Yeej yog tim koj txiv es niam tais thiaj chim chim os.. Es koj Txhob tus siab rau niam tais...

Qhia tau tias txiv neej siab phem tiag tiag li os hmoob aw. 💔💔💔💔💔

Can't blame your mother in law your dad play her like she was just trash... I guess karma did catch up to your dad that's why you have her for a mother-in-law. It's just a reminder to be a good person in life.

Some think the mother in law was extreme and petty with her grudge but until it's your turn, you wouldn't even bat an eye. Hlub tob npaum li cas, ces chim thiab tsim txom lub siab ntsws rov los ua txoj kev ntxub mus ti txha. Nyob qhia neej los yeej tsis zoo, tuag qhia dab los yeej tsis muaj hnub xaus. Yog yus tsuj tus hneev taw ntawd dua yus thiaj li paub.

Sad story. 😔 ppl can't judge them none of us were in their shoe. Love is deep when you given all. ;)) betrayed by the one you love will hurt you 4ever. 💔

Niam tais ua Yog lawm hahaha.. vim koj txiv siab phem. Pab niam tais mob siab kawg.

Everything yog tim koj txiv nas..koj txhob coj koj niam tais tuaj rhuav..koj txiv yog tus dag nws, Koj txiv yeej tsis hlub nws tiag..he betray her ...hnub no nws thiaj chim Los laus li no..

ab zaj no mas yeej tsim nyog niam tais chim kawg nawb. txiv neeg ces yeej yog neeg dag. koj tus poj niam los tsis txhob tu siab rau neb niam tais thiab. vim nw raug koj txiv dag lawm.

SUCH A HORRIBLE MOTHER TO HATE HER OWN CHILD JUST BECAUSE OF HER PAST ISSUE. SHE HAS NO SPACE IN HER HEART TO JUST LOVE THE KIDS BUT HATE THE VAUV'S FATHER. I FIND THAT BAD; PARENT ISSUE BUT BLAMING IT ON THE KIDS TOO. SIAB PHEM.

Wow phem tau tshua kawg

Well, can’t blame your mother in law. Your father did betray her love from the beginning. Good luck brother.

I can feel her pain, hurt, and hatred.

Txhob tus siab rau koj niam tais vim peb cov poj niam yeej xa ib yam vim kev khib kev mob siab tsaj plaws nawb mog vim nws muab nws Txhoj kev hlub tag nrho rau koj txiv lawm thiaj ua rau nws mob siab nplaum no nawb

He must've really hurted her something u can never forgive. She have her own reason. Nobody can blame her.

This much hatred must make her life so miserable and unhappy. Forget and move on even you can't forgive it. You live in America, why you are so concern about your relationship with your in-law? You don't need this headache in your life. Live your life and make yourself happy.

May koj hais zaj noj mas koj yuam kev ntau dhau ua confusing yeej. Cas tau ib ntus no koj hais neej neeg zoo li koj lub hlwb tsis nyob ntawm qhov koj ua. Rau tus mother in law, koj yeej muaj ib qho tsis zoo luag thiaj tsis yuav koj. Luag twb qhia koj vim li cas luag tsis yuav koj. Let it go woman!! Coj li tus niam tias no tos koj txiv tsis yuav.

Just love your wife n your little family only...dont worry about the old folks thats their problem.

I feel your niam tais' pain. I don't blame her nor can we judge her. We weren't in her shoes. she's broken. A love so strong to drink each other's blood, all the promises he made, only for your dad to betray her and marry someone he just met. She's full of anger, hatred, grudges. She truly loved him and still do. Niam tais should submit her story to be told, especially since your dad will be returning

Wow!!! Talk about grudge. 🤯

Pheej dag dag lawv e... Lawv thiaj chim txog hnub laus lo ma

Koj niam tais nyaum kawg nkaus

Hahah xiam2 hlwb lawm ces tsum mas

Oh wow a very painful n strong story. Very sad for tu vauv niam tai coj li ntawv rau koj. Also very hurtful for niam Tai ua tu vau dad Dag thiab. Mostly tu vauv you need to love n stay with your wife 4ever. She let her mom went through all those pain cuz she love u n wants to be with u.

Wow, hate with a passion. The past is the past, holding grudges for that long must be exhausting. Hopefully the two in-laws/exes have closure before they part this earth.

Tsim nyog​ niam tais chim lawm os..

