The fact that he came to say his side of the story says alot..sometimes us women like taking advantage of situations.

I don't think the lady was truthful, there's no a woman who'll want anything from a guy who sacrificed her baby!

Who wants to get divorce settlement from a RITUALIST, especially knowing that the MONEY FROM YOUR DAUGHTER'S DEATH???????? Only a LIAR, a SCAMMER !!! That lady is way OLDER than this man and had a sinister objective to make money from this marriage from the beginning.

From my perspective. This guy has been a player and Linda was like “not with me” especially after having 2 baby daddies. She got attracted to this guy and made sure she gets pregnant whereas the guy was not there. She was desperate for stability and settling down which I feel sorry for her. So it affected her, she went extra miles to make it work and she relied so much on traditional healers. She also took advantage that this guy is a foreigner and now wants him to pay for getting a permit through her. All I can say is these two shouldn’t even gotten married or even moved in together but spiritual controls physical (only God knows what happened).

As a South African woman I really felt for her but now I believe this guy, the fact that she hid her 2nd child & pretended to have 1 says it all. Am proud of this guy for coming out & speaking his side, if all she had said was true, he wouldn’t have come out🤞🏻 As modern women we do not like taking accountability for our actions, she must also tell us how the other Babydaddy died. This guy seems like a responsible Man, she’s insecure & was in it for the materials. She’s also disrespectful by leaving the house while her Mother In Law was present, that says a lot about her🤞🏻

Just want to say I'm sorry to this man, cause I was too fast to say i believe the lady but now I think he is the one who is telling the truth here

Believed this guy 10minutes into part 1. She is capitalizing on the trending stories of woman being scammed. She is using other woman's pain to push her narrative. This is perfect timing for her to come up with stories so she can get money she didn't work for. He had the right to know what he was getting himself into and he was never granted that. Marrying a woman with 2children is not something to be taken lightly. As much as a woman with kids (myself included) deserves to be loved again, a man deserves to know what he us getting himself into. Her credibility is gone from the jump cuz she kept such a huge thing from him. He was patient with her even though she had more to gain. Let this man rest yho ha a!

Eyyyy I’m afraid this gents side makes sense and he ANSWERS THE QUESTIONS!! Which the lady couldn’t do 😭

This story is so consistent, I believe rhis man 100%

AFTER THIS INTERVIEW I NOW BELIEVE WHEN ELDERS SAY DONT ENTER INTO MATTERS OF 2 PPL

I believe this guy 🤞🏽

Someone asked this lady on tiktok tht how come she wants half on her divorce yet she claims it was frm sacrificing their child. Now she wants to get to get things frm this marriage to support the other kidz she had b4 meeting this guy. Ai ai she mst get it right so tht we dont support the wrong side, we wont take side or hate this guy jst bcz he is Nigerian no

😢 There Are Loopholes Here The Lady Lied About The Other Child 🙌🏽😮She Is Driving Porche And Wearing Expensive Clothes But She Was Not Taken Care Of 🤦🏽‍♂️ I Think She Is Taking Advantage Of This Guy Because He Is Nigerian

I believe everything this guy is saying, this is what South African ladies are doing to Nigerians, once they buy properties and having expensive cars, they start making up stories of this guy is this and that, why she didn't leave the guy when they were still staying in a flat not having what he has now, ai

I hate to admit it but the guy's side of the story makes more sense

I don't know why I'm feeling this way, but I'm starting to believe this man. If she can hide her own child, what more is she lying about?

To some extent, this man is telling some truth. Sometimes, some spouses can be so insecure and end up drawing up wrong conclusions

Owamie, you should do this often. Reach out to the accused and asked them to come and respond. If they dont want, mention it to us that.

