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38:21
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32:39
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28:11
Becoming a Family on Mission Pt.2
39:44
Becoming a Family on Mission Pt.1
32:43
Making Guests Feel Like Family
42:42
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@christellevanwyk1568
@christellevanwyk1568 5 күн бұрын
I don't think I was ever good at making friends.... live can be pretty lonely...
@charlesaurand8526
@charlesaurand8526 8 күн бұрын
I have family members who call themselves Christians but don't want Scripture and have cut me off from them for giving them Scripture.
@dianeporter5035
@dianeporter5035 11 күн бұрын
We all talk about others. We hide gossip as concern. I know I'm guilty of gossiping in this manner.
@islandgal7031
@islandgal7031 27 күн бұрын
I had shared something to someone whom i call a trusted friend .I didn't think it was harmful, as what I shared was true.So this friend of mine went and spread false information of what I said ,it wasn't loving from her side she didn't protect me,I don't think that she's a good friend. I learned my lesson always to keep quiet and not trust anyone easily. If they gossip to you about other's ,they'll gossip to others about you.
@Nelly_Oleson
@Nelly_Oleson Ай бұрын
Gossiping is akin to giving the stranger on the subway a blue job after they reveal themselves to you. That is what you are doing in essence when you take the bait of the gossiper who wants to spiritually degrade you. This is a war of spirit, people. Sharpen your rusty swords and be vigilant. God will test you in things that seem insignificant. Do not be caught off guard!!
@brookebenton8192
@brookebenton8192 Ай бұрын
Gossip is bad but you also have to be able to vent at times. I think we have to find be able to discern between the two.
@pacifist03
@pacifist03 Ай бұрын
Gossip is considered one of the major sin in Islam. The Prophet Muhammad once asked his followers, “Do you know what backbiting is?” They said, “Allah and His Messenger know best.” He continued, “Saying something about your brother that he dislikes.” Someone then asked, “What if what I say about my brother is true?” The Prophet Muhammad responded: “If what you say is true then you have backbitten about him, and if it is not true, then you have slandered him.”
@sallylara1102
@sallylara1102 Ай бұрын
I entertained it when I was fairly new to the faith with someone that had treated our son badly, this took place when we relied on Leadership to help us understand the Word assuming they were mature because of the time they have been in the faith, not realizing they were leading us astray. We attended Life Group etc genuinely hungry for the Word of God. Leadership justified their gossip by saying my family just wasn’t ready lol The Lord removed us from that unbiblical church and as we grew in the word I began to read more commentaries & apply the SOAP method. It actually became very insightful & clear. It’s very humbling to remember how much growth has taken place in the last year. Be careful if you are a new convert let it not discourage your relationship with Christ. 🙏🏽🎚️
@DoctorCarrieHall
@DoctorCarrieHall Ай бұрын
Believe me, the people that gossip don't realize that there are more people talking about them, than the person they are talking about. It's a form of insecurity, poor self esteem, and destructive. We all have been guilty of it at some point in our life. I make it a point to stay away from people who gossip.
@drishtisharma6114
@drishtisharma6114 2 ай бұрын
India teen mom 9.kids
@sabrinereasteel4526
@sabrinereasteel4526 2 ай бұрын
when people don't have issues to talk they speak about other people, please may they go to watch a serie or share a book
@suviraaggarwal1524
@suviraaggarwal1524 2 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 Help Dear Heavenly Father to get my son married as he is 36+ Please Lord of Lords 🙏🙏
@jaskim9652
@jaskim9652 2 ай бұрын
Guard your heart and tongue. Don’t let these things into your system as it can pollute your precious spirit and soul. God wants to protect us (our heart, soul, mind) from these things, which is why He gave us the scriptures as guidance. Proverbs 20:19 - “He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a gossip.” “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
@user-tm1jm5lo5o
@user-tm1jm5lo5o 2 ай бұрын
I’m a middle aged Christian and I don’t pay attention to whatever people say or think about me I’m 100% confident in my walk with God and my true identity never bide in to evil people. Thanks
@user-tm1jm5lo5o
@user-tm1jm5lo5o 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing I have been a victim of this issue most of my entire life and it keeps getting worse I get older I would of thought aging would maybe stop the slander and gossip but I guess it’s just getting worse. Thanks for the information .
@Nelly_Oleson
@Nelly_Oleson 3 ай бұрын
Gossipers want you to submit to their 666 intellect, which is a surrender to the devil. In a spiritual sense, you are drinking toilet water and polluting your soul with filth. You are also being tested. Put your trust in God instead of trusting someone else's thoughts.
