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@TheDFM007 Жыл бұрын
My girlfriend told me one day “If you come home on a new motorcycle we’re done” she was a finance major and critiqued my spending which was annoying. So being the dude that I am I went to the dealership and bought myself what I wanted with my money. She dumped me and that same night another girl messaged me to “take her for a ride” I definitely gave her a ride on and off the bike. A week later my ex gf calls wondering why I haven’t called or texted once and wants me to come by to “talk”. I stopped by and she offered me thing previously not available on the menu. I left with a smile on my new motorcycle thinking “Man I wish I got this bike sooner”
@blakeh6250 Жыл бұрын
Well played Chris..I did the same thing with music instrument gear.. Women will never rule me and they know it from the start..
@edldl1110 Жыл бұрын
I have a similar situation presently unfolding. I got a nice german car last year when I barely knew this girl. Now things are "more serious", and she told me she wont "allow" me buy another expensive german car, because "we" have more important things to spend in... I said, ok, and started to look the 2023 dealers cathalog for my new ride next year. Im positive she will make a scene, but will not leave me. If I cave, Im dead on the water forever
@samanthajones3082 Жыл бұрын
My niggaa
@thomasshort1784 Жыл бұрын
@@fml5910 Especially when it's YOUR money paying for it!
@thomasshort1784 Жыл бұрын
@@blakeh6250 I make it a point to let one KNOW (if she's staying at my place for whatever reason) that if she doesn't like my rules, she knows where the door is!
@chiefrunningbear5028 Жыл бұрын
You become alpha for self improvement. Impress yourself with your work results. You're not doing it for them. You're doing it for yourself.
@muskokamike127 Жыл бұрын
and even if you don't become stereotypical alpha or what Rich et al say you should be, who the F cares? You do you and whatever works for you. I don't rely on anyone to define me......
@iSony123 Жыл бұрын
Yes and try to believe this everyday!
@andyc3012 Жыл бұрын
If you can't fight and not ready to fight to the death today, you are not alpha. If you are sick/ill, you are not alpha..
@muskokamike127 Жыл бұрын
@@andyc3012 lol "if you're ill" you're not alpha? Did you just pull that out of your ass? lol You forgot one: If you make ludicrous criteria to be considered "alpha" you're not alpha.
@iSony123 Жыл бұрын
AndY C Lucky not everybody is alpha. All would be death 😂
@Buildingexcellence11 Жыл бұрын
Once you unplug, you can see who’s who. The real eye opener is not only when you realize what you’ve been but also what those around you are. Especially friends
@journeytothevoid2899 Жыл бұрын
So true man, I didn't realize my own power and unfortunately short comings as well. I actually have a decent position in life but a lot of room for improvement which is exciting. My friends, some are too far gone, some are naturals and most are somewhere in the middle. Got to disconnect from the comforting lies and be the main character in your movie.
@clownworld4655 Жыл бұрын
Yup and you can always relapse. Dated and lived with my ex for 1.5yrs woke up one day and realized I don’t even like her and the relationship sucks and I promptly dumped her. Ever since then I see all the shit I was putting up with and wonder why I was blind to it before (never anything real bad, but shit like masculine attitude, majorly exaggerating her value, etc). She also stopped taking care of herself and got fat as hell while I’ve been religiously working out my entire life and regularly have people ask if I take steroids. Luckily I’m not dumb enough to get married or have kids, but I’ve been wondering ever since how I fell for her bs after already being redpilled. I think this all stemmed from not listening to my gut in the beginning and second guessing myself, since this girl was good on paper, but in reality she’s a mess. Back to the drawing board I guess
@MrDrew2121 Жыл бұрын
@@clownworld4655 This world is a “Salad Bar” you get to make the salad you want ok again the salad you want to eat. Make it for you
@jonasvg6189 Жыл бұрын
Exactly that, and when you realise your close friends look up to you and start giving you comments about how you "fuck all them hot girls", it's time to find new friends because you don't want betas to orbit you and drag you down.
@apontutul Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. I hate my previous version
@AndreKnox11 Жыл бұрын
Knowing the knowledge while refusing to apply it to your life is called PURPLE PILLED.
@therealdb95 Жыл бұрын
Making up terms like the trans community my guy
@smexyapman Жыл бұрын
The worst color of all the pills
@mikeb8342 Жыл бұрын
@@therealdb95 his term IS made up.... like all others. Pretty sure "purple pilled" has been around a while.
