You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know: Uncertainty In a Changing World | Keren Eldad | TEDxFarmingdale

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For too long, people have believed in and relied on what they “know,” - what they’ve learned in their narrow life and professional experience. It’s how they’ve hoped to avoid the pain of uncertainty and make life predictable. In the face of epic global changes and change in private life - people will find that surviving - and even thriving - will entail cultivating something different altogether: embracing uncertainty, and accepting that you don’t know what you don’t know. This talk illustrates how this paradigm can apply to any situation in life and will teach anyone to use awareness and techniques to stay open and improve their adaptive capabilities towards the creation of new possibilities for their life.
As a business coach & speaker, Keren Eldad (“Coach Keren”) is a trusted advisor to industry-leading executives and superstar entrepreneurs who are setting records at the top of their fields. Since 2016, powerhouses have sought her out to help them make significant breakthroughs in the profitable growth of their business while revitalizing their energy and defining the meaning of their entire lives. Over the last three years, Keren has developed a measurably impactful and streamlined executive coaching process to do this, while working with top organizations including: J.P. Morgan, Christian Dior, Van Cleef & Arpels, IWC, Waypoint, Beyond Capital, YPO- and more.
A diplomat’s daughter and graduate of the London School of Economics, Keren speaks five languages and can easily relate her message to anyone and everyone, including her social media following of 150K. Having served in the Israeli army and emerging into coaching from crisis counseling, Keren believes in service and humor as a way of life, and comes in focused on adding value and making things better in yours. As a coach, she is accredited by the ICF, WCI and TTI Insights (ACC, CPC, CEC , C.P.M.A., C.P.B.A., C.P.T.A.), and is a top-level Crisis Counselor with Crisis Text Line.
As a business coach & speaker, Keren Eldad (“Coach Keren”) is a trusted advisor to industry-leading executives and superstar entrepreneurs who are setting records at the top of their fields. Since 2016, powerhouses have sought her out to help them make significant breakthroughs in the profitable growth of their business while revitalizing their energy and defining the meaning of their entire lives. Over the last three years, Keren has developed a measurably impactful and streamlined executive coaching process to do this, while working with top organizations including: J.P. Morgan, Christian Dior, Van Cleef & Arpels, IWC, Waypoint, Beyond Capital, YPO- and more.
A diplomat’s daughter and graduate of the London School of Economics, Keren speaks five languages and can easily relate her message to anyone and everyone, including her social media following of 150K. Having served in the Israeli army and emerging into coaching from crisis counseling, Keren believes in service and humor as a way of life, and comes in focused on adding value and making things better in yours. As a coach, she is accredited by the ICF, WCI and TTI Insights (ACC, CPC, CEC , C.P.M.A., C.P.B.A., C.P.T.A.), and is a top-level Crisis Counselor with Crisis Text Line. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@nadineneza5732
@nadineneza5732 2 жыл бұрын
If u can't live with uncertainty u will kill possibility "thx for this😍"
@MiamiBeachDrew
@MiamiBeachDrew 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful points about being mindful... stepping outside ourselves to see people and the world objectively so we can understand and connect with others. If we are lucky, we can bring them along this journey of learning and existing more comfortably together.
@greenbangla4436
@greenbangla4436 4 жыл бұрын
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@chee5935
@chee5935 4 жыл бұрын
Always be kind, because you never know what's going on in someone's life.
@monickporter262
@monickporter262 2 жыл бұрын
Such an inspirational message. We do need to take a second look/be more understanding in all situations before we go off. No one knows the cross another is carrying. Let’s be more careful of our actions especially in these trying climate
@Unwind321
@Unwind321 2 жыл бұрын
Moving from problem focus to solution focus my bread and jam for the day. Thank you.
@brpitrepeters7983
@brpitrepeters7983 3 жыл бұрын
I was sitting in an AA Meeting feeling sick,, shaky,, anxious and depressed.. a well dressed clean young man sat beside me.. I told him my name and asked for his it turns out he had just been released from prison and his nerves were bad.. I learned a lesson that things are sometimes not what they seem.. it was a good lesson...
@chrislecky710
@chrislecky710 4 жыл бұрын
I know enough to see what your doing.
@marccordon8928
@marccordon8928 4 жыл бұрын
Love this!!!!
@Death-_-Bed59x_x
@Death-_-Bed59x_x 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@WhatEver-ks4ry
@WhatEver-ks4ry 4 жыл бұрын
I think she had a moment of clarity!
