What Rei Kiriyama can teach us about depression. If you'd like to support my work: / thepedanticromantic Side/podcast Channel - / @pedanticromanticsmani... For occasional updates: / pedanticromantc
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@pramitpratimdas81987 жыл бұрын
""Phobias are by definition fears that are not rational. Rationality is not the way to go about judging psychological issues." Hit the nail on its head. 10/10
@auxchar7 жыл бұрын
Fuck me, I've been going about it wrong the whole time. Irrationally rational.
@auxchar7 жыл бұрын
Or perhaps unpredictably rational.
@tomasrosa54107 жыл бұрын
i saw this in the exact time he said it in the video. This happens few times and its always magical.
@znshuuichi97927 жыл бұрын
People are going to start looking at me weird if I start crying in the middle of my lunch break. I'm blaming you for any social repercussions
@Takumi_Did_Nothing_Wrong7 жыл бұрын
If those people look down on you for expressing your emotions, then they don't deserve your acquaintanceship. People who mind don't matter, and people who matter don't mind.
@ceicocat7 жыл бұрын
Zn Shuuichi same tho
@PinkManGuy7 жыл бұрын
Just act like 5:52 if anyone gives you the shit-stare.
@davey58672 жыл бұрын
That would be the case if you didn't have anything that you were watching in your hand
@animeking174 жыл бұрын
I think "his depression doesn't make sense" is something relatable to most of the people. We only see the problem in front of us and ignore the happiness and support we get just like Rei did. It's amazing to see Rei grow and become aware of those people around him
@TwinflameByond7 жыл бұрын
whenever Kyoko was on the screen, I felt like I was drowning
@Lilai11246 жыл бұрын
Twinflame Byond same! All the kyoko episodes felt like being strangles and thrown under that river. 😢
@evewhoo5 жыл бұрын
I honestly hated her when I watched and read the series... But I sympathize with why she became the way she did. Her father should not have favored Kiriyama. He should have encouraged all three of them equally. And he should definitely not have been so harsh with Kyoko. So I sympathize with her, but I don't like the way she took out her rage on Kiriyama.
@shirori20044 жыл бұрын
@@evewhoo I guess you don't quite understand what that really feels like then. Rei does love her despite everything and she loves him despite everything. Though their relationship feels weird it really isn't anything all that strange.
@lazybum97323 жыл бұрын
@@shirori2004 bruh she understands more than ur stupid weeb a** go watch some harem shit...no one likes the way this b*** treats kiriyama..its all in the past...FFS.. some moments she went WAAAY too far how she abused kiriyama with her disgusting words.. Lol..and this exact same b*** still follows the other gray coloured hair dude like some gold digger.
@shirori20043 жыл бұрын
@@lazybum9732 What is wrong with you exactly lmao
@rosedougherty75657 жыл бұрын
I can relate to Kiriyama's world view, though my own views are quite tame in comparison. The feeling that simply being is causing trouble for someone else is a familiar one to me. You help others almost unconditionally, yet fear being nothing more than a nuisance for those around you. Some would call it being humble, others a state of self-worthlessness. I see my own selfish gains in whatever I do, and I hate it. There's someone else who could do more than me, be less of a burden. I minimize my contributions and give that credit to someone else, because who wouldn't do better than me? Now, I say this not in self-loathing, but as a simple statement: There's always someone more skilled, always someone born with the talent you wish you had. But there's always something you can do to make the world just a bit brighter, that only you can do.
@centrist92226 жыл бұрын
Rose Dougherty it's an awful feeling.
@hialyssah4 жыл бұрын
i love this comment.
@dannykazari7 жыл бұрын
Felt like crying while watching this. Great video.
@ChiriVulpes7 жыл бұрын
same!! i got tears in my eyes and was trying to figure out why it had such an extreme effect. i guess maybe it just really struck a chord
@carlosdimas81595 жыл бұрын
I cried.
