Jab insaan marta hai tab aate hai sb log, lekin jb koi jeena chahta hai , help maangta hai, to koi ni aata hai.

Parents become innocent after such happening and blame government and coaching but never understand their expectations are the building blocks of pressure

These suicides would continue.. trust me.. unless we won't change our mindset, mentality, education & this obsession with Doctors & Engineers..!!

Here it goes..I was preparing for pmt exam..one day I went to my sir for motivation and his words were 'forget about your selection,people are competing like anything..your preparation won't do anything'..I went back home depressed..told my parents about it..my mom said just one thing..'you will win..may be not now..but one day you surely will..and you keep doing your work..god is there to decide not these teachers..and you are always a winner for me already'..And believe me..I cleared my pmt exam that year only with good rank and now preparing for PG exams..just because my parents were my teachers..and that teacher called for interview that year..I just answered back by saying..'SIR,I GOT SELECTED BECAUSE MY PARENTS BELIEVED IN ME..NOT BECAUSE YOU TAUGHT ME..even if we don't come for interview..your business won't get affected..so people..just stick to your parents family relatives support..:)

MAI 10th first class aur +2me FAIL😭 magar kuch HUNAR seekh k khush haal jeeraha hun. ALLAH SAB K SAATH HAI

i had also been suicidal in kota while going through this phase so i understand . but didn't have enough guts to end my life. lucky that i didnt have it then.

आखिर क्यु मर जाने के बाद ही सब लोग बोलते है कि बहुत अच्छा था हमने कोई दबाव नही डाला था पढ़ाई का सच तो ये है कि बच्चे पर दिन रात दवाब डाला जाता है पढ़ाई को ले के

भाईलोग लाइफ में कभी भी टेंशन मत लो यार,लाइफ बहुत लंबी है भगवान बहुत सारे रास्ते दिखाता है,कभी भी डरो मत,और कभी भी हार मत मानना,न जुर्म करेंगे और न ही सहेंगे,और माँ बाप का आशीर्वाद है यार कोई कुछ नही कर सकता।।

I am student of Allen carrier institute. Currently m studying in kota.. hmm here is alot of pressure of education..nd none of any coaching forced any student or give any pressure to students..Its our society or relatives nd their words,hopes made tough pressure on student.. Trust me ... "Expectation" is the main reason behind kota's students suicide.

If you fail never give up because F.A.I.L means first attempt in learning

The real problem is guilt. Yahi lagta h ki hamare mummy papa bhi sabke parents ki tarah itti mehnat kar rai h aur fir bhi humse nahi ho raha. This is a very big reason and I have personally experienced that pain of guilt. Uss samay bas yeah yaad rakhna ki life is huge bahut saari opportunities aayengi life me. And coaching centers literally increase this guilt, they are so costly. I am studying in 12th standard pcm and am preparing for jee through integrated school classes of one of the known coaching centers of my city and that fees factor of both coaching and school really worries me at times.

Kota is really death valley

Kota is a suicidal centre rather than educational center 🤔# shame on teacher #

Study is part of life , study is not life .

Bhai yaha agar marks kam aa gaye na to bhut se friend bhi bat Nahi karte hai

I have also suffered this type depression ,but now I am very happy because of my loving and caring parents and I realize life is so much beautiful

Have you ever seen advt. is published by any institute about condolences in the News paper about the suicide? only you can see the advt. about the performance 1 to 10 toppers idiots are running coaching there in kota

Since my childhood I never get good grades ... Even I failed in 10th that day my brother said me " never underestimate yourself you are inteligente but lazy In studies" after that I saw how my relatives and my friends disgrace me for fail... That was turning point of my life i always know that I have very good brain it's just that I m lazy.... Because I failed in 10th after clearing my backlog also I did not get admission in good school that I saw my father was requesting to those people but 😢😢😢... I got admision in low greade college but again in 12th I could scored more.... But my parents and brother never look down on me and slowly I got into my correct mind I have ability it's just that I have to polish myself.. and it works I scored 71.89% in my graduation .... Later in my PG I was passed with 83.56% ... People who always looked down on me now changed alot now they started looking brilliant child in me... Thanks my family who always belived in mE and encourage me to just do how much I can don't push yourself so hard that you lost yourself...

