"Love in such a way that the person you love feels free" "Blaming has no positive affect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason & argument. That is my experience, no blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change" "Feelings come & go like clouds in a wind sky . . . Conscious breathing is my anchor" - by Thick Nhatt Hahn 1926 -2022

"Love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy it does not boast, it is not proud. it does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices w/ the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres" 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "IF you love someone rather than doing what you think they need, do what they themselves ask you to do, though it comes from a good place, doing what you think someone needs. Can be the seed of wanting to control them, to make them a certain way to please yourself" -Haemin Sunim "If you love a person, give them infinite space" -Osho "Madness can be a medicine for the modern world, you take it in MODERATION it's beneficial" H. Lecter (Mads Mikkelsen) Note: for those who read it I hope you have a blessed day; it may give some soothing to one's soul. To: Ms. Jiaqi, Take your job serious, but not yourself!