*I said this before & I'm still saying it, this guy is innocent his crime was to meet a gold digger. I thank God he didn't end up being killed by izinkabi njengabaye abafwt*

The only reason she's accusing him of being a ritualist is because she went to check at some spiritual place, and the marabout told her "he is a ritualistic and he killed their two months old daughter for money ritual".The baby probably had what is called " Cot death" (due to aspirations of fluids into respiratory tracts, when a baby is laid flat in a cot/ bed, immediately after feeds). But yet she wants to keep her "daughters blood wealth by a ritualist"..! Isn't that ridiculous! She is much older (streetwise girl, with secret 2 old children, from 2 different fathers), wanted money & love by (assumed rich) Nigerians, and she trapped him with a pregnancy on "a one night stand " forgetting that he must have his own lovers then. Unfortunately, he loved & wanted to have children, hence appealled she kept the pregnancy...probably hoping love may come in, along the line. She was enjoying the wealth, except lack of love, (they were incompatible - different orientation and unmet expectations), and of course, the man has to purse where his heart & love is...which is definitely not with her! Now when the reality sets in, the relationship can't work, coupled with the unfortunate loss of the two-month old child, she's now on revenge mission...defamation, to get back at him..."if I can't have him, I'll destroy him, no woman can have him" kind of! All these years, Linda never saw any ritualist acts nor tendency by him, none wgatsoevein the house, over the years. Even all the cars & the house were gotten before the birth of the late baby! . Accusation is now simply based on her "visit to a seer, to find out the cause of daughter's death" (Isn't that fetish of Linda too?), and claimimg she was "told by the seer that he's the killer & a ritualist"..! What a sweet destructive revenge; greedily collect all he's ever laboured legitimately for, and "since he doesn't love me, if I can't have him, no woman will have him - I'll destroy his reputation"..! At any rate he's a Nigerian - "call a dog a bad name in order to destroy it"..! But remember Linda, you have a son between you both; think of his future & reputation, when he grows up & gets to know all this your manipulation of a "younger" husband..!Internet sure does not forget!

Love or hate Owami but my gosh you cant ignore the growth in every facet. From her use of the english language, her reading ability (she used to joke about how she reads English), video quality, confidence, nje the glow up. Im so proud of this woman especially when you know how she started. GROWTH!!!❤

Now it'd seem like, Ms. Linda just hated the fact that she fell for a guy who just wasn't into her, so she fought tooth and nail to stay in his life, but this further aggravated the problems because they already weren't jellying...kuningi bo!

Justice for the boychild she is taking advantage that guy he is foreigner 😢😢😢she has a lot of dirty laundry hayiii

According to what I've gathered, there was no love in this marriage, devorce is the only solution left for them.

It's always better to hear the other side of the story...big ups to the gentleman for availing urself and tell Ur side...kanti guyz y'all shud accept when things are over,the whole drama was so unnecessary

I believe this guy.

So she’s using TikTok and other platforms to get his attention since he blocked her?. 😭😭🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️😮‍💨 She’s on a smear campaign. 💔

I believe this guy because Owami didn’t prep him on the questions that will be asked, he is consistent with his story and answers. Anyone speaking for over 2hrs will have a dry throat so comments talking about him clearing his throat and his body language is just being bias because ubhuti wabantu is Nigerian so as SAs we conclude without listening that he is lying haiboooo

This is way i wanted the other side of the story.. Now we need the 3rd one which is the truth that’s them coming together with 1 story🙈😅 YOU GET😂

He never loved that woman. They should’ve just had the kid and coparent. This is a consequence of forcing things 😬

This was a very toxic household😒😒

If he doesn't end up suing or getting some form of retribution, this will allow more women to continue this kind of manipulative tactice - which would be devastating on a social scale.

Wabona why as people who don't have kids it is better for us to have kids with someone who doesn't have kids?

so glad we didn't have to wait too long for part 2

To my understanding the lady came in this relationship with lies about hiding kids number 1 , she wanted home in this young man , that's why she never drink the morning pill and she just wanted to control him which was not working for her and this guy is hurting inside I can tell he stayed with this lady because of his child not because love , and he was doing all out because he just wanted to stay what ever because of the child

mina i believe 80% of what this Guy is saying and 20% goes to what the Lady said 🤞🏽

I’m a South African lady and I know wherever there’s a situation involving a South African lady and a Nigerian man, a South African lady will play victim whenever she can’t get her way because the root of their relationship is the lady trying to benefit from the guys finances. This isn’t fair and we should hold our sisters accountable for being abusive and manipulative to these men. We should call our sisters out

I’m taking back my words, I believe him

The lady was also a serious problem

When you never meet a narcissist you are so lucky

This is why short men should stick to shorter women. A women towering over a man can cause inbalance in some sort of way.