Is MAA Ka dard asahniya hai.....hey ishwar...rehem...rehem 😭

Loneliness is the cause of all depression..... But finding friends in that age of internet and fast life... There are a few to make friends.......I am home centred and I can understand#

So sad....😪😪😰😢😪😪😰😰😢 Allah aapko himmat de...kisi k saath aisa na ho Insallah ye aasu us teacher ko barbad krdega

Shame on those teacher's who never appreciate there students. And keep demotatiting them. Shame on the coaching institute who put pressure on the students.

I understand the neet pressure of dat guy!! Bcz I gone through that too ...😫

Sorry Richa mam! But this only a blame game, parents blame coaching, coaching blame child,parent blame chidren but survive and victim only child👶. but real blame comes our society's,...sorry for hard word's lekin bacha abhi zinda hota na toh usko dekh isko dekh aur kya buri tarah torcher jhelta I am student know the pain of pressure, log darte hai yaar ek chot se, socho kitni himmat chahiye, maut KO gale lagane ke liye... JAI HIND

Winning or losing is not life....life is all about to stand again and look forward..... life is beyond failure...☺

from last 3 year I am not able to clear my prelims of banking exam.but I am happy and trying to improve my self and I learn from my mistake. be happy life is very beautiful enjoy it

I am also medical student of aakash institute I also get fully depressed only always want to be died bt I don't do plz try to tell ur problem to ur parents

I faced three times upsc Ias interview now I'm suffering from depression and my life has been spoiled

Shame on that teacher.

i feel lucky i was a fail in school..

Tough competition, Too much pressure Family pressure Unemployment Society pressure Peer pressure Comparison No motivation, appreciation.

I don't know whether anyone would notice this confession of mine or not. I have been through this suicidal phase when I appeared my 12th exams because I was continuously thinking that I won't get passed in some subjects and how could I face this to the society because I have always been a more than average student. I remember I always notice to the fan because i was having those shit suicidal thoughts. And its something that you can't control . You feel like something negative is controlling you. But still I won. I won against those negativity . I thought about my parents . I'm the happiness of my parents , not my studies and all. I'm no one to give tears to my parents . This only thing saved me. And now I'm enjoying my life with ups and downs. But I just want to tell everyone you can't just expect good always. Worst phases come but we have to deal with that with utmost positivity. Thank you.

Marne ke bad sab log yeh kahte he lekin jab zinda hote he tab koi nahi kahta ki "beta jo karna hain karo, yeh life tumhari hain, kuch farak nahi padta ki tum kitne paise kamate ho, kya kam karte ho," real success is happiness, not money " Stay happy, do whatever you like, it's your life, it Wii be end in just second" So enjoy every second of life❤

Children should be encouraged to play sports to help them fight depressing thoughts.. Sports helps a lot to deal with challenges of life.. You come out as a strong person.. Sports should go hand in hand with studies.. If this happens we might see dip in suicides in our country..

Someone made my day by posting this today.. New York is 3 hours ahead of California, but it does not make California slow. Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job! Someone became a CEO at 25, and died at 50. While another became a CEO at 50, and lived to 90 years. Someone is still single, while someone else got married. Obama retires at 55, but Trump starts at 70. Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone. People around you might seem to go ahead of you, some might seem to be behind you. But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME. Don’t envy them or mock them. They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours! Life is about waiting for the right moment to act. So, RELAX. You’re not LATE. You’re not EARLY. You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you. In conclusion don't rush to get and don't be sad if things turn out to be slow. In Gods hands time is a tool . He makes all things beautiful in His time.

I am also feeling bad for my self..., But I have not girth to commit suicide..

किसी exam में fail होने का मतलब जिंदगी में fail होना नहीं हैं। हमे हमारे education system को

Agar kisi exam me ya studies me 1000 bar bhi fail ho na fr bhi itni himmat rkhna ki apne ma bap ke samne ja sako par hmesha ke liye unki ankho se ojhal mat hona🙏🏻

There should be mandatory courses of stress management and mental health since junior school. Because world is progressing, world has become competitive.But the mental health is ignored so much. It has much necessity.

