your single season isn't a curse... wait on God

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"they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint" isaiah 40:31
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@hannahvk7050 Ай бұрын

Ever since i heard Proverbs “He who finds a wife..” I’ve been sat, Like i shouldn’t even be looking for no one but God. Thanks 4 the reminder great honest vid :)

@famouslivestream2051 Ай бұрын

I know that’s right 👏

@jessicajanene2001 Ай бұрын

i enjoy being single, people all the time try to guilt trip me for not having a relationship or being married! i’m thankful i don’t deal with any drama, I have peace, knowing God and i love it!!!!!

@leah3795 Ай бұрын

I use to be obsessed with relationships and marriage to the point I allowed it to become an idol in my heart (shame) but thank God I'm passed and over that phase. I'm no longer craving searching or yearning to be in a relationship yet alone a situationship I'm content w being single. I trust that God already knows every single detail of my life so if it includes a husband great if not so be it either way my relationship w God is what ultimately matters the most.

@teyairrahendrix Ай бұрын

I enjoy being single, dont have to deal with drama. I been knew God wanted me to be single and put into isolation due to past stuff. My peace is protected by being single, and i dont want it any other way. Thanks for the video! 💕

@thenajjaiman Ай бұрын

amen 🤍🤍🤍

@uliseswthelight Ай бұрын

Timing for this is too good! Still have the slight tendency to look around at what I dont have, but need to remain grateful and empowered by the work he’s doing in me rn. Praise God

@tamiaa01 24 күн бұрын

This video came at perfect timing!! I feel like I am dating with no purpose. As soon as men figure out that you don’t want to have sex they’ll be gone in the blink of an eye. I need to stop seeking and wait for gods timing. I might as well just stay single and build myself without distractions!

@thenajjaiman 24 күн бұрын

amen girlieeee

@theglamtasticgirls1 Ай бұрын

I always think of my future husband when talking to boys who try to waste my time. Whenever temptation calls I say to myself "How would my future husband feel about that?" When a boy wants to waste my time or wants things only reserved for my husband, I tell him "My future husband would appreciate it if I didn't allow that." They never have a good response to that one LOL 🤣😂😂😂

@brooklynnicole11 Ай бұрын

i’m had a lot of highs and lows with this topic. i’ve been enjoying my singleness more lately but i still feel sad at times.

@eejawma 18 күн бұрын

i’ve definitely been there, and those lows are real. i believe it can be a learning process, inviting God into the good and the bad. i’ve found community with other single Christian women to be very encouraging as well 🤍

@thinkingabmel Ай бұрын

i knew i had to give my love life to God because everytime it was me going to someone, it NEVER worked out. it only worked out once and that person came to ME😭. it turned out to be a lesson.. STILL. ima let God handle dat

@thenajjaiman Ай бұрын

literally bro 😭😭😭

@eejawma 18 күн бұрын

nah fr, no more shooting my shot cause God benched me 😭

@abilovesjesus. Ай бұрын

amen sis! another verse that came to mind was Colossians 2:10 "and you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power" that feeling of lack or loneliness or emptiness can only be filled by Jesus, He is our missing piece, no one else 💗🙏

@thenajjaiman Ай бұрын

amen 💝💝

@mevhdel 28 күн бұрын

5 ⭐️ !!! This is so important for us girls in this generation to hear. Thank you Najja💕

@thenajjaiman 28 күн бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@queenalcantarr 29 күн бұрын

I needed this! Sometimes, I will be so desperate to be with someone and go after them when I should be persuaded. Not only that but have a relationship with God first.

@BeautyAzontoGal Ай бұрын

Girl this video was so good, every scripture you referred to made the message even clearer! I'm 21 turning 22 in a month and this was right on time!! Society really makes you feel like you being single means missing out, especially at such a young age which is not ok. Mindu a majority of the relationships nowadays are surface level there's literally no purpose except for one thing! Heavy on society creating an idol out of gfs and bfs, I'm a WIFE not a girlfriend. I'm getting to a place where I no longer want to waste my time, I'm trusting and waiting until the man God has for me finds me!