@Son-of-Krypton Жыл бұрын
Men should focus transition to red pill… don’t complicate it cause it leads to relapse 🤔
@AndreKnox11 Жыл бұрын
@@therealdb95 red pill = awaken. Blue pill = unaware. Red and blue create purple. You seriously need to think before you say things that make you look stupid. Purple pilled is a term made far before I used it. Sometimes I'll never understand how idiotic some of you will make yourself look.
@TriggermanEst91 Жыл бұрын
My dad simped to my mother till she divorced him after cheating on him. My dad disappeared when i was 15 into a depressed life of his own remarrying a controlling woman while hes zombified on meds and living off VA benefits. Im 31 now, raised by a women who used older men her entire life and never purchased her own things untill her 40s (shes still single in her 50s) Ive seen the power of women first hand during my childhood. Ive spun plates through my twenties and had my born again moment after a DNA test saved me from a terrible parental obligation. Ive learned not to chase women. If she wants you she will come and get you. Women are covert specimens. Stimulate her mind and she will spend her time trying to figure you out. Do not focus on women, focus on the prize which is yourself.
@sido5857 Жыл бұрын
My man👍👍👍
@shakespeare_hall4788 Жыл бұрын
Truth! 👍
@editorahumanas5345 Жыл бұрын
unluck for you, you will never be a unpluged alpha....single mother's child is a failed case, sorry
@xxx_vltr_xxx6794 Жыл бұрын
you did not only seen the power of women but also the weakness of "men"
@editorahumanas5345 Жыл бұрын
@@xxx_vltr_xxx6794 he is doom
@GaryFowlerPiano Жыл бұрын
If she calls you an “asshole”, you’re alpha. Take it as a compliment
@stealthtomcat4739 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@Asdfbedffhdsxe345 Жыл бұрын
Lots of people have called me an asshole, but they know where they stand with me
@bb-us4ew Жыл бұрын
Been called that plenty
@your.dark.lord. Жыл бұрын
yep. I remember as a kid teachers made us vote who was the nicest guy in class. I didn't win by far, and was disappointed because I wanted to be the first at everything. Years later I realised winning that wouldn't have been any good at all ; )
@fernandocastro3531 Жыл бұрын
Wow.....never thought I was until now. 🤣
@jordansjournal3077 Жыл бұрын
It comes down to this. What do you do when no one’s watching? That’s the ultimate test. That’s being the person you are.
@Son-of-Krypton Жыл бұрын
Alpha is a mindset… Change your mindset…. Change your choices…. Change your life !
@tprnbs Жыл бұрын
@@alonzor.2912 your way of life is determined by you mindset, isn't it?
@cdee3 Жыл бұрын
@@alonzor.2912 his point is everything stems from the mind first.. that’s the root of actually becoming. Tighten up king.
@AMarie_USA Жыл бұрын
It's a mindset but it's also executed actions living an entire lifestyle from that mindset. That's where those who are not Alpha miss the boat on how to DO it and live it.
@Son-of-Krypton Жыл бұрын
@@cdee3 that’s what I was pointing out. Life cannot change without a better mindset that makes better choices that turn into actions. 🤔
@na-dk9vm Жыл бұрын
@@alonzor.2912 daddy chill
@brunoamore5112 Жыл бұрын
Watching Rich in front of your girl is like handing out 48 Laws of Power to your worst enemy 😂
@defidemon1763 Жыл бұрын
I am 46 my dad did not teach me how to be a man and then died. I hope learning this stuff now is not too late
@Son-of-Krypton Жыл бұрын
Sadly a lot of boys face that dilemma… A strong father is very important for boys 🤔
@FloridaManConstruction Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss brother. It’s never too late to grow! Good luck
@kevinclement158 Жыл бұрын
Good luck brother✌️
@dreadfuldeadlinesessaytuto3892 Жыл бұрын
It's never too late, bro! Remember, it's not where you begin, it's where you end up 💪
@jackflash6618 Жыл бұрын
My dad was emotionally disconnected when I was growing up, so never learnt masculinity. I found the Redpill 2 years ago, I’am 47 and my life is much better, You soon realise just how bad womens relational aggression is when you find the Redpill, best thing is watching them react like children when they can’t emasculate you, I had 3 chicks last week try it, thing is I always start out respectful to them then they start there shit tests, an soon as I push back, you get the shaming tactics, threat narratives etc etc etc. 😂😂 being masculine is empowering
@justadutchman5169 Жыл бұрын
Always a good moment to listen to uncle Rich, just the right amount you need to hear to get you back on track. 👊
@ibelieveitcauseiseentit9630 Жыл бұрын
You're not an alpha if you call yourself an alpha, or you talk about alpha.
