You're not ugly, you're just NOT aesthetic!
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Men don't like natural beauty, they like natural beauty aesthetics. Let's talk about the death of natural beauty, makeup blindness and how natural beauty aesthetics can easily be achieved.
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Tinuola
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@LethalLemonLime 22 күн бұрын
the little girl uses retinol TWICE a day?!?! even adults shouldn't be doing that
@mynameisjeff5267 17 күн бұрын
Seriously. I just know it's going to affect her later in life. I thought retinol is only needed when the signs of aging start showing up
@bangibabs 24 күн бұрын
In this life you honestly need to be secure and move away from presenting yourself based on what’s trending but more on what you are able to stick with confidently in the long run
@yahainHotPink 24 күн бұрын
😊❤ Yes
@Tinuola 24 күн бұрын
Absolutely!! Our body is not a trend🫶🏽
@bangibabs 23 күн бұрын
@@Tinuolaabsolutely 💯
@Djsertraline 18 күн бұрын
This is such a good point.
@AbigailNduba 24 күн бұрын
This is so true. Men just don't understand what natural beauty is anymore they go for what is presentable so to say aesthetical look
@Tinuola 24 күн бұрын
Exactly!!
@genovasquez8361 22 күн бұрын
To be honest, if your booty is big enough a man aint even caring how the face look, WE dont like make up and weave. But a man will settle for it to get some box if he thirsty and desperate.
@Unknown-xq5km 15 күн бұрын
They absolutely understand what natural beauty is. It’s a matter of if you are actually accentuating you natural beauty. I have gotten compliments from men specifically for wearing my natural hair and no make up. It’s refreshing and o them because so many women don’t.
@yegra 24 күн бұрын
Very heavy on women applying pressure on other women to adhere to beauty standards. My aunts scold me to tears for having 4c hair and not wearing makeup 😅
@Tinuola 24 күн бұрын
Crazy tings😆
@bibaolaitan5189 22 күн бұрын
These, my aunts and parents have been scolding me for wearing my natural hair and no longer covering it with braids.
@jacquelinekinchen-gordon5397 21 күн бұрын
@yegra your aunt is trying to help you get the straighten comb do facials and if you need it a little make up look presentable a lot of our girls look a mess!
@yegra 21 күн бұрын
@@jacquelinekinchen-gordon5397 thank you for your advice, ma'am but I'd like to believe I don't owe anyone beauty. As long as I look presentable and modest wherever I find myself, I don't see any issue with having a bare face with lip gloss on and a tightly coiled hair texture.
@fruitsarelife7073 19 күн бұрын
@@yegra Stay strong out there sis. I gotta admit i get a sense of satisfaction seeing people triggered by African hair. I will stand for African Beauty no matter what.😏💙🌍🌹🌺🥰
@Miss_Yusuf 22 күн бұрын
Many times I feel like men don't even know what they want. They just want who they want. Some will still leave the aesthetic for who doesn't do that lol. Just be yourself.
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
this is so true lol
@DearStephanieX 23 күн бұрын
Oooo you hit the nail on the head…. The natural beauty “aesthetic” is completely different from actual natural beauty 😊 haha
@maremarechiqk 19 күн бұрын
That 14 year old is too young to be so pre-occupied by the way she looks. As a mom to a baby girl, I am doing my best to embrace my natural beauty as an example to her. Great video as always 💗
@Tinuola 17 күн бұрын
Absolutely love this! And congrats girll!! You’re both blessed to have each other🤍
@maremarechiqk 17 күн бұрын
@@Tinuola thank you! can’t believe she’s already 14 months old 🥹😭
@Tinuola 16 күн бұрын
Aww that’s cute!☺️
@TheMaxymama 23 күн бұрын
I'm shocked by that 14 year old already doing anti-aging. And using retinol twice a day?! 🤷🏾♀️ it's only meant to be used at night
@luvhearts1 23 күн бұрын
Yep and it really not catered towards younger people
@jasminscarbrough2596 23 күн бұрын
A lot of people say to use it while you’re young to get a better effect
@TheMaxymama 22 күн бұрын
@@jasminscarbrough2596 Yes but they mean mid 20s, not as a pre-teen. Starting at 12 is a bit insane. She should only be doing sun protection.
@kennyb1588 18 күн бұрын
@@TheMaxymama I started in middle school with Retinols but it was because I had acne and it was prescribed by a dermatologist to help with that. I didn’t know it was a anti-aging product until I was a grown up tbh
@GoaWay... 17 күн бұрын
Not really shocking. I could see more young ones doing it because so many are terrified to look older. So many people look down on people....mainly women who look older. They treat attractive YOUNGER looking women better, like they are more important, worth more, more valuable, more desirable and etc etc. They treat women they deem to be less attractive or OLDER looking the opposite way. They usually don't even want to help oler looking or less attractive women when they need it. I watched that myself. All the guys helped me, an able bodied woman because I looked young(like 20-25) and pretty despite the fact I was about to be 40, and they didn't help the older looking, overweight disabled woman or her little girl.
