You are one human relationship away from getting what you want in life

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In this video, I talk about the idea that men's pursuit of wealth is often driven by an unconscious desire to improve their love lives.
Surprisingly, it turns out that social skills, which are crucial for forming meaningful connections, aren't something we're naturally taught.
This means you can change by stepping out of your comfort zone to engage with others, even when it feels challenging.
I give you practical tips for enhancing your ability to connect with people around you, highlighting the potential benefits that even the simplest interactions can bring to both personal and professional aspects of life.
How can you start making more meaningful connections today? What opportunities could open up for you by simply saying hello to someone new? Watch the whole video to find out!
0:00 Intro
06:25 Talk to strangers
8:22 Shyness and Introversion
10:35 Red Pill Men
12:50 Strategy for talking to strangers
27:15 Pick up lines
32:55 5 Archetypes
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@tailopez 4 ай бұрын

Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 06:25 Talk to strangers 8:22 Shyness and Introversion 10:35 Red Pill Men 12:50 Strategy for talking to strangers 27:15 Pick up lines 32:55 5 Archetypes

@LashaNasaraia-ht3vt 4 ай бұрын

Seeking for the full Recordings or your talks! 😀

@tailopez 4 ай бұрын

Talk to 40 strangers a day to keep the anxiety away

@kamileleroyaI 4 ай бұрын

Will do. I’ll start with 2-3 and then progress from there.

@aaronjohnstone2800 4 ай бұрын

Nice pick up advice

@Joseph11193 4 ай бұрын

Can't keep up with my DMs it's insane lol

@weplayatnight3913 4 ай бұрын

@@kamileleroyaItaking the first step is important and I'm proud of you brother

@1987cz 4 ай бұрын

Bro physically talk to them or does digital count? Hard to find time to physically meet 40 people out in the wild on a daily basis..

@danwang6010 4 ай бұрын

Every time Tai talks, I can't resist to finish listening the whole video, its strange, anyone has the same experience? lol

@vixenvalenzuela 3 ай бұрын

Yes same

@jallen8862 4 ай бұрын

I deliberately started talking to strangers back in 2021 and it has changed my life. So much so, I started a podcast this year documenting the various people I get to talk. For every guest I book, there is 10 that won't ever be a guest but I still get to have a healthy interaction with them!

@TheGameofLifeTrueStories 4 ай бұрын

The Game of Life: True Stories!

@LennefalkStudios 4 ай бұрын

Proactively going out of your way to meet new people definitely creates unexpected opportunities 🌄 Keep it up! Greetings from a fellow KZfaqr in Beijing 🌆🏯😊

@kdc6884 4 ай бұрын

Crazy value in this video. Watching this over and over until it sticks in my mind

@tailopez 4 ай бұрын

Good idea!

@LennefalkStudios 4 ай бұрын

Going from introverted to constantly trying to network, present and publicly speak certainly have been life changing for me 😊🌄 Still introverted as default, but practiced extrovert traits 👌

@ColeHayward 4 ай бұрын

I feel the same way!!!

@tamikacoleman1878 4 ай бұрын

Tamika Coleman here and I have many takeaways. One major takeaway is that I’ve missed many opportunities that could’ve by now positioned myself financially. I will talk to more strangers so that the forward motion can begin. Thanks for sharing this Tai.🙂

@mindtheprivacy 4 ай бұрын

Agree PLEASE don't come up straight to us in a B line! Well just be scared, defensive, angry o prepared to hit and run.

@ChermaineLow 4 ай бұрын

Loved the robotic version of Tai. Key takeaway talk to strangers 40x a day! Thanks Tai more of this please 💖

@BubacarrJammeh-qf4ee 4 ай бұрын

Tai is always on point… love you bro. Genius

@TheGameofLifeTrueStories 4 ай бұрын

I took this to heart in 2021 and started a podcast in 2024 documenting the fantastic people I get to meet. To have one guest a week requires me to interact with at least 10-20 people a week to try to get them on as a guest :).

@seamussullivan2218 29 күн бұрын

That’s epic man, would love to connect on that !

@mindtheprivacy 4 ай бұрын

Even after all these years, I still kear everytime from Tai. He's so charismatic and entertaining. And I think he gets the poor and the Rich mindset.

@thetexassaint6571 4 ай бұрын

Man, I’m in sales but outside of that I’m not social at all. My party days(decades) have chilled but this has made me see all I’m leaving on the table

@tonyacourville1020 3 ай бұрын

I enjoy listening to Tai he is so motivated and gives me inspiration... Thank you for giving me hope to there's a better life than what I imagine it to be

@gsmith6733 4 ай бұрын

I loved this talk. Tai can take dry boring topics like behavioral psychology and make it sound so interesting and humorous at the same time.😂 Great content! Thanks Tai💖

@marketingopswill2738 Ай бұрын

So many good points here. So many of these dating coaches selling high-ticket products and making a killing have little verifiable evidence of their success - 99% of their content is them just talking to a camera. Also, Ive tried the approach he recommends against many times for years and this direct day game approach of saying you want to introduce yourself and you think theyre cute hasnt been effective for me. As you imagine, they're probably swarmed with men doing this all day and you just give away all your value and show you only care about her looks and it just makes you look low-value maybe even socially unintelligent and that you've already shown your hand. I wish the dating advice world wasn't so much garbage advice with good advice mixed in and you cant tell which is good advice.

