You all know we love a challenge! Some are harder than others🙆🏾♀️. We ask: Would we stay or leave?
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@GalaletsangSeema Жыл бұрын
I love Lerato’s perspective on things..then again I appreciate it more in a conversation setting with Phetola.. such a perfect match❤️😍
@kundaikoti9701 Жыл бұрын
I think in the African society, staying is a sign of strength. So many women, especially those over 50 grew up in a society where leaving was a non starter so that fear of "what will people say" binds them even if they know they deserve better. Some choose to stay for the sake of their kids, mostly in cases where they believe that in their absence their kids will not be privy to benefits, especially financial from the partner. So yeah, it's tricky but yeah. I guess one needs to know the reasons behind to understand the "strength" part of it because for the 80s kids and above it's not so easy to tolerate such behavior, maybe because we know better and also find ourselves in a better socio-economic status. It's a whole topic. Would be interesting to hear the views of others.
@LM-he7eb Жыл бұрын
I hope I'm strong enough to not care what people would say.
@kundaikoti9701 Жыл бұрын
@@LM-he7eb Fortunately, the narrative has started to change and people's choices to leave have become somewhat acceptable. The conversation around mental health has contributed greatly to this, I believe.
@wamemasilo7546 Жыл бұрын
In African society, women were somewhat oppressed. They had no choice but to stay and motivate themselves by calling it strength.
@graymaplanka Жыл бұрын
Pheto is so respectful to her husband 🥺
@meesheeli9107 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂"Guys leaving?" I swear I haven't resonated this much to two words before
@wamemasilo7546 Жыл бұрын
I felt it too. Hei!🤣go boima
@luvogiba1526 Жыл бұрын
"It's the devil!!" 😂😂😂😂😂
@phiwosweetness9945 Жыл бұрын
I personally think we glorify "leaving" as strength more, especially in this day and age simply bcos society made it look like if you leave you're a failure. I have personal experience on leaving and my own family and people I thought have my best interest at heart bullying and insulting me ngoba "umendo undohlulile". I do admire the strength of the people who stay though, especially having an idea of what it feels like not being happy but choosing to not quit and rather stay for whatever reasons🤷♀️
@viwekakaza8003 Жыл бұрын
Here's something amazing about your installments and such topics: They're very very educational. I'm a varsity student but I learn so much from you guys. And I like how natural and unforced it is because we can tell every time that some of these topics also build your relationship. How you guys have different opinions about stuff but how you manage to find common ground. This is really amazing. Thank you so much!
@mckobola Жыл бұрын
Loved what Lerato said that it’s easy to say you’ll do something until you’re faced with the situation. Life will indeed humble you. Thank you for this installment.❤❤
@zukhanyemodi5234 Жыл бұрын
Love you guys you always give us interesting conversations. I wish Mrs Makhs would consider giving us her skin routine one day. The way she looks so gorgeous 😍 💗.
@GalaletsangSeema Жыл бұрын
Phetola is just so gorgeous ❤🇧🇼
@hlengiwehlatshwayo1198 Жыл бұрын
I think we should draw the line when we start becoming bitter, turning into this monster and end up not being able to recognize yourself.
@minkz002 Жыл бұрын
This is what I live by. If the situation is changing me into a monster, that’s where I draw the line.
@vjesus4083 Жыл бұрын
Ask me ,am in that situation right now.Married for almost 14 years ,I thought he cheats am out. Easy said than done guys ,I did everything to push him out n he refused. He begged the whole year, the begging was most annoying to me because it made me look bad n unforgiving wife .God started visiting me n He showed me I needed to forgive him .Guys almost two years ,the pain is still there .God has been helping. Guys marriage is a serious Covenant, only death can set one free.Its hard
@Bravva_01 Жыл бұрын
I love how you guys can put each other on a spot with your conversations and yet have the conversation without arguing. You guys have done a lot of work to get to this stage and i hope it does not end on camera but consciously and definitely keep working top keep getting better. I love you guys a bunch
@tshenolomasilela6360 Жыл бұрын
When Lerato started a re "Wuuuuuuuuh!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Absolutely love the fresh perspective from both you guys.