@callmepuzzle34337 жыл бұрын
momo is the most cute little thing to come out in anime 2016. if you think otherwise fight me
@jasminepreen41257 жыл бұрын
Call Me Puzzle but sweetness and lightning...
@akiamendoza88595 жыл бұрын
@@jasminepreen4125 close but not quite imo
@YawManzo7 жыл бұрын
This anime deserves more attention👏👏
@m.jackson68026 жыл бұрын
NHK no Youkoso, and now Sangatsu, are the only two series to date to hit me so hard in terms of their depictions of depression/mental health struggles. I think Sangatsu has a much more uplifting approach, which some may find unrealistic, but it's important nonetheless, especially for one like me who gets so easily trapped in the NHK mindset. So much respect for you for this video!
@upg51477 жыл бұрын
Truly a masterpiece anime! Everyone should watch this just for the enjoyment it brings, not just happiness but other emotions that some anime can only do during climax or key points. This show doesn't have those. Everything is just a spiral of different emotions and I love it!
@grrr13516 жыл бұрын
So much emotions conveyed in this series.
@CephasRed6 жыл бұрын
Rei is like a mirror image of me in the sense of why he and I feel depressed. I know that people who are kind to me like and love me for who I am, but I still believe that I'm terrible for not being able to pay them back and feel like a burden, but I will still help them and protect them to the death. I was an outcast most of my life and still believe it, even though I am trying to get over it. After watching the entirety of this series, I'm happy to say that this is the first anime I can turn to if I need my own pick me up. It's pure, it's lovely, it's beautiful, it's so, SO artistic, and the best i've seen hands down. Lots of love!
@PKMN6497 жыл бұрын
As someone with chronic crippling depression: thank you for this video.
@nosmaspelledotherwise94137 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another amazing video. You are truly awesome. Rei is a unique lead, one of the most phychologically realistic and hoenstly likable character I've seen in all of fiction, actually.
@idontgetthejoke79747 жыл бұрын
Damn this was a good one, even by your standards. I'm really loving this editing style and use of music. I feel like the general quality of your work has taken a huge upswing over the past two moths or so. keep that shit up dude
@morganlemons16947 жыл бұрын
Yes a video on this show!!
@Anastasia-ls8dd7 жыл бұрын
Morgan Lemons I know! The anime needs more recognition it's amazing!
@lampros11127 жыл бұрын
A beautiful video for a beautiful anime. Thank you.
@lilkampf44927 жыл бұрын
finally, someone ACTUALLY made a video about march comes in like a lion
@zeroyuki927 жыл бұрын
After Sukasuka, now Sangatsu no Lion? Do you intend to make a video for every under appreciated gems which became one of my favorites of the season? :D Sangatsu no Lion was the show that represents a person with depression with the best execution. Instead of making Kiriyama looks edgy or emo-ish, he actually felt perfect: A functional person that battles with depression almost everyday, had his energy depleted by guilt every time, yet keeps thrusting forward. I also love how the three sisters, Shimada, and that MVP Teacher became the best supporting characters in their own way. Their presence combined brought that second half into the best "Shounen Building Arc" that I ever saw. Not by giving him a "Hell Training Course" or by having him won seemingly impossible match, but by slowly resolving all of his internal problems that prevent him to maximize his shogi potential. Can't wait for the season 2!
@Kingjder027 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video on depression. I legitimately cried while watching it. However someone like me with manic depression it's hard to deal with at times. But still I really want to thank you for this video.
@missscarlett35927 жыл бұрын
I want to watch this series so bad, but am scared to because of my experience with depression lol. one day I'll feel strong enough, but until then, your review will have to do.
@JJHB7 жыл бұрын
Erica Ross Don't worry about it. 3-gatsu does have its depressing moments, but at the end of the day its main theme is an uplifting message of self-acceptance. Definitely would recommend it to a person suffering similar issues as the characters.