@josephkurosky6073 4 ай бұрын

Such a great video and points Tai.

@Itsmypureworld 4 ай бұрын

11:39 Robot impersonation; well worth watching 🎉 … Love your content Tai!

@southsidepr6573 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this talk Tai!

@johnleesuccess 4 ай бұрын

keep up the great work!

@dondinero13 4 ай бұрын

Great video. Keep up the great content my brother. Much respect 🫡

@yosefineftw 4 ай бұрын

Im currently running workshops on social skills. And my first argument for why people need to learn this is exactly What your title says.

@tethron. 27 күн бұрын

Great one Tai

@Casarare1 4 ай бұрын

I love Tai. I always learn so much from him.

@ntebohengponoane1462 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Tai nice talk🎉🎊🎊

@leadgenjay 4 ай бұрын

Great insights on the connection between wealth and social skills. Networking is like compound interest for your social capital-the more you invest in genuine conversations, the greater your returns in business and personal relationships. Step out of your comfort zone today.

@happyserhii 4 ай бұрын

Well said ❤

@DrMohammadHasani 4 ай бұрын

tai this talk was awesome post more of these kind

@timothysullysullivan2571 4 ай бұрын

world class presentation and information

@LM-cl6ys 3 ай бұрын

Love this!

@neuroshockmount6475 4 ай бұрын

It makes so much sense that you are categorized as a Film Producer & KZfaqr. You're so much more though... I suppose you are one of those fellows who can drive down the cognitive autobahn. 🙌👏🙏🥋🙏

@rapoetry3851 4 ай бұрын

Tai, you the truth. God bless you.

@davidlees_brainboom 4 ай бұрын

That was awesome

@aaporter1028 4 ай бұрын

Amazing!

@aaronaround 4 ай бұрын

It’s crazy how the tides of attention change. People are slippin’ on the knowledge you put out for free 🙏

@andrews476 4 ай бұрын

I went to the seminar it was great!

@DI4MONDS. 4 ай бұрын

Ive been reading casanova too, very insightful. He was from the mid 1700s though and the book is only 220 years old not 450

@malikattar9484 4 ай бұрын

Great video

@joefdl Ай бұрын

gemss 💎💎💎

@carlosnieto_ 4 ай бұрын

Tai, we need the whole video pls 😊

@OwenCookSelfHelp 4 ай бұрын

On point 👏

@christianmoreno7390 4 ай бұрын

This is the best talk you’ve done Tai. Awesome job! I used to work at Best Buy & would converse with strangers all day. As a natural introvert, I would as able to develop a great skillset

@ShawneyeTech 4 ай бұрын

Thanks TAI❤🎉❤

@derrickadu-gyamfi4868 4 ай бұрын

Tai is just the best

@malikattar9484 4 ай бұрын

Thanks Tai

@chadkufro2336 4 ай бұрын

Tai, I love it when you talk psychology and philosophy. You should do more of this. I just learned so much

@AdventuresofanEntrepreneur 4 ай бұрын

Good Info Tai! Talking to Strangers Have changed my life in many ways

@chris_g_vibes Ай бұрын

40 is my new lucky number.

@zchristian10 4 ай бұрын

I've learned so much in this video, Thank you Tai 🙏🏻

@anthonys6494 4 ай бұрын

Tai is an OG. Amazing game being dropped 💪

@EnlightenedBro105 4 ай бұрын

Insane lineup here: Carl Jung, Jordan Peterson, David Buss, and Sigmund Freud.

@Them4evers 4 ай бұрын

😂😂

@TobiasTradingStocks 4 ай бұрын

talking to strangers is a game changer I will definitely travel more and talk to people on seminars I need to take less notes and become more outgoing

@farbeyondtrading 4 ай бұрын

How do we find this seminar? I love the chill vibe and want more

@RashawMusic 4 ай бұрын

Great info thanks fam 🙏🏾📚✈️

@FuriousWeasel-09 4 ай бұрын

Love this content 💪

@RomainSimar 4 ай бұрын

Please Tai for the love of god keep releasing this type of content … 🤩

@AMBecosystem 4 ай бұрын

Tal ,have you tried your theories in Saudi Arabia with women ..it could land you up in jail..everything works in sociallyopn place .and even in Saudi Arabia I guess I have the most success however your words and confidence is cool ..and yeah I agree with u,talking with a lot of people that help you learn a lot as I talk a lot in my clinic ,beaches almost everywhere .keybtobleaning is to observe and practice .cheers man

@lazydaddy1947 4 ай бұрын

If there’s anything I know is that I know nothing.

@marionbehrent7784 4 ай бұрын

Try think of Introversion and Extroversion in terms of stimulus. And how long periods or intense stimulus affects different people. We are not all psychologically the same with different ways of managing things. Introverts and Extroverts are psychologically different.

