移民多倫多600天 - 我裸辭了｜移民蜜月期過後的低潮

移民多倫多600天 - 我裸辭了｜移民蜜月期過後的低潮｜加拿大生活的另一面

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留得下來的你們都是很努力都是很堅強的人 🙌🏻 可能不只是加拿大移民到其他國家的人也面對著同樣的掙扎希望這個分享能給已經移民或者準備移民的你帶來一點點安慰 🫂
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@babyshark2117 6 ай бұрын

移民的大家, 就係唔想比世界拖住自己行, 想有自己選擇的步伐, 生存唔成問題就好好生活😊

@cryyanexplore24 5 ай бұрын

有時依賴下人都可以, 放輕鬆,不要給太大壓力自己,欣賞你! 加油

@karlo6791 6 ай бұрын

Hello我都是3個月前因極迷失而裸辭的多倫多同路人👋👋 一齊加油

@user-ui6et3xp4h 6 ай бұрын

Work at Asia time zone + NA time zone, 太太太辛苦, 辛勞啦。唔需要咁辛苦. ㊗️移民路上順利，成功🎉🎉🎉。新一年㊗️一切順利🎉🎉🎉。有咗一年半加拿大🇨🇦工作經驗，搵新工應該比較容易. 唔好太擔心🎉🎉

@ChanChan-ik8no 6 ай бұрын

Hi, same here, 我都係起多倫多，INFJ女，因工作壓力影響健康而決定裸辭。時間線同你都幾吻合。好明白你ge憂慮同擔心。呢d四方八面ge壓力，累積起來真係造成最後一根稻草。最後我依靠Part time黎維持生活，獲取返多左時間休息同自己野，多左時間思考同對未來部署，真係對身心靈健康有好大幫助。我自己平時用文字記錄生活，類似於你用vlog，間中睇返以前自己思路同milestone，會發現自己一路走來不容易，要recognize自己的付出和收獲，只要知道自己追求ge大方向係正確就可以了，可能現時做ge野同際遇未如理想，都可以靠每日baby step向前行，最終都會殊途同歸。加油！

@neuru_ 6 ай бұрын

Thank you!! 聽完你嘅分享都令我多番啲信心。我都係好鍾意睇返自己啲記錄可以睇返自己嘅思路🙌🏻 加油啊

@marcus7714 6 ай бұрын

好犀利啦頂左年半, 養好身體重新出發! 加油!

@randomly_est.2022 6 ай бұрын

多謝你嘅分享🥹🥹 it’s really helpful!

@mikileong7181 5 ай бұрын

巧合隨便按入左呢條片，我經歷過你呢個階段，同時都忘記左，你令我回想起我曾經呢個時期，所以感謝你拍呢條片、感受到你的真實情況，的確不用想太多，目前清楚自己所需最重要，休息的確可以令你行更長的路，好好享受及努力面對自己當下的選擇就對❤

@pollypopo 6 ай бұрын

同你有一樣既感覺，辭左職兩個月俾自己休息下諗下之後要點（都當係拎左PR既禮物）但真係會好迷惘，因為係多倫多無乜親朋好友，又無乜工作經驗前路茫茫甘。不過哩段時間開始左整烘焙焗面包，每次做新類型既包都會好興奮期待成品，都多左時間係屋企me time陪屋企人。慢慢重新調整自己啦，大家一齊加油！

@neuru_ 6 ай бұрын

有自己嘅興趣同想做嘅嘢真係好重要! 加油啊

@wongwankin 6 ай бұрын

好多謝你咁坦白分享自己辭職嘅原因同感受,而家起碼你都有五六個月以上時間可以好好休息,希望你嘅身體可以早日回復狀態,同時又可以市用呢段時間做自己喜歡做嘅事(真係好難得)..........頭先睇到最後一兩分鐘嘅時間,你提到寒冬終會過去,我即刻諗起坂井泉水嘅一首歌歌詞(ZARD-あの微笑みを忘れないで):告別心裡的寒冬,向前奔馳,邁向嶄新的明天。希望你可以喺嗰邊過得幸福快樂,加油。主佑。

