I can appreciate that they choose to share themselves so honestly. So many of us hide our true selves, whatever that means to us.

Did Millennial Publishing publish Josh’s book?? 💖💖

The mother's transition makes me want to cry. You can tell Nico has changed her life for the better. 🥰🥰🥰

If you go on their Instagram accounts, you’ll find two lovely people who work hard to promote tolerance, understanding, equal rights, and love. You don’t have to understand or agree with the way they choose to run their lives, but these judgmental comments are atrocious and unnecessary. You don’t like it, then don’t do the same things in your own life.

I couldn’t imagine sharing my significant other. I’m wayyyyy to jealous 😂!

Not everyone is lucky to be true to one's self and find love at the same time. I envy these two for having both.

They both age with grace and thoughtfulness, let them live. It's awesome they've been together for so long evolving as a couple.

Confucious said: " IM CONFUSED!!!"

my bisexuality can’t handle how pretty BOTH of them are

They live their life, they mind their business. I love it.

Personally I don’t think I could do polyamory because for me if I like/love someone I wouldn’t need or want to be with anyone else

Love Nico and Bethany so much ♥️ We don’t have to all agree on every detail of each others’ lives to be inspired by one another. They are such a beautiful example of love and devotion. Simply gorgeous humans. I wish them well in everything they do.

You guys are redefining what a relationship is defined as for the two of you. Regardless of how your identity, you two have found each other and been honest about your desires with each other. That should be applauded, not looked down upon. I am proud of the love you share with each other and tireless desire to show light to other types of relationships that most people may not understand. I loved Nico first because they are FINE! But honestly, Bethanys constant honesty about her views on body image have provided me additional insight and quite frankly, they FINE too. I respect their differences and love how sweet they look into each other’s hearts.

They are an absolutely beautiful couple. They are living their truth and it is a wonderful thing. The life they built together is very special and deserves no judgment. If this is not your truth then you do you.

Nico and Bethany's life is mirrored in the 2019 couple "Why women kill." series, its three different women's lives in the same house over 60 year span, great series and writing.

Aw the last sentence from his mom definitely made me tear up. Beautiful 😍

I’m a gay millennial and I can’t even keep up with the labels anymore. LGBTABCD123.

So.. Did Liza edit his book?

bethany and nico are such a beautiful inspiring couple who show that love is not confined to anyone else’s bounds. they’re beautiful and happy. and it’s lovely to see.

Two beautiful souls found each other and that’s what matters. If you don’t understand their relationship or “lifestyle” it really doesn’t matter. Spewing hate is not the answer. Their relationship is their relationship and maybe it’s not for everyone but it works for them and that’s what’s important. I’m so here for this representation!!

This. Is. Everything!!! They way they look at each other is so heartfelt. Everyone deserves a love like this, regardless of who it comes from. I admire them for being so open about who they are and what makes them happy. Love is love is love.

WHY get married if you're gonna be polyamorous? Like.... Why fucking bother? Already 1 out of 2 people are jealous. Bethany seems to be lying to theirself to keep dancing to Nico's tune. I will never understand that. Because if you ''make room'' for more people to love that puts the relationship stability and trust at risk. There's a reason why they call it the third wheel. Unless they are mormons or whatever. Ugh, I'm triggered sorry, they didn't even properly answer the question why bother getting married.

The more I learn about all the different kinds of people on this world, the better person I become myself. Thank you for this report. It's wonderful to see two people doing good things for each other and the world around them. ♥️

Hey live your life... I don’t understand this at all in any way and would never live my life this way for any reason... but this is their life and glad they’re happy.

They couldn’t be lovelier people and their presence in my social media sphere has been so uplifting. If you want to go by she/her or he/him, nobody is stopping you. They’re going by they/them and I don’t lose a bit of sleep over it.

Beautiful people!! Sending you love and support! More power to people being free to be themselves!!

Love his character on Younger. Seems like a really nice guy.

Wow this is all new news to me. I didn't know anything about him outside of Younger. I love his character on there! He's so handsome and his wife is pretty. I never noticed him on red carpet, modeling, or acted in other shows/movies so I am very shocked. He is very brave.

Love these two! There is clearly so much love, respect, and joy between them. That’s what builds a lasting relationship. And they have so much courage and faith to be bold and vocal in spite of the unnecessary backlash.

Having met both of these wonderful humans, it hurts me to read the nasty comments. If you don’t “understand their lifestyle”, that’s fine. It’s not yours to understand. It’s their life and they are living it with love. I recommend more people commenting would inject a little more love into their own lives.

Thank you for making love exactly what you want it. So many people hide in the shadows and never get to fully express themselves and you two have been incredibly brave to do so. Never seen two people more in love.

I went to the same church with Bethany growing up. She did grow up in a conservative family. It’s shocking to me to see where she is now in life. Not knocking her down or anything. Just shocking

Sending so much love for living your true selves and overcoming so much 💕💕💕 beautiful people.

