Anybody else find that writing hand distracting?

#6 and #3 are the same.

Its deeper than low self-esteem, its fear of abandonment 🥴🙃🏎 veteran here! yet I'm not anxious as Im trustful and I even don't care at all when Im next to the person, I'm carefree because I have consistency confirmation and nutricion. In the emptiness I over desrealize.

YEAH SO TRUE, I AM SO SMART BUT NEVER AVAILABLE FOR ANYBODY....AND ITS GREAT

Yeah, whenever I'm the worst mood, I listen to sad music to calm me down.

loving your content good stuff!

What about reading a book so that I don't have to talk to anyone?

I blame this video for making me think in an uncomfortable way

Wars in global warming gonna be catastrophic lol

I'm a happy person that find solace in SAD MUSIC

As 50 cent said. "Summer time is the killing season. It's hot outside that's a good enough reason"

Being good at school simply makes you good at school

shouldn;t being smart make you realize this cycle and then come up with a solution to break it ? i mean i see it as more of a will problem than "drilled in our brain problem" ; in addition , isn't Warren Buffet book smart ? and he isn't doing too bad ..... just saying .....

How is it that a "smart person" fall victim to a charlatan as low as Rich Dad/Poor Dad author? 🤣

In life you should integrate all

I'm just mad they didn't call it the temper-ature hypothesis.

Making lots of money is not the goal in life.

I feel like you're overstating the 'benefits' of projection as if projection is positive in itself, I think projection is heavy negatively connotated and for a reason

Good job on the video 😊

I think there was a time when college degrees and especially PhDs were the ticket to a good life. But they've gotten too common where they are no longer tickets but passports. There's also globalization where the competition is global. The best from the "Ivy league" of other countries are just as good as American ones and they are competing for spots in Google, McKinsey, and Godman Sachs.

It just got warm out, this the shit I've been warned 'bout I hope that it storm in the mornin', I hope that it's pourin' out I hate crowded beaches, I hate the sound of fireworks And I ponder what's worse Between knowing it's over and dyin' first 'Cause everybody dies in the summer Wanna say your goodbyes, tell them while it's spring I heard everybody's dying in the summer So pray to God for a little more spring -Chance The Rapper

Bro make video longer than 8 minutes.... Your channel gonna blow up...

When I got bladder cancer, I felt fear. So I went to Taber’s and the internet, found out what it is, how it’s treated, what can cause it, outcomes, prognosis, and I felt a sense of control. This is what I do because I do not enjoy being in a state of chaotic fear. Don’t really see a downside. Some people didn’t like the character of Mr. Spock on Star Trek. Hey, he was ok with me.

Hey Aryan this side, saw your video and I think I can do way better can I get your information so we can connect and know some viral niches. Your future editor

This is so interesting because I've always asked myself why this happens - I live in Toronto and there's been increased number in shooting every year and it's spikes in the summer 😢. Thank you for the amazing video !

But education DOES correlate with higher income on average. Unfortunately not in every case: poor subject/major choices (e.g. it's hard to earn good money after graduating humanities), poor job choices, poor skills not taught in school e.g. due too being raised up in a pathological family (e.g. lack of communication skills, personal finance skills, smart risk taking, certain degree of self-confidence, self-motivation, ...), but those skills can be learned. "Rich dad poor dad" is the most terrible avice you can give, it's actually an anti-advice, just well as 99% of self-help books. In reality, education DOES matter, salary-working also DOES matter (in early career in particular), they're just too little as I mentioned above.

Short and good explanation

This is a proof that most of the Individual therapy is highly unreliable and in particular it should newer become a source of any Legally impicating Lettrs or documents because so many of those complaints might turn to be A projections or ... a bunch of False allegations.

Nicely done!

i had a guy who was behind 3 months on his mortgage had a gambling problem owed 3k to a bookie got a loan from a friend let go of a money making job and said i could look in the mirror and become a better human. Im a man who owes no person any money does gig work for myself get other people jobs and help companies find people for focus groups. ive literally supported two of my friends when they lost their job by getting them gig work. hilarious

I think the extreme versions of this personality can be bad but moderate makes for a good individual

What's it called when there's a sudden response to stimuli that didn't exist/wasn't trackable prior? Would that point towards Pavlovian reponse training?

Yo bro, great video. How’d you do the animation in the background? Did you use AI?

The worst part about this mechanism (as is displayed very evidently in this comments section) is that it’s probably one of the easiest mechanisms to pass off as normal and even superior 🤦‍♂️ It is funny because if someone is actually intelligent they will consider the possibility that they need to allow their emotions to guide their decisions sometimes, as I’ve found out.

An intelligent person loves men and women who know how to act. I'm waiting for all the apps. All of them. And they're all coming together. No need for any video game play unless. I hope the apps are closed by 31st of this month July. Thank you.

Hmm I think I know a few people that fit this assessment lol

Ngl, deserves more subs

Honest question because this got me to thinking. Thr first example of this defense mechanism, as long as the apologies are sincere and they stop after the shame of my actions have faded, and the makeup behavior becomes corrected behavior (ceasing to do the hurtful/offensive thing again) is this still undoing? If it is I would like to know. I tend to do things after sin like counteract distress or guilt with meditation, until it becomes smaller and easier to manage. I also use the next example shown as temporary remedy to emotional distress, because I tend to feel self deletus when I do something idiotic/wrong, even if it was a human mistake. Am I doing something manipulative/selfish/unhealthy?

I for one know that I don’t make my best decisions when I’m in a heightened emotional state. Which is why I’ve learned to regulate my emotions. If you don’t control your emotions, they control you

99% of people do this without knowing

TRUMPISM How can so many people worship TRUMP, without question? Time will tell what the voters decide, based on their biases and their truth. Great video TNX =========================================================================

Thanks for sharing!

Great summary!

Nice summary, I think you might have made an editing mistake at the end ("but splitting isn't the only defense mechanism you might be hiding behind.")

I'm the mentor type but I don't like any of these, including the mentor type.

This being in my recommended couldn't be more opportune.

Seeing this to not let her know

I like this because it’s like I subconsciously know all this information naturally however, I really don’t. But that’s a practical difference.

great work

Reason and logic are the optimal choice