@Nr47477 жыл бұрын
You should avoid Bojack Horseman (an *excellent* show on Netflix) like the plague, then. But just like "March comes in like a lion" (which I haven't watched yet, but certainly will), you should give Bojack Horseman a try when you feel strong enough for it, it really teaches you hard truths about yourself and humanity as a whole that most people are hiding from.
@missscarlett35927 жыл бұрын
Nr4747 lol too late. Which is why I know to avoid this one. Bojack is amazing, but it hit wayyy too close to home lol
@cybnyf43376 жыл бұрын
Erica Ross you should do whatever makes you feels comfortable, and not do anything that will hurt yourself, 3-Gatsu actually kinda helped me deal with and think critically about my own issues. Like? It made me sad, but in a more temporary, 'I'm very touched by this,' way. That's just my experience with the show, though. It was unexpectedly cathartic for me. The whole show was pretty cathartic in itself, really... But I can definitely see how it can go the other way. Regardless, 3-gatsu is a beautiful, great anime.
@Endershock16786 жыл бұрын
I've watched it, but while it does get kinda depressing, it is always more heartwarming by the end, with it's messages of friends, family, and acceptance of yourself. BoJack Horseman, yeah, as fantastic as that show is, avoid it at all costs.
@tomjack10000006 жыл бұрын
I always come back to this video now and again. It always puts me in a better mood and gets me out off my ruts, thanks Pedantic
@_Yohanan7 жыл бұрын
This video made me understand the characters and their relationships like I hadn't before, it made me appreciate the show so much more. Thank you so much for this video, I'd knew about your channel before and seen some of your videos which I thought were pretty good, but this one finally convinced me you deserve my subscription, keep up the good work!
@Jediahgames6 жыл бұрын
I removed this from my favorites just so i could put it in again on the top
@moshi12247 жыл бұрын
Great video! This is probably my favorite one you've done yet. I love the show, and you explained some of it's themes very well. I can't wait for season 2.
@adz45286 жыл бұрын
Ahh this was just fantastic. It's analytical videos like this, that really make you appreciate a series much more, after watching it. I can't wait for S2 in Fall. No doubt this series will go down as one of my personal favourites of the year.
@ProfessorMightypie7 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos you've made, keep it up. I love how you were able to convey a strong atmosphere and tone with this.
@Southrobinart4 жыл бұрын
Nice video. In some parts, it felt like I was reading a literature essay on Sangatsu and reading a bit deeper into the show - which is a positive thing. I relate deeply to Kiriyama and the struggles he faced. The show was excellent in touching on depression and showing how one works around it, and even bullying to some extent. Thanks for making it and getting more people to watch it.
@AustinLegendz7 жыл бұрын
It's a great show. Can't wait for 2nd season, and you actually helped me understand it a bit better as well. Great insight!
@BakuSenpai7 жыл бұрын
Another great video (and one of my favorite series). You knocked it out of the park, looking forward to your next video.
@emikotagahushi9416 жыл бұрын
I already love this anime, but you’re able to articulate so well what Rei is going through that I’m able to appreciate the anime even more. Although I had these inklings, it’s hard to put into such clear and meaningful words. Well done! :)
@kiriyamadesu28353 жыл бұрын
This anime is one of a kind. It does not aim for greatness unlike those big time shounen. It's subtle and calm as it goes with the flow. It's soothes our mind as if we are in Rei's point of view. I just can't help but smile most of the time and then suddenly tears fall down. A masterpiece that doesn't need words to prove its greatness.
@ZarikZX7 жыл бұрын
You talk your ideas so good sir. I can't stop watching your videos because of it.
@philf.56767 жыл бұрын
Love the anime. It became one of my all-time favorites almost instantly. Really glad seeing people talking about it. Awesome video, almost cried tbh.
@sk3tchyguy7 жыл бұрын
Loved this show, your analysis was spot on.
@MrIvanm106 жыл бұрын
This video hit me right in the feels! Seriously awesome video!
@aime70355 жыл бұрын
Man, I'm so glad this video exists. Thank you for putting into words what I could never have.
