i better not see a black girl with blonde hair then...
@MosesEneye-dm2rqКүн бұрын
I really appreciate you making this video. My ex of 4 years cheated and gave me Herpes virus during our relationship and I was devastated. You've made me feel so much better Dr Adigba on KZfaq and seeing all these people share their stories…
@koragray4794Күн бұрын
I'm agreed with everything that you said, because you on point on this topic. 😌💯☝🏾
@UnCommentaryBriКүн бұрын
Thank you 😆
@user-cv7hv2oy8t2 күн бұрын
Black dominates. However it's morally wrong to say you're black when it's convenient for you. Or use it, to reap the benefits of it, when the timing is right to do it.
@koragray47942 күн бұрын
I'm agreed with everything that you said because that what wrong in modern dating today cause of their expectations is too high and they don't think about realistic in the real world. Plus, look, all I want to be with someone not for only for long term but understanding relationship and also be myself as well.
@koragray47942 күн бұрын
Actually, to be quite fair: 'mixed-race' is when you have multiple ethnicities in your dna/bloodline. While 'biracial' is that you have two different ethnicities from two people from different cultures. Overall, I'm agreed with everything that you said though. 💯😌
@UnCommentaryBri2 күн бұрын
Thank you for the clarification 💕❤️
@user-cv7hv2oy8t2 күн бұрын
I agree because biologically speaking, most black people, who are descendants of American Slavery, are actually "multi-racial" because their ancestors were white slaveowners, African slaves, and Native Indigenous Americans.
@nathaniel38672 күн бұрын
If I as a black man only want to date outside my race I can do that. My problem is in the black community there are groups of people who 🍆 police black men like their slaves. I see other ethnicities of men date outside their race and nobody says anything. To me love is love. There is nothing wrong with two different people from different cultural backgrounds falling in love. However in all races there are groups of people who have this pro race segregationist mindset. They believe in racial purity nonsense. It’s a sick ideology to have. That if you date within only your race that your bloodline is pure but if you date outside your race your bloodline is unpure. Unfortunately I believe a lot of people today don’t mind their business enough. If you are a grown man/ woman or just an adult date whoever love you and appreciates you.
@antwanvaughn6920Күн бұрын
This is why I love white girl (I am a black guy) I talk one of my buddy of me I said is all white people scared of black people he applied it talk about the past for year and black people did on earth first
@michaelbarnes86492 күн бұрын
Sound padding on the walls, will absorb the echo, and You will sound much better!!!
@UnCommentaryBri2 күн бұрын
Thank you! I’ll be moving in a month, hopefully the sound will be better in my new place
@hadespersephone10122 күн бұрын
I feel like no one in the comment section actually addressed the videos content. Very dismissive or in denial. Real Love dose not have to use Black American Women as a punching bag in order to exist ir elevate.
@UnCommentaryBri2 күн бұрын
Exactly
@antwanvaughn6920Күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBri sorry to say this I do love white girl I always will
@antwanvaughn6920Күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBri and I from the south Tennessee
@centertonarkansastyrantpatrol3 күн бұрын
That black girl was happy with those white people.
@centertonarkansastyrantpatrol3 күн бұрын
Yeah she wasn’t happy to be recorded and felt miss treated by the person recording embarrassing her.
@centertonarkansastyrantpatrol3 күн бұрын
She was embarrassed by the person recording!!!
@centertonarkansastyrantpatrol3 күн бұрын
I literally didn’t see a thing they did wrong in the video.
@michaelg35733 күн бұрын
FBAs are non immigrants in the same way other countries (eg China) had a native population before it formally became a country. FBAs were here before there was a USA and our exploited labor built the economic foundation of the USA empire and we fought for all Africans to have rights as well. We deserve way more respect
@michaelg35733 күн бұрын
FBAs are a new creation that only exists in the USA. We're like a new mixed race of African, red/black Native, and European blood. Also, FBAs have been in the USA before it was a country. We're not in a "diaspora", we're in our homeland
@OliverK3 күн бұрын
27 years only dating African women - not African-American to make that clear - and i would never go back to my own ladies in Europe. I love the culture in Africa where u marry a family and a whole bunch of people, that will immidiatly take you as your brother, friend or uncle. I love how a meal becomes an event, how everyone gets close sharing the food, i love going out with all different age groups, all dance and all have fun. For my actual partner and future wife, she makes me feel loved, wanted and she upgrades my self confidence every day...for that i worship her, she is the center of my life and there is no day that passes without me telling her how unbelievable lucky i am that she choose me...Love from Berlin, Germany, am about to pack my suitcase to fly over to Nairobi to see my Queen! Date anybody you feel attracted to, love knows no border!
@hadespersephone10122 күн бұрын
As An African American Women Thank You.