@bongekamngcwengi7232 Жыл бұрын
My favorite couple😍... Food for thought hey.. Lerato's sentiments on Separation, had me dead on the floor.. 'What a breath of Fresh Air' 😂🤣
@nicolettesanganza4650 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mbalenhlemasuku1241 Жыл бұрын
I love the last question. I left a 4 years relationship because I was mistreated by my ex boyfriend's family. I addressed the situation to him but he made excuses for them. I finally left the relationship.
@lynettenene92182 ай бұрын
Good for you child
@nthabisengkhoba1789 Жыл бұрын
Lerato "what a breath of fresh air" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lynettenene92182 ай бұрын
I know
@AnnstaciaK Жыл бұрын
Bana bako gae, did yall like? Are yall subscribed? Hape put the notification bell on cause le tlo saala behind. The train is moving. Share with bo aunty, bo sesi, bo granny, bo my sister, le bo brother and uncle. Command, Class captain with love.
@zandilengwenya5286 Жыл бұрын
Are we gonna ignore how gorgeous Phethola looks.
@kundaikoti9701 Жыл бұрын
I agree with Lerato on the separation issue. I just don't get it. I'd rather we work on the issue while we are together if we are really looking forward to fixing or building something. I feel like separation is preparation for divorce. However, I do acknowledge it has worked and works for others but for me naaah I don't want to be in that state of confusion. I want to know if I'm in or out.
@unathimdaka1180 Жыл бұрын
I loved this installment....Love how chilled and real you are....well done!
@thobekambashe8193 Жыл бұрын
We need a part two Mr & Mrs Makhs🥰
@lifutsotsephe7544 Жыл бұрын
Having the “strength” to stay where one is not appreciated (constant repetitive actions even after voicing my concerns), for me isn’t strength. I’m just so sensitive especially when it comes to investing time and everything in a union with a “hole underneath”. “I’d rather be alone than be here unhappy” Karen White for real. I love love, but I understand I’d rather love someone from afar than stay with them while their actions don’t look like love to me, I don’t want to endure pain, to have self-doubt, and feel inadequate blah blah in the process of loving anyone.
@phiwosweetness9945 Жыл бұрын
I totally understand Lerato's point, and I agree totally, its the judgement and what the society has decided for us, so for whatever reason, whether you decide to stay or leave as long as it's what you want and you're doing it for you and not bcos it's expected by society as a "norm" , it's high time that we stop judging and celebrate people for doing "them"
@chedumokae734711 ай бұрын
You are blessed, what a husband. Blessed family
@RayOfLetsatsi Жыл бұрын
You guys are so real, love it.
@phoebeiheanetu1199 Жыл бұрын
Mr Makhs is hilarious! Really enjoyed this serious but funny installment.
@meesheeli9107 Жыл бұрын
It's Mrs Mahks killing us with the smile Chile
@sibanimvuyana902 Жыл бұрын
Such a hard a sensitive topic 😢, but thank you guys for always making such a breeze & fun to discuss such topics. Love you fam ❤
@thembelihlevivian435 Жыл бұрын
The staying conversation should definitely be explored
@AnnstaciaK Жыл бұрын
As class captain today i came before the class.
@marvelousmbali8002 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾 maybe you are staying because of kids. I don’t feel like you would stay because of your ego or not knowing your worth. Because you won’t gain anything. Unless you got into the relationship or marriage to figure yourself out or trying to fill a gap you have within you. In a sense of we learn as we grow or there will be light at the end of the tunnel. So either way staying and leaving requests to much strength I hope I make sense and didn’t go outside the topic
@siyamthandampopoma6999 Жыл бұрын
You guys gave me a good laugh… she looks at him n ask “where were you “ I mean imagine 2022 she still wants to know 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
@marvelousmbali8002 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 finally it’s been years since I wanted this moment Kante no the person isn’t there
@joykabagenyi1181 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 breath of fresh air
@laveeyk Жыл бұрын
Love the setting today!!! Mrs Makjs looking gorgeous as usual!
