Wynonna Judd shows “tough love moment”

Wynonna Judd shows “tough love moment” | Banfield

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2 ай бұрын

Crisis management specialist Mike Paul tells “Banfield” that Wynonna Judd showed a “tough love moment” by choosing not to appear in court when her daughter, Grace Kelley, was sentenced to 60 days in jail after being charged with exposing herself. Paul says Judd’s decision was likely about making sure her daughter showed accountability for her actions rather than not having the money to pay a fine that would have helped her daughter avoid jail time.
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@MsBeachboxer 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely. Needs consequences. Enabling an addict will aid in their demise.

@act2lifeafter50 2 ай бұрын

You have no right to say what a mother should do to help the daughter. You do not know the details.

@Weatheredstorms1 2 ай бұрын

Exactly this reporter is getting old always poorly done

@gayemarianesfox2405 2 ай бұрын

Amen. Don’t know any of the story really.

@tashahughes3541 Ай бұрын

He is making conversation, playing devils advocate.

@naturistfred 2 ай бұрын

I side with Wynonna on this one, if you ever had a family member battle addiction, you KNOW where Wynonna is coming from.

@cynthiasmith4130 2 ай бұрын

She is doing tough love!!! She has been doing drugs for along time!!! Wynonna has had enough of her doing drugs!!!! She has had it....

@wendygiardino1184 2 ай бұрын

Go Wynonana....be a mom,,,respect for you. Stay strong xx

@rhouse4958 2 ай бұрын

Her mother is probably saving her life by making her go to jail versus being out on the streets. It's easy for us to say what we would do in the situation, but we don't know what the family has gone through.

@user-mk8bb7em3h 2 ай бұрын

Why should her mother have to pay, she’s old enough to have gotten a job and paid her own fines. Nothing but a spoiled brat

@rebeccav7555 2 ай бұрын

This host has never dealt with a family member who has an addiction. Wynona is doing exactly what she should do.

@patr70 2 ай бұрын

It's up to each person what they "should" be doing..

@donnalindsey6418 2 ай бұрын

Exactly. Unless you walked in someone's shoes, you would not understand. Accountability is what is right, what does this news nation reporter not get? Listen to your very well spoken highly professional guest...he is Spot on ...good job Mike!!😊

@ItzMzJulez2U 2 ай бұрын

Came here to say the exact same thing. Hopefully this will be the turning point for Grace, and Wy. Jesse, your take is disappointing. Hopefully you never have to be in the position dealing with an addicted loved one. God’s got you Wy.❤️

@Pinkyboo12 2 ай бұрын

I agree ..even though she’s probably the cause of it

@mississippimud7046 2 ай бұрын

That's right ,the host shouldn't judge this situation. This is heartbreaking seeing your child causing all this pain ,tough love just means we will not enable the addiction anymore.

@rebeccabrown6785 2 ай бұрын

The money is not the issue. The child needs to get her act together and mommy helping her out with every little thing is not going to help. White guy wrong, black guy correct.

@laurenrizzuto878 2 ай бұрын

Yes. At some point, you are not helping and you must show tough love.

@lindaz6180 2 ай бұрын

She needs to grow up or she will never change

@loribaker8339 2 ай бұрын

Jessie Weber... Do you know how many times Wynonna has bailed her daughter out of jail?? How many rehabs? How many apartments and cars? How much money? Are you a parent? If you aren't, you don't know anything. Wy....no judgement here. You do you. You do Grace's mom.

@Rebecca-hc5ju 2 ай бұрын

I can't believe what I'm hearing from him. It doesn't affect him. He should mind his own business! Especially because he is wrong!!

@user-rc3pk4xy6r 2 ай бұрын

This host just doesn’t get it. The guest explained it to him perfectly.

@ShaylaShar 2 ай бұрын

One day her daughter will look back and thank her. It won't be now. But some day.

@rhondapearce8525 2 ай бұрын

My dad ALWAYS told me- go to jail and YOU will stay there! Not coming to get me Not visiting me Not sending me money! Family full and drunks and drug addicts! YOU better believe …. I stayed away from TROUBLE!

@chickapeas5646 2 ай бұрын

My child started getting in trouble with the law. We went through hell. The one thing, I would not do, was go up to that courthouse. He was something else. Best thing we did was let him stand on his own. Fully self sufficient and thriving! Sometimes you have to save your grandchild and yourself, so that grandchild has a chance. We have the grandchild.

@shannonrusso3853 2 ай бұрын

@chickapeas Peace and love from a grandma in Pittsburgh

@chickapeas5646 2 ай бұрын

@@shannonrusso3853 Made me cry this morning seeing your response! Nothing like the love we have for those grand babies and we can so relate with our love!