@seanweir7311 Жыл бұрын
Getting mommy involved isn't Beta or alpha. It is the failure to grow up. Male or female doesn't matter. Had a girlfriend in my 20's who went to her parents for help with every single complication or hardship. It drove me nuts. They knew everything and of course everything was my fault. She needs to run from this guy.
@charlied8882 Жыл бұрын
Suspended adolescence
@MeloraBeecroft Жыл бұрын
My husband’s parents were dead and it was a huge plus. My ex constantly begged his mom for money. My parents didn’t help me at all. I had to survive in the wild. I think that was for the best.
@n.a.792 Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t want her man to be Unplugged. Shes asking Rich to teach her man to be more “Alpha” and take his mom out but Really what She’s trying to do is to get his mother out of the equation so it’s easier to control him.
@drewsears2959 Жыл бұрын
Can honestly say, I have never heard that phrase. "Be Do Have" maybe variations of it, but never distilled like that. Thanks for the teachings and examples Rich!
@LordVader.66 Жыл бұрын
You either are, or you aren't. A king is not a king, if he has to announce that he is the king.
@11cacoo Жыл бұрын
thank you mr. lannister
@LordVader.66 Жыл бұрын
@@11cacoo 😁 I am glad someone got that reference. Still is true regardless
@rachelparradelong Жыл бұрын
This was great. Thanks for sharing! I would also say, a man who has to remind you that he is an alpha is not a real alpha. Like the Tywin Lannister quote “ any man who has to say I am the king is no true king.”
@jonasvg6189 Жыл бұрын
I am the king
@drummerboy737 Жыл бұрын
@@flanderg123 Why wouldn't a God be allowed to merely state objective truth if it existed? The alternative inevitably leads to a negligent God which can't exist.
@xxx_vltr_xxx6794 Жыл бұрын
These guys are doormats, they are the ones who follow anything of what an authority says, they believe in the words of frauds because it suits their beliefs. These guys will be peter pan up until they think in hindsight. Just like Lord Cuckatron they will cocoon themselves in meaninglessness to achieve nothing and to achieve copedom.
@seanhoude Жыл бұрын
I've often thought in terms of being the man you aspire to be, doing the things you want to do, and thereby having the life you want to lead. Similarly, to friends chasing women, I've told them to just stop. Build the life you want to have, and women who want the same thing, will find you. But Be-Do-Have says it so much more concisely. Thank you.
@Obeivrteico Жыл бұрын
I experienced it myself by posing to be an alpha. You can't act for long. You have to be in real life. Become one
@bb-us4ew Жыл бұрын
Also read about stoicism in ancient history, Julius Caesar, Augustus men that were iron willed and bent for noone, good read will def help on your road to being alpha. And no you cannot fake it till you make it you are or you are not .
@SprezzaturaLifestyle Жыл бұрын
and how to?
@a.j.bandido8739 Жыл бұрын
Hey Rich, got your book, am almost halfway through, just when I thought I knew all the wild ways of women your book gives me even more insight.
@alanrogs3990 Жыл бұрын
The first rule is don't give a guy money to teach you about women😅
@lennyboudreau1192 Жыл бұрын
Discovered you recently, reading your book, already being to do to have… Thanks :)
@onemanschorus12 Жыл бұрын
That's a gynocentric definition of "alpha male."
@gsadventures678 Жыл бұрын
Solid video! You pull no punches and tell is like it is. Respect
@sprezzatura8755 Жыл бұрын
Be, Do, Have. Excellent. Thanks Coop!
@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels Жыл бұрын
Some great, straightforward as ice at the end there. Thanks, Rich.
@bradfordhogue136 Жыл бұрын
It is one thing to know the path. It is something else to really walk it.
@muskokamike127 Жыл бұрын
He's also saying here you can't just walk the path, you have to BE the path lol......
@melvinmungai1062 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely loving the scenic backgrounds you drive by. I'd humbly request for more of this please, really appreciate the nostalgia
@dont6441 Жыл бұрын
I think you missed the point.
@kevinobrien9510 Жыл бұрын
Awesome as always Mr. Cooper!!….thank you ✌️🍀
@DevsScents Жыл бұрын
The "Be, Do, Have" thing That was powerful.
