Seriously!! It’s crazy the judgement in the comments lol. I noticed not a lot of people will say much if it’s the bachelorette too but if it’s the bachelor, they go after them smh. Zach was wrong for breaking his rule he proclaimed to the world lol but other than that he’s like every other bachelor/ette, plus at least it was with one person and though he broke his rule it was with ONE person

Not like him and katy didnt sleep twice already

That’s really not the issue. On television you can see things in people that they don’t know you can see. He clearly was favoring Kaity the entire time. He SAID he was going to be transparent and in the end he wasn’t. Gabi kept asking him which way he was leaning in a round about way. His response was “I’m falling in love with you” which to me was an obvious and clear lie. He misled her and that’s not honorable or transparent. I’m the end he showed his true colors. Sex isn’t the issue. Honor is

I don’t think Kaity is seeing the BIG picture. Love is blind. He’s not compassionate. He’s not emotionally intelligent. He seems to be very immature to me in a lot of ways. He owed it to Gabi to be honest. It was obvious to me the entire time that Kaity was going to be the one, but he had to go through the motions because of the show. He lied to Gabi by telling her he was falling in love with her. You could see it on his face that he wasn’t sincere. He betrayed her trust. I just hope he becomes a better man for Kaity.

Zach is a walking red flag. He slept with another woman the week of proposals after saying he wouldn’t and told Katy about it.

They were both acting and knew he would pick her. He chose to drag it along and lead the other women on.

Wishing them all the best. They really do seem like a good match, and at the end of the day that's the point of the show. Zach for sure made mistakes but people are imperfect and hopefully this is a learning experience and all involved can ultimately heal. It's a shame to see there's people sending them hate but I hope the negativity serves to strengthen their bond as they navigate life and its ups and downs. Even with the mistakes, I never doubted the sincerity of their relationship or how well they suit each other.

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Yeah me too it was obvious

you can be "emotional" and still develop healthy boundaries relative to how and when you express them.

@@tjh4115 It is difficult to control that tho when you're like Gabi or me.

Lies! Ariel was the only one who did not cry. Why didnt her pick her ? Because zach is an actor and chose to drag her along. He already knew he picked Katy from their first sleep over.

@@Erenyaegerbernardin its a friggin game show. they are ALL getting dragged along. And there is waaaay too much cultural difference, dramatic cultural difference, for Ariel and Zach to have ever made it. get real.

@@TruePathLiving When i was young, in my 20s, and when most young folks are at that stage, they will have a tendency to be overly emotional. Not all, but some. It takes a while to learn how to "adult" effectively, and for the hormones to settle to be more even. Plus as you age, you learn things like emotional moderation. Some will require medication and or therapy to address chemical deficiencies, neurodivergency... You CAN learn to control your emotions once you realize that its always best not to react to "whatever" in the moment, but instead to wait to see how it plays out. We see and experience things from too close up to have rational reasonable responses (R3). Learn to do some deep breathing exercises and bite back immediate reactions. it gets easier over time. Kaity is likely calm due to her training and experience as an RN

Yes

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Gorgeous kaity!

Yeah even though he made a mistake he's probably thinking if Gabby can give it up to him so quickly then will she do that on the outside with other men that's how it is that's how they think and he's right

@@shawbrothersgirl2740 For most men, if he has a choice between marrying a woman who gave it up and marrying a woman who made him wait, he is always going to choose the one who made him wait. Men like to chase. It's a fact that has existed for centuries. I knew once he insisted on making it public that it was more about clearing his conscience for Kaity more than anything else. I just feel sorry for Gabbi though as she seemed genuinely in love with Zach when I could tell he wasn't with her.

@@jerrydeal4158 Correct and I re-watched Gabby and Katie meeting the parents like 3 x and the reaction of the mom to Katie was way different than the reaction to Gabi the mom's said in particular Katie seemed so natural and their body language was different to Katy I'm not a body language expert but I do study people's body language and gabi's body language when she was basically demanding an answer from Zach as to who he's going to pick came off to me as a little cringe like she's a little nuts or something like a little controlling or something not good and I'm sure that he picked that up as well.Like I Don't hate Gabby but this is an advice to you Gabi maybe don't open your legs because you were saying you never have good luck with men or something like that maybe it's because you give it up too quick maybe you should keep your legs closed and let them work for it

Yes he did

Same

Like he is the only one? Didn't Andi sleep with Nick and then pick Josh?

If this were outside of bachelor franchise, sure I would not tolerate that but this is the bachelor this happens (almost) every season lol this is what they sign up for

Katy was in on it the whole time. She slept with him twice.

So does other men unless he’s a virgin . Get that out of here . Be happy for them and move on

​@@starlasimmons1994 My point isn't that you need to be a virgin before marriage. I'm saying that most people don't want to know that the person who just proposed recently had sex with another person earlier that week. Maybe they'll make it. If they do, that's great. Most Bachelor couple don't. But anything's possible.

Same here

Aren't you the judgement police....

@@roter13 Sure Jan.

Don't think he was thoughtless with almost all the women. It's a hard process and yeah sure he's made mistakes along the way, but I think he's a good person at heart

zach is 26 he is a kid.. he just looks 45... her daddy issues might be an issue layer down the road tho.

@@wadebrunner3724 it Zach is 26 then I must be 13 tf.

Stop projecting.

@@roter13 😂

@@chantalszemenyei4523 ikr 😂😂

All men are the same

He wanted to go out with a bang 🤭

He wanted to taste Gabi’s maple syrup

Yeah he said he'd want to only be intimate with the one he chooses and he knew he wasn't gonna choose her so it feels like he just used Gabby :( I can't look at him the same anymore

I hope so cause Kaity deserve better!

Ehh, i think Ben was genuinely torn it between his final 2 and was he compatible with both, like he could've flipped a coin to make his decision

What makes them so amazing?

He have no respect for Kathy, he knew he was going to pick her, why he slept with Gaby and then talk about it? What type of men do that?

@@francinefrancine381 he's nothing but a piece of dirt.

@@muffinman4353 I agree... not sure why I wrote "amazing" .. lol

Why? Zach is a walking red flag.

​@@tmbrad1288 now why would u say that not nice

@@preciouspayne723 it wasn’t nice that Zach broke his own boundary but sleeping with the woman he knew he wasn’t going to pick and told the other one he slept with her.

​@TM Brad why did he do that

But she was soooo anxious in the last two episodes and even got emotional. Did we watch different episodes? LOL she was calm ish but you could tell she was in her head a ton

blaming men for everything again....here we go

Come on stop it! Stop making rumors!

@@melc8388 he slept with another contestant.

He did not cheat they were all in an open relationship 💘

If he loved her as he claims now, he wasn't going to sleep with someone else. The same story with Peter and Madison! Madison made the best decision.

It's a beautiful proposal for two beautiful people. As long as they are happy that's all that matters

And that's your opinion. Was merely stating mine. If that's what happiness looks like feels like to the so be it.