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah she looked out the window for a brief moment and not the whole duration of the flight, she would rather be preoccupied with the baby who also did not get a window seat.
@vumsang9746
@vumsang9746 4 жыл бұрын
Speak from your heart ♥️ thanks 🙏🏻
@laurenobryan2081
@laurenobryan2081 4 жыл бұрын
Super insightful talk! It's great advice to take a step back and consider what you don't know in a given situation. It's way too easy/natural to conjure a story to explain away problems, challenges, the behavior of others, etc. Allowing yourself to indulge in a false sense of certainty indeed can lead to misunderstanding, miscommunication and missed opportunities! Tough to remember when you're in the thick of it, but so critical to living a healthy and mindful life! Thank you for the great content, Keren!
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 4 жыл бұрын
You should fly less and roadtrip more.
@acealexander9070
@acealexander9070 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. This is very good. I hope many people around the United States and around the world see this. It could do a lot of good I think.
@nadineneza5732
@nadineneza5732 2 жыл бұрын
''Doubt is uncomfortable situation but certainty is ridiculous one''
@Siwiec555
@Siwiec555 4 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite Coach Keren talks to-date. Everyone should watch and take note!
@susanlafayette7313
@susanlafayette7313 2 жыл бұрын
Possibility is always perfectly possible !
@jamblob3208
@jamblob3208 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the way of doubt, non aggression and hard times since you know also what you don't know, that is planning.
@AlexanderRodriguez-ni4kt
@AlexanderRodriguez-ni4kt 4 жыл бұрын
Optimism
@gloriagrebner6881
@gloriagrebner6881 4 жыл бұрын
Sooooooo deep
@RealCrazyCoolYT
@RealCrazyCoolYT 4 жыл бұрын
Of course I know that I don’t know what I don’t know. It’s a no brainer. Obviously if I know what I don’t know then I know what I previously did not know.
@kellyrestagno4523
@kellyrestagno4523 4 жыл бұрын
Love this, and Coach Keren. Too often we jump to conclusions and pass judgement without the full picture
@bridgetward8282
@bridgetward8282 4 жыл бұрын
Brifgeteatd
@susanlafayette7313
@susanlafayette7313 2 жыл бұрын
Dignity i really dig it !
@AdamDadson
@AdamDadson 4 жыл бұрын
Always appreciative of Keren's content. It's thoughtful, helpful, and purposeful. Therefore, I find it helpful.
@marciaalves782
@marciaalves782 3 жыл бұрын
You are truly an inspiration. Thank you!
@michelleshuffett3717
@michelleshuffett3717 4 жыл бұрын
Great talk! And a perfect reminder to approach everything in life with neverending curiosity...
@daisybeestv
@daisybeestv 4 жыл бұрын
Needed this today. So true. We don’t know what we don’t know. Trying to be more positive about our future at large. Great Ted talk!
@chrislecky710
@chrislecky710 4 жыл бұрын
She took the words right out my mouth. Lol
@vandammesfrostymullet6435
@vandammesfrostymullet6435 4 жыл бұрын
And I do know what I do know which is I don’t know what I don’t know
@yttrends6647
@yttrends6647 4 жыл бұрын
trueeeeee 🤣
@JohnRambo1947-July-6th
@JohnRambo1947-July-6th 3 жыл бұрын
Yet I know what I know , but I fail to know what I don't know. So therefore, I dont know what I know.
@samanthony6282
@samanthony6282 4 жыл бұрын
You don’t know what you don’t know, that’s true. In your story her husband left her and that translated into a positive message. The opposite can also be true where in a situation where you are positive and made certain decisions based on that but the positive ness was not warranted. Then that decision was in fact an incorrect decision.
@paddydiddles4415
@paddydiddles4415 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, but if we know certain truths, which are logically incompatible with the hypothetical unknowns, then this is sufficient to exclude the unknowns. The argument that ‘you don’t know what you don’t know’ doesn’t stand up if they can be logically discounted
@matthewscunningham
@matthewscunningham 4 жыл бұрын
Also could of ask the mother if she need help
@aaronwalderslade
@aaronwalderslade 4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@cjhepburn7406
@cjhepburn7406 4 жыл бұрын
Didn't they serve milkshake on that plane? Just askin'...I mean kiddin'...
@prashantpandya9250
@prashantpandya9250 2 жыл бұрын
Not always...