@ralbatros9 Жыл бұрын
I think being an Unplugged Beta is the real problem. It is so dangerous for men to “know” the thing, but not do the necessary work for it. They simply see that they wil not be an Alpha… They think the game is over for them. However, I guess the journey to become an Alpha is “being an Alpha”… Do the work Brothers! Your mindset, your body, your resources, your social skills can be improved a lot! I am doing my homework. At the age of 41, hitting to gym 4 times a week, trying to learn new technical skills, trying to expand my fucking comfort zone… I was unplugged last year by this gentleman in the car… since then I m better and better. If I can do sth, I am sure you can do much better. Stop talking, start walking!
@rogertheartfuldodger Жыл бұрын
So you're an "alpha" now, huh? Let me ask you this: are you in a happy relationship with a women since you become an "alpha"?
@ralbatros9 Жыл бұрын
@@rogertheartfuldodger yes.
@ralbatros9 Жыл бұрын
And I am not an Alpha… I m trying to get better everyday.
@rogertheartfuldodger Жыл бұрын
@@ralbatros9 : Interesting response.
@cybershift1156 Жыл бұрын
Recently found your videos Rich. I like the content and I just ordered your book as well, hope to join the community soon. Cheers.
@ChrisProutyVideos Жыл бұрын
Man, I've never felt more inspired to make a lasting impact on the world. Thank you for your time and wisdom!
@alanrogs3990 Жыл бұрын
Make an impact on yourself by knowing God. Give the world the finger
@mrgregw Жыл бұрын
She doesn't want her man getting other people involved in their relationship so she gets Rich involved to help her manipulate and control her man. What about women fighting their own battles? I don't know why the guys watching Rich's videos in front of her?
@dougackerman4182 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the video Rich
@immortalis8580 Жыл бұрын
I agree with some of what was said, but I definitely disagree that women are the sole determiners of who is Alpha.
@shiz2832 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@InfoSuperhighway Жыл бұрын
Women have learned the lexicon and define “alpha” as do what women want. It’s getting subversive out there
@Seminal_Ideas Жыл бұрын
Thanks Rich. Wish I'd known this stuff back in the day. I didn't have a clue and paid the price. Big style. In my 50s now and been through the school of hard knocks but still in there.
@aurinator Жыл бұрын
Boiler Room is arguably underrated, but was surprised to hear it name-dropped; you're actually describing people doing "Act As If" in regards to Alphas.
@adrianhuizar275 Жыл бұрын
Been listening to this pc for a while and I love the fact that certain issues or advice is being brought up to me that I wasn’t exposed to as a kid. Not having a firm father figure really f*ckd me in some ways but now that I’m older and able to actually think/act for myself to do better, I’m taking advantage of knowledge like this. I hate how people depict all this men help pages to be toxic it makes almost no sense to me…
@rogertheartfuldodger Жыл бұрын
Let me ask you this: are you in a happy relationship with a woman?
@bobhouse9331 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video, very relatable, I'm watching because I've made massive mistakes. Time to learn and not repeat.
@buddsidewinder7778 Жыл бұрын
love your work brah...and you are 100 percent right
@inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905 Жыл бұрын
Good stuff man.
@MrKumpus 12 күн бұрын
Thnaks a million for your words.
@ericmoore9444 Жыл бұрын
I’m a beta but I’ve been able to stand up for myself more. Still have a lot of work to do to get more alpha or at least less beta.
@dont6441 Жыл бұрын
You don't need more alpha or less beta, you need to become an alpha. There's no middle ground.
@bb-us4ew Жыл бұрын
Eric the best of luck to you, your Acknowledging those facts.keep learning reading, working on yourself, dust off some hobbies , go to the gym, eat healthy take care of the man in the mirror.
@ericmoore9444 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your encouragement. I will keep moving forward.
@franciscorbin2036 Жыл бұрын
Just keep going. Nobody has courage at 1st, thats why its called courage, soon u will wonder why u ever did it any other way at all.
@Andy-Andeee Жыл бұрын
Something that I like to use if you're overthinking that's a sign that you're underdoing and vice versa
@Budai85 Жыл бұрын
@ 10:29 "Don't just read, learn and understand; you have to go beyond that. You have to become. You have to be" Well said.
@jumhed994 Жыл бұрын
Just don't be a walkover and be prepared to walk away when/if she gets demanding and stupid.
@bb-us4ew Жыл бұрын
That's it don't put up with her b.s period walk the walk talk the talk there are plenty of women in the world don't have f.o.m.o
@annc560 Жыл бұрын
When my son got married, I told him, "the only thing I ever want to hear about your wife/my new daughter if things are rocky is "we're working on it' " Don't involve me, AT ALL. Figure it out between the two of you, or ask a trusted male whom you respect & is successful in relationships. Keep me in the dark. I don't want to know. I don't need to know.