@mbalimkatini7769 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this, please consider a part 2
@amandahkhotsomabule8531 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂"the devil made me do it"
@kgomotsosetsio Жыл бұрын
Mrs Makhs is BEAUTIFUL mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn😍
@nomasontoradebe3026 Жыл бұрын
First time seeing you guys and I love you already ❤️😍. Well my thing with questions and advises comes down to Are you dating or married? Because the answers are way to different when it comes to either or. Looking forward to part 2 🥰🥰
@MrsTay Жыл бұрын
HELLO DREAM TEAM Its so good to sing along with the intro song, its been a minute😀 Loadshedding mara, I was still enjoying this instalment🙂🙂. Re kopa part 2 of this challenge. #1time #2real #ohyes
@tshegoragabane2557 Жыл бұрын
Mr Makgeta is soo realistic plus the loves his wife..
@leraydoo1 Жыл бұрын
Loadshedding can't do us like this though!! Re kopa part 2 hle guys? This was hilarious yet important. Thanks fam.
@tumimasibi2366 Жыл бұрын
So hilarious 😂 Mr Makhs. Mrs Makhs laughter is really contagious. I’m dead by breath of fresh air 😂 and Mrs Makhs visiting her sister 😂We need part 2 please guys. Start with the last question please. We love you ❤️❤️
@semakanesebola7870 Жыл бұрын
Retsene. The oh so beautiful Phetola
@Rose_Karey Жыл бұрын
Me laughing at midnight while watching this wholesome installment 🤣🤣🤣
@bitzgracia1783 Жыл бұрын
Danggg I love the way Mrs Makhs can understand Mr Makhs,😌 it's giving soulmate vibes😃😳😳
@everjoymercysigauke87 Жыл бұрын
I love this installment! Very educational in a fun way. Keep it up The Makhs!!😊
@kgomotso_nyenye Жыл бұрын
I have a 2 cents on the last question "would you leave if your family didn't approve" I think yes and no. You should always be on your partner's side and protect them but only if the relationship is healthy, but if your partner is toxic and isn't generally a good person with good character and your family can see that, then it's a different story. A person would have to really think hard about it and consider the opinions and facts of the matter put on to the table...🤔
@allthings_suzieq Жыл бұрын
l agree with Lerato on separation, l have seen a lot of people come back with kids concieved “during separation” 😂
@bulelwafaithmahlakahlaka5232 Жыл бұрын
Look at Mrs Makhs😍 the hair the skin. Mr Makhs keep up the good work Mrs Makhs is glowing.
@NduwaMukaba Жыл бұрын
This was funny and amazing! 😂 Thought provoking Phetola hahahaha I just saw my reflection in you trying to prove a point to my man weirdly it's like a woman thing which doesn't have to be normalized! And Lerato thank you for the part you talked about how you feel about separation! Simply loved this Video! Quite an unfortunate it was kinda Short otherwise simply Love it!❤️❤️👏 God bless!
@dandiekekana7283 Жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who hasn't seen a part 2 of this? Where is it? I've been searching and can't find it. The Makhs please pay attention to your load shedding schedule tuu, lol, you "always" leave me yearning for more but this one was much worse. Ka njalo nje? Lol, still loved it. 🙏🙏🙏
@sibukandema509 Жыл бұрын
Looking Beautiful Petola
@leratojoymamonyane Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Makh! 😍 I stared half of the video, no ways!😍
@samanthamanyame9908 Жыл бұрын
Love you guys! Eye opening installment.
@happymuller841 Жыл бұрын
Thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiis! Hay' jewels are being thrown here! Mic drop!!! So nje better come ready 'cause whaaaaaaaaat😢❤🔥🔥🔥 ...2 real!!! Love love love you fam!!!
