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I absolutely love a peaceful morning outside, with the sun kissing my skin.

Use talking to create love. Not conflict. Love that.

This is a running conversation in my family. Presence matters. It's even soothing to parents to have the small sounds of children. We don't think about that until that moment comes when you suddenly pause what you're doing and think: 'It's too quiet, better check!' At times, complete silence is disruptive to the flow of living life with a family.

It keeps me on edge when someone is making constant noise around me. I can focus, study or rest only in total silence. I had a bad family so their footsteps would make my stomach clench. Now i live alone in bliss. It is so comfortable and peaceful i don't know how the hell i am ever going to get married. On the other hand i was always aware of the value of hand made, home made, love made things. I used to complain about the chef putting masculine energy into the food in restaurants (not to the waiter obv) 😂 it is invaluable and extremely nourishing when someone channels love into things or when your loved ones do things for you.

My 10 year old son does the same thing he loves to be in the room talking to me while I cook. He comes as close as possible lol. He also loves doing tech projects with my husband they spent all morning putting a set he got for Christmas together and he was so happy.

It’s true! Our presence is so hydrating My man and I have a joke that I “cured” his insomnia because when I am with him, he gets the best nights sleep whereas when I’m not there it’s back to anxious sleepless nights He says I’m so peaceful He also loves hearing me cook in the kitchen. The sound of the pans clinking and food frying is soothing Even his ferrets.. I bought them snacks for Christmas and he said they normally don’t like them. But with the bag I bought, all of a sudden they like them now! Even animals feel our femininity 😅❤❤

I remember having an argument with my mom when I was very young telling her that her voice was the most beautiful thing I had ever heard and that she should be a pop star or something. She kept insisting that she really wasn't that good and it made me SO upset. I still haven't let it go. 😆 This explains that experience perfectly. To this day I make a conscious effort to sing as much as I can to mimic that sensation.

I think it’s the nicest thing to walk into someone’s home and good, home-cooked smells meet your nose. It’s a feeling of welcome and security, comfort and nourishment for all the senses. I love to cook and bake for those very reasons. 😊

I was just talking about this with a friend today! I said to her that there is no better gift for my sons that me cooking whatever dish they choose or a cake every now and then... it's like they get what It cant be bought with money...nurturing loving energy from mum...🤗💖

I love being around my mom, her presence makes everything special.

Happy holidays, wishing you all a blessed and abundant new year!

This is actually perfect for the holidays. There are certain sounds and music that we associate with a holiday or an occasion. I had a chance to play Xmas music at my in-laws and it just unlocked very fond memories when I played the songs I always heard at Xmas as a child. ❤

Mina you look like a fairytale princess in the golden gown ❤

My Dad's girlfriend will do unnecessary talking. She used to get in trouble for it as a child. Now she will repeat stories 72 times and tell my Dad everything she did all day down to the piece of toast she ate. Yikes. I'm glad you brought up unnecessary phonetics. Unfortunately we can only work on discourse within our own household.

Yes I enjoyed this episode. This makes me want to really push for my family to enjoy just being around each other in peace.

I love this. For me, it was the jingle of my mom's dangly earrings. 💖💖

I think it also has a lot to do with the imprint of love we put into the food that we make, too.. a friend of mine told me there is a word in Korean that roughly translates to “touch-taste” - the effect of loving hands making a meal 💜

Hahahh that video is from TwoSetViolin. They are awesome. I cracked up while in a coffee shop by myself when I heard you talk about that because I've used that video to help keep me focused while doing some personal projects before haahah.

I felt This podcast was like a Christmas gift for me ! The way you became aware and analyzed it is so precious !! I was feeling all excited about every meaningful detail you described ! And I particularly appreciated and connected with everything you said because I'm super sensitive to ASMR and it's been a decade I'm watching few channels on YT 💜 The whispering or just lower voice is super calming and relaxing ! I wish my hairdresser whispers to me while doing shampoo and cut my hair 😁

Thank you very much Mina, you are a blessing. I also relate to like my moms food so much more than anybody. Atte.: Aracely from Bolivia.

Strange. Every time i talk to my friend on the phone, he gets lulled into a doze in a couple minutes and then he tells me that my voice is soothing like a lullaby. Thank you for talking about this.

This is a brilliant title. It makes so much sense. I wonder what the equivalent would be... His masculine presence is [insert word] for our soul.