@justinread4381
@justinread4381 4 жыл бұрын
Yea lest all hold hands and pretend everything is ok. Hold a cup of water over the child's face and wait till the legs stop moving.
@pinupgirl9160
@pinupgirl9160 4 жыл бұрын
Justin Read I am very interested in your comment, but do not fully understand what you’re saying. Please elaborate?
@blacksabbathmatters
@blacksabbathmatters 3 жыл бұрын
I know what you dont know
@FranInd10
@FranInd10 3 жыл бұрын
Vi la foto y pensé q era Martu Morales.. la chica Tik tok
@roshagawa
@roshagawa 4 жыл бұрын
‘... two other brilliant israelis.’ Implying that she is also brilliant... ironically high on the Dunning-Kruger curve!
@kereneldad2960
@kereneldad2960 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Sir, D-K indeed would have been very ironic as it is in itself a form of cognitive bias AND the total opposite of the whole point conveyed in this talk. I made that statement - as many others - as a joke - and one that made the audience laugh, though it was not audible. I am sorry this did not land, and so appreciate your taking the time to watch and to comment. No matter, I hope you appreciate my taking the time to reply to you, too. I wish you all the best.
@1spitfirepilot
@1spitfirepilot 4 жыл бұрын
Rather clearly a joke, not a boast.
@kereneldad2960
@kereneldad2960 4 жыл бұрын
@@1spitfirepilot Thank you.
@roshagawa
@roshagawa 4 жыл бұрын
Keren Eldad dear Keren, thank you for taking the time to reply. Clearly, my radar for self-deprecating humour was not good enough to detect yours that day. So I politely withdraw my unfair comment, and wish you many good days and all the best!
@kereneldad2960
@kereneldad2960 4 жыл бұрын
@@roshagawa It takes such courage to write this, Rosh. It touched my heart. Thank you and I hope we meet again. Warm hugs, Keren
@chrishanstad2524
@chrishanstad2524 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know that.
@chrisgutsie5320
@chrisgutsie5320 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone knows your the best. But I don't know.
@shastamiller9088
@shastamiller9088 3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the great work dhar Mann helping the people do the right thing
@firestormlivingsolutions
@firestormlivingsolutions 4 жыл бұрын
I'm from Western Canada and people there have a long fuse but at the end of that fuse is SSS : shoot, shovel and shut-up.
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 4 жыл бұрын
You guys need to hug more racoons and stop making them hats.
@firestormlivingsolutions
@firestormlivingsolutions 4 жыл бұрын
@@firewater9465 you need to stop shoving them up your Khyber Pass
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 4 жыл бұрын
@@firestormlivingsolutions funny how some make a mountain out of a mole hill
@levimassiah372
@levimassiah372 3 жыл бұрын
Cbndvfff
@firestormlivingsolutions
@firestormlivingsolutions 3 жыл бұрын
@@firewater9465 lol fair enough
@dimitrisblane6368
@dimitrisblane6368 4 жыл бұрын
What is the opposite of the condition she is talking about? Like if someone over-challenges what they think they know? That you dont only "see one way out of this" but unlimited ways out of this, to the point that a choice becomes almost impossible?
@MAMP
@MAMP 4 жыл бұрын
I would say that condition is called "existential OCD". You can google it if you want to check it out.
@johnobrien6560
@johnobrien6560 4 жыл бұрын
No, you don’t know what I don’t know.. much more dangerous
@cry9302
@cry9302 4 жыл бұрын
Hmmm yes, the floor is made out of floor
@JohnRambo1947-July-6th
@JohnRambo1947-July-6th 3 жыл бұрын
And the floor that is made out of floor, what is the floor composed of? I just know the floor is made from floor, but I don't know what the floor is.
@rosapisces1422
@rosapisces1422 4 жыл бұрын
77
@williambruckner4457
@williambruckner4457 4 жыл бұрын
Heads up. The polar bears are doing fine. Seems they multiplying.
@mockingbirdarmada
@mockingbirdarmada 2 жыл бұрын
"What is the biggest rock?"
@WhatEver-ks4ry
@WhatEver-ks4ry 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't the moral of this story don't judge till u walk a mile in there shoes ! And isn't she projection her own issues!
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 4 жыл бұрын
It's pretty hard to squeeze into baby shoes pal.
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 4 жыл бұрын
Baby Maradona kicks my chair....heck I kick my chair too. Baby knows what we forgot.