@shannonrusso3853 2 ай бұрын

@@chickapeas5646 Awwwww ❤️❤️ Absolutely! I've never had custody of my grandkids, but my oldest at the time, his now wife and one grandchild lived with us and it was sometimes a volatile situation. It's very scary and can be soul-crushing honestly. I also work in the criminal court system as a court stenographer so I've seen everything. My son and his wife have given us two grandbabies now and they are doing much better and they're living on their own. They're at our house every weekend though and we play an active role in helping them along. And your son is doing better now??

@shelltucker4499 2 ай бұрын

Mike Paul is exactly correct! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@Njvghvvnn 2 ай бұрын

Host is disgustingly naive

@louskunt9798 2 ай бұрын

Yup!

@louskunt9798 2 ай бұрын

He’s also being very rude.

@kellypalmer7052 2 ай бұрын

I agree 💯

@janelleskeen8350 2 ай бұрын

THe is definitely naive. He’s young and probably has little pure, innocent children that as a parent can’t possibly envision them in such a situation. I pray he never has to. He’s being a protector of the littles, which I hope he never has to be otherwise.

@tammiewilson5185 Ай бұрын

Absolutely. From his comments alone, he'd make a great codependent.

@chickapeas5646 2 ай бұрын

When your family has been attacked by addiction from every angle and relationship. You start saving the ones who have a chance outside of the hell. My family has been eat up with it and the ones of us living have had to let the walking dead do as they please. It turns into survival. Especially after generations.

@annyoung6560 2 ай бұрын

I wholeheartedly agree that her mother should allow her to face the consequences.

@beatricewilliams8409 2 ай бұрын

That host has no right to judge this family. Leave them alone.

@gardyloo3415 2 ай бұрын

Hello she just lost her mother….im sure she wants her daughter to be accountable so she cleans up her act.

@sylvia106 2 ай бұрын

Her daughter has a face tattoo, shit needs to get real. Go Wynnona!

@cynthiacarter514 2 ай бұрын

I wonder if she got the tattoo while she was in prison?

@lindabeaman9779 2 ай бұрын

Wynonna is probably so sick of her kid acting out! I’m not sure I would’ve been there either?

@moonlitpearl700 2 ай бұрын

Bravo Wynona!This is one of the hardest things to do, but it is so necessary. Jesse, be quiet. Go get educated about addiction and enabling before you give your opinion.

@mason-dixon-north 2 ай бұрын

I don't believe for a minute that this decision was easy for Wynonna, but I stand behind her 100%! Grace has to be allowed to hit rock bottom before she alone decides to get help and change for herself, and her little girl.

@kristenmarie9248 Ай бұрын

👍🎯💯❤

@juliahelland6488 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes it's better to step away from the addict, it's certainly harder then bailing them out. At 21, I made the choice to step back from my mom who was a hardcore alcoholic. She was an alcoholic all my life and for my well being I needed to step back from her. She died 3 days later at age 44. You can't make addicts get clean! They have to want to get clean. 💯 It's an incredibly sad life for the addict and their family suffers deeply. 😬

@shannonrusso3853 2 ай бұрын

@julia Peace and love from a grandma in Pittsburgh

@derrickbeaubearic4100 2 ай бұрын

Or maybe you all could just mind your own business and let them deal with their own family issues.

@Rebecca-hc5ju 2 ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@jbalou4722 2 ай бұрын

Tough love 💪❤ Gotta do it or she'll end up burying her #Facts

@kristenmarie9248 Ай бұрын

👍🎯💯

@billyc6678 2 ай бұрын

From what I know about this family, her mother has been through the same stuff, so she knows. And this IS her way of helping her daughter. Tough love hurts, but it also helps.

@kellygarin8919 2 ай бұрын

Been there done it! Tough love is harder than giving in! I got to the point where I was happy when they were in jail! Because I knew they would be safe there!

@SusanSilvis-vn2bd 2 ай бұрын

It’s not our business to judge a mother

@sue8237 2 ай бұрын

Good for Wynonna! We need more parents like this. Don't put her down for it.

@MsAlbertaBound 2 ай бұрын

You go Wynonna. Let her face you're not going to be bailing her out and never taking responsibility for her own actions.

@michaelvandyke6715 2 ай бұрын

As a parent should do .. Told my kids, if it's your own fault with being in jail, you're on your own. I won't even bail you out..

@srezzy1326 2 ай бұрын

Wynnona doesn’t need to explain herself to anyone. She’s doing what’s best for her and her family.

@sashassunshine 2 ай бұрын

I’m with Wynonna!!