@michaelscofield1771 Жыл бұрын
Chad momma
@xxx_vltr_xxx6794 Жыл бұрын
Why did he cut me out of his life?
@coolbreeze9713 9 ай бұрын
That's not right, throwing him below the bus.
@annc560 9 ай бұрын
NO. Staying out of his marriage, and keeping the relationship good between me and the woman he married. It's about maintaining neutral ground, so both of them get equal treatment. I would not accept her bad mouthing him either. Involving me - the mother - is unacceptable and unwise for everyone. @@coolbreeze9713
@j.borchard2208 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always understand an Alpha Male to be a Man who’s a natural leader of Men and Women that are willing to follow His Advice and Directions.
@Thramak Жыл бұрын
I'm unplugged but not Alpha, I don't know if I ever will be. I understand why my marriage fell apart, I understand that my sacrifices meant nothing, I also understand it will probably happen again. You often talk about leaving a dent in the universe, for me that was having a successful family. I have one son who I managed to get 65% custody of which is more than most get, but it's not really I saw things panning out. I moved to a foreign country to be with my ex wife who was my partner for 14 years. Looking back I think the point that I chose to relocate (5 years in) was the beginning of the slow decline. I'm now trapped here, social life imploded, no family. But you know what, it never stopped me trying to improve myself. The family home is mine now, new car at the door, my son loves me to death. I'm dating for the first time in my life and have had quite a bit of success, but keep people at arms length. I don't know if I will ever let someone get that close to me again, because I know that at my core I'm too susceptible to trying to please people at the cost of my own happiness, and that is what I still struggle with.
@cluggyahoo Жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to that Tony. Went through basically the same path and decided years ago to live the rest of my life on my own terms and that inevitably means not get into a relationship. I go out with women sporadically and that's all, I just don't want to get involved and get sucked into more bs again . Life's too short. Peace is paramount to me
@Thramak Жыл бұрын
@@cluggyahoo Yeah I get that, I don't know if I can commit to never having another relationship, but marriage is one and done, living together is probably off the cards too. Part of me thinks there is still time to have another kid, and get my happy family. But knowing all I know now, and having seen so many people go through Divorce for the crime of being with someone for too long really puts me off the idea. I carry guilt about my sons broken house hold, even though I didn't cause or want it. I do not want to inflict that on another child.
@Son-of-Krypton Жыл бұрын
When you said it will probably happen again….that immediately made you beta… an alpha mindset at least doesn’t repeat same mistakes….example: if you can’t find and be with a right woman…at least don’t settle for a wrong woman…again !
@mikeb8342 Жыл бұрын
You have a son and a good relationship with him.... why would you consider another wife? I can't understand the part about repeating your mistake. 2eto though...
@Thramak Жыл бұрын
@@Son-of-Krypton Well that stats don't lie, failure rate of 2nd marriage is 80%? "Probably fail" is relating to that. I guess you could say being Alpha means you are going to have a better shot in being in the 20% that keep it together. But why put yourself in that risky position to begin with? The country I live in doesn't have any laws to protect non married couples, so I just simply won't be marrying again anyway, there's literally no benefit in it for me.
@maxsoloman4548 Жыл бұрын
Always informative
@MasteryOrder Жыл бұрын
Entertain yourself with other information as well. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
@davemustachio2734 Жыл бұрын
My oldest brother tries to convince people he’s an alpha. He still gets our dad involved in his life when things go wrong. It’s sad really.
@alanrogs3990 Жыл бұрын
Dad is okay, to an extent. But only if the dad isn't a beta weakling with your mom.
@scottprince4506 Жыл бұрын
just joined!!! good video
@cobZweb Жыл бұрын
Thanks Rich!
@motivationalcookingwithand2272 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct!you got to first be then do, = have. This has to be a personal transformational philosophy that you believe and bring out from within. Otherwise your just performing a false act. For many of us it may be not only changing the spots of the animal, but change the animal itself. Keep going at it and it will happen. This has helped me.
@Steroid_Frog Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being honest here... Yes i see a lots of bullcrap in the manosphere, a lots of buy this and that but they are easy to see thru.. I like the raw message you deliver, it saves time, and time is money... be careful, OPP are everywhere..
@rnt45t1 Жыл бұрын
I'm so alpha, I haven't even had a woman in my life for over a decade. I serve no one.
