Your Thought Process When You Think Something Is Wrong With You

Your Thought Process When You Think Something Is Wrong With You | Jordan Peterson

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Your Thought Process When You Think Something Is Wrong With You | Jordan Peterson
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@thebests101 3 жыл бұрын

Best Clips Of Jordan Peterson here: kzfaq.info/sun/PLWedDD8OR0emeNopcTYREdvypZrMrcajM

@thomaseibl9038 3 жыл бұрын

Love your little introductions! It always reminds me of that french anchor in Spongebob Squarepants. 😂

@educortazarc 3 жыл бұрын

Aaaah ze kghusty lobstugh

@aidandeist9826 3 жыл бұрын

Did him dirty.

@eddybaroncelli6048 3 жыл бұрын

Haha

@spongebobsquarepants1788 2 жыл бұрын

@angeldip5797 11 ай бұрын

MEANWHILE….

@101jir 3 жыл бұрын

5:37 Oh yeah, you wouldn't believe how much easier knowing I have Autism is than trying to guess whether I am just awkward or mentally lazy when it comes to paying attention. Because when you don't have a diagnosis and/or can't think in terms of a diagnosis, what's left to you is guesswork between character flaws. I pushed back against all of my professors when they talked about the "evils" of labeling.

@64bluegrass 3 жыл бұрын

“If you have strongly held opinions, you are opinionated; if you don't, you lack conviction: either way, there is something wrong with you.” ― Thomas Szasz

@Lyonatan 2 жыл бұрын

I've felt something is wrong with me all my life, I'm 33, now I'm pretty sure I've been walking around with an autism spectrum disorder all this time.

@VanessaDayleRaeWaggoner 29 күн бұрын

Me too and I am told that there’s nothing wrong with me by my pastor but there’s so many reasons for me to think there is! I have adhd and ocd and maybe autism idk but I think these diagnoses have some Merritt whereas some people seem to think there’s nothing wrong with me because Apperantly everyone goes through the things I am going through at some point

@Lyonatan 28 күн бұрын

@@VanessaDayleRaeWaggoner "everyone goes through the same things" no they dont.

@charlesfraunhofer7893 3 жыл бұрын

Complicated as this is, you need beliefs and Jordan Peterson's psychotherapy has helped me through my life, no words can describe what a nice life I have with the assistance of his psychotherapy. 🙂

@epipewu2344 3 жыл бұрын

Sarcasm?

@Hawaiian_Pizza_Enjoyer 3 жыл бұрын

@@epipewu2344 Why would it be sarcasm

@z0uLess 3 жыл бұрын

Would be awesome if a norm developed where people would post videos on youtube with timestamped references to the reseach they are referring to in the talk.

@TheLlamaKid 3 жыл бұрын

Would take time

@z0uLess 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheLlamaKid meh, will be automated soon enough.

@boldlifechris 3 жыл бұрын

Great idea

@VeronicaIPS 3 жыл бұрын

thanks for the video and for providing the link for the full lecture, i'm definitely going to listen to that

@deplorablecovfefe9489 3 жыл бұрын

Because everyone all the time tells you something's wrong with you because your not just like them. Don't want to be a overachiever? Something's wrong with you. Don't want to compete all the time? Something's wrong with you. Your Single? Something's wrong with you. Don't want to risk your future on someone you only kind of know? Something's wrong with you.

@benhutson5 3 жыл бұрын

@@operationmockingbird216 holy shit that’s it

@picture-you 2 жыл бұрын

@@operationmockingbird216 yes, but it does happen way more often if you’re autistic/adhd/neurodivergent. It’s hell

@monicaramirez51015 10 ай бұрын

😊exactly 😊and when I start to ask questions and want to do something differently 😊oh something is wrong 😑

@letsgoBrandon204 3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree about the labels point. I think it's important not to identify with your anxiety disorder, but by the same token I think it's important to identify what it is, as precisely as you can, that is wrong with you. If you don't and keep it vague you have no idea how to proceed with it and you're left with way too much choice to take action - so nothing happens. You need to impose a little order on your chaos. Sometimes that order may verge on tyranny, but occasionally the correct tool is a sledgehammer

@paulmilwee9940 3 жыл бұрын

"Careful with that axe Eugene." Pink Floyd

@101jir 3 жыл бұрын

Well, and as a person with Autism if I didn't have that diagnosis I might just assume that I am not caring enough about people to pay attention to them or that I am just awkward for a negative reason. When you don't have a diagnosis, it becomes easy to assume that your limitations are the result of a character flaw instead of neurology.