@lynnnelson6689 2 ай бұрын

Tough love for other things like theft not only drugs. Good for Wynonna!

@stacyanderson9652 2 ай бұрын

It doesn't matter how much money her mother has

@marierainwater6936 2 ай бұрын

This kid is young . He of the generation that feels entitled. He nuts

@jenniminder1362 2 ай бұрын

Young man's logic is why this country is in big trouble.

@ThrifterPickerShipper 2 ай бұрын

Wynonna is completely in the right. If she kept enabling her daughter, she would die. Wynonna has gone above and beyond to help her daughter. No doubt this was a gut-wrenching decision to have to make. It shouldn't even be talked about at all it's very personal.

@sheilathailand1903 2 ай бұрын

Wynona knows what's up. This is the way that lessons are hopefully learned. Stop clutching your pearls, lol.

@lainey3815 2 ай бұрын

Host really has no idea!

@texasgina 2 ай бұрын

This host clearly doesn't have any drug addicts in his family 😏 you get sick and tired of dealing with their crap. You can't keep bailing them out or else they don't learn! I am proud of Wynonna I would do the same thing. This girl needs to grow up and start behaving like a mother instead of doing drugs and getting into trouble! her mother raised her children it's not Wynonna's job to raise her grandchild

@joycewedel9084 2 ай бұрын

Wynona knows best! I assure you! Support Wynona!

@katiebugbooth4212 2 ай бұрын

Jesse, you are wrong on this one. Have you ever dealt with an addict?

@Sue-zf5uu 2 ай бұрын

My 25 year old grandson went through a stretch where he was in trouble and everyone was paying his lawyers and going the extra mile for him posting bonds to get him out of jail. I told him if he did more than get a traffic ticket after all of that, I would disown him. He's my only grandson and my first born grandchild but 4 different times and charges was too much. I told him I love you but I have no use for losers or criminals and doing the way he was, qualified him for the labels if he got in anymore trouble. He and I have been very close since he was born, and even though it would break my heart to disown him, he was breaking my heart by pulling stupid stunts.

@annacoats2988 2 ай бұрын

She is an adult. Parents do not have a duty to bail her out of legal or financial trouble. Sometimes helping an addict enables them to continue their addiction.

@marieknight9385 2 ай бұрын

Rich parents who don’t set boundaries are also blamed for their children not getting their life together because of the help they do or don’t give. Sometimes it’s just enabling them to keep paying for their mistakes, I think this is long overdue and hope she doesn’t get worse

@JustBethAnne 2 ай бұрын

This is unfair to be judging what a mother should or shouldn't do. This is truly none of our business. I am disappointed Jesse, that you made a segment on this.

@dineenhilliard8378 Ай бұрын

With Wynonna not showing up for the sentencing, that's definitely making a statement to the judge. She's telling the judge she wants her daughter to pay for her crime. It's telling her grown ass child to stop doing what you're doing and I'm not🎉 going to help you anymore. Period!! This is not her first rodeo. Good for her, she owes no explanation.

@anniesshenanigans3815 2 ай бұрын

Dude doesn't "get it" because he has never had to live it. When you have a kid that is an adult and basically tells you to go F$k yourself instead of embracing help, it's time to cut the cord. I did this with my son.. In fact, when he was a TEENAGER I told him if he ever got put in jail for stupid shit don't expect me to be there. And I have never ever stepped foot in the jail or courtroom on his behalf when he DID start doing stupid shit. 5 years of no contact. Now he's straightened himself out (without my interferance) and things are good. There is no resentment about it either... He knew the consequences.

@mrich9654 2 ай бұрын

Wynona is obviously sick of her nonsense. Tattoo. Piercing. She needs to grow up and get it together.

@jerseygirl9492 2 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh first and foremost.....it is none of our business. Let Wynonna and family handle it!!

@yvetterodriguez2550 2 ай бұрын

Excuse me but it's no ones business. This is between Wynonna and her daughter. It is not our place to speculate or talk what's going on in their relationship and blast it on tv. This shouldn't even be discussed. Let them be. It's already hard enough that Wynonna had to deal with her daughter's issues over the years but to then pry into their lives on national tv, that's too much and I think it crosses a line. Where are your boundaries? It doesn't matter if they're famous or not. This is a family matter. Not yours, not ours. Theirs. Show some respect. Would you like people sticking their nose into your business and picking apart what's going on in your life and putting it out there on national tv? I think not. This family has been through some really dark times. Leave them alone.

@janedeclarico5920 2 ай бұрын

He should report the news period.

@wckedliz Ай бұрын

This is her child not yours. She did what she felt was best. This young lady is an adult making poor decisions.