@jessicastortz9138
@jessicastortz9138 3 ай бұрын
Karma
@jessicastortz9138
@jessicastortz9138 3 ай бұрын
Small minds are ALL a like.
@shawngraham4902
@shawngraham4902 3 ай бұрын
Never say anything about a person that you wouldn't say to thier face
@Laurence-cs2ky
@Laurence-cs2ky 3 ай бұрын
I avoid my neighbors like the plague
@davidwhitcher1972
@davidwhitcher1972 3 ай бұрын
I hate talking about myself to strangers.
@lynngroll1
@lynngroll1 3 ай бұрын
It’s destroyed my life with my husband now he’s going in assisted-living and I have no clue where I’m going to go💔
@andynonimuss6298
@andynonimuss6298 3 ай бұрын
Unfortunately these are way too personal of questions to ask strangers and weird ones at that.
@lovinglife3954
@lovinglife3954 3 ай бұрын
So difficult to do this in the corporate world when a leader gossips about people then is so sweet to them in person. Makes you wonder what they are saying behind your back when you’re not around. Subscribed.🙏🏻🙏🏻
@sherynngofa6175
@sherynngofa6175 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your ministry! I learned so much about the Holy Spirit today.
@deelovely
@deelovely 4 ай бұрын
My son is 33 and he wants a Godly wife. I have been praying for my son, just waiting for God to bring it fruition. Amen
@jehovah1ize
@jehovah1ize 4 ай бұрын
My son is almost 38 years old and still hasn't found his godly wife. I've been praying this all his life. I will keep on declaring that God will bring her to him and prepare them spiritually in the mighty name of King Jesus. Amen 🙏
@deelovely
@deelovely 4 ай бұрын
Amen Praying for you. Please pray for me, too. My son will be 33 and he wants a Godly wife. I have been praying for my son, just waiting for God to bring it fruition. Amen
@suchiemate6525
@suchiemate6525 Күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@stephenbrown2367
@stephenbrown2367 4 ай бұрын
I live In Denver lol 😂 Good to know that:)
@janedoe5229
@janedoe5229 4 ай бұрын
I have found that people enjoy talking about their children. Especially if I am with an intimidating person, and I don't know what to talk about, asking about their children gets them to be relaxed and themselves: how many kids do you have? How old are they? Are they going to school (what is their major) or working on their career. If I am talking to kids, asking what their favorite subject in school can be a dead end. If that's the case ask them what their least favorite subject it. They LOVE complaining about school.
@laurielenig9939
@laurielenig9939 15 күн бұрын
Ok, your decision.
@seasidelegal5490
@seasidelegal5490 11 күн бұрын
Yes, they do. They have totally lost me after 5 sec.
@AnuRadha-tc4zb
@AnuRadha-tc4zb 4 ай бұрын
Nah. Where were you born is question often about distant pass and not everyone want to be associated with place of birth because.. they are not that place! People often start changing conversation about place of your birth while you want to talk about books shows weather etc. nope! Childhood memory😂 hah dude it’s too intense, emotional and definitely not an ice breaker for a stranger! Besides too many people don’t have ANY truly happy moments.. and have but they finished and people feel sad because it’s connected to loss and stuff. It’s very intimate question imo. The worst job! Seriously? Ok here the questions should be asked instead of: 1. What are you currently reading? 2. What’s your favourite tv show you would go back any time? 3. What’s your most memorable travel experience and why? Don’t his people’s past it’s often shitty. Ask about what in their hands now!
@krystalharris79
@krystalharris79 Ай бұрын
@AnuRadha-tc4zb I like your questions too - but in addition to the suggested questions from this video! We can't assume other people's lives and pasts are the same as ours - and see them through the filter we see our lives through. We should give others a chance to be themselves. Not versions we think we see of them. Out of curiosity, why would you assume a *favourite* memory from childhood would be about unhappy memories, or "connected to loss and stuff"? Most people understand favourite means something positive - and it should not make them feel any sadness. Maybe nostalgic, but that's not always a bad thing. You seem to have focused on only on the word "memory", not "favourite", so any associated negativity is interesting in how it's a little revealing about you. And a favourite memory is not that intimate, and can very definitely be a fun ice-breaker! As worst job can be! If I told you my worst job ever was when I was worm-picker, don't you think it could lead to a funny conversation? Wouldn't you want to know why I was picking worms? And what that job was like? Maybe not. Maybe it would just be a dumb boring thing to tell you. And then back to the punch bowl I would go! LOL Besides all that, one always has the option to self-censor and not share intimate details until they're more comfortable with people. The more you chat, the less of a stranger people generally become. And if you feel uncomfortable with someone, even talking about books, shows, music, weather, travels - none of it will be good! Just asking directions would probably be a bad experience! Just because you had a shitty background doesn't mean everyone you meet did too. Sometimes what's in a person's hands now is shitty, and their past is what they wish they could go back to, so they might love to reminisce and talk about it!