OMG! This is so deep, I never really noticed this!

Yes, the sound of water gives me that feeling of nature providing.

Haha omg I had that exact same video recommended to me too! This entire topic has been on my mind lately too, thank you for this discussion Mina ❤

Omg this is so healing to hear! Its put a piece to the puzzle 🩷 alsooo the asian mom video is so funnnyy too 😅😆

That was interesting. I new it already. Thank you mina.

I was just watching that asian mom video yesterday😅

Another great podcast version. Love it 😊

I cant believe I'm catching something live from you. Feeling so blessed 😅❤😊 Thursday I'm finally on your book !

Genius title Mina Urfan✨✨ gonna listen to this during my workout!! Can’t wait!

Hey Mina.. thanks for your video. Would LOVE you to do a video on the topic of Alex Hormozi + Leila Hormozi and their marriage. They are a wealthy entrepreneur business couple. But it appears to be a case of a masculine man with a masculine woman. Would love to hear your interpretation and your thoughts as it goes against everything we know about polarity. With the masculine being attracted to the feminine…

I’ve been listening to ASMR to get to sleep for about the last five years. Thank you for this podcast and connecting these dots for us, Mina 💖💖💖🫶🏽

Such a great and important message 🎉❤

That video of the Asian guy literally showed up in my recommended maybe 4 videos before this video did.

Love that color on you, Mina! I'm wearing the same color shirt too. Glad we're on the same wavelength ✨💗

I have the opposite experience. After I was 20 the sound of my mother was driving me crazy. We had an enmeshed relationship with no healthy boudaries. She demanded a lot of help, therapeutic support and closeness from me. So I was more at ease when she was not home and not making these annoying noises. Like going to the bathroom next to my room, brushing her teeth, coming into my room asking for help, then smoking again, then brushing her hair in the room right next to mine. Then bathroom again. It was too freakin much and too close to my thin door.. every day the entire day. I should have moved out at 20 and not 25.😮‍💨 It did some demage to our relationship. Im so easily annoyed with her. At some point I would leave the kitchen as soon as my mother would come in because I didnt like the sound of her chewing. I feel bad for my mom.😔 Because I know how it is on the other side of it. In a hostpital my room mate was extremly annoyed with my noises. It felt like a push away. I felt so bad and unwanted. But she was also a person with enmeshment boundary wounds....so maybe there is a link. I was always putting the heater on and she liked it cold...i was crying a lot and she felt like my energy would take over the room

Omg I loooove the Asian mom video!!!! Hahah

OHHHHHHHHH...... I just searched for and found the video, and see that it's by Twoset Violin, the comedians. I totally undrstand why this would be popular and can just imagine that there's a whole plethora of this type of thing out there for many of the variations that people would desire.

Can’t wait to catch another night live 🇮🇹

This was such a gift 🎁

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All the love!❤️✨

Wow, so profound!

So funny ! I watched the video as well !!! I think you also get recommended from what your viewers watch etc because before you even mentioned the video I thought about that video lately I’ve realized I didn’t experience this from my mother and I hope to be a great mother one day please make a video on how to show up as this great woman without coming from that example

Should I care about what job he has that allows him to provide for me? My fiancé has fully provided for me for the past 2 years, but from his savings bc he is working on his fin-tech start up business. He doesn't have a degree, but he's worked in finance, as well as nursing in the past.

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Omg I know exactly what video Mina is talking about, it’s Eddy from Twosetviolin 😂😂😂😂

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Does anyone know what Mina means by no sex before marriage? Different people have different definitions for this. Does she mean not even kissing or cuddling? Thanks!

Your hair is beautiful, what do you use to curl it?

Mina, do you believe interracial relationships can lead to a more difficult life? My fiancé is a black man and I am a white woman. This has caused a lot of conflict with my family as they say my future kids and I will suffer because of my choice. It's been really tough and I still haven't fully made a decision

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Hi am new to channel, what is ASMR please?

When you mentioned the Asian mom video, I immediately thought of Twoset Violin 😂 They have a running joke about practicing 40 hours a day in order to not disappoint your parents Edit: I do believe it started as a joke but being 4 hours long they probably did have the intention for it to be used as a study aid, especially with the popularity of asmr videos

Many people have “mommy issues”

Yaas! Loving your message Mina. I keep prompting your channel as it was a game changer for me 👑❤️

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