@niyahlovessza 28 күн бұрын

This was so enlightening. Preach sister in Christ

@artsbybware4790 Ай бұрын

Girl im 26 and have been single since birth. I don’t believe in love anymore, im done. I don’t plan to live a long life and i dont want to anymore. I give up on love and im so sick and tired being lonely , depressed and isolated. And i hate feeling depressed and sad whenever i see couples and seeing friends get cuffed up with the love of their life and get engaged and shit when the guys I like overlook me and don’t even want to take me serious. I DON’T WANT TO LIVE ANYMORE.

@Julisa_Monique Ай бұрын

This makes me so sad I had to comment..because I feel you. I'll be 25 in August and I've never been in a relationship.. I don't even have friends. I have always been so different and I feel so incredibly alone it hurts.. I didn't even know a person could feel this alone 💔 regardless of everything I still believe God has someone just for me. We weren't created to be alone. There are nights when I just cry and cry..but I'm actually learning so much in the process!

@Keonahawk24 Ай бұрын

God bless you honey! Don’t give up! Please be careful with the things you say. Please read Jeremiah 29:11. And read your Bible. You’re not alone. We’ve all been there. God has someone special for you but you have to put Him first and love yourself. I’m praying for you, your life and your love life. Keep going ❤

@Abstraction_g Ай бұрын

Yea I want to have someone too, when God told me now is not the time to think about marriage you have a lot to work on yourself it made me really sad. I’ve been alone all my life I don’t have friends rn. So I get it. I wanted to settle bc it’s taking too long. I just try to focus my energy on getting better so I can be ready for marriage. I try to act like a wife now. Learning how to cook and being consistent on taking care of myself around the house, looking nice. So when I’m married these habits will carry into my marriage. I just focus on being a dream girl basically. Ask God to give you the strength to wait on your husband, he sees your heart. Write down your husbands traits what you want in him. Start a future husband journal and when you find your God ordained man and you two get married give it to him when you are married. Ask God to reveal to you what is it you need to fix on yourself, what’s keeping the wait. This is what I do to past time in my single life. If you clock out now you never know your husband could’ve been around the corner.

@symonehodges Ай бұрын

God may you give this beautiful woman peace during this season of singleness. I’m sure you have heard her cries and her aching heart, so I pray that you show her whatever it is she needs to keep breathing. Though we do not always understand your ways in the moment, allow her to cling to a MUSTER SEED of faith that you are good and want all that is good for her life. Let her know that she can trust you. These feelings of depression and isolation are not from you. Show her the rest you are capable of providing. MAY SHE BELIEVE THAT SHE IS WORTHY. Amen. 26 is so young. Please don’t let this go in one ear and out the other- YOU HAVE PURPOSE. Trust me, I FEEL you. That prayer for you can also be sent my way. It’s frustrating over again seeing couples and feeling that God is keeping you from a blessing. Especially when the season is as long as it has been for you. But God works in mysterious ways. Do not close the book whilst God is writing your story. Please do not be discouraged- God still has time to bless you. Isaiah 40:31 “…but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Please stay my sister in Christ. I will be regularly praying for you🙏🏾❤

@janiahliane Ай бұрын

Jesus Loves You so much😇🫶🏽🩷 and he wants to fill all of our voids ⭐️🔑♥️

@cydanna1807 Ай бұрын

i absolutely love your videos and the way you explain things, you’re so good at wording things in an understandable way. i love how you said if God’s purpose for you is to be in a relationship it’s not to be a girlfriend, it’s to be a WIFE!!