@InteractiveIdea Жыл бұрын
I had two women last week. I served them my 🦴 and one of them swallowed it. Lol
@_lonelywolf Жыл бұрын
You're not alpha if you choose to watch this video in order to find out whether you're alpha or not.
@humansvd3269 Жыл бұрын
I don't care, I want to improve.
@dankirslis5279 Жыл бұрын
I only know one man (a coworker) who calls himself an alpha male and... 1- Nobody at work follows him or wants to follow him. 2- the women won't initiate a conversation with him. 3- the women at work don't think he is an alpha (believe me I asked them all). 4- He invites me go out to bars, nightclubs and poker games with him but if I invite him to go workout, hiking or boxing he isn't available. 5- I challenged him to a boxing match and he said he would need 5 months to get back into shape, and a week later he chickens out. 6- The one woman at work he wants to date the most is an older single mom with 2 baby daddys, tattoos and a nose piercing.
@bb-us4ew Жыл бұрын
Just like an earlier post said if you have to say your alpha your not alphas just do no talk .
@fml5910 Жыл бұрын
tattoos and a nose piercing or what I call bull nose ring lol. Huge turnoffs to me.
@FloridaManConstruction Жыл бұрын
How do you not have 1M subscribers yet? Thanks for all your insights over the years!
@houstontexas5486 Жыл бұрын
Simple because he isn't an alpha
@martysilber916 Жыл бұрын
I wish I knew everything like this guy. Chicks? What is this-1955?
@tomasliptak6401 Жыл бұрын
Rich, have you ever considered using a dashcam for videos? I think it might be more inviting to make the viewer feel like they see what you see when you drive and it might be a very refreshing experience.
@amandaburleson2035 Жыл бұрын
my dad was a pimp, he was rich , had buisnesses and money, he also cheated on my mom and made her cry a couple times i remeber, but she stayed with him and whatever he said goes... so now i know she was a good girl
@alanrogs3990 Жыл бұрын
He couldn't stand her that why he cheated. I'll bet there are things you don't know about how evil she really is.
@jimmyjuju Жыл бұрын
There are grown men who still get their mother involved in their relationship issues? Oh my God. If I were a woman I wouldn't date these men either.
@kamilmusalat Жыл бұрын
What about women getting their mothers and sisters involved? I find that pretty immature as well? What do you think?
@JohnnyRebKy Жыл бұрын
I grew up watching John Wayne movies and Gunsmoke. So I thought men were supposed to act like and look like John Wayne and Marshall Dillon 😂. It wasn’t to popular in High School but as a adult the ladies love it 👍🏻. Men that wear jeans that fit and cowboy boots do quite well in this world of betas. The show Yellowstone has really revived women’s fascination with rugged “ cowboy” type men lately so I’ve had lots of luck 🍀 lately Of course it’s not something you can fake. That doesn’t go well. I’m a tall rugged farm Boy so it works for me. I’ve always had sort of a “ John Wayne” attitude and the grit to back it up.
@midasapprentice8670 Жыл бұрын
'Preciate the gem.I gotta start watching Yellowstone.
@JohnnyRebKy Жыл бұрын
@@midasapprentice8670 it’s a really good show man! Starring Kevin Kosner. The women are just crazy about it lol. The masculinity of the guys on the show have them all hot and bothered 😂
@SunRise-ul7ko Жыл бұрын
Fake it till you make it.
@xtremerv3574 Жыл бұрын
It is not enough to have game, you must become the game.
@aslkdjfzxcv9779 Жыл бұрын
...if you talk about alpha way too much.
@Margarro23 Жыл бұрын
This is good rich. Thank you.
@iczerman8655 Жыл бұрын
Referencing 7:50 in this video. To me it's frustrating that one can" Become,Do ,Have' and still be subject to a woman's judgment. But that's the reality of the situation if you want a woman in your life.
@xv9dl Жыл бұрын
I just bought and read your Unplugged Alpha book. I think it is spot on when you talk about American /Canadian women. Some Asian cultures are different. Asian women are into money no doubt, but are much more loyal and are there for a long time ( i guess as long as there is money). I think Eastern Europe women and Thai women have a lot of red flags. In general, Vietnamese women are far more reliable and trustworthy. Just stay away from women in bars (in any country). Viet women are into maintaining their extended family. As long as you are an Alpha and help the family( act as the head of the family if the patriarch is gone), you will be fine. No need to spend huge amounts of money. A loyal Viet wife/gf will take good care of you. If you want to be Alpha you need to do the work. That also means spend some money maintaining the family. A cheapskate is not viewed as an Alpha.
