user-sf5fk6ox4c
@user-sf5fk6ox4c 11 ай бұрын
Please do...we need less straights !
@liammccarthy6401
@liammccarthy6401 17 күн бұрын
Thank god I'm not alone 🙏
@liammccarthy6401
@liammccarthy6401 17 күн бұрын
Thank god I'm not alone 🙏
@dapedalist
@dapedalist 3 жыл бұрын
This Guy is good!
@sarathchan93
@sarathchan93 9 жыл бұрын
great work Jason and team :)
@JasonRodrigues72
@JasonRodrigues72 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Blurr India for the wonderful videos!
@daemon2041
@daemon2041 3 жыл бұрын
I would love to be straight again
@kirstenauryana
@kirstenauryana 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@sofunny6886
@sofunny6886 3 жыл бұрын
I will not and I am Pansexual I love to be Pansexual
@needlerzz1532
@needlerzz1532 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@ga5234
@ga5234 2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@LarkinDyer
@LarkinDyer 7 жыл бұрын
Great talk. If you think being gay can be -- or even needs to be -- "cured", you are the one who could use treatment.
@queenvictoria5710
@queenvictoria5710 4 жыл бұрын
@@MyspaceEmo Having "no brain" is scientifically wrong.
@fahmiharhouri4531
@fahmiharhouri4531 3 жыл бұрын
@@vivianamaldonado5341 Can I talk with you ?
@VRINDHA639
@VRINDHA639 3 жыл бұрын
It will be work
@koscraftbuilds4937
@koscraftbuilds4937 2 жыл бұрын
it is wrong if it is forced on you (by a parent perhaps). If you yourself want to change - it should be your right to do so.
@olle6727
@olle6727 2 жыл бұрын
yes
@kingfiction5747
@kingfiction5747 4 жыл бұрын
I'm asexual but I still have feelings for women
@zapperhoan8904
@zapperhoan8904 3 жыл бұрын
king fiction asexuals can fall love lmao I’m asexual too btw💜🖤
@Paulbaby914
@Paulbaby914 3 жыл бұрын
Are you men or women ?
@HermitKing731
@HermitKing731 2 жыл бұрын
im asexual AND aromantic. how do you think i feel? im really hoping science can treat aroace people one day and change their orientation just like mine.
@zototheo2580
@zototheo2580 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a bit skeptical about this... does this actually work?
@BlueStormBuG
@BlueStormBuG 2 жыл бұрын
Only works if you have latent bisexuality.
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
yes im stel laying low for the week until i hget done with this tough topic
@thelogicalaspect1323
@thelogicalaspect1323 3 жыл бұрын
I hate myself , my life , everything about me bkz i have tried my level best to change my orientation but nothing happened . Now i m considering to quite
@sofunny6886
@sofunny6886 3 жыл бұрын
Don't suicide
@thelogicalaspect1323
@thelogicalaspect1323 3 жыл бұрын
Now i m going for it in a few seconds , God bless u and ur cruel world , i m going back
@rishabh6523
@rishabh6523 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Either God has to make me straight or I'll choose to end my life
@Lawrence1154
@Lawrence1154 2 жыл бұрын
@@thelogicalaspect1323 *E D G Y*
@bretbriers5221
@bretbriers5221 2 жыл бұрын
I struggle too. Thankfully I have friends that remind me that my value in their lives have nothing to do with who I'm attracted to. I thoroughly believe you have beauty and love that others feel and appreciate. We have to struggle, but we make it day by day. Some days are harder than others. But hang on for the good days, the ones that remind you that you are wonderful and loved.
@thelogicalaspect1323
@thelogicalaspect1323 3 жыл бұрын
I want to be straight at any cost , Allah plz help me , i dont know why i m born this way . i hate myself
@courtneymalkin1225
@courtneymalkin1225 2 жыл бұрын
Heeey , its nothin wrong with love anyone it is much more beutiful than you may though so Love is Love ☀️🍀💫🌈🎈🌸🦕🎺
@idgafabtdis
@idgafabtdis Жыл бұрын
@@courtneymalkin1225 thats nice but it isnt abt that
@mshopubg7860
@mshopubg7860 Жыл бұрын
Same💔
@wiitherinq_rxses9196
@wiitherinq_rxses9196 4 жыл бұрын
Im gray asexual ;-; and i dont wanna change
@kamari6710
@kamari6710 4 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@rhobertthecelt4785
@rhobertthecelt4785 3 жыл бұрын
My wife is asexual and I do want to change.. I wanna lop off my nob.
@d0ker_j301
@d0ker_j301 3 жыл бұрын
U got luck
@learninglanguageswithwaifu4477
@learninglanguageswithwaifu4477 7 жыл бұрын
I want to change my sexuality from 3D to 2D women. I have been through so much horrible treatment from three-dimensional women that I now have PTSD. I don't believe the future holds anything different for me.
@sidgurl21
@sidgurl21 5 жыл бұрын
umm...