Lmao that interviewer looks like she’s done with this shit

Jeez I wish I would make my font bigger to drown out all the hate with SUPPORT! I see two human beings who are happy and have their life figured out than most other people, and I am so disappointed that there are so many bashing them. KEEP DOING WHAT YOURE DOING Nico and Bethany. You're bringing awareness and showing others that being yourself IS OKAY in this society when others just want you to be "the right way" by their determinations. I'd much rather be "wrong" than be unhappy.

I’m speechless all I can say is PERIOTTTTT

I didn’t know that about him. I just thought he was very comfortable with his feminine side of him 😅 but that’s awesome :)

I saw nico 1st time on Younger & fell in love I mean they r fuckin gorgeous Then I googled both of them And I followed Bethany on IG I luv Bethany These 2 beautiful humans work hard to make the world beautiful Live unapologetically Helping ppl Making a world filled with luv Who cares who loves who and what gender or pronouns they prefer? If you're a genuinely good person none of that should matter

When does season seven of younger come out on my God I miss it

Love this!! The selfless act of nico when he mentions himself wearing a dress to be a voice for people who don’t have that privilege os amazing! Love them all ❤️

Such absolutely wonderful people! I love watching their lives from afar - it is clear if you spent any time seeing what they put into the world that they have deep and profound love for the world and their passions (and each other)! So much is in nuisance these conversations that hate overlooks. Big big love for people who are open to learning and considering that other’s lives as as valuable as theirs, which I’m not seeing a whole lot in these comments.

What a great example of real love and being true to yourself. Love these two! ❤️❤️

I came in here being really judgmental. Then I watched the whole interview. Good on you, Nico x

Love is love. People are people. Let’s just accept and love each other! Isn’t it so heavy to judge and hate? Let that shit go. Thank you, Nico and Bethany, for being so open. Thank you ABC for sharing their story.

I've read Nico's poetry book, "all of it is you" and I've found it very meditative. I want to read their book.

Love his mother that she tries to be understanding and knows her son is much more important to her.

I'm confused

there needs to be captions in the video abc news

So much love for Nico and Bethany and their story! I have been folllwing Bethany's instagram and their company for a while now and they are a lovely person and their activism as well as nicos is so amazing and important! It's great that they are so open with their relationship and personalities to show how it's done and that they are just two other humans with love for especially eachother and many more! Great video and much love and all the best for them both!!

Getting married but sleeping with other people, that part is just weird to me. The way he put it though, it sounds like the marriage part is more for business purposes, & marriage is somewhat a business arrangement I guess

I would not have thought this is the actor behind Josh.

This marriage will probably be done and dusted if one can get jealous and the other does not. And for this to be an open marriage is ridiculous.

Open marriage always end in heartache.. don't do it.. it does not work.. if you want multiple partners .. STAY SINGLE

I love this guy. I wish I could be that free and honest with myself.

They both seem like such lovely people. While they are both bold and unashamed of who they are, they also seem to understand that it may be confusing and new to most people. They leave room for people to ask questions.

In 2019, driving for Uber, I had a rider who was in a relationship just like this. He was absolutely gorgeous and captivating, like this man, and I briefly met his gf when I dropped him off at a gender fluid club in Hollywood. She was breathtakingly beautiful and her energy was magnificent! As I drove him to the club he put on makeup and spruced up his hair because he was running late from work. What he told me about their relationship, and where they had been prior to having met, literally made me cry. The unconditional love he expressed about her was so touching and she clearly felt that same love because of the excitement that exuded from her when he arrived. I still cry when I think about the way he described their love and acceptance made them better people and they no longer knew where one began and the other ended. I would like to someday feel that and give that feeling to another but if that never happens I'm happy for all those that have it 🥰

These are two people living their lives in a positive, inclusive, loving way. I loved his moms line of start putting down lines then you’re in a box. There is more than just man and woman and the societal constructs that have been brow beaten into all of us. Open you’re minds and hearts for once instead of judging people from behind a computer screen.

Nico is a beautiful person 😭😍

Wait, soo why tf get married if your going to have multiple sexual partners? You could get health insurance and have children with domestic partners, why get married?

The terms are so outlandish but I can clearly see these two love each other and embrace all sides of each other.

I don’t agree with open marriages because someone always gets hurt

They aren’t untraditional. This is the most contradictory video I’ve seen.

This was so beautiful and will help so many people, families❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙌🙌🙌

Great interview, love these two !

The "open relationship" thing will wear thin in time. Sharing the one person you love is extremely hard, eventhough you may agree to it at the beginning. Trust me, ive been there...

So much salute for these two lovebirds. But back to my self, I choose to have a normal marriage/romance life. I would get so jealous when I kNow my partner had another love and care feeling to another lovers...

Excellent to see his mother’s growth. As long as your child is happy, that is all that matters. Lovely

I love all of this!