@haldir1087 жыл бұрын
I probably needed this series, but nothing in the first episode and a half made me want to keep watching it. I think that condencing it down like this did me a large favor, because if nobody did, i wouldn't have really gotten anything out of it, but now, i got a few tears and the catalyst for some introspection-time. Thank you, Pedantic Romantic.
@hialyssah4 жыл бұрын
this was really beautiful and well-said and put together.
@karutacowboy74777 жыл бұрын
Great Video! Glad to see 1 on this series! It definitely deserves more attention, even if I personally didn't love it.
@callmepuzzle34337 жыл бұрын
super happy you made a video on march comes in like a lion, it deserves the recognition
@windsexiled28197 жыл бұрын
The story, the atmosphere, the first op and ed song is so damn good. Never in my life i feel like some connection to the character like Kiriyama. It hit me hard, but it gave me something more precious in return. This show is good, its a self reminder for us not just as an anime viewer but as a human being. A better human being. :)
@TheOfficialHerb7 жыл бұрын
I loved this show so much. Great video!
@Scrubsexplorer7 жыл бұрын
Finally! The video i waited months for.
@jadecrassula71057 жыл бұрын
Sangatsu no Lion quickly became one of my favourite anime and i am so happy that there will be a second season 💜 i loved that every single element that went into a scene--the ost, the voice acting, the art style, the animation, the colours--was created to take the most out of all our emotions. Thank you for this beautiful video!
@Lore-ys4rr6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video.The guilt that Rei feels in his relationships with others is painfully relatable to me and many other people.And after finishing the first season,I kept wondering if I will ever find my own kotatsu.I hope I will and I hope whoever is reading,will as well(English is not my first language,so I don't know if that last sentence is correct but you get the idea xD)Again,beautiful work.You've got a new subscriber.
@savajho54687 жыл бұрын
This anime was a plan to watch for le but it wasn't that much of a priority to me. Then i saw this video and realized that it should be a priority, because i can relate to kiriyama so much it's scary
@nekoandkopi5 жыл бұрын
You know what? I have saved this as an mp3 and i listen to this every time i'm depressed. The songs are heaven that adds much more feelings here. Thanks :3
@HeavenShallTremble7 жыл бұрын
SToped the video halfway through, I need to see this. This will shatter me
@_Digishade_7 жыл бұрын
I was following this show while it was airing, and was blown away that nobody, *nobody,* was talking about it. It's so good. Great stuff, man.
@cmatioski6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I was looking for a video to show my friends, because season 2 is around the corner and I need to share this anime with the world. This is amazing! The explanation about Rei and depression both are on point. The video itself is composed of so many images that illustrate the text without spoiling the story. I will share around!
@scottsilent59687 жыл бұрын
HELL YES. My Favorite Analyst doing a review of my Favorite Anime of 2016.
@AdeptSlayer6 жыл бұрын
Great video. This was the one that got me to subscribe.
@soeningsoening31745 жыл бұрын
I love this animation. Love the story and love the way they present. Thanks to creators of this amazing animation
@nodisponible87 жыл бұрын
Ogh, this show really IS special, it's one of my favourites. It's so nice to see it appreciated
@YuuChanneru6 жыл бұрын
I'm very happy about how you analyzed Rei and about what you said.
@xrubyxlightx6 жыл бұрын
That momo scene (4:07) legit made me tear up when i was watching the show lol. Aaahhh i need to watch season 2 soon :D
@smolpun84137 жыл бұрын
Damn man, the way that you talked about this anime was beyond beautiful. Everything that you said was something that I thought, but you found the right words to exactly convey it. Man, this anime was a great find and you were too.
@furude79364 жыл бұрын
A little late, but my dude! This was such a well crafted video, not only did you dissect the heart and soul of the show, but you presented in such a well manner, amazing commentary skills my guy!