@MarkMiller-zm2th
@MarkMiller-zm2th 4 жыл бұрын
Now go and tell that to the leaders of all the countries in the world, people are mostly good, governments go to war
@InvincibleExtremes
@InvincibleExtremes 2 жыл бұрын
She's lying about that little boy. I hate lying.
@carolleekleber
@carolleekleber 5 ай бұрын
Farmingdale deserves better discovery.
@mohammedalathamneh937
@mohammedalathamneh937 3 жыл бұрын
Something my great religion Islam taught us.
@user-rm5ld3gr8t
@user-rm5ld3gr8t 4 жыл бұрын
خاتمتنا في
@toussaintbonaparte5533
@toussaintbonaparte5533 2 жыл бұрын
Speaking of mothers, Has she done a video on the Israeli soldiers using unarmed pregnant Palestinian women for target practice? Seriously, I would like to see it.
@mikekosak9598
@mikekosak9598 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine if Trump had people block the way of reporters photographing "kids in cages"?
@keithshelton3683
@keithshelton3683 2 жыл бұрын
So how were you wrong at the start
@davidhuerta446
@davidhuerta446 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@latishamalika1
@latishamalika1 4 жыл бұрын
Did she just say "going Israeli on a kid? I think I have heard enough
@love_fleurette
@love_fleurette 4 жыл бұрын
How tall was that two year old ?
@terki77momo63
@terki77momo63 4 жыл бұрын
Love Fleurette my be the mum she was tired sick having problems that not making her bad. Women
@latishamalika1
@latishamalika1 4 жыл бұрын
Zionists dont like short humans ..I would say very short
@greenbangla4436
@greenbangla4436 4 жыл бұрын
I
@paddydiddles4415
@paddydiddles4415 4 жыл бұрын
Unusually short, am guessing no more than 5 foot
@tammypowell1368
@tammypowell1368 4 жыл бұрын
CERTAIN--JESUS IS COMING BACK SO VERY SOON 💯✅🎉🎉🎉😁👍🏻
@hectorcastro347
@hectorcastro347 4 жыл бұрын
John Devine we have to be able to see
@lifeonwheels5756
@lifeonwheels5756 3 жыл бұрын
@@firewater9465 that happens to me all the time. I hope it doesn't mean we will end up with Alzheimer's one day
@firewater9465
@firewater9465 3 жыл бұрын
@@lifeonwheels5756 D B
@billyshears6622
@billyshears6622 2 жыл бұрын
I always wonder if these anecdotes are made up.
@calebproductions5970
@calebproductions5970 3 жыл бұрын
More absolute lies and confusion don't listen to anything tedx says it's all dis information
@RUNU69
@RUNU69 4 жыл бұрын
Is this woman an Israeli?
@kuvarkuvar4885
@kuvarkuvar4885 4 жыл бұрын
It doring
@casperme6552
@casperme6552 4 жыл бұрын
Why can't you just avoid the mother with the small child? Seems perfectly reasonable to me. Also, the Jewish stereotypes got very boring, very quickly.
@ydoc6982
@ydoc6982 4 жыл бұрын
M Mknkmkovikkm M in kk England I
@paddydiddles4415
@paddydiddles4415 4 жыл бұрын
Obvious and self indulgent platitudes
@narcisbardan3284
@narcisbardan3284 4 жыл бұрын
L l pl kP ,plum uiy bn
@patrickong2843
@patrickong2843 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you should tell people what it means to enter God's temple. I know the who what when where why and how. If you are not talking about prayer, you know nothing.
@marcef100
@marcef100 4 жыл бұрын
TED, just keeps getting worse & worse!
@bulenthasemoglu610
@bulenthasemoglu610 2 жыл бұрын
Scammer
@carolmurray1927
@carolmurray1927 4 жыл бұрын
Omg! Who are you?! Get yourself some psychiatric help! I hope you have no children
@JohnXOsterman
@JohnXOsterman 3 жыл бұрын
What a pretentious presenter...
@raphaeljasi5517
@raphaeljasi5517 3 жыл бұрын
Cognitive dissonance is a thing!
@bobogilvie7820
@bobogilvie7820 2 жыл бұрын
all these ted talks. are starting to sound the same. same cadence. same initial story. same ending. I'm out.
@bulenthasemoglu610
@bulenthasemoglu610 2 жыл бұрын
Scammer
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