@marionbehrent7784 4 ай бұрын

An owl and a parrot are two different birds. (It's the closest analogy I can find)

@daniel_ftw 4 ай бұрын

Is this the event when you were at Brad Lea's studio?

@tayla3934 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for addressing a portion about women. I want to be social, but it doesn’t feel safe to so I continually use my RBF and I thought it was just me being paranoid

@neemafaustine9815 4 ай бұрын

@tailopez I am longing to hear from you on how to attract/approach high status men (for women only) you always say you dont have experience because you are a dude but any insight would be appreciated

@mindtheprivacy 4 ай бұрын

Tai, what if we are not attractive woman?

@steamer2k319 3 ай бұрын

It's tough but there are some things you can control: * Don't be out of shape. This will put you past a huge percentage of women. Even better if you're actually *in* shape. Not sure how much you can do with chest (maybe nutrition?) but abs and glutes should be in your control. * Have a friendly, nurturing attitude. Especially towards children. You can even "baby"/pamper men a bit if you get their permission. * Learn fashion/style/make-up. These can be done with greater or lesser skill. Men prefer women to have a natural beauty but we've also got to admit that makeup in the right hands can do very impressive things. * Develop other skills. If your goal is a long term relationship, domestic skills like cooking, couponing, interior decoration and sewing can add to a woman's attractiveness. Entertainment skills like acting, dancing, drawing, painting, playing an instrument, singing, story telling, etc. could help too. * Be fun. Nobody likes a dour fuss-monster. Play silly, meaningless games for the lulz. Laugh at off-color jokes if they're actually funny. Take some chances. Try new things. * Make sure your standards are realistic. There's a big difference between who's available for short-term vs. long-term relationships. Give shorter men a chance. Give working men a chance (e.g., ones who have rough hands because they don't earn much through scalable knowledge work). Give less physically fit men a chance.

@user3657 4 ай бұрын

This is probably one of the best personal development videos I've ever seen. Thanks!

@maritimemedium 4 ай бұрын

Rihanna 👑

@user-qm8mo1kp5v 4 ай бұрын

@user-ho6qu2qe9k 4 ай бұрын

🗣help

@LilBurpee 4 ай бұрын

I wasn't sure what to think of Tai at first but he is turning out to be 100% legit and insightful!

@anthonymarinello6008 4 ай бұрын

I thought you were just some internet bullshitter, but I read some of your emails when I have time. I have a job full of morons, and it's not good. I've actually learned some valuable information just from reading the emails. Thank you.

@learnwithgerald 4 ай бұрын

Tai a wise dude

@jbichotte 4 ай бұрын

Women are definitely more emotional, doesn't mean men are emotionless

@MarlonOfficial2 4 ай бұрын

Hope your doing well Tai. Plz keep sharing! Much love.

@adamalvarez4190 3 ай бұрын

👍

@antonioslentzakis207 4 ай бұрын

Wow , this stuff is a-m-a-z-i-n-g!!!!!

@bawpli 4 ай бұрын

Another one. Lets goo

@lisar.2549 3 ай бұрын

👍🏽

@Joseph11193 4 ай бұрын

I b line a girl a couple of times in high school she always walked away and I couldn't figured out why...💀

@Joseph11193 4 ай бұрын

I wish I knew about “mystery” years ago😂😂

@MAXKENT-mh7lu 4 ай бұрын

I practice picking up pretty girls....

@marionbehrent7784 4 ай бұрын

I suppose... If your dating life consists of nightclubs and conference networking..... 😶

@marionbehrent7784 4 ай бұрын

I personally found my best boyfriends in circles where I persued interests, hobbies and sports as well as family and small gatherings that weren't party or work-related 🤷🏼‍♀️ Conversations usually start off with 'Oh, yes please, Id love another slice of garlic bread...', or 'Do you mind if I sit here, the smoke from the fire is in my face over there...' No cheesy pick up lines, just comfortable talk.... This 'picking up chicks' vibe... It has a low success rate for long term compatibility in my experience.

@MexicoAdventurer 4 ай бұрын

Now that I'm "Well to do," I am stuck with a gripey, negative, insulting woman. Money changes nothing for the good with the woman you're with. So you better start off with a very good woman to begin with.

@laceywaggener1112 4 ай бұрын

Women are ✨visual✨

@UnmaskedTV-HOE 4 ай бұрын

SIR YOU ARE SPEAKING FACTS !

@marmeladovsvid 20 күн бұрын

I started making so much more money when i stopped listening to Tai's surface level speech patterns

@ChaniChastain-mi2xo 4 ай бұрын

Hi Tai ... From Chani🌹

@officialkoby 4 ай бұрын

What is the requirement for women to be attractive to these “James Bond,” like dudes?

@happyserhii 4 ай бұрын

Intellect

@officialkoby 4 ай бұрын

@@happyserhii not enough

@davidrubelowsky8348 4 ай бұрын

"Nothing is clearer in history than the adoption by successful rebels of the methods they were accustomed to condemn in the forces they deposed." - Will and Ariel Durant

@ChaniChastain-mi2xo 4 ай бұрын

Hi from Chani🌹