When I was in 11th I was dead set about getting admission in Aakash. But my mother didn't allow me to do it. I'm inherently great full to her for not letting me become a part of the herd.

Nice show.It will show student what happens to their parents after suicide.They will think thousand times before doing such stuffs.

I think this video is provided the best positively thoughts, inspiration to every student and parents so please kindly share this video to anyone or may be someone who needs and who is studying from his/her heart share this video... thanks..from a mother,and father...god bless u all

In todays world there is hidden pressure on students..even though parents support them, there is always competition, and so many factors. U cannot apply direct pressure, but there are some students with their nature, they feel pressure by their own..they see day to day struggle of their parrents, their sacrifices and even though they support him/her, he/she ended up feeling pressure or urge to full fill their needs...by seeing relative kids getting job, even though parents dont say anything, they still feel bad about themselves and feel pressure.. ------- Words of experience.

I lived in depression last four yrs Little more now I overcome from it Plz pray for me to live happily 🙏🙏🙏🙏

mere friends kabhi bhi apne mother father ko sad mat karna kyu ki hum unse h wo hum se nahi

एक लाख बच्चे 10हजार का सिलेक्शन फ़ीस एक लाख क्या करे बच्चे दिल से ध्न्यवाद यूट्यूब के शिक्षकों को जो हमारे साथ है

There is no pain for parents bigger than losing their child and that too by suicide. India is such a meritocratic society. If you are professionally unsuccessful, you are not worth anything. We have to change this sick expectation and tell the children to do their best in anything they enjoy. There are so many options in life to make decent living. So what if you don't become a doctor or engineer or IAS etc. The government should provide grants and guidance to the youth for starting businesses.

He came from a poor family , he know that his father has taken loan now there is tremendous competition in medical even more then IIT because you can do engineering from private institute but to do MBBS from private institute it takes huge donation ....so he might have felt that he will not be a doctor + loan in his mind + continuous coaching pressure. ===== SUICIDE

In sabka main reason pyar hai ma'am... Agar un sab bachhon ko us samay koi pyar karne wala, koi samazne wala mil gaya hota.... To shayad vo aaj jinda hote... Mushkil ye hai ki aaj ke jamane me koi apna dhundna bhott mushkil hai... Ham jise apna samazte hain, unke pass hamare liye time nhi hota, or vo ignore karte hain..... Vidambana hai yeh😔😭

i too was in hostel struggling every day with depression ,anxiety. then finally one day i told my parents about this and decided to not go back to hostel and i started to do study from my city . and to live a confortable life with my family .

I have decided that i will not die by looking that women she is like my mother and i can see anything else but not tears in my mom's eyes i love her and my other relatives love me more than anything else

Yeh sab bas dilasa dene ki bat hai jab job nahi milti hamko hamare condition kisiko nahi samjhega na govt na ye samaj

peer pressure competition and all. they dont know widout degree people make millions. less life exp. limited perception, unfortunately in shool and college no one teaches how to live life in all situation.

Kisi ko bhi batao apni pareshani... taqleef is bat ki hai ki koi sunta hi nahi...

Parents thinks their children to be their property and show to world as their status symbol and always wants chindren to be according to them and always wants children to study and become somebody according to their wishes... the hard truth is that parents only love themselves not their children and the moment their children are not according their wishes all their love and affection is gone

suicide in Kota means Allen institute...why everytime Allen..

I am one of the sufferer, plz every parents teach art of living to your children, forced him to make every moment special

I'm an Mba graduate(76.28%) but because I'm a girl i can't do job...aaj meri sadi ki bat ho rhi hai...is par v mai jisse sadi karna chahti hoo usse nhi kar sakti...i told my parents everything...but aaj wo apni jid me hai...mai jinda hoo to sirf apne parents ke lia....jabki mere parents ki priority ijjat aur samaj hai ..unka sar jhukana nhi chahti thi par khul ke jina chahti thi...ma bap waqt rehte bacho ka dard samjh jaye to acha hota hai...kyuki bache v ek point ke bad har man lete hai...jab wo helpless worthless feel karne lagta hai

Richa ma'am aap bahut achi Ho, main aapki dil se bahut izzat karta hu, I love you ma'am 😍

The situation is very tense in India....it is very easy to say...don't commit suicide...but I personally know...it's not that easy....if u are a general category middle class student in a family where you cousins are outperforming you everytime...it becomes one hell of a life...I too have thought many times of suicide but just couldn't do it...