@neuru_ 6 ай бұрын

多謝你🫶🏻去聽吓首歌先～

@wongwankin 6 ай бұрын

@@neuru_ 唔知你尋晚聽左呢首歌未呢?好開心你會去聽呢首歌。我記得尋晚你係youtube分享過:我希望我嘅分享可以帶畀同路人一啲鼓勵(大概嘅意思),嗰一刻我即刻諗起以前泉水姊喺生前的說話,內容大意都係話如果佢嘅歌可以帶畀人鼓勵同埋力量,噉就係佢做歌手的心願........希望你都可以從佢嘅歌中到力量同埋鼓勵。順便講下,呢首歌亦都係佢其中一首我最喜歡嘅歌之一, 如果你喜歡,可以試下睇呢個MV,因為可以睇到佢好多笑容。(好話唔好聽佢生前唔係好鍾意笑,呢啲大部分都係佢嘅同事偷拍>

@winniechiuchiu 6 ай бұрын

我睇哂啦，多謝你既分享～！好好休息❤️你咁快可以走出來，調整到心態，回望低潮既自己，實在太好啦🥹 我經歷完上一份工之後陰影大到真係想轉行🤣🤣🤣🤣🥹🥹🥹 我而家仲係休息緊🥹 覺得自己未好番，仲需要啲時間企番起身⋯🥹 新一年祝大家都可以愈來愈好☺️ 我申請左OWP等緊final approval，但見到而家加拿大經濟各方面環境差左好多，都有啲怕🥹 Anyway! 如果真係來加拿大，有機會都想認識你😆😆😆💕

@sarahc8605 5 ай бұрын

好多謝你的分享:) 你的說話對我有好大的提醒！thanks so much🥹 比自己好好休息再重申出發！

@winniechiuchiu 6 ай бұрын

我未睇哂，但都忍唔住留言先⋯一直以來睇你啲片都覺得你講啲野既想法同心態同我勁似⋯⋯⋯甚至你話工作上遇到壓力繼而成個人burnt out 甚至心理健康出現問題既經歷🥹🥹🥹🥹 你啲諗法同睇野既態度同我真係太有共鳴！！！！然後原來你係INFJ🤣🤣🤣🤣我係INFP!!!!怪唔得咁似✋🏻✋🏻✋🏻✋🏻✋🏻

@youi6575 6 ай бұрын

工作只不過是生活一小部份，唔好令工作犧牲真正生活。有得選擇好比無選擇好。本人試過祼辭左3個去旅再找工作做👍🏼

@neuru_ 6 ай бұрын

係🥹成日都會聽倒工作只係生活一部份但係有時真係好難做到，經歷咗呢一次之後而家真係要不斷提醒自己唔好再比工作影響自己太多。

@youi6575 5 ай бұрын

@@neuru_ 你是最棒的👍🏼👍🏼，一個勇敢女生去一個陌生地生活。去一次日本近郊旅行獎勵一下自己。站時離開熟悉既地方☺️☺️慢步行公園

@karenkwok1919 5 ай бұрын

我都係29歲裸辭 - 之前太chur做tech係澳洲悉尼呢邊好明白妳個焦慮同埋concern, 希望每一日都好好善待自己同埋休息為走更長的路

@nerdynurseincuhkyes6435 5 ай бұрын

加油！第一次睇你既片！subscribed

@momokwokMMK 5 ай бұрын

hey neuru! 啱啱睇到你呢條片～裸辭真係好需要勇氣但我相信一定會有更好嘅機會係前面架！加油！！💖

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

Awww 好多謝你🥹🥹

@JoeeeyCCY 5 ай бұрын

睇曬你之前幾條owp 片，我諗我同你年紀差唔色，我覺得你好聰明好叻，好有目標，心態好好。我上星期終於批左otp，未決定幾時出發、去邊到。做左幾年IT都覺得自己未夠經驗，好似乜都唔識咁，好驚到時搵唔到工。睇完你d片學到野，未來可能會考慮多倫多，因為大城市機會比較多。對比起我，你更為勇敢，記得累了就休息，回氣後再出發，香港人係餓唔死的，加油！