@ChiTheAesthete 24 күн бұрын
Its all about enhancing your natural features and looking in line with what is normative. We (men) can tell when augmentation is done but if that enhancement in line with your general aesthetic its attractive. This makes sense because men are attracted to women as women not caricatures of women
@LI8A__uniqA 23 күн бұрын
Wow, I literally said the same thing 😁
@Tinuola 23 күн бұрын
Well said! TFS🙏🏾
@ChiTheAesthete 23 күн бұрын
@Tinuola there's a video about girl pretty vs guy pretty that is sorta about what you're discussing kzfaq.info/get/bejne/q8x0jKqL1Kqpo4U.htmlsi=RSDucMKxjniWBdeX. I think as men we are concerned with what our kids would looks like particularly daugthers so the enhanced natural look is always more attractive to us. Whereas the glam look does nothing for us. I also think the female gaze now is more impactful than the male gaze. Women are undergoing enhancements we as men in general view as extra and don't take seriously past maybe a fling
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
@@ChiTheAesthete I’ll check out the video, thanks. Also that’s an interesting take on ‘what kids would look like’. Never heard that one before.
@mahlatse8605 24 күн бұрын
Where is that little girl's parent's? Who is buying all that?
@AboutBritney 24 күн бұрын
I'm really hoping she's joking or rage baiting because ain't no way 😳
@Tinuola 24 күн бұрын
Good qs!
@Tinuola 24 күн бұрын
@@AboutBritney hope so too😬
@30daysorless8 22 күн бұрын
I hope that young girl put this much effort into her future aka what’s going into head! I don’t care what you do gravity wins in the end.
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
louderrr!!
@JCsDaughter610 16 күн бұрын
The problem is women esp BW look at themselves through the male gaze. And rate themselves off of what men think. Then further more compare themselves to Europeans and their standards. Which BW aren’t white and that shouldn’t even be a comparison, at that point BW should have beauty standards for themselves. Outside what men think and/or what other races think. The quicker you stand in what you were given and enhance what God blessed you with and know there’s nothing wrong with your hair or features. The easier it is to love yourself. Why would anyone take critique from a group of people (men, esp BM) who hate themselves or can’t even execute the basics of human decency on a daily basis. This is for women who want families as well, a huge part of attraction is confidence, like true confidence. As a more watered down example. If you lack confidence, men can see that and that’s how you become their prey. Idk I just think women esp BW lose bc of this type of mindset of comparison, lack of confidence, lack or loving yourself, and seeing yourself through the male gaze.
@far6311 19 күн бұрын
14 years old and worried about anti aging products? I was still watching cartoons and playing video games at 14 years old. Who told these children to act like old women?
@mynameisjeff5267 17 күн бұрын
It's the influencers
@Tinuola 16 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@jan854 20 күн бұрын
The comments are talking about the retinol this young lady is using, did you see the nials though?? I could barely wear nail polish or lipstick at 14....My dad was not having it
@DreamAboutMe823 22 күн бұрын
The ironic part is the child that is doing all of that actually could pass for 25 ☹️
@SthandwaM 21 күн бұрын
I was looking for this comment.
@MichelleSummerDiiva 21 күн бұрын
I thought she was atleast 20 lordt
@Jayslyfe 24 күн бұрын
2:56 These babies look older than the adults😩
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
Can’t imagine using retinol and so much makeup as a teenager 🥲
@30daysorless8 22 күн бұрын
Men can’t even spot a bad wig..lol
@pettybetty1791 22 күн бұрын
They aren't that unaware lol. They can definitely tell when Women are very obviously wearing fake hair.
@genovasquez8361 22 күн бұрын
To be honest if your hair is not natural or you got make up on your face a dude is only look at your body an ignores your face. i done it before for a hook up. but if she has wig or weave i know i cant take her seriously. just a hook up
@toyin2376 22 күн бұрын
Just do You !
@thirtyyearcosmetologist 23 күн бұрын
Nowadays women can look however they desire to look. There is a solution for it all.No eyebrows, you can get them. No lips you can get them. Big nose you can fix that. No hair that can be fixed.