@skyydabrattt6817 29 күн бұрын

Amen I need to see this video 🙏🙏

@amiyatishe Ай бұрын

The timing of this video is sooooo !!! I was just telling my friends how I feel I’m cursed with being single and then boom this video 😭😭😭😭❤️

@cerenasejour Ай бұрын

Amen I was crying to God this morning and all I could sing was Isaiah 40:31 I needed this🦋

@kendrab06 Ай бұрын

the timing of this video is perfect

@ruth8979 Ай бұрын

Girl this video was very helpful. Thank you to the LORD❤

@victoriaaserwaa 11 күн бұрын

thank you 💜

@jewishbride5010 25 күн бұрын

Praise God for giving me all time to get to know my own qualities, pitfalls and to explore my relationship with Him to the fullest. In accordance with this word and 1 corinthians 7:1, 1 corinthians 7:7, 1 corinthians 7:32, philippians 4:11-13, romans 12:2, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind to hell one to be discontent as single in life while binding one to be content in life as single as well as long as this is God his will for one in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone not being contrnt with being single as long as this is God his will for one's life, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

@rh8608 Ай бұрын

when i say i was just crying about this to God yesterday and i told him i was gonna trust him 😮‍💨you be right on the mark with these videos keep up the good work ❤

@ValorieSankey Ай бұрын

Very good!!!!! Very good for young and old.

@Bmmb1512 Ай бұрын

I was listening to when somebody loves you back today. That and lady love by lou rawls have been stuck in my head

@famouslivestream2051 Ай бұрын

Where can I read/listen?

@Bmmb1512 Ай бұрын

@@famouslivestream2051 personally i listen to it on KZfaq but the song is called when somebody loves you back by teddy pendergrass 🤍

@Silly-KB Ай бұрын

hooooo all facts girl 💯💯💯💕

@thinkingabmel Ай бұрын

CRAZYYY I WAS JS TALKN TO GOD AB THIS??!?!

@AmariWrightsil 10 күн бұрын

in the video, you kept saying if god has someone for you, were you meaning some of us will remain unmarried? love your channel by the way

@thenajjaiman 9 күн бұрын

yes, some will remain single if that’s God’s will for their lives ❤️

@jamilateef6392 24 күн бұрын

devotionswithdemarcus

@thenajjaiman 24 күн бұрын

i luv him lol

@pleasestaycalmG. Ай бұрын

TBH WHY DO WE ALWAYS SAY ISSA SEASON?? COULD BE THE PLAN FOR YOU SOME OF US WILL BE OUT HERE LIKE PAUL, CHRISTIANING IT OUT WITH GOD ONLY

@thenajjaiman Ай бұрын

you feel me!!! i say season for those who desire marriage but ur so right some of us gon be single forever 😭😭😭

@Keonahawk24 Ай бұрын

Some are called to singleness and some are called to marriage. Both are gifts. Those who are called to marriage will desire it in their hearts. Those who should be single will be called to singleness and content with singleness.

@cashmerehatcher4100 Ай бұрын

I had made this bad joke about pregnancy about this one boy I think that’s why I’m probably single and don’t have friends but I wanted to apologize but I didn’t know how would react so I didn’t and it wasn’t supposed to be about him I was just joking with my friend I made a joke I should have never made

@eejawma 18 күн бұрын

confess it to God and receive His forgiveness, but also forgive yourself for that 🤍 we all make mistakes, and i’ve been there, but the next thing is to let go and move forward. learn from the past and strive to be more mindful in the future :)

@cashmerehatcher4100 Ай бұрын

What if the boy comes to you and your in high school

@eejawma 18 күн бұрын

hi, i’d say to definitely pray about it, and seek guidance and wisdom from older role models in your life. and reflect on your intentions behind it- do you both envision a long-term purposeful relationship with each other that glorifies God? or are you motivated by other factors such as loneliness, low self-esteem, social status, etc.? are you and the guy on the same page? how is your well-being, especially emotionally and spiritually? i’ve found that being honest with yourself and communicating well are very helpful, and ofc seeking God in everything for what He knows is best for you no matter how you feel :)