@watagashi_mitai5 жыл бұрын
Soooooo... I'm currently binge watching your videos and I just wanted to say you're probably my favorite aniyoutuber.. and I've been watching several recently. I really love your videos on 3gatsu particularly because I frkn love that anime so much and also you, uh, talk good. Lol. Yours is the only channel that I've actually clicked on so I can watch basically everything from the very beginning. So, like.. yeah. You're awesome. Keep doing your thing!
@NoWaifuNoLaifu6 жыл бұрын
So succinct. Beautifully written, friend.
@emanx2226 жыл бұрын
You sir, just earned a sub, absolutely amazing!!!!!! You explained everything so perfectly and you just seem like a super awesome guy!!!!!!!
@redmangoose1826 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal video!
@kongmoua25883 жыл бұрын
Stumbling across this channel and specifically this video, I really want to rewatch Sangatsu just to see the happy side. I remember watching this when I was a bleak person, but now years have passed and I see the joys of life so to say. I still have ups and downs, but I have a move forward mindset. Those moments with the sisters and grandfather really made me feel like they were welcoming me the viewer into their home. Hope more gets adopted otherwise I'll have to buy the manga when I can.
@omfgsunny7 жыл бұрын
i love this analysis a lot- sangatsu no lion quickly became one of my favorites, rei is probably one of the most relatable characters for me of any anime ive watched lol
@arigat-o96703 жыл бұрын
This show NEVER fails to make me smile.
@Sargan016 жыл бұрын
Very good break down of the internal struggle of kiriyama.
@animeentranced11307 жыл бұрын
Nice video, whole time i was watching this show i kept saying to myself; "this show gets depression".
@caterine46045 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFULLY EXPLAINED
@erisgudajunge7 жыл бұрын
Dude I would have loved to watch this show with you! Inceredible show, awesome analysis!
@drlongshaftmd7 жыл бұрын
when i saw the visual similarities between this and your lie in april, it immediately put it on my radar but i never got around to starting it. gonna go start it now, thanks for giving me the push
@slowghostly3 жыл бұрын
i am so excited to see the video essays that'll come out once there's a new season and it catches up to where the manga is right now (which i recommend reading if ur a manga person) especially THAT scene which left me so flabbergasted and gives me chills whenever i think about it... also the storyline around it is really profound and interesting but like god. that scene. there are goosebumps all over my body just from writing this comment. anyway i love the manga despite it being super text heavy shogi explanation a lot of the time bc everything else makes up for it. also this is a lovely video and i feel like you'd appreciate a lot of the art imagery that hits in a very lovely different way in the manga :) 頑張りましょう♪!
@dustkicker58866 жыл бұрын
I relate all too well to Kiriyama and to your point of view in this video. I appreciate this video much
@dustkicker58866 жыл бұрын
I look forward for more reviews like this, and even more about animes from my favourite studio- Shaft!
@ninjammer7267 жыл бұрын
great show
@fawad94076 жыл бұрын
Well said and concise!
@davidrahn99037 жыл бұрын
I need to stop binging your videos. They are so well written and so well edited that I just have to continuously put the anime you discuss on my "to watch" list and it just continues to grow larger.
@rowanatkinson35945 жыл бұрын
Well this one hit real close to home
@thabassum04666 ай бұрын
I've seen a lot of Sangatsu no Lion videos and this is the only one that touches up on his relationship with Shimada and Sensei. Overall, its really good :)
@ZweihanderSteve7 жыл бұрын
Great video. This may be avoiding your writing, but you really brought my attention to the potency of Sagatsu's soundtrack.
@sam.00216 жыл бұрын
this is probably your best video.. but maybe thats because im similar to rei and i loved this anime and your analysis always makes me happy
@MrFliffi7 жыл бұрын
i just completly got the show. now i want to rewatch it. this video was great :D
@fdthqwerty7 жыл бұрын
Your cameo in Explanation Point's vid was great.