@Bodine62 Ай бұрын

As a mother of a son who suffered with SUD ( sober 5 years) there is absolutely no excuse for anyone to judge the actions of a mother. The heartbreak, fears, anger, despair, all of it , become absolutely overwhelming at times. Even a mother has to protect herself. There were nights when I knew my son had no place to go that I would turn my phone off because I physically nor mentally could handle another thing at that moment. I opened the door to a police officer one evening and collapsed before he could get a word out. The fear never leaves. The " Verizon" ring tone gives me PTSD. That was the ringtone on my phone the day I was called to inform me my son had attempted self harm. Sorry to go off on a tangent but as a mom, this really struck a nerve with me. Please do better! ❤️

@gardenmama1393 2 ай бұрын

I have been doing mom life a long time, she is going to be ok.

@amandahoot6291 29 минут бұрын

I agree with Mr. Paul. If she keeps bailing her out, she is enabling. She has to hit her rock bottom before a change can be made for the right reasons.

@natalieblevins7890 2 ай бұрын

Quit judging the family. It's tough love to save her life!

@kristenmarie9248 Ай бұрын

Best comment! Short, and to the point.

@jolleyzoo 2 ай бұрын

Accountability...I am a mother of six and I myself struggled with addiction at one point and almost ruined my life tired friend family, not for any other reason than not taking advantage of the help that was offered. My own father was a very well off man with a ton of money but he too held back and let me have the child hard realities on my own which forced me to see the darkness and unfortunately without support of any kind. I lucky had a beautiful man who found me and patiently pointed out the rest back it took a long time even a couple of slips but I made it with the grave of God. It is not easy but I truly believe running is doing the best thing, it will never change the love and desire for her daughter to live healthy happy and honest and clean. Prayers for Grace, Elijah, and Wynonna.

@user-dc2tp3tk1m 2 ай бұрын

I totally agree with Wynonna and what if this happened in front of your grandkids or kids or something like that !? Accountability starts with owning whatever you done and trying to correct it .

@beatricewilliams8409 2 ай бұрын

It's no body else's business!!!! Wynonna did what she felt was right. Leave them alone. No one has the right to judge them.

@rebeccaaustin3488 2 ай бұрын

Try being a mother in her shoes. Money doesn't buy everything and shouldn't. People no matter how rich they are need to face consequences. I had to be a tough love mother. It absolutely killed me but I had made excuses for my daughter, lied to help her and even risked my career to get her out of trouble. It's the hardest thing a mother could have to do next to having to bury their child. Unfortunately all the help and tough love didn't help mine so at the age of only 20 I had to bury mine. I live with many regrets when it comes to my daughter but honestly that moment that I had to be a "tough love mother" is one I don't regret. I know that moment is why I got to keep her on this earth for a couple years longer. Some people just can't be rescued. I'll miss her every single damn day. She's been gone for 8 years but it feels like an eternity.

@starriderkittykat9064 2 ай бұрын

Dont enabled bad behavior! Good for Mama standing her ground once and for all, enough is enough and its time for her daughter to grow up and be a mother to her own daughter by first off showing her child that actions have consequences!

@chapmanscreekrevival 2 ай бұрын

As a news reporter it's not your job to get why someone did or didn't do something. Your opinions should be kept to yourself while you're on air.

@Sirius-ly 2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

@chicanica64 2 ай бұрын

Relapse is part of the process. Winona does not have to explain anything. Her daughter is an adult.

@maryannmay7105 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes you have to be tough to be kind & at the end of the day you have to be responsible for your own actions

@kristenmarie9248 Ай бұрын

Wynonna doesn't owe anyone an explanation. Her adult daughter is the one with the problem affecting the whole family.

@janetdyson7302 Ай бұрын

Wynonna is absolutely right to stay away and let her daughter pay the consequences of her choices. Please do not bail her out Wynonna.

@tamaraturpin8919 Ай бұрын

My son had a 20-year heroin addiction. He spent 60 days in jail and when he got out he was on probation. He was dirty the first time he saw his PO. He was given two choices. 1. Go to jail for 2 yrs or 2. enter rehab (courts choice). In September he will be clean and sober 4 yrs. I have my son back. I side with Wynona here.

@christinajohnson6430 2 ай бұрын

Oh gosh this guy is so wrong Wynonna is probally sick of her daughters crap

@pokerpegg1623 2 ай бұрын

She would have been on her OWN! Please!