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

多謝你🫶🏻希望你順利出發！

@crystalhjshum 5 ай бұрын

不用為未發生嘅事擔憂！對將來的恐惧都係自己幻想出嚟嘅，活在當下，只要時刻提醒自己讓自己處在正能量里，將來就會有好事發生😊

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

講得好好🫶🏻🫶🏻✨

@eddychiu8855 6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@ken000491 5 ай бұрын

無論係邊都記得留時間比自己休息或者叫享受人生

@Fiona_Jan 5 ай бұрын

第一次睇你既片，我都係一個典型infj + marketing 背景，而家係多倫多一直都搵唔到適合既工，靠老公cover哂所有開支，搞到自己一直都好down，基本上係內耗。唉.. 雖然我一路都同自己講shift個focus係其他野上面，例如煮野食、減肥等，但內心都仲係好唔開心

@firever 5 ай бұрын

❤

@chankenny3963 5 ай бұрын

I have the same feeling. same situation with you., very similar

@ritayuen1032 5 ай бұрын

仲係男女朋友關係當然唔好經濟上倚賴對方啦，除非你患左嚴重情緒病要休息幾年同時又承擔昂貴醫藥費，如果唔係普通裸辭就最好唔好成為人地既擔子，為自己負責好緊要，無人鐘意多一個負擔的, 一定會影響伴侶關係。欣賞你！停一停，做多d運動，曬多d太陽，加油啊！

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙌🏻🙌🏻

@heidic4810 5 ай бұрын

我都係Agency 出身，好明白Agency 工作模式，如果係同online 有關，基本上24小時冇得停，我都經歷過你尼階段，我大你10年，所以唔止停一次，所以冇乜大不了，好多時停完下一份更好❤

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

多謝你🥹係呀我主要係做online :’( 希望搵到啱自己嘅方向同工作模式

@heidic4810 5 ай бұрын

做Online 似乎去到邊度都一樣😅……我以前會say no或者set 個cut off time，雖然顧客永遠是對的，不過保命要緊，有時都要先小人後君子

@sichen119 6 ай бұрын

2022年底我也是saving好了，出来旅行，来到加拿大遇到现在的男盆友，当时觉得自己可以休息一下再重新出发，结果一休息休息到了现在一两年豆没工作好爽哈哈哈哈啊

@TheJlee28 6 ай бұрын

你好 rich 呀？個 resume 空晒！

@cliffordcheng5927 5 ай бұрын

有咗加拿大工作經驗就可以再揾比較合適嘅工作。Life is short but work is long. 休息吓先啦

@andreeeeeeeee670 5 ай бұрын

So overall do you prefer hk or Toronto for good? Both work and live wise

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

I still prefer Toronto (for now) but it’s based on my personal experience…

@superdavid1964ify 5 ай бұрын

I am an old timer who came in to the US in the 80s. We had a different mindset. No matter how bad was the adversity and situation, that’s no quitting in our mind. It is either bite the bullet to keep going or starve to death. You don’t know how lucky you are that you can afford to do just leave your job and still survive. How about just take a temp leave from the work?

@neuru_ 5 ай бұрын

Helloooo! Thank you for sharing your perspective and I appreciate your suggestion. I agree that different generations face unique challenges. I recognize the privilege and flexibility I have in being able to leave my job - especially considering the diverse opportunities (for making money/sustaining ourselves etc) available in today's landscape. I did take a 3-week break but I found the same challenges upon my return. After careful consideration, I made the decision to step away from my job to prioritize my mental and physical well-being.

@shirleyfung605 5 ай бұрын

How come you don’t apply EI.May be you are not qualified?

@chriswong8586 5 ай бұрын

返香港住返兩個星期你會知點做吧

@Tobycasper 5 ай бұрын

Fully understand. What’s the point of immigration if you end up recreating the Asian lifestyle, right? Staying away from it for the sake of your mental well being~