Pichle 3 din me 4 sucide Ho Gyea Fir Kota me😥

aisi coachings ko band kr dena chiye

The biggest illusion that students have is they think that achieving their goals will give them happiness But while happiness is a state of mind....

aaj suicide ki vjah...hmare friends parents teachers or society hai ...students coward ni hote ..hme bnaya jaata h coward ..😒

101%helplessly feeling down

Same is the case with me...i scored only 43 percentile in jee mains bcoz i want to do bsc physics hons. I have a lot of intrest in physics, but my father😭 he want me to do btech from iit....and on my low marks..he said to me " Tu kch nhi kr skta zindgi me,😭😭😭, koi value nhi h teri meri nazaro me😭😭😭😭😭"...each and every day i've studied only to make him proud and in the end he said all this....😭😭😭😭.😭...i can't bear this stress and humiliation anymore😭😭😭😭😭..

Even after getting qualified in advance iwas unable to get into an IIT due to general category..I request govt to give equal importance to all the casts..these useless things happen only in India

but hame yahabhi sochna chahiye ki ham marjane ke bad hamare parents khoosh rehe payenge vo bhi marjayenge so aisa nahi Karna chahiye

hum zindagi ke lye padhte hai ya zindagi padhai k lye hoti hai....think about it

Mam aapko mai salute krta huu,,,,,u r the greatest person in the world😀😀😀😁😁😁😀

I cried a lot today..i can feel the emotions of this perents

If you loose somewhere and want to quit please don't quit Atleast live for your parents.

I also get coaching of iit from a institute and I know what is study pressure 🙄how marks and ranks become important slowly slowly..🙄but my parents always motivate me🤗

There must be a counsellor in every school ,any teacher who is very friendly with the students so that the students can share anything with them

Mam ur last lines , speech is very good, inspirational... thanks mam and salute to ur show

Thanks it's always remind me my importance of my parents tear.

Jb tk parents ka support rahta h tb tk koi bhi suicide nhi karta h, ye maine personally feel kiya h, maine 2 year failure ko jhela h kota me bt 3rd year mera selection ho gya..

In every class of life either to be in medical college ,engineering college or even in defence there should be some regular motivation to upgrade the life.

I can't personally comment on any student's mindset...but i must say that loosing hope is the worst thing nd committing suicide worst than that...because everything is in our hand...no pain no gain..👍

Aisi padai ka kya faida jo sabko zindagi se hi chutkara dila de😣😫😫😥😥

Bro studying is the only way a person can ever become rich. Sad but true without a rank no one gives a job.

Na parents na teachers....koi kuch nahi kehta....ye joo aajkal ka environment hai youngsters mai...wohi inki jaan lee raha hai ...koi fark nahi padta agar aap waise nahi hoo jaise sab hai.....its ok to live a life....which others are doing ..

or jane walo ko jane se pahle ek bar apne parents k bare me jarur soche

I haven't gone to any coaching centres. Got scored better from my 12th results. I was in depression , had migraine sinus attacks in 11th and 12th classes, saridon tablets 💊and my diary were my best friends that time. But, still having dissatisfaction of not getting into best clg . And, my 12th class chemistry 🧪 teacher - MR. Lokesh was not less than a monster for me , he even said me to not to go to college as me like student should not go to clg, as I'll waste my parents money. But, today I'm having that confidence to stand in front of everybody and tell that I'M AN AUTHOR AND HR - I 'HIMALI CHAKRABORTY'. 👍👍👍❤️❤️. PROUD OF MYSELF 🧿🧿🧿