@DrUmarJohnson1Күн бұрын
Kindly tell us all your views on reparations Oliver
@user-yp3od4wq3q3 күн бұрын
Any woman with a blond wig and a pink dress is authamatically a red flag.
@darell83104 күн бұрын
I buy my lady from savage all the time I’ve had no problem whatsoever they’ve helped on so many orders broke bitches speak the loudest 🗣️
@mrmystique4 күн бұрын
" i hate to say cheat . . Infidelity" literally used a synnonym for the word cheat in context to external affairs . . . People be so fucking silly and complicit and complacent when it comes to this kind of stuff. And as a single man. As a single gay man i see my fellow gays doing this exact same shit and its frightening to me because if i were to start dating this is what i would have to deal with and that just breaks my heart and wears down on my ego. Because i have zero confidence in trying to date. To my men and women out there gay or not YALL HAVE TO DO BETTER ! YALL JUST OUT HERE FUCKING IT UP FOR EACH OTHER !
@HarmonyJt5 күн бұрын
Idc what anyone says, a lot of men don’t care if you get your lick back lol. A lot of men pretend to care more than they do to keep women in this rollercoaster.
@LongRange2455 күн бұрын
Well you lost me with certain types of cheating.
@UnCommentaryBri5 күн бұрын
I’m saying there’s multiple ways of cheating. There’s more than one way to cheat
@abdulrahmanraheem4234 күн бұрын
Exactly...it's like an acceptable type of STD!
@LongRange2455 күн бұрын
My thing is why cheat just go your way. Say what y'all want but ain't none of y'all gonna tell me I'm gonna raise this child like it's my own and we not gonna talk about it and I better not bring no baby's. Yeah y'all can eat a whole glizzy
@LongRange2455 күн бұрын
Depends? You're the problem as well
@UnCommentaryBri5 күн бұрын
Explain …
@kgaogelophora40075 күн бұрын
Sometimes it's a trauma response and the person might not even be aware. They need self introspection and therapy. It's hard but possible to reform. One needs a strong and committed partner in order to beat get through it.
@LongRange2455 күн бұрын
@@kgaogelophora4007 2:00 pm today my first session now how many women continue therapy?
@LongRange2455 күн бұрын
Dummy
@Lou-jf4rl6 күн бұрын
None.
@UnCommentaryBri6 күн бұрын
🤣
@Blessingsjola6 күн бұрын
Your thoughtfulness and thoroughness contributed to speeding up my healing process. I wonder what could have become of me if you weren't the one who handled my case . Thank you for curing my HSV2 Dr Adigba on KZfaq
@antwanvaughn69207 күн бұрын
Yeah i am a black guy are course alot of black guy with a white girl it happened right now all over the unite state and other countries do the same (join the action to) because thank to all over social media and culture this is not new
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
No one said it’s new 🤭 we know about interracial dating. But no one has addressed the points I made in this video
@antwanvaughn69207 күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBri you know?
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
@antwanvaughn6920 this isn’t the 1800s. But wait till the video premieres you’ll see what I’m talking about
@antwanvaughn69207 күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBri I see more black guy with white girl in public it crazy 🤣
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
and I see black women with white men all the time. I live in NY and that’s absolutely fine
@MrKavonne7 күн бұрын
We are Foundational Black American mam we aren't African far removed from that Continent respect our history and culture just like y'all have different tribes in Africa see.
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
We are African 😂 tf don’t disrespect our ancestors like that
@MrKavonne6 күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBriYou are I'm a Black American not all of us originated from Africa.
@UnCommentaryBri6 күн бұрын
@MrKavonne okay 👍🏾
@mari_j_mc7 күн бұрын
Was it because u was black or was it because of how u dressed? Dubai is an extremely conservative country. Young American women come and dress like they going to Miami and wonder why they’re treated a certain way. It’s very disrespectful to their culture. I didn’t get any of the vibes or treatment ur speaking of.
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
I was dressed just fine, in the tourist areas, they are not strict. I was fully covered whenever I was not on my resort. And I was very respectful of their culture, I wore a hijab when I visited Abu Dhabi
@mari_j_mc6 күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBri Tourist area or not u will get a certain look if u aren’t covered even on the way to the pool. They r “tolerant” of less clothing from tourist from a legal standpoint but u still have some locals that frown at it. Had nothing to do with ur color. Most countries outside of the U.S. don’t even look at color. Ppl r judged by their country of origin and/or income class.