@pault6347 2 жыл бұрын

Pulsar, thank you for that comment. Especially the last two sentences.

@someguynamedtyler735 3 жыл бұрын

That clip is such a weird cut. It comes in with him referencing something not shown but clearly important to what he's saying, and ends mid explanation.

@viirahnaerrahveem867 3 жыл бұрын

They always cut his lectures awfully :( right at the best parts

@letsfindout1621 2 жыл бұрын

Atleast he links the full talk in the description so you’re not really left hanging unless you’re just lazy

@dogsinspace5733 2 жыл бұрын

@@letsfindout1621 whats wrong with you

@letsfindout1621 2 жыл бұрын

@@dogsinspace5733 A lot of things but I’m working on it, why?

@nikhil_jadhav 7 ай бұрын

Thanks Dr. Peterson, making me see that misery doesn't need an explanation, some sort of low degree misery is always there, I tried to find the root in my childhood but there was none my childhood was beautiful it was somewhere on the journey of life I got drifted and became more self conscious and self centred that caused overthinking bad decisions and misery. I was planning to read Frued in depth to know the root of my misery but existentialist explanation sounds more relevant to me.

@SigurdB. 2 жыл бұрын

Brilliant presentation by Dr. Peterson, as always. Sometimes when venturing out in public venues, in social environments, at the workplace, I've felt high anxiety and physically tense up/nervousness around other people. This complex has subsided alot in the past several years, in that I'm quite extroverted when I'm comfortable/acclimated to the people a new place, especially as of the past few years. Perhaps as this form of social anxiety is pretty common, this trepidation or concern that I was being "watched", silently denigrated or perceived with criticism from the rabble when in fact the majority of other people are simply too focused on their own tasks/if so, it shouldn't particularly burden me. I suspect, though can be put under arrest when needed through certain self-calming/pyscho-mechanisms, that I may have very mild social anxiety-tendencies and a less-severe form of PDD with symptoms of self-doubt, voidness, and melancholy (though it may peak episodically, esp with the onset of the pandemic). I continue to live on my terms unflinchingly and not allow any "potentially" undiagnosed conditions undermine or deter me from relishing in and accomplishing what I set out to in my life. I may consider therapy, though have reservations about the industry.

@Beatrizvillacorta 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks again mister The best

@liznorth4028 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@gr1nding 3 жыл бұрын

You can do it yourself

@elishanaik7734 3 жыл бұрын

Literally

@koketsomakhele4359 3 жыл бұрын

I think it's funny how the human pshyce is. I mean we find comfort in not only knowing that we are the only one who suffers but in that there are more people who suffer as or even more than you😅

@Gregory-ud6zq 3 жыл бұрын

Can you please make the brown frame less big, it’s hard to see the actual video

@shaunvanwyk4775 2 жыл бұрын

I confess with this. Here is a man sent for this generation and time from the lord of hosts

@Moc5 3 жыл бұрын

Why the heck did you stop this short! 😡 He was just getting to the best part and you cut it! Ugh!

@rettcobb9821 3 жыл бұрын

I wonder what follows. His assertion that naming a neurosis in order to empower the individual to create a mental boundary around that neurosis cannot have been Peterson's end point. That seems like the introduction to something more profound. Without that something, though, we're left asking, "Therefore?"

@jamesmerutka889 3 жыл бұрын

For once, Jordan Peterson is wrong! I DO know how I ride my bike. I harness the power of angular momentum. As long as the wheels are spinning perpendicular to the earth's gravity at a force greater than gravity, gravity cannot stop me and pull me down.

@christianayers622 9 ай бұрын

But can you ride a bike?

@davidpinontoan3429 3 жыл бұрын

You are or you know what is right but the “ego” wants confirmation because being wrong is worst thing in the world yet it doesn’t exist

@luva74 3 жыл бұрын

Does anyone know if this complete lecture is available, and if so what the title is?

@guido3721 3 жыл бұрын

It's in the description ;)

@luva74 3 жыл бұрын

@@guido3721 Thank you for your help. I feel pretty dumb right now. 😳

@guido3721 3 жыл бұрын

@@luva74 there are no dumb questions. What's dumb is not daring to ask ;)

@danielwolfman9419 2 жыл бұрын

Wish I had him when I was a younger man

@nicklombardi4507 3 жыл бұрын

Wish I saw this ten years ago

@filippejordan9150 3 жыл бұрын

How old are u?