Someone said, instead of doing uber eats with LV. Why didn't she sell LV if she was that desperate?

Eish guys kunzima, after this episode they should now both come together😂 but im serious, for the sake of ngwana (the child)...they should come to the show so that we can now properly solve the problem

This guy's wife never thought that he will call Owamie for an interview. Yooo this is very painful and sad too. How did they even get here.

Now that I have watched part 2 , I believe the man 🌚🌚🌚 his explanation makes complete sense and makes her story make sense

The lady is using social media to tarnish this guy. She must find some counseling and anger management.

Divorce is messy yoh! 😢

He must sue her for the accusations. I listened to all 3 parts of her story and there's nothing substantial to backup the ritualist accusations

This lady is taking advantage because this guy is foreigner, she is wearing expensive clothes but she claims she was not taken care of

They need to come be interviewed together. At this point even a lie detector test is needed coz my jaw dropped in both their sides of the story. Don’t even know where I stand now. But what’s clear is that they both had their own demons and weren’t ready for that marriage!

"I am a spiritual person" if this is the spirit of the living God, one will never engage in sexual relationships, one night stands ext.

When a Mgulukudu meets a Mgulukudu. I feel like they were using each other 😮

Part 2 got me. My question to the woman is why do you want things from a sacrifice of your child? Why not leave this man with his dirty money if its dirty. Also you two seems like you just have fights. Yall go for counselling and solve this problems. Yall have a child for God sake. What is this....

You handle this well O. Big ups

Ufihla abantwana bakho endodeni yhoooo hayi, Let's (as women) normalize working hard for our kids. You are a mother of 3 kids but you're busy following indoda ephandayo around instead of focusing on building an empire or a warm home for your kids!

I hope just let her take 50%,go for DNAs and also sue the lady for defamation of character

The lady played us. Same as those who plays with "R" word

This Abuu man, better get a DNA for all them kids. And his ashamed they moered this poor Abu man...this is really sad.

I was chilling here with my cup of tea and blacket 😂

In the video, she posted whilst calling him out, she sounded strong and powerful. She came on the show, played the victim, and spoke softly. She narrated her story in a suggestive manner. And most of the people who believed her did so because he is Nigerian.

One thin about "other" street girls no matter how hard u try they can never change,,Im glad this guy came out to give us his side his story and i believe him

when he asked help with their divorce ,then u know he means business.

How do you hide your child from your own husband. This lady is dangerous

The way I felt sorry for the lady 😳 at this point I'm just in shook! I'm so happy that this guy was given the opportunity to tell his side of the story🙏

This was a union of two toxic people who I doubt they ever loved each other, it was all about convenience & it back fired terribly to both,....I MUST ADMIT, I don't know what to believe here! 😮

Ngaze ngazithanda izindaba zabantu bethuna 😢😢

I believe this guy. The woman lost my trust the moment this guy said she hid her second child from him.

I think we don't need to blame the girl or this guy because we don't know who's telling the truth 🤞 both of them are defending themselves, and it's rare to hear a witch admitting that I'm a witch, that's my 2 cent advice

Okay now so far I feel like these are two people who got married with intention to gain something from the relationship, the guy probably just wanted spousal Residence Permit and the lady seems like she has self esteem issues, so she needed validation, money and the fancy life. The lady knew that this man doesn't love her. If a man loves you, he'll definitely make time for you and not give the phone to a friend to talk to you because he's busy?😅 Probably now that the guy has his permit, has been in SA long enough and have a child, he qualifies for a permanent residence, he wants out but the lady doesn't want to lose the riches, more so apparently she doesn't want work, so she doesn't want to let go. This is a toxic relationship, they both aboused each other, especially emotionally, both of them are dodgy with the physical abuse question. This is a Nigerian like movie script, they must just make a film and make more money and leave us out of it. Ladies Owamie has been saying, be financially independent so that when these 666s decide to leave, you still can start life somewhere.