@Happystarr1016 Ай бұрын

Everything isn’t about money ……tough love is very tough

@venganzamujer354 2 ай бұрын

I totally agree with the attorney/gentleman speaking. It’s like if they keep bailing her out she will never learn responsibility and clean up. She must hit rock bottom and if she misses her kid at all, she will clean it correct

@brendalangen2076 2 ай бұрын

Winona, you doing what you need to do for your daughter.( been there done that) I HAD to do it with my own daughter. It hurts like hell to do and you feel like shit but but you love your child more than life so you do it ❤️❤️😢

@molliedixon1674 Ай бұрын

She also has a father people. Stop trashing and judging Wynonna. The media blows my mind at times with trash talk.

@christineroby983 2 ай бұрын

Tell me you have never dealt with a family member with addiction without telling me. This host has clearly had the privilege of not dealing with that and it’s showing.

@Sirius-ly 2 ай бұрын

I doubt it. He's a lawyer and seen everything. He's just one of those whiny, permissive types that thinks his mamby-pamby way of dealing with everything is the right way. Clueless. And will be the rest of his life!

@tinalee4281 2 ай бұрын

Thank you “Y” for letting her daughter take responsibility for her own actions !! Good job momma !!!

@grmmjhnsn2 Ай бұрын

Wynonna needs to do what Wynonna needs to do. Having a child in crisis is devastating for parents and I can't imagine what she's going through.

@kathyhenry2362 Ай бұрын

How dare you shame the mother here.

@laurabyers5172 Ай бұрын

As a mother of 2 drug addicted sons, the journey is still ongoing. I've learned a hard fact...when you're dealing with an addiction, there is NO middle ground, you can't bargain or barter with it, you're either enabling it, or you're not. That's the hard truth. I love my sons and will do everything to help them get into serious treatment, but I will not spend 1 more second enabling the addiction. When dealing with it, it's very easy to blur the lines, justify, and make excuses, and that is how addiction grows and overtakes people.

@pjdava 2 ай бұрын

NewsNation, I loved this video so much, I had to hit the like button!

@margiep.7762 2 ай бұрын

Weber doesn't know what he's talking about

@violetjames7534 Ай бұрын

Bravo Wynonna! That Fox News host needs to keep his mouth shut. He clearly has never been through anything remotely similar. Kudos to Mike Paul for understanding the situation and respecting Judds decision.

@kellyreed2762 2 ай бұрын

That reporter is clueless.

@bethandrews8872 2 ай бұрын

Yes obviously this guy is clueless as to what goes on with addiction. My daughter is alive and well bc we had to make a similar decision . Her daughter is safer locked up then running the streets.

@lindamcconatha6054 2 ай бұрын

I am a mother of two grown children and there comes a time where they have to be responsible for their own actions. I would not bail my child out until they showed good sense. Winona is probably tired of this grown child not acting like she should.

@ronimauney6329 2 ай бұрын

Good for her ! She is trying to save her life

@celticdw1983 Ай бұрын

Banfield should be ashamed of himself. Wynonna chose tough love for her daughter.

@joycewedel9084 2 ай бұрын

Grace needs Tough Love!!

@lisam4840 Ай бұрын

This guy is clueless. Always told my kids "You get yourself into trouble, you can get yourself out".

@cynthiarosa8549 Ай бұрын

Wynonna is being a TRUE MOM - tough love and all!!… As a man saying she’s wrong in not being there for her daughter, you’ll never understand how much she’s truly hurting inside in doing so and more especially in hurting for her grandchild!! Sounds to me it was time to let G K stand on her own two feet and OWN it ALL herself - ‘LOVE’

@rrosen7370 2 ай бұрын

Amen on their own accountability!!

@mendyarnold7653 2 ай бұрын

I definitely side with Wynonna on this. Enabling is the worst thing a parent can be. This isn't the first time, and maybe Wynonna is fed up!

@pamyork5217 2 ай бұрын

My sister and brother-in-law bailed out their son constantly and finally on the last time. My sister almost had a nervous breakdown. But they decided not to help and he had to do some time. And when he came out he has been a new man has his own place has his job. Work 16 hours a day. He's a total different person and I agree. You have to have tough love. They even had to call the place that I want to help him not to get him in trouble but to help him and it turned out good for him. I can understand where she's coming from. If you don't have children. It's sometimes a different story how you look at things.❤

@thelittlepaintedcottage3331 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely!!!! Teaching her accountability !! Go Wynnona. You have to as a parent step back! My son got into a bad hole regarding friends and drugs. He had to pull himself out. We were there as his parents so he was not homeless but he had to abide by our rules with no drugs in the house!! He didn’t …so for awhile he was homeless…he now is thriving. He told us that was the turning point when we left him for a while. Hard love. Hard as a parent…😢