@theknownliar7100
@theknownliar7100 Жыл бұрын
Due to puberty I'm starting to think I'm abit of a backwards mechanic, I still like girls but it's getting lower. And if it gets lower, who am I gonna like? That's what I fear.
@ace.and.dead222
@ace.and.dead222 4 жыл бұрын
I'm asexual OR grey-a OR demisexual. I'm not really sure...
@serialkiller288
@serialkiller288 4 жыл бұрын
what means demisexual
@ace.and.dead222
@ace.and.dead222 4 жыл бұрын
@@serialkiller288 google it :)
@yuxutin
@yuxutin 3 жыл бұрын
Is demi a real thing? Seems like a "normal" thing. Most of the people I've talked to have said that they "are" demi, but don't need to identify because it is literally a so common.
@ace.and.dead222
@ace.and.dead222 3 жыл бұрын
@@yuxutin idk i mean it seems like it or at least google says it's real
@yuxutin
@yuxutin 3 жыл бұрын
@@ace.and.dead222 I mean it is real because it's a basic emotion for humans, but it really isn't LGBTQIA+
@AmikYoungDon
@AmikYoungDon 2 жыл бұрын
I want to change just because I want to, not because God or others.
@user-ly4kr3hd5c
@user-ly4kr3hd5c Жыл бұрын
If you got cure, please tell
@Mashedup422
@Mashedup422 3 жыл бұрын
11:29
@alial-king9998
@alial-king9998 3 жыл бұрын
No need to thank you
@peachyaesthetic8918
@peachyaesthetic8918 3 жыл бұрын
:)
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
yes i come witha quit plan and next step kick off and it tat the start to cold turket plaan same format
@Blaze-578
@Blaze-578 3 жыл бұрын
What if you're into being abused . . .
@icarus.9306
@icarus.9306 3 жыл бұрын
masochist? 👀
@peachyaesthetic8918
@peachyaesthetic8918 3 жыл бұрын
Uhh-
@thelogicalaspect1323
@thelogicalaspect1323 3 жыл бұрын
Ah😥😥
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
stranget my part only and tyransit me im from down town SALT LAKE CITY
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
you knw groen engought to deal and get along etc you kne just he tsnaard part only right noe man im healing god bless them wit the best cure for them and me to ok
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
im actual free from every body to do my part and be strange and move with some thimg to show for y self and be godly good enguht to cover it all ok
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
and see what i got to next
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
i mean ratio
@empireofengland6039
@empireofengland6039 2 жыл бұрын
I want change my sexualty from bi to asexual
@boy5580
@boy5580 2 жыл бұрын
Lol me too I think I am also bi
@boy5580
@boy5580 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe electric shock without seeing the person we want to attracted to would help to become asexual
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
there just thught you dont have to push me around so mmuch to get the desied effect with but ok im done i have faith this will all smooth over
@skyisthelimit9897
@skyisthelimit9897 4 жыл бұрын
This is too damn funny! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
I HAVE A PLAN IT THIS JUST HELPS ME TO LAY LOW FOR LATER SO I ACN TRY TO ASH OUT MY MIND SET IN ONE FAST QUICK BEST OPTION WITH THE TIME I THINKIT JUST HE MONEY APRT OF THE RELTIONSHIP ON MY STYLE I SHAVED OFF MY EYE BROW FOR PURIT AND SIGN THAT IM GOIN OGG HT ROCKER WITH CALAMITY IM NOT INTERESTED INA LIFE STYLE CHANGE OVER AND I CASH THAT BRACKET NAD NO THANK ILL JUST TAKE THE DIETAND SET OINE AND REACHABLE GOAL
@ava_bndrabbs1111
@ava_bndrabbs1111 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna be straight cause I'm tired of being discriminated
@bharatseth1394
@bharatseth1394 4 ай бұрын
Who discriminates you sir?
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
i was alway told not ot talk that ay with out checking out at last once too the lord or some pray not to bring or frant those thing peole dont want htrew jokes and games angey you knw of out of ration to amen
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 Ай бұрын
peole who are mad to obey gping down in shame from a heaven left on the body and a confused by ill thought on verge of fowl behavior and laungaue why they dothat some times just why som wthing im doin and look into mauybe after this assigment
@bobjones42069
@bobjones42069 3 жыл бұрын
bald kiryu
@krystinmcdonald1346
@krystinmcdonald1346 5 жыл бұрын
This is so toxic
@shaanp9796
@shaanp9796 4 жыл бұрын
Krystin McDonald How so? Read the description/ watch the 2nd half. He’s not actually anti-LGBT.
@Jake-tc3zl
@Jake-tc3zl 3 жыл бұрын
Its not anti-LGBT bruh
@zlxjtvpxk7669
@zlxjtvpxk7669 3 жыл бұрын
Single brain-cell activists are toxic
@ejs3563
@ejs3563 2 жыл бұрын
Watch the whole video?
@dhirajgore8306
@dhirajgore8306 3 жыл бұрын
if you do not know iPod phone, shame on you. LOL. iPod phone?😂😂. Since when apple designed iPod phones.😂😂
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