@UnCommentaryBri6 күн бұрын
@mari_j_mc every tourist on my resort was half naked lol so please do your research before just babbling, also this video is for people who are looks for safe places to travel while black because unfortunately not every country out here likes black people not treats us fairly. Look at how many black men and women go missing when they travel. Do your research and HUSH before coming on my channel honey
@mari_j_mc6 күн бұрын
@@UnCommentaryBri I don’t need to do my research. I’ve been to Dubai myself. U can clearly see the ladies covered from head to toe there. Why do u think they just turn that mindset off. I will never forget I was in Dubai and I was very conservative dressed most of my trip but this one night I decided to go to an African club so I had on a dress that was tight and low cut in the front. I asked the front desk person a question about catching a Careem and he gave me the most judgy look. I knew exactly why. U can say what u want but they don’t just turn off their culture and beliefs bcuz ur a tourist. They tolerate the skimpy attire but don’t like it. I travel a lot and I find that locals in most countries don’t like tourist that don’t respect the culture.
@Sugarp137 күн бұрын
Change the genders and see the effect
@nomessnostress7 күн бұрын
And guess what i see several women wbo dont ask for a yhing and is treated horribly.... so hey if she was this way when he met her, he must liked it and its his problem
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
Everyone is different, but theres a line between a mutual understanding and straight disrespect 🤷🏾♀️
@prodigalpriest7 күн бұрын
She had no class and the sound effects were unwanted. I'm not sure if that was even a genuine date. Because I didn't see her date at all. Someone else said that it was legit but I dunno.🤷♂️
@UnCommentaryBri6 күн бұрын
I think it was legit, I believe there was another video that came out that the guy made in response to what happened
@Golden.Delight7 күн бұрын
😂😂and he was givin me everything i wanted as a man🙈😂😂 is the side dude homeboy still givin her that?😂😂🙈🤢🙈😮💨🍿🍿🍿
@UnCommentaryBri5 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@cherylporter54657 күн бұрын
You should have not gotten married you supposed to have each other please smh no no body want to hear you you vowed to be there
@NPC-qf8pc7 күн бұрын
YOU ARE A PICK ME B
@UnCommentaryBri7 күн бұрын
I’d rather be a pick me than an unreliable wife / gold digger
@NPC-qf8pc7 күн бұрын
why would a woman pay bills? especially if she's doing all the household labor. hell no. these men are draining to live with and they make more money, stop being a pick me
@nubiexhair7 күн бұрын
Trash.
@jonespatterson10257 күн бұрын
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
@emmawalters56477 күн бұрын
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
@jonespatterson10257 күн бұрын
well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@emmawalters56477 күн бұрын
Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
@jonespatterson10257 күн бұрын
her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
@jonespatterson10257 күн бұрын
You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
@frederickjonesel19427 күн бұрын
Anybody that thinks that we can come together is clueless.
@sights3255kamobrin7 күн бұрын
wait so your Man off for One month an yew already cheating, an with His Bestfriend &&& getting money from Him???? wow Mam..just wow... One month of handling the bills should have never drove yew to do this kind madness... she act like it was yrs an yrs of Him not werking ... even then cheating is never the answer
@Kimberly_977 күн бұрын
Is she being serious?
@whomiswhowespeaktobutwhoiswhom7 күн бұрын
I am a 53 yr old widow. Where and when did this entitlement begin with these young women?! Who the in the hell do they think they are? It’s no wonder these young men hate y’all.
@whomiswhowespeaktobutwhoiswhom7 күн бұрын
What an absolutely terrible person. Like, evil.
@christinacortes15558 күн бұрын
I don't think there are a lot of women like .She's like this .
@mahaliathurston8 күн бұрын
My mother and father were single parents but also never actually parents and I remember when my grandparents adopted me and my grandfather would say “you see that girl on the side of the road pushing a stroller? Where’s the father?” And I was shake my head like idk and he would say “do you want that to be you?” I would say no but I was like 4 but to this day never had a kid and glad I haven’t had a kid by just anyone because one, it’s not easy people say it’s easy it’s not easy and 2 people become very bitter towards each other 3 why would I do that to another soul ?. Like people can hate all the want but the only person it affects is the children not you not the father nor anyone else just the children.
@daisylavender52758 күн бұрын
Marriage ain't for everybody. The End.
@UnCommentaryBri8 күн бұрын
Lmao, very true
@DaishasDigest8 күн бұрын
This can’t be real 😭
@grayreyesreyes82098 күн бұрын
The concept of marriage is lost on certain people.....smh
@daisylavender52758 күн бұрын
Yes! She sounds single
@karen1130888 күн бұрын
Marriage vows are written this way for a reason “for better or worse richer or poorer etc.” the original version of these vows include “forsaking all others” as in you don’t cheat when things get tough. Of course the other question is, when did she tell him the deal she mentioned, ‘what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine’ was that before or after they got married, and maybe that was fine with him when he was making enough to support them both, but he figured she’d step up if things changed given the marriage vows. Also his friend is a POS
@lashernedickson86758 күн бұрын
I'm upset she said "She didn't mean for it to happen" as though she can't control herself. Then immediately saying "His homeboy was everything I wanted in a mate" She is a COMPLETE MORON. HAD TO BE RAISED BY A SIDE-PEICE EWWW