@LM-he7eb Жыл бұрын
Phetho's laugh♥♥♥
@chumamajova5503 Жыл бұрын
Part 2!😍
@CornerHouse_Media Жыл бұрын
Forever dropping jewels 💎..undefeated..🫡📠🫡
@faithlivingwithSam Жыл бұрын
It's Pheto going to her sisters house 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@xabisanquka9121 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Love this couple hle!!! They compliment each other sooo well...lol yadika kodwa uLerato 😂😂😂
@lehlohonolomokhachane9244 Жыл бұрын
Love covers all transgressions. Jesus didn’t stop dying for us because of our mistakes, faults, evil intentions and more…That is true love 🤗❤️
@include1458 Жыл бұрын
Phetola is very beautiful😍
@gertykhensani527 Жыл бұрын
girls come pjama party🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@beatalabercensie545 Жыл бұрын
My favorite location on KZfaq 📍🥺❤️
@bitzgracia1783 Жыл бұрын
🤝
@AnnstaciaK Жыл бұрын
Lol "its the DEVIL."
@busisiwekhumalo7571 Жыл бұрын
That just made me lough out load in a taxi 😅🤣🤣
@thutocatherinemahlangu7509 Жыл бұрын
Taba ya Separation neh- thats wisdom right there Mr Lerato!
@Lindo.N7 Жыл бұрын
Okay a good one..😁 part 2 we wait!!! 📌😂
@onkemadubela Жыл бұрын
Part 2 please. such an interesting topic.
@Bravva_01 Жыл бұрын
19 minutes got me really laughing😆😆 Mr Makhs is so wise
@wewemhlaba7593 Жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much❤The Makhs man.Great questions quite thought provoking
@nthabisengmaake4122 Жыл бұрын
Le pila goreee ❤️❤️❤️
@Samantha-bc2uu Жыл бұрын
Phetola is such a beauty bathong
@simbulele.mdleleni Жыл бұрын
Can't wait for part 2.
@siwemz5102 Жыл бұрын
Phetola's hair🥺😍😍
@LM-he7eb Жыл бұрын
I totally disagree with you. Leaving is much much much harder than staying. most times. That said, no judgement to either.
@ntokozoking3681 Жыл бұрын
Ey y'all are looking fresh marn!!!!!! 🔥🔥
@kagisomafiri Жыл бұрын
This was so funny and wholesome 😂❤️🥺
@masentleanidachauke937 Жыл бұрын
What a breath of fresh air🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🔥
@masanarikhotso5780 Жыл бұрын
Lol confession time 😂😂20:44
@rendanithavhanyedza Жыл бұрын
Phetola looking 👌👌👌♥️
@keneiloemyoli Жыл бұрын
Celebrating people that choose to stay and those that choose to leave.. Yho. That's a tough one.
@mathapelomonnakgotla7395 Жыл бұрын
Nna I always like the videos before I watch them hahahaahahhha
@LethoHali Жыл бұрын
You guys! Your videos are always a lot more interesting than your video titles 🙈.
@nomazulunotshokovu2910 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful instalment guys…..anibahle 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@estherchege2873 Жыл бұрын
much love from kenya🥰
@skylermat8912 Жыл бұрын
This installment was nice and too short, we need a part 2.
@abbiee-sir8367 Жыл бұрын
And a part 3 and 4
@Sweet_Girlie Жыл бұрын
Love it here❤️
@hlengiwehlatshwayo1198 Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️ Can we just support these amazing people and like their video
@AnnstaciaK Жыл бұрын
Assomblief
@TheAdedolapo. Жыл бұрын
I love this video and the conversation
@nkhensanikobyana4840 Жыл бұрын
Mara mkhwenyana wako Pitori odese… ke grootman kannete. He’s so wise!!!
@fezilenkabinde9087 Жыл бұрын
Cela i part two pleaseeeeeeee 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
@lynettenene92182 ай бұрын
Like the song Lerato
@saneliswamagagula9781 Жыл бұрын
Life will humble you hey. Yhu. And that time thing, ai, forgerabourit💀
@tumymotsoatsoe3357 Жыл бұрын
Pheto's HAIR bathong?!🥰🥰🥰
@vakashibise Жыл бұрын
I also don't get taba ya separation, Lerato I'm so with you on this one.
@stelliemariri1807 Жыл бұрын
Your hair sis pheto❤🔥🔥🔥🔥
@kunoongavirue Жыл бұрын
Thanks for noticing that time frame as an excuse 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ it has given a lot of people pressure.