For the fact that she hide the a child from that time the marriage,relationship was over

Aducated woman they don't do these if she was a working class all these things were not going to happen.

As a man, sometimes i think we should not be given voices or an opportunity to speak for ourselves...rather, we should learn to quiet and act on solving our problems....if he is innocent, i think he should give the wife 50% of what he owns and move on... talking or explaining himself will never solve anything

The man is a ritualist he sacrificed your daughter but you still want 50 percent of what the man owns which comes from rituals and sacrifice make it make sense plz

When it comes to him saying she doesn’t want to work; she just wants money. I’m sorry, but I agree with him. At least he did admit that his verbally abusive and short tempered.

I’m just here for Muphandi studio’s quality🔥🔥 Ma’am👏🏾👏🏾

I know both of these people and all I’m gonna say is this woman was a control freak.Anyone who knows them know that it looked like he’s scared of her whenever they were together Secondly she used to drink and smoke when she was pregnant(I have proof)…might be why they lost their child at two months old Btw I’m South African so yall please don’t think ke buwella the guy because ha ke mo buwelle Ngwanyana o was just there for vibes

Am a Nigerian but I will never make this sought of mistake pregnant or no pregnant rather buy tickets go back home Nigeria marry from my town not even from Lagos go to my province and get a woman of my statue I don't want no drama and heart break or disappointment no disrespect s.a but will never marry from here I have seen a lot and heard a lot I learn from other people mistake and save my self the drama. I have 3 friends in Durban that married the best women ever in s.a and happily married for more than 15years but the percentage of those good ones is too low maybe 15% out of 100% I can't gamble with my future.

They must come to the interview together

Owamie I think you should call both of them same time

I believe you my brother, i pray for healing in your life & to find a woman God intended for you🙏

This guy should bring receipts, we want that voicenote, the "fraudulent settlement" and everything he kept on saying "I can show you"

I won't judge anyone if I was in her shoes I was going to walk away and start all over inviting people in your problems just making it worse.

Now that I’ve listened to both sides….The lady I doubt her story

This is exhausting. Please go your separate ways

Why will the wife want to keep things from a ritualist?

Me just finished an arbitration case. Driving back to the office and listening couldn't wait for after working hours. Addiction to the queen ninjas scoops❤

As a Nigerian, its so painful that being a Nigerian has become a crime especially in South Africa. No one created themselves and no one chose where to be born. I pray God helps him

This guy is a liar. Y is he avoiding discussing about the passing of his daughter, his a real Narcissist. The girl is not totally innocent her self, I blame her for forcing the relationship to work out I blame her for not telling the truth about her son.

Her mind is to divorced this man for a property

mmmmmmmm, I am not buying this man's cool aid! He seems like he is lying a lot. I do think to a certain extent that girl kind of forced/trapped this man into a relationship, though.

I have listened to both sides of the story. I feel sorry for the man and I believe him. I think is a gold digger.

My guy you are telling the truth.

I believe this guy the girl was after the money

Owamie my dhiye you’ll forever be famous ❤

Hearing from both sides of the story moral lesson : never be quick to judge.. Fear women

Great interview....its always good to hear two sides of the story

in SA. lobola is in community of property. if there was no prenaptual. recognized by the courts

This guy's intention was very clear from the get go, she was not in love with the lady but doing it for the child, hence they were not intimate most of the time, well according to the lady. I don't believe he is a ritualist because during the interview he mentioned God. Nd he could have done it with the first child.

Man speak out, for the mere fact that you are a Nigerian brother, i know us souther sisters will judge you. This is your story and you deserve to be heared as well. I wish you both healing ❤️ 💕 and good life going forward.

She didn't mention anything about them having a son together if his side of the story is true, that lady deserves an oscar for acting.