Honestly, we can bashed his mnl for being dramatic but I give her props for being someone who stood her grounds. If it wasn't because of his dad, she wouldn't have been damaged. He ruined her life so she made sure to make his life hell. Can't call her crazy if he made her that way 🤷‍♀️ Tsis hlub tiag txoj dag ib cas tsis tau neeg zoo ua. Plus his dad shouldn't put all the blame on her only...after all he did drink blood with her..so that tells us he really loved her at some point. May they be the perfect match in hell 🤣

Zaj no koj hais tau muaj ntsis xiam hlwb os😁😁😁

nyob zoo os niam ntsuab teev yog vim li cas rau koj lawm es koj yuav hais zaj neej no es yuav yuam kev li ob peb qhov li . mloog thaum pib dua nawb ua rau dawv daws yuav kev tsuav li

Yauv txiv rau thawm tus tub tog na, koj ces niam qhuav ntxim xwb. Niam tais tab tom ua tau haum peb siab kawg. Cas niam tais tsis foom kom koj txom nyem tshaj ko thiab naws

I feel your MIL’s pain..he exchange blood with her but still betrayed her..I don’t blamed her for being so bitter..he damage her heart for life…so if you don’t recieve any love from your MIL don’t get upset.. it’s all your father’s fault..

Oh niam ntsuab teev cas txoj neej neeg no koj yuav hais lus yuam kev ntau luaj os!

Niam tsev hmoob yaj Tulsa, yeeb ncuab tuaj yeeb thiaj lom zem more fun.

ทั้ง2คนไม่ควรรักกันตั้งแต่แรกอยุ่แล้ว เลิกกันได้ยิ่งดี

Kuv los muaj cov qub yeeb nceb ntau kawg li thiab. Cia saib kuv cov tus puas mus thab tau cov qub yeeb nceb no cov txhais nawb

Can't blame the niam tais. Everyone have good and bad side. When someone get the best out of you. The ugliness will come out. She have every right to be negative. Only the niam tais and txiv yawg know their past relationship. The txiv yawg is not innocent. He betrayed the niam tais big time. He used her. Stop expecting love. Blame your dad. This is their karma.

This is your father's karma for betraying his ex. I feel your mil's pain.

What a destruction life for everyone! Especially put for the son & daughter In-Law knowing nothing about their past! Advised for the son & daughter, that true love goes against the odds since both of you are grown as man & woman stay strong and grown from learned that lesson. God blessed you both!

I probably will do the same with my daughter too. If she loved her mother she should be able to share her sorrow and broken heart too. It is not the MiL’s fault for being the way she is, it is your father’s fault!! How can you expect a mil to live as in-laws with a guy that abandon her even after drinking blood 🩸 with her??

Dang that’s a whole nother level of Hmong drama… but yes we cannot judge them for their choices, you can’t put a bandaid over a hole and expect the skin underneath to heal… tragic for the kids

Cas tus niam tais no tsis paub txaj muag li Luag twb tsis xaiv yus es yus tseem ua lub maib no thiab cas yuav poob ntsej muag ua luaj li

I don't blame her guy so betrayal

MTT ces zoo li

Nyob zoo os niam laus me vaj nyb zoo sawv ntxov rau sab ntuj koj nyb tim koj os ❤️💚💜kv nyiam koj cov neej neeg kawg nkaus li os❤️✨🥀😊😊❤️💜💚

Your mil love your and joules of your dad that's why she's being mean to you and your wife.

Wow!…your dad did her good 👍…your mother-in-law never forgotten him after all these years…😩👍!!!

Zoo mloog tiag li

Xoom khua chim lawm thiab os. Saib lug lub ces zoo li khoom uasi. Txog txij tus poj niam no kaws av quaj hu lub ntuj ces yeej yog mob siab heev.

tsiv neej siab phem li kos ce haoom ko me nyuam tuag kosm tag xb ma

Rhuav plhus dhau os. Ua cas yuav hlub tsis hlub thaum yus tus txiv tuag es yus tus hluas nraug twb ua zoo hais yus tseem cav foom ntxiv, thaum luag tuag kiag no cav muaj plus yuav mus khov khaus cob cob. Yog kuv ces thaum kuv tus txiv tuag tag nrho ces kuv sau nra rov mus thawj zaum ob kiag xwb.

First love is always like this they make promise married someone for ex until it's not as expecting as it is sad. I felt his MIL pain.

Brother, tsis txhob tu siab os...it's not your fault. You and your wife love your MIL as much as she allows -- that's all you can do. Your MIL still lives with hurt feelings -- only she can let those feelings go and love those around her.

koj niam tais yog tus neeg yeej tseem hlub2 koj txiv nawb es tsis txhob tu siab thiab txhob rau txim rau nws.