@c.q.mcwilliams282 Жыл бұрын
Always, always, always put yourself and your goals first. Everything and everyone is a distant second. Move on and be the guy you always wanted to be.
@alanrogs3990 Жыл бұрын
You must always put God first. Have no anger.
@mck1972 Жыл бұрын
' You're not an Alpha If... ' Is this like a Jeff Foxworthy routine??
@drincogni Жыл бұрын
A guy in UK once told me south asian women, indian pakistani etc are like dry coconut ,brown or black on the outside but white on the inside.I apologise to coconuts for that.a real alpha doesnt care what women think! A tiger cares what a deer thinks?🤣🤣🤣
@harrymckenzie3725 Жыл бұрын
Ah, knowing how it works is already way better than being completely oblivious. But then to really apply it in real life is a whole different ballgame. It means taking on years, decades of deep-rooted conditionings, core beliefs that often have formed since early childhood. My experience is that this means a lot of work and facing tons of shit coming up inside and in your life, depending of the severity of the conditioning. All these KZfaq channels about how you can change yourself and be the best version of you is great but it's just not for everybody. For most that are embarking on this path, becoming slightly better, slightly more accepting than before, or even experiencing a little relief over the years is more realistic.
@ethanhitchcock5431 9 сағат бұрын
The present trendy/fashionable way to adapt for a man these days is to put on a spring dress ,makeup , heels , etc.. , then get upset when someone calls you a ' MAN ' ! WHOO-HOO !!...or " YOU-HOO !! "
@emac1804 Жыл бұрын
Not alpha if you’re watching videos about why you’re not alpha.
@tonymarinelli7304 Жыл бұрын
My grandfather told me from day one to never pursue a woman, act like you can’t be bothered and never kiss their ass, do that and they will come to you. Guess what? It works and always has for me. I was a touring professional musician and I’ve had top notch women from all over the world cater to me.
@SirInsaneJP 8 ай бұрын
In my opinion, this is the best comment in here. Same has worked for me since I started it in college. High school I was a beta. Once I learned to not pursue, dont be bothered, and not to kiss ass, seemed as though women started pursuing me. Love your comment and your grandfathers' words are very wise.
@GaryFowlerPiano Жыл бұрын
A woman determines if a man is alpha or not, the same way us men decide whether or not a woman is Feminine It’s what we find attractive in a chick and we know it when we see it
@VoiceOfThe Жыл бұрын
Tailored shirt looks nice, Rich. Blue really suits you, goes nicely with the salt & pepper. Women like navy blue on men too, I’m reliably told.
@gtcam723 Жыл бұрын
Why is he wasting time arguing with her???
@jayydave9 Жыл бұрын
As An Indian I want to ask her , does she live with her in laws under one roof ?
@Eun2k Жыл бұрын
Sometimes comments sections for these videos are second hand embarrassing and so is some of the mindset, honestly. Red pills, blue pills, spinning plates, etc...all cringe-y stuff. Reality is, there is a very small percentage of what's actually considered Alpha male. Thing is, same is true for females! Here is some advice, take what you need from videos like these, but don't worry about fitting some bullshit mold. Maybe try to be a little better each day and live your life/chase the dreams you can. It's actually pretty simple...male or female...if someone is holding you back from being better or chasing your dreams then think about getting rid of them. Doesn't take an Alpha mindset or deep pockets to do that or have a good life. If you want to chase the $1M or even $1B marks and be what they are saying is "Alpha" then more power to you, but money doesn't make the man it just helps you to bury your problems. If what you are doing is bettering the world or making a significant change, that's an admirable goal. We all need more of that. Take care brothers and sisters.
@briandam8126 Жыл бұрын
That’s a great post 👍
@Eun2k Жыл бұрын
@@briandam8126 Thank you
@andyyhimself Жыл бұрын
Lol, the problem is that the mold works. Every legit RP guy shares the same belief with one another, and they are beliefs only an alpha would live by. You can’t pick and choose which parts of success you want to abide by, because the parts you didn’t pick will always be the next step. May as well adopt the whole mindset from the start if it’s where the truth has led you.
@Eun2k Жыл бұрын
@@andyyhimself Hey if it helps you out of a tough life that's good, but at some point that mindset itself may become an anchor and not a sail. In the end it's just pretentious.
@alanscott8067 Жыл бұрын
You must be before you can do, you can only do to the extent of what your are, and what you are depends upon how you think!