Nothing better than living your true self. 💖

I love these humans!!! Bethany and nico’s relationship has inspired me for years - they are redefining what a modern partnership can look like. I am in my thirties and still have not found the strength to be 100% authentic with my mom because of fear and shame...seeing nico and their mom brought tears to my eyes.

Their ability to love, grow and develop as humans through self-discovery and evolving as a couple is inspiring. We should all hope to have as beautiful and honest of a love as they have. ❤️

Wow! If that makes them happy and they don’t hurt anyone 👍🏼

Whoa, Nico acts so differently in this interview than on Celebrity Drag Race, they were super over-the-top flamboyant on that episode and are very chill here so now I'm confused which is their true personality. No shade to their relationship or life but I just don't know specifically what they are really like day-to-day with cameras off. Maybe they are still figuring that out, I guess

I support everyone who wants to live their truth! Love you Nico and Bethany 😊

I love Nico and his wife. I love his mom and her fruition into acceptance. Such a sweet video. ❤️

Nico is beautiful. That jawline could cut glass...geez.

Everyone deserves happiness, monogamy isn’t for everyone. I just honestly can’t fathom the point of getting married just to sleep with everyone else but your partner. It is a growing trend which can be very annoying to go on dating sites to find a boyfriend and then you do and they’re all other peoples boyfriends. To each their own

Everything but "fluid sobriety" nope not a thing.

These are two extraordinary humans who promote nothing but love - for all. Haters only reveal themselves to be broken. I send love to the haters on Bethany and Nico’s behalf. When you see the light, those of us on the side of love will be here to welcome you.

"I look good in a dress, so what's the problem?" 🤣🤣

That is so stupid

Two beautiful souls.

I actually got to meet Nico at Richmond Pride!! Pretty cool person!

I love everything about them!

I read the title & was like WHAT!

I love you both so much!! You’re such an inspiration. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

I think this is a very difficult concept for so many people, and it is so easy to come to a wrong conclusion or misguided understanding. This is a video that helps with that understanding. We can each live our own lives according to our own values, but we need to have common values in order for society to continue and grow and develop, to “step forward”, as I recently heard it said. They talk about those values in this video - love and respect. This is a video for everyone and anyone. So much to learn, regardless of who you are. So much about love and respect, too.

I adore Nico and Beth and everything they stand for BUT, when Nico said “When I first realized homosexuality was an option...” - its not an option. It’s not a choice. It’s either there or it isn’t. This is the biggest misunderstanding by homophobes.

I do believe open marriages/relationships have always existed just like monogamous marriages/relationships. I respect others choices, but honestly what I don’t like is that nowadays if you say you don’t believe polygamy or that it’s not for you people call you narrow minded and judgmental. You can be heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual +++ and still believe in the one and that marriage is something sacred between two people. It is your choice and you shouldn’t be shamed for it, just like people who believe in polyamory and open relationships shouldn’t be shamed for theirs. But it should be allowed to disagree and discuss, if you suppress opinions of people that is how you get extremely polarized sides. Just saying. Be open to hear and accept, but you don’t have to agree. That goes for all. So you people who are saying this is not for you, you have a right to your opinion and for those of you who love this and think this is great you have a right to your opinion. And let’s not forget these two have chosen to openly talk about this, so they have to be able to tolerate that not everyone will find this okay, and I think they are aware of that. Openly discussing and disagreeing is a good thing, people are different and have different levels of tolerance and that needs to be accepted. Go in ✌🏻

Favorite couple ever ♥️♥️

I like his character on younger and he seems like a nice young man xo

I was moved by the Mom and her journey to accepting who her son is/has become.

I applaud Nico’s mom for loving and supporting her son. She’s a wonderful woman.

Love you guys be who you want to be, it’s not for anyone else to judge and if they don’t like it then click off it. You go guys 💕🇦🇺🌈🦋x

They seem like good people who are happy and loving with each other. Polyamory is not for me but I really respect them for living their lives in a way that’s true to them. If they were my friends or family, I’d support them 100%.

If your sobriety is “fluid” you’re not sober. It’s all well and good but don’t use the word when it doesn’t apply.

I love the concept, been there, done that. I only have one issue with it. Three letters: HPV. That's the real problem, not gender, number, pronouns or morals.

It's nothing new - many tribal cultures were this complex. It's new to OUR culture. Sort of. There's plenty of gender-bending in our mythologies and some in our history.

To people who care on how other people live.... All of us can live how ever we want. I dont understand people who just care so much on what other people do. Do you have your life together? Probably not .You're giving so much of your energy to people you dont know... so focus on fixing yourself and life ...because it's your only one. Stop worrying on what other people do..you are wasting your time. They wont change because they are actually HAPPY LIVING THE WAY THEY WANT. Find happiness ya'll..find what makes you happy not what others tell you.

I learned so much with this interview !!! I’m buying space between ASAP!!!!! I love nico he is amazing and so is Bethany