I still get suicidal thoughts, very often. I am very emotional and don't think I am mentally tough enough. Both my parents, specially my dad keeps on embarassing and humiliating me for not being able to clear the exam. Embarasses me for so much money he has to invest in me now. I just run away from these harsh steps because I just can't see them cry the way the parents in the video are crying. I've moved on after being broken by my exam, but my father is so resisting to move on. For him, IIT is everything, even if it's biotech. To anyone reading this, it might feel like I am so much against my dad, but no, I love him to my core. But my heart feels like dying. I know I will get so many opportunities even in the college I am joining, but my father does not understand this. Yes, he is right that if I can't clear the exam, I might be no good, but pls someone make him understand that I can still do better in life than many who did clear the exam. My board score of 90+% means nothing, whereas several students strive to get this too. Anyways, I just hope these thoughts never go to my extreme and I just move on ignoring these humiliations, like I am doing now. I just want to work hard and get placed in some 20 LPA+ MNC, because such companies do come in my college who offer these, and prove everyone around me wrong, including my parents, shut everyone up and show I am capable too.

Parent and society are most responsible because they doesn't give proper guidance...

afsos to us baat ka hai ,us teacher ko parents ne kuch kaha nahi,usake upar case karana chahiye tha

Parents ki गलती है.... ज्यादा... घर से ही बच्चा सीखता है

The important thing in life is the life itself

I have been to Kota for IIT JEE and could clear even mains and been through depression . After seeing this I begin to think I am lucky to come out from there alive

Parents ki niyat wrong nhi hoti bt Jane anjane kuch gltiya kr jate hain .aaj bachche ke jane ke bad jb kuch nhi bacha tb vo apni galti ka ahsas krte hain .main bhi apne parents ke sath kuch aiese hi dipression se gujar rha huin .yaha tk maine utube pr search bhi kiya ki kaise phanada banate hai .is video ko dekhne ke bad mujhe samajh main aaya jb tk samne ho koi bhi apko sajh nhi skta yaha tk maine khulkr bat bhi ki apne mata pita se bt vo kabhi bhi nhi smjh skte .maine bhoot kosis ki khud ko s ambhalne ki bt nhi ho rha ab .sayad meri hi glti hai .mujhe ma papa se koi shikayat nhi hai mere jaise ldke ka yhi hal hona chahiye .

Mem Aap bahut logon ka aansu pochhne ka kam karte hain. Aap dil se bahut achhe hain

teacher kaise bol sakte hai Student ko even they their own child.

Believe in yourself, think about your parents, life is precious, find your happiness, why are you thinking so much about job, money, IIT, medical exam etc.these are material things .Give your time to your Parents.try to achieve your goal,give your best.But please don't become so much crazy for all these things.All the best.

Thanku somuch Richaji for your great nd meaningful efforts ❤

Dear parents please do not force Ur children let them do what they can do freely and happily please it's my request children are very sensitive and delicate

RichaAnirudh mam u r too good in your profession...

I was preparing for CA ...I cleared my cpt in first attempt and started preparing for next level but I stopped going to classes in between as i felt the teachers are not good enough and I didn’t do anything for next 6 months after leaving coaching after one year i again started classes somewhere else but somehow I sto going classes again and this continued ...after having cleared cpt I couldn’t give my ipcc exam for next 2 years I was so depressed and thought of committing suicide and eventually I got convulsion attack and I my condition was like I could have paralysed or even died and that was the time when I realised the importance of life because I can become CA at any time of my life if not today definitely tomorrow but if I lose my life I won’t be able to get that back

Jab insaan marta hai tab sabko yaad aa jaate hai. Aur sab rone lag jaate hai. Lekin jab koi zinda rehta hai, tab log use pareshaan kar dete hai. Koi help chahta hai tab milti hi nahi. Aisi insaaniyat ho gayi hai ki jab koi mar jaaye tabhi yaad aaye, otherwise woh insaan toh kuch hai hi nahi. 😤😤😤

I was shifted from one board to another as my father was transferred to many times from SSC, cbse and ICSE. I failed miserably in my ninth std. My parents lost all hopes in me.I studied hard Cleared board exams with 70% aggregate. Cleared 12 with another distinction. Did BSc Com Sci with first class and also became MCA without any live KTs. So if I can move up in life anybody can. One exam or one subject does not judge your identity. Nowadays there are millions of ways to earn money and earn the so called respect in society. Please understand the almighty has given you one life please enjoy don't throw it away. Sushant Singh Rajput has said kab jeena hain kab marna hain Yeh hum decide nahi kar sakte par kaise jeena hain hum decide kar sakte hain.