@VoIeurz 3 жыл бұрын

you just saw it now, you got this

@dearbrave4183 3 жыл бұрын

@Memoirs of a Dude praying for his work to be seen by many? Looks like you were already on the path of virtue right there 😊 it's a marathon not a sprint

@Angrybogan 3 жыл бұрын

Does Jordan Peterson set exam questions on his lectures?

@jasonjackson3114 3 жыл бұрын

If he does, vaguely associated and completely self sourced answers should work.

@crystalgreco5699 2 жыл бұрын

Why do they cut it off?

@syzygy4365 Жыл бұрын

Ugh, the world we live in today just erks me. Who cares why people act awkward, when I just want lists of solutions that I can try to fix it, and know the ways to recover from those awkward moments. No wonder people free they don't have time for therapy. 🤦‍♀️

@ahoy4301 Жыл бұрын

Something is wrong with me, Idc what anyone says

@154421535 3 жыл бұрын

Words can be meaningless. Actions speak louder then words.

@154421535 3 жыл бұрын

@Geegee Poo You have a point. I love him, such wisdom and insight

@154421535 3 жыл бұрын

@Geegee Poo I agree with you. Nothing is black and white. Just a friendly conversation, so I don't take offense. Take care.

@amyp9010 3 жыл бұрын

So heres a question for Jordan...how do i get my self confident n secure w my self that my emotions dont over run me,and i am just fine w him ,or the guy im with stare the girl /woman down.i do not want to be a hypo...

@Nenmeu2 2 жыл бұрын

Start by doing this: dont put a picture with youself as your Google profile picture, that way you build more privacy around you

@tymol777 3 жыл бұрын

i found that listening to Jordan Peterson however is very educational it almost never gives you straight answer to anything, viewing everything in such a wide context all the time only makes it harder to pull out valuable information

@killvisionarchives 3 жыл бұрын

Agree, but I think Jordan’s goal is to get people to question and explore themselves , which isn’t very straight forward and which is why you wont receive a straight answer to your problems / questions . Gotta apply his words to yourself and let them nurture in your mind . I think...

@davidcml1363 3 жыл бұрын

@@killvisionarchives I totally agree, he uses a lot of analogies, is precice in speech, and ( like any professor worth his salt he is not there to make your mind up for you, . That is what I love about Peterson. It requires immersion in the subject. Peterson's retoric keeps me sane ( which is not easy )

@winstonsmith9533 3 жыл бұрын

He's teaching a class. in my opnion If you want advice, read his book. From what little I understand after listening to him for at least two years: life is suffering, make something of your life to lessen the suffering, imo.

@davidcml1363 3 жыл бұрын

@@winstonsmith9533 basically, the devil's in the detail..

@154421535 3 жыл бұрын

He wants you to think for yourself. Hard to do with the media and with teachers who are brain washing you and making you to conform to everyone else.

@sarahmichaels5105 3 жыл бұрын

I would like to hear more about your perceptions of Jesus through the next couple of years of you don’t mind. Thank you for all you do.

@sarahwooten4528 3 жыл бұрын

Have you seen his biblical series on his KZfaq channel?

@bubbag8895 3 жыл бұрын

He has sooo much on the Bible

@z0uLess 3 жыл бұрын

Was that a frog talking at the start of the video?

@likelyunfortunatezz5730 Жыл бұрын

I came because I found myself hanking off some weird stuff what should I do..?

@ahoy4301 Жыл бұрын

Stop banking for a while

@timothybell5698 3 жыл бұрын

"objective experience" what!?

@sadman5916 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe he meant subjective but he just got his words mixed up

@TomasAguilera1997 3 жыл бұрын

Oss

@Mistwalker67 3 жыл бұрын

What happened? I was watching the next Karate Kid?????

@stephanielentzmorrison9811 3 жыл бұрын

Do not, then that because we are flawed we never become perfect again....

@stephanielentzmorrison9811 3 жыл бұрын

I think that original sin is pretty useful 🤔

@observer4467 3 жыл бұрын

Saying and thinking something is action.

@ryank6322 3 жыл бұрын

It's harder to lie with your actions though. It's very easy to lie with your words.

@observer4467 3 жыл бұрын

@@davidcml1363 what means do? Isn’t „doing“ always connected to „saying“ nowadays?