Sounds like your MIL is still not over your dad...no wonder she held in all that anger for years. She's a crazy one for sure.

Love is beautiful through out life but at the same time, love can cripple for many generations. People only think they know what love is but never apply self love with the one they love and become selfish not thinking of the children's future. Divorce is what cripples children today. Former lovers are the reason deception destroys every house hold and family. It's sad to hear about this story but theres many similar ones out there too. In the end, it's the children who suffers. In our culture, we can not escape the past. The future will always have ties to the past and depending on the past, our children can be free or be miserable like in this story. We should never hate or be miserable because of the past but everyone's situation is different. What ever we choose to do or how we live our life. Never involve our children's lives with ours. That's the only way we can truly be happy.

Kev ntxub ntxaug yog hais tias: Cib nyeej.

That’s fatal attraction woman! She is crazy 😳

Karma karma karma, when there is no peace there will be 1000 more lifetimes to go. You got to let all these human emotions go.

Hais yuam2 kev mloog tsi to taub zoo.

When you made a decision to chose your path, good or bad you live with it.

Zaj no mas hais tias yuam kev kawg yom

Your mother in law is so childish whatever happens between your father and her it’s their issue she should still love u as a son in law and respect you.

Thie MIL just proved why the son’s father didn’t marry her. Everyone feeling sorry for her…nope!

This niam tais needs to grow up n let go of the past. They all have their own life already. It's not like his the only man on earth. Jesus Christ.

Haha zaj no koj tham ua rov ua Rais ua rau kuv nkag siab nyuaj kawg

This is a weird story about it is bittersweet story.

Kwv tij yus txiv liam liam tsis txhob coj yus txiv lub qe qauj tsw lwj tuaj tsoo rau saum huab cua no mas ua cas yuav tsis paub tab kiag li. Peb yeej paub tias koj txiv yog tus xav tau ntau no na.

Talk about holding a grudge! What an evil and sad lady, living her life holding on to the past. She’s still in love with the dad. I feel sorry for her husband.

If anyone is to be blamed for this, it’s your father. He lied and took advantage of someone’s love but in the end, married someone else. Your mother in law has every rights to be angry and bitter. Then her fresh and blood married you. That was a cruel turn of fate for your mother in law and father. Your mother in law never got over your father, she is still very much in love with him. So, if she see you with her daughter, you guys are reminding her of what she could never have. Now your mother in law is just waiting for your father to come take her.

Tim koj txiv xwb mas g Tim koj niam tais o nb

Phem tag npaum koj txiv thiaj tsis yuav los mas! Tsim nyog kawg li lawm os! Kuv yog koj txiv, kuv nim kam kam yuav thiab os! Hate to break it to y'all but regardless if there's a blood oath, once we die that's it. There is no after life.

Everybody hurts differently and deals differently. Niam tais's pain was way deep! Tejzaum koj niam tais thiab koj txiv yuav rov qab sib ntsib dua lauv vim niam tais yeej g tso koj txiv pov tseg li nawb.

The mother in law have every right to be mad at the father in law but she don’t have any right to curse any of their kids

Kuv yeej to taub koj niam tais qhov mob, tab koj niam tais yog 1 tug poj niam tsis paub cai thiaj tsis paub txaj muag, thiab tseem phem nyom tiv sis, tos koj yawg lawv tsis pub koj txiv yuav los tsim nyog os, 1 tug poj niam xuam li ntawv tsis tsim nyog yuav os.

Ntuj aws….kev hlub loj ua luaj li no ces pab tsis tau.

Yus thiab nws twb tas lawm ces tsuav lawv yuav yus tus me nyuam es lawv hlub xwb ces zoo siab twj ywm. Yus yeej muaj yam zoo zoo es luag txawm tso yus lawm los tej me nyuam thiaj sib sau. Hlub nws tus me nyuam kom nws khuv khuv xim yus xwb mo.

Dude, it's your dad's fault...you don't know how a woman been treated when people know they been with a man....it's easy for your dad to say cuz he is not the one who damaged....you should be the one who start the trust but you act just like your dad, I guess apple not fall far from the tree.

Funny tuag...lol

Awwww... the heart break your wife's mother had to endure from your father when they were young. I hope that at her old age, she'll forgive and give in some. Because it's wasn't you two kids that hurt her. You both didn't know.