@amigodeku6 жыл бұрын
Hello, first of all I wanted to say thank you very much for making this video about March Comes in Like a Lion, I am Spanish and after finishing watching the two seasons of this incredible series, I started looking for opinions on KZfaq in the hope of finding myself with people who liked this series as well as me, to my surprise I only found people comparing it with other series that do not look like anything or that criticized it because it was "boring" or "at the beginning it was good and now it sucks", Although I do not understand much English I started looking for videos in this language with the hope of finding what I wanted, a video that would do justice to this masterpiece, and although I found some very good videos recommending the series with a lot of positivity, I have to say that Your video is the one I liked the most, you have perfectly understood the series, you have even said things that I had not noticed, it is a joy to hear how you talk about this series, how it has come to your heart, How it happened to me, so much so that I'm going to buy the manga that has recently been licensed in my country ^ ^ again I'm very very grateful for your video, I will follow your work very closely, I wish I could give you a thousand likes, a heartfelt greeting.
@amigodeku6 жыл бұрын
thank you very much for letting me know, I will be very attentive to tomorrow, I really want to see it ^^
@KevinBrooks_c6 жыл бұрын
I love this anime and had watched the first season four times before the second season came out, and cry more and more. While the second season seems not as good as the first one until now (S2E3), hope the tempo will come back like the first season. This is the greatest anime of all time, even better then every movie. It's not about story, not about telling things, but about life, a life that is so true, telling something so deep inside.
@suchibratasaikia9844 жыл бұрын
I have no words for this anime...too incredible. Feels like an ocean and a gush of wind and some heavy downpour at the same time
@martecoronel7 жыл бұрын
I really loved this anime and I'm also very eager for the 2nd season. The anime pictures so well the emotions on Rei's mind. It really gets to you.
@ElysianLys7 жыл бұрын
Just as emotionally poignant as the show it's dissecting-- fantastic work on this video, thank you for giving Sangatsu no Lion some extra appreciation that hits all those soft, tender spots right where it needs to.
@SummerOtaku7 жыл бұрын
I love this show
@Shebeast34 жыл бұрын
Amazing 💓
@xibalba1am7 жыл бұрын
I had a hard time watching this show because it hit a bit too close to home. But you made a great analysis of the show that makes me want to give it another shot!
@Mariusweeddeath7 жыл бұрын
This made me sadder than it should have.
@silverflower16693 жыл бұрын
Like, I just want to hug the dude.
@prinhime946 жыл бұрын
I love this anime for its complex depiction of people and minds. All the feels it makes me feel.. because I personally can relate to Kiriyamas mind set so well. Sometimes.. if someone offers you kindness.. and even though you feel happy about it, it makes you feel sad and lonely at the same time. It makes no sense. But like you said. Emotions and fears aren't logical. Is it weird that I love to watch stuff that makes me cry and feel all kind of complex emotions? Sometimes I wonder if I am just tired of crying over my own pointless depression?
@KumaSelf6 жыл бұрын
An amazing watch. Sangatsu is the best anime for 2017 for me.
@sanjanaanan37717 жыл бұрын
I really am looking forward to season 2 and more manga updates too of this series.
@davedude12237 жыл бұрын
Rei is basically just me in anime form. This anime hit me unlike any other.
@stronghold81623 жыл бұрын
I love is anime, and this is your first vid i watched. Guess I'll suscribe...
@mightbejoe64987 жыл бұрын
thank you
@PinkManGuy7 жыл бұрын
Damn it, Pedantic. I'm trying to have a life. Stop showing me all these amazing shows.
@Hagita7 жыл бұрын
As someone who is currently caught up to the manga, I highly recommend reading it. Your points about Rei finally being/finding a way to be useful result in one my favorite arcs in manga period and a shining example of Rei's growth as a person. I cannot recommend the manga enough.
@bill_goldenjw80237 жыл бұрын
The nature of the show prevent people from praising it directly and loudly; Its a priceless feel that you hold quietly deep in your heart. That's a shame but also its saving grace.