@shamasdiary7863 19 күн бұрын
This video is spot on👌 I could never be one of those girlies who always have a full face makeup done. 99.9% of the time when I’m going about my day you’ll catch me with no makeup. I’m just too lazy to get up extra early to get my makeup done 🤣🤣🤣
@Tinuola 16 күн бұрын
😂😂
@sj5218 11 күн бұрын
If you’re doing all this for yourself GREAT, AWESOME. If you’re doing all this to appeal to the male gaze, ladies you are wasting your time! I’ve witness men put their “stuff” in a hole in a wall, a crackhead on the street, a fish mouth, a goat, etc; THEY DO NOT CARE! CATER TO YOURSELF! Forget the trends and societal pressures- they come and go. If you’re gonna do these things do them to make yourself happy ❤ I know the patriarchy is standing strong but you can be stronger, f it! Beautiful video mamas, and you’re literally gorgeous. ❤
@Tinuola 11 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@chiomaozulorah 17 күн бұрын
Love your channel girll❤❤
@Tinuola 16 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Chioma!!
@nataliejo336 15 күн бұрын
Spot on! And let me also add this…I’m 40. The natural aesthetic immediately reduces the appearance of your age.
@WhizQueen 20 күн бұрын
I love the clean girl makeup. Yet to crack it but I love when I see women with no makeup make 😍🥰
@Tinuola 20 күн бұрын
Right! I do too🤗
@aniyaruffin3288 20 күн бұрын
U ate wit this 1 ma’am
@Tinuola 24 күн бұрын
The high maintenance to be low maintenance beauty hoax: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g7yhrdiVpsjdnXk.html
@charlenewilley6481 19 күн бұрын
Problem.is we don't know how retinol will result used from a young age, SoF great idea for everyone. I've been told I'm natural but I always wear make up but not loads glamour style. Without make up I look ok but not as pretty.
@genovasquez8361 22 күн бұрын
My Ex wife had Dreadlocs. But she had clear skin and her face was prettier. She was an 8/10 with out make up. i
@genovasquez8361 22 күн бұрын
Can you do a video on natural beauty. Just show all natural pretty girls. With No make up
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
noted! kindly subscribe so you get notified if I drop it🤗
@genovasquez8361 21 күн бұрын
@@Tinuola already subscribed your welcome
@BumbleBee-City 23 күн бұрын
your very beautiful 💕
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
Thank you
@annie22krm 22 күн бұрын
Great comment
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
thank youu
@genovasquez8361 22 күн бұрын
If a girl has make up on her face. I am not approaching her. BUT GIRL ONE IS FINE. Most women with make up on their face, dont look attractive with out. Unless your pretty or fine with out make up im never marrying you, I dont want my kids to look like that. But Girl 1 the real natural girl is fine and she looks young 0:57 she is my type. Girl 2 aestheically i am not attracted too Girl 3 reminds me of rupaul with that look
@phiwelove 21 күн бұрын
You probably wouldn't know that she has makeup on. To be honest men can't tell the difference. Men would most likely choose 2 because she isn't changing her looks but enhancing them. She wouldn't look any different.
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
i like your take. very refreshing. thanks for sharing!
@Tinuola 21 күн бұрын
exactly! but she would still look slightly different without makeup tho.
@genovasquez8361 21 күн бұрын
@@Tinuola thank you yes the male gaze is far different than female gaze. An older lady who has a KZfaq channel name Nneka onlyifor is more towards the male gaze that's why she has a mostly male audience. Another lady I know complained about having to wear make up and not have her hair so natural to keep her female viewers engaged. If you notice the women flock more to women who have the beat face to the gods and straighten hair slaying. It's what attracts mostly black female viewers..
@genovasquez8361 21 күн бұрын
@@Tinuola as for slightly different most women look totally different without make up. In my 47 years one of co workers I saw with out make up. She needs to wear it every day. Because her face is hard to look at. With the make up she is 4/10 in the face. But you can look at her. Other young co-workers look 30ish with make up. When I see them without it. My heart fluttered those youthful beauty OMG. Men over 35 and over 45 prefer youthful faces on women. So wearing make up actually is disservice to you unless it makes you look 25 years younger than what you are. If you wear make up to look no older than 18 years old then that would be a benefit. Otherwise just go natural unless she is really ugly
@gcsugirl 17 күн бұрын
Why do we care what men want? They are the ones who benefit from marriage, not us! They should be the one making this video about how to be more attractive.
@Tinuola 15 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@bluehibiscus502 4 күн бұрын
That one doing all those apple cider vinegar, construction paper etc, is just doing too much. And I don't see any difference between she & any other 20-40 y.o. female of her ethnicity.🙄
@coffeewednesday553 19 күн бұрын
such a weird video
@Tinuola 19 күн бұрын
What’s weird about it?
@coffeewednesday553 19 күн бұрын
@@Tinuola you are using other black women's personal photos without acknowledging who they are.
@Tinuola 16 күн бұрын
That’s not weird, people repost other people’s photos everyday on the internet. However, I’ll keep that in mind!
@coffeewednesday553 16 күн бұрын
@@Tinuola it IS weird because I know one of the Nigerian women in the photos and she does not consent to using her photo this way. it's a very odd dynamic as the women have nothing to do with your message
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