Men VS Women and UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS (ft. Code Raid’s Fauzi & Aida)

Men VS Women and UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS (ft. Code Raid’s Fauzi & Aida) | The Hop Pod Ep.51

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Күн бұрын

Gender stereotypes are deeply entrenched in our society - rooted in the fundamentals of childhood learning and values. While we acknowledge the increasing awareness on gender equality, further can be improved in today’s generation. We discuss the age old topic & how we can go about navigating it.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Teaser
01:41 Topic of the day
01:50 Common gender stereotypes
04:05 Fauzi's masculine environment growing up
06:04 Genders attached to processes & products (Pink tax?!)
07:10 Discussing male privillege in this generation
10:57 The fine line between upbringing, societal expectations & gender stereotype
13:22 How our childhood reflected these stereotypes
14:26 The Question Pod!
18:26 Why do these stereotypes exist?
20:53 Men & the expectations to pay
26:01 Wrap up
26:59 Outro
27:40 Bloopers
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Пікірлер: 36

@YouGotWatch 29 күн бұрын

What other gender stereotypes have y'all experienced growing up? We want to read your stories!

@MrHnd1988 29 күн бұрын

How to Make Grandma Dies a Million Times (Nicholas, 2024) i died 😂 3:50

@JuzNicky 29 күн бұрын

its a Yeamster thing to be said.

@SabBliss 29 күн бұрын

16:03 Joie’s “but hujan later cold” is so cute. 😂

@amelial3396 29 күн бұрын

ah released just in time for dinner

@YouGotWatch 29 күн бұрын

We're accompanying you for dinner? So cute! 🥹

@JuzNicky 29 күн бұрын

@@YouGotWatch Tau Geh white chop chicken with a side dish of curry.

@itzy4541 28 күн бұрын

Released just in time to destress from the shittiest day of the whole month

@BadriKid 29 күн бұрын

i really love how well spoken fauzi is, i really wish he has his own podcast where he doesn't have to be so hyper

@Ben-kh2rh 21 күн бұрын

Hear hear

@mynameisfauzi 21 күн бұрын

Wah! Thank you leh! 🥹

@user-lh2cp2kq1f 29 күн бұрын

we needd moree vids with aida and fauzii !!!

@YouGotWatch 29 күн бұрын

Catch them over at Code Raid! 🚨

@domkzq 28 күн бұрын

The men vs women sleeping around point is kinda invalid. The reason one is "celebrated" while the other shamed on is because it's much harder for men to be able to sleep around. It requires a man to have looks/money/status/game (sometimes a combination of two or more) to be able to pull it off even if he has no standards. Whereas if a woman is willing to spread her legs, she is definitely getting laid. Disclaimer: my stance on hookup culture is that I am against it for both men and women, but I can't deny the fact that it's easier for women to sleep around

@amiliajade1502 Күн бұрын

In situations where theres a men and woman, both decent looking, disregard money and statue cause just hooking up, and the woman is the one that initiated so doesnt matter if the guy has game or not Ultimately the woman is still labeled as loose or whatever not so great, and the guy who hasnt done anything, nv initiated or shared anything, is "celebrated" Yes, yve shared that seemingly guys have to make much more effort than woman to hook up but still they are both for the same intention thats what im saying so why the difference in comment. N honestly, if a girl doesnt make effort in herself, the daily maintanence, the dress up for a night to the club, instead has like flaky skin, tangled hair with food droppings stuck to it, and smelly shirt dug out from dirty laundry which u can definitely smell from 2 people away, her chances are probably not high even if she spread her legs wide open.

@sleepy_dobe 29 күн бұрын

I walk with an umbrella under the sun. Because I don't want to have to apply sunblock constantly. Exposure to direct hot sunlight also triggers my migraine, so I use the umbrella and also periodically wet my head, face and neck. And if I use sunblock, then every time I wet my face, I'll need to re-apply it. Troublesome, time-consuming, and not to mention expensive. So the umbrella is just a better solution. Also blocks out UV rays. Perfect.

@mysticwanderlust 28 күн бұрын

Loved this episode so much! love how it was more of a conversation between the hosts and guests rather than an interview, the flow was great and aida & fauzi are such eloquent speakers!! would love to see them on this show more, orrr we could have a code raid podcast 😉 think the chaotic energy would be great hehe

@sophiaisabelle0227 29 күн бұрын

We appreciate your insights. Keep making an impact on the community.

@curry98 29 күн бұрын

HAHAHA! I know what's Aida referring to when she mentioned the spoiler alert 🤭

@RON-xp7wr 22 күн бұрын

this episode was amazing!! get other profiles to share about gender stereotypes as well

@jbrkjferkjbekjb 26 күн бұрын

i was always the "gentle", "sensitive" guy in school (more into literature, etc, though I also love sports), and btw straight as an arrow, but I received incessant namecalling from the girls in my UG CCA who would label me as a "gay" and "loser" because I was not "man" enough. It was so common to be scolded by the girls like "can you man up" just because you didnt "take charge" or raise your voice even if it didn't affect the outcome of the task but was just how I carried myself (while it was perfectly acceptable for those girls to do the same thing). Interestingly though it was the conventionally unattractive girls who would project their bitterness on me, girls i've had 'situationships' with never gave me that problem. That was an immature phase but having entered the workforce, I still get the sense that guys are subtly expected to "take charge" and be "dominant", even if some of us prefer to be gentle / soft-spoken who're more chill and prefer to take things slower. Some female (or even male) colleagues/bosses legitimately look at less dominant guys as "less of a man" and it can hurt personal relationships and professional opportunities.

@sleepy_dobe 29 күн бұрын

I think there are more men nowadays who are ok with being house-husbands. The problem will come when the wife, by virtue of her higher income and the man now being a house-husband, wants to lord it over the husband.

@tlim8969 16 күн бұрын

Whoever has the money has a higher tendency to lord it over others. Has been happening for centuries with men lording over their wives too.

@miriam.abraham 29 күн бұрын

omg tsl reunion

@Serperi0r 29 күн бұрын

There's an episode with Siyu and Isaac?

@YouGotWatch 29 күн бұрын

Yes! Ep 21 on differences between Millennial & Gen Z dating, watch it here! 🎧kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o5lopsKrvLm2gX0.htmlsi=zIwtuaRmb6sBBJXT

@superswaggerfly 28 күн бұрын

Talk is cheap. When you’re the breadwinner then what’s your expectation of your partner who’s the househusband/housewife? Taking care of the kids is never easy on top of household. Stereotype is the norm when there’s expectations and often it goes beyond gender.

@sleepy_dobe 29 күн бұрын

20:27 Not just disgusting, it's also extremely inconsiderate. Nobody around her can use that grab pole to steady themselves anymore.