@davidcml1363 3 жыл бұрын

may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do. Lewis Cass

@Omnipresence10 3 жыл бұрын

Labels...good for jam jars Can one look back without staring Love uncovering nature as the nature of my nature. Thank you

@kristinaa9476 3 жыл бұрын

Revelation 21:8 But for the cowardly and unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”

@leopoldoarzadum6866 3 жыл бұрын

what the f the introduccion

@loup9356 3 жыл бұрын

Be true to yourself.....everyone looks in the mirror....

@amyp9010 3 жыл бұрын

Okay I'm not sure that I got the answer to if you think of is wrong with you then what? So for me to say I can't date or marry this guy I had a kid with because he says that I'm borderline personality disorder and I have wired Minds that is differently than others and that I know is normal to notice people around the world in the check them out to stare at them and the fantasize about it everything I've I know that happens it's maybe I'm being a hypocrite then because my guy that I used to date I will see him use elevator eyes and women sometime to tell me they weren't even his type but he's still using elevator eyes she would tell me that she I can't tell if she's my type because her face was covered the other girl he told me he wasn't even she wasn't his type and two girls had their face covered up so my question is can you ask them to be respectful and not stare at the opposite sex for such a long time. then I realized what would do we do when we're having sex do you fantasize about other people....ya..im sure lots of couples do..?5

@agiff8690 3 жыл бұрын

Row row row your boat

@z0uLess 3 жыл бұрын

Hows so? Maybe you have an automated perceptual response when you hear someone describe something in many words while using a broad set of references?

@agiff8690 3 жыл бұрын

@@z0uLess could be but that doesn’t take away from life being a dream. Merrily merrily Happy Easter 🐣

@natertater4974 3 жыл бұрын

@@agiff8690arguably if life is a dream when do we wake up? Are you suggesting life isnt real or are saying life is real like a dream in our head and it is perceived by our subconscious? If life is a dream I think one would conclude it is a nightmare with a happy ending when the suffering ends.

@GrubKiller436 3 жыл бұрын

@@natertater4974 My life is a nightmare, that's for sure.

@agiff8690 3 жыл бұрын

@@natertater4974 I don’t know anything about the afterlife but I think it a reunification with ourselves but don’t quote me on that

@themasteryocheese8133 3 жыл бұрын

@GarlicGrinder9 3 жыл бұрын

"You dont know how you ride a bike." Wrong. Thats only if you have been doing so for a VERY long time, to the point that the process is almost subconscious. Thats what makes driving so dangerous. The combination of MILLIONS of people who, allegedly "know what they're doing." . I can EASILY describe how I drive, walk, ride a bike because I dont get complacent.

@GarlicGrinder9 3 жыл бұрын

@@kaniza1465 you just described it. "Whatever way it sees fit" is a combination of what I want to happen and my brain's calculations as to the best way to do that.

@grcvky 3 жыл бұрын

This guy overates himself

@xKateshi 3 жыл бұрын

@Geegee Poo That's a lot of damage.

@grcvky 3 жыл бұрын

@Geegee Poo look all the his wisdom is available to anyone who lives through life the only difference is that some people dont try to understand themselves or how their surroundings work.And for these people JP is the shit.Never worship anyone use your own mind and know yourself.Jordan is just a human and his fame got to him thats it. Im my own master i dont need nobody.

@xKateshi 3 жыл бұрын

@@grcvky I smell ignorance. That's completely fine if you don't understand his brilliance, not everyone has the ability to. Also I would say that people underestimate Jordan rather than him overrating himself, there are videos where that kind of people make a fool of themselves in a debate with this man. I agree with almost everything else tho.

@grcvky 3 жыл бұрын

@Geegee Poo you care to much...hence this essay of a coment. U made sense what you say has validity but wisdom is there for everybody who lives through life and hardship and then evaluates for himself what not to do or think to not get the same result or in contrary continue doing what works.what i cant stand is people who want others to do their thinkin for them.Jordan is not someone to put aside as a fake guru but like everyone else and like yourself also we as people get cocky after geting a lot of approval and fame. The fact that u are trying to sell me Jordan Peterson it reminds me of religious people trying to sell jesus as a saviour. Hahaha i listen and watches meny of JPs videos and what i saw that he belives firmly is that we are our own saviours by changing our point of view.And this idea is as old humanity itself.

@grcvky 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha and i smell periods when i read ur coment hahaha @Kateshi××××××××× hahaha