@markromero1544
@markromero1544 4 ай бұрын
church has helped me find the best supported people. if we talk about someone, it better be in prayer.
@bluesgic
@bluesgic 4 ай бұрын
This is my most bad behaviour. I really really need to cut it. Even though, i judged "bad" ppl but afterwards always feel wrong, and horibble person ever. It feels like i should see deeper than it "seems", but i did it again on the next day anyway. I really want to change. I hope God still forgive me :d
@catwoman7987
@catwoman7987 4 ай бұрын
Thank you this was so helpful ❤
@TrishBell1
@TrishBell1 4 ай бұрын
Message so to the point. I am saving this video to my files.
@57silverwings
@57silverwings 4 ай бұрын
You haven’t been to bar I go too. You’d get smacked out with your childish questions.
@jmobrawler
@jmobrawler 4 ай бұрын
I could do better when it comes to stopping gossip. Lately I have been playing devils advocate to defend the other person or turn it around to myself as a way of getting the topic off the one being gossiped. So gotta pat myself on the back for that
@amitabhaelliott
@amitabhaelliott 5 ай бұрын
Great video. Epic moustache.
@sherynngofa6175
@sherynngofa6175 5 ай бұрын
Cigars??
@user-jy1sd4kd4n
@user-jy1sd4kd4n 5 ай бұрын
0:43 ❤
@tbzanders
@tbzanders 5 ай бұрын
It is so sad to hear this interview and see it is still posted with the recent statement coming from APEX church, 3D Movements, and Julie Roys regarding the independent investigation at Apex that found Mike Breen had carried on an affair with a vulnerable member of the congregation and had a history of bullying, intimidating, and refusing to reconcile with fellow believers. Should this interview be taken down out of respect for the victims of his behavior? 😢
@romain1439
@romain1439 5 ай бұрын
How to turn friends into strangers is much easier
@sarahwoodman7881
@sarahwoodman7881 5 ай бұрын
This is excellent, really good food for thought and practical advice to shut it down. We need integrity as Christians or our witness is ruined. Plus we feel terrible ourselves afterwards. Thankyou for this 🙏🏻😊👍🏻
@Church888
@Church888 5 ай бұрын
The Bible is a Catholic book ❤️
@rolandmeyer7309
@rolandmeyer7309 5 ай бұрын
The Bible is a catholic (universal) book because it's for the benefit of all.
@Church888
@Church888 5 ай бұрын
@@rolandmeyer7309 , Catholics made the Bible ❤️
@rolandmeyer7309
@rolandmeyer7309 5 ай бұрын
@@Church888 I don't mean to be argumentative but no they didn't. If anyone gets credit it is the Spirit of God. Even Peter, himself, affirmed such. "For no prophecy was ever produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit" (2 Peter 1:21).
@Church888
@Church888 5 ай бұрын
@@rolandmeyer7309 , inspired by the Holy Spirit, Catholics made the Bible ❤️
@jamama3
@jamama3 5 ай бұрын
Being a giver, not a taker has so many proven benefits​-physical, mental, and emotional-​that everyone should make it part of their daily life. The Bible says "There is more happiness in giving than in receiving". Acts 20:35
@user-tf1oo9rj6u
@user-tf1oo9rj6u 5 ай бұрын
Also, point toward the source - "why don't we go ask them and find out?" and Avoid them if they continue in gossiping.
@leonbelton3460
@leonbelton3460 6 ай бұрын
*promosm* 😳
@NundaMedia
@NundaMedia 6 ай бұрын
That's true
@3legreg
@3legreg 6 ай бұрын
Two of my friends were gossiping about each other. Their grievances with eachother were minor but both of them came to me and others in our group to try and talk down on the other. I defended the unpresent person both times and and said they should keep their opinions to themselves. They were initially mad at me until later when they learned I was defending them when the group went against them. Eliminating gossip from your life can cause conflict but will help your relationships in the long run.
@Madcashmax
@Madcashmax 6 ай бұрын
THANK YOU💎
@sayidahiklima8125
@sayidahiklima8125 7 ай бұрын
Thank for the video. This is very useful for my referrence to making video content. ☺🙏
@EverydayDiscipleMakers
@EverydayDiscipleMakers 6 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!