Don't exchange and drink another's blood & don't make heavenly land and ocean promises if you can't keep them. Got it! 😂

Xuab dhau lawm os tus niam tais no ntshaw22 luag txog qhov luag tuag kiag los tseem quaj npaum ntawd yus tus tuag yus tsis quaj peb cov poj niam hmong laus no cas yuav ua tau rhuav plhu ua luaj li os ua phem2 rau tej ntxhaig vauv los vim txeeb tsis tau luag yuav es ua xwb pab txaj muag dhau lawm os

I understand your MIL's pain, but the Past is the Past...Not sure why the Children has to pay for their doing!!!

If I were the niam tais I would love the son inlaw and convinced them to move closer to me and take him away from his father, haha. I could understand her hate towards the father because he lied to her and took her virginity.

Tus niam tais no mas txawv tiag tiag li os yom pab txaj muag kawg li os tub twb yuav ntxhais lawm lov poj cuag tseem yuav Los yuav yawg cuag thiab os ntuj aw!! tsi rau nov dua li os lawv aw!!

Koj txiv yog tus tau tsim koj niam tais ces koj txiv saib lub nra tsis hnyab luaj twg. Tab sis koj niam tais tau raug koj txiv tsim mas nws yuav mob siab tag nrho nws ib sim. Yog tseem muaj lwm tiam, koj niam tais tseem yuav rov tu siab rau koj txiv ib zaug ntxiv thiab. Nyob li ntawm koj niam yug koj thiab koj yawm txiv mas tsis muaj chawj chim rau tog twg.

Best medicine is to learn to allow people to choose whether to be a part of your life or not. Biological connection does not mean the relationship is healthy. Hope you and your wife will find healing.

Thov ho tuaj piav txog cov niag neeg siab2 phem es ntxias hmoob miskas tos tuaj txog teb chaws no tuaj ntxeev siab tas tseem muaj ntsej muag tawm tuaj ua kom hmoob miskas nyiam2 thiab qhuas2. Nej txhob ruam2 es muab nej tej neej neeg tuaj piav kom neeg tau pw nyob pw noj ntog lam. Peb mloog lawv tso xwb mas peb xav los sau ntawv qhuab qhia cov neeg tsab ntse ntxim ntxub hauv no haj yam phem os

Only we women can feel the pain of men betrayed yeej tsim nyog koj txiv tus ex chim tab sis g tsim nyog yuav chim txog 6 qhab ntxub 2 tug hluas second generation lawm vim nkawv g paub neb li problem

Ab tim niag txiv dev laus los sav cas tseem muaj plhu hais tias tsis tsim nyog ceeb nyeej yus twb muab luag tham los ntev2 npaum li ntawv nas niag txiv neej siab phem lim hiam txia ntshav koj tsis yog poj niam koj tsis paub os

Weird as old people. Smh Background check nawb

Cov niag niam tais zoo li no tsis hlub yus los yus thiaj tsis tshuav nws nqi mas! Thiaj tsis raug raug nws li kev foom foom os!!!

Ntuj aws ua nkauj nraug zoo npaum li ca los txog txij ua luag tsi yuav yus lawm ce lawv twb paub yus lub siab tag lawm los mas es ua ca yus ho tsi hloov yus tug kheej es tseem ua quj qee txoj niag kev phem xwb naj yom

Niam tais is right because who would let one’s daughter to marry the son of the man who left her to marry another woman. If something goes wrong it will be hard to communicate so it’s better not to let one’s daughter to marry. The daughter is wrongly married.

Txhob hais hais tias niam tais no confused os. Hais tias poj niam niam no thiaj tsis confused. Thiab tsis yog Yeeb ncuab yog qub nkauj qub nraug.

It’s not MIL’s fault. The father played her, he got what he deserved.

Just bang bang thank you mam but it can paralyze someone heart for life. Man, I wish I were your dad.

Haha.. koj txiv yog tus phem

Very sad.. make sure you come back and update the story few years from now or whenever your dad come get her. Like to know if that promise they made really works.

its a thin line between love and hate. the more a person loves and is betrayed the more hate. he ruined her life and he had to marry somomeone handicapped that she doesnt love. easy for us to judge... she's severely damaged and conflicted.

Shoot I would be pissed off too. Your dad isn’t the one suffering and hurting so it’s easy for him to say. Your dad used her like trash. Everyone deals with pain differently. Your niam tais is only hurting herself. Don’t be upset about it dude. Just love your wife bc koj lub neej yog nrog koj tus poj niam tsis yog nrog koj niam tsis yawm txiv. As long as you love each other that’s all that matters.

It’s ok, if your in laws don’t want anything to do with you, less work on your part, just focus on your immediate family.