@alanscott8067 Жыл бұрын
@TAG I’m 42. But it’s foolish to believe you need to have lived a long life to know a little about very important matters. However it’s easy to know a load about unimportant matters! Been with my wife 15 1/2 years 3 kids. I spent a lot of my time cross country trucking. My cab was my classroom. I’ve spent 1000s of hrs listening to self development. Earl Nightingale was always a favourite. Jim Rohn. Wayne Dyer materials, Napoleon Hill. Never change yourself for anyone. You have to be able to look yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself. Maxwell Maltz’s psycho cybernetics paints an amazing perspective on self image. You don’t need to be rich, a model, or even want to be with someone however you have to truly be, Responsible, Accountable, and Honest with everything the “RAH” principle if you want a functional life. If any of those areas are out of harmony in your life you’ll have a disfunctional life. Fail forward. Do not refuse to correct your errors or they will soon become your mistakes. Be humble but use your voice in a way that inspires rather then destroys! Alpha men are not animals and they must act like a man. We have imagination. The ability to know that our actions cause pain and suffering not just to other ppl but everything on this earth. Be an example worthy of remembering!🫵😎
@DSJOfficial94 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@integrafreak1 Жыл бұрын
Damn imagine he tunes in to a new Rich video and it’s about HIM 😩🤣🤣
@kudlanov3414 Жыл бұрын
I feel attacked 😂🤣
@AMJ564 Жыл бұрын
My opinion is, everyone man can take the redpill but not everyone will become an Alpha An alpha exists at the top of the hierarchy of his realm, whether career, buisness, relationships, and network. The problem with this is there can only be 1 which can be called Alpha
@muskokamike127 Жыл бұрын
That's why I call out other podcasts. "man up, make bank" etc. If every male in society became a millionaire, women would STILL go to the top 20%, it's just that the top 20% would be $20 million not $2. Look at Bezos, billionaire and still a beta. The "pitch" that anyone can be alpha is just that...a pitch. No matter how hard I try, I won't be 6', and even when I worked out 5 days a week I wasn't "buff" it's genetics. The best you can do is take their advice, do what works for YOU and run with it.
@adamwarlock5286 Жыл бұрын
there can be only one
@rambomoore381 Жыл бұрын
If there is only one, I guess that must be God, the ultimate alpha and omega! His son would be the 2nd in command. The rest of us are ultra betas and comparison but we must strive to climb up the ladder on the beta scale.
@GenTech365 Жыл бұрын
RIP to the bird
@robert4you Жыл бұрын
*BE* determined. *DO* what it requires, then you will *HAVE* what you want. - Dr. Phil, 2003
@markwalker2307 Жыл бұрын
People are a lot of work. Women who are worth being with are a lot of work. They have so many options why should they choose you ?
@thesoulmatealignmentprogra7160 Жыл бұрын
"Be, Do, Have" comes from Neale Donald Walsch's "Conversations With God"
@demontwashington5388 Жыл бұрын
One of the things my girlfriend appreciates about me is that I stand up to my mother - or ignore her - when she tries to influence or manipulate.
@Reggy2000 Жыл бұрын
Rich, No matter what her guy may be; SHE will not leave him because he has money and/or status. I know the culture.
@debsmh4099 Жыл бұрын
You’re not an alpha if you have to tell people you’re an alpha. It’s like telling people you are sexy. It’s not up to you. And RP keeps getting stupider.
@IshtheStomach Жыл бұрын
My understanding is be, do, are. Cause I already am.
@mx2048 Жыл бұрын
You once told that your ex-girlfriend cheated on you. Does that make you not-alpha?
@mariusk5360 Жыл бұрын
No, because women will cheat regardless if you’re alpha or not if she doesn’t perceive you to be her best. You can be super alpha but if she sees someone from her past as better for whatever reason, true or not, she’s susceptible to cheat.
@mx2048 Жыл бұрын
@@mariusk5360 Can a woman perceive you as an alpha but as the same time think that you are not her best?
@greedisgood827 Жыл бұрын
That bird at 9:39 aint gonna be in Rush Hour 3
@Ronin_72 Жыл бұрын
"you are in a precarious situation you understand the code" AND HIS WOMAN KNOWS IT TOO!
@hpmetabolics7558 Жыл бұрын
I just went off on my mom for talking to me ex about issues with my son and I didn't apologize for it!
@LiftOffLife Жыл бұрын
Once you unplug the first 1999 Matrix movie makes sense.
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