Sexpectations Book
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6 ай бұрын
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@Sitiveni-f4
@Sitiveni-f4 6 сағат бұрын
My wife locked me out of our room for a year now. Her reason being that she is having uterine prolapse and doesn't want to have sex. She is not even doing anything to sort this health issue out. I don't want to breach my marriage vows. What can I do????😢
@DrCarolMinistries
@DrCarolMinistries 6 сағат бұрын
I'm sorry for the struggle. If you and your wife can't have conversations about this, I would encourage you to see a marriage counselor together. A third party can often help conversations happen more effectively.
@user-mj8us3ym5g
@user-mj8us3ym5g Күн бұрын
Wife doesn't want sex, marriage over. Husband doesn't want sex, marriage over. Sexless marriage is an anachronism. It's divorce without legal proceedings.
@neilgary3471
@neilgary3471 Күн бұрын
Men don't listen to this Lady!!! She is trying to turn you into a woman
@neilgary3471
@neilgary3471 Күн бұрын
You call yourself a doctor but you know absolutely nothing!!!
@DelbertTrujillo
@DelbertTrujillo Күн бұрын
Amen praise God
@bobmenzies556
@bobmenzies556 3 күн бұрын
How could a man offer any help resolving the issue if his woman lacks the maturity to explain to him what the problem is so he doesn’t have to play the guessing game of trying this or that? You have no idea how men want to resolve issues when it comes to mutually enjoying sex. But if a woman lacks the maturity and empathy to communicate to her man, it’s easy to see how things will end. In simple terms…both parties have to show up. For the record, too often when a man is misled into partaking in this wicked game, he becomes less desirable and unattractive he becomes to his woman. Thats just how it is. Her unhappiness does not stem from his shortcomings but more likely from within herself. Woman do not have an understanding of themselves as we are led to believe and I promise you there are few woman who have have any idea what a man of worth is. It’s a subject that never makes any topic of discussion. The difference is men have come to realize how true it is.
@danielc3003
@danielc3003 3 күн бұрын
All women are horny when dating but there is a food that can decrease a woman's sex drive by 97% . It is called wedding cake! Once the animal is in the the trap there is no need for more bait.
@pugger01
@pugger01 3 күн бұрын
My wife is distant bc she is an alcoholic and hates when I try to keep her sober-ish while with her church friends. She feels I didn’t help with our kid, but she completely shut me out of her rearing. She ran the show like how she had to when her own dad walked out.
@Shaferd
@Shaferd 4 күн бұрын
I have done all these things, she tells me what a great husband I am, yes I made mistakes 15 plus years ago. Even when someone gets convicted of a crime they get out of jail one point time or another I wonder when my jail sentence will end.
@DrCarolMinistries
@DrCarolMinistries 4 күн бұрын
Look for the WHY. It sounds something like, "Honey, I miss you! I want to understand what's keeping us apart." Check this out: www.drcarolministries.com/nine-possible-reasons-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-sleep-with-you/
@rodneyrichardson8286
@rodneyrichardson8286 7 күн бұрын
Women just use sex has a control tool,as soon as she can get what she wants without the sex,she shuts sex off,then start to use the 1000 excuses.
@Ekam-Sat
@Ekam-Sat 7 күн бұрын
Old lady once told me: "Boy, women will meet your every fantasy just so that they can chill with a hundred dollar bill. But once they get their security they will withhold their miauw-miauw like yesterday. And then they'll have the audacity to ask you to take a chill pill while it's their shenanigans that are ill."
@WinnieHoward-jb8db
@WinnieHoward-jb8db 7 күн бұрын
😊
@WinnieHoward-jb8db
@WinnieHoward-jb8db 7 күн бұрын
Aww
@JacobWillumsen
@JacobWillumsen 7 күн бұрын
rejection on rejection on rejection leeds for some to porn. The cure is there for not quit porn and then work on the sexual relationship with your partner. It is the other way around.
@Kristy_not_Kristine
@Kristy_not_Kristine 8 күн бұрын
This is good information, and it goes both ways. It's hard work, but with the right person it's worth it... good luck to us all!
@Kristy_not_Kristine
@Kristy_not_Kristine 8 күн бұрын
Amen! I knew something was wrong when he started being unkind to me a few months ago... married 8 years, sex about 3 times a week, idon't criticize or nag, i encourage and praise him, ask the things, and yet for some reason after all this time he's starting to watch porn... totally floored me because this hasn't been a thing until now. NOW i don't feel like having sex with him... wondering if he's with me or fantasizing any number of these women he's been watching... so hurtful to a marriage relationship! I'm not sure how we get passed this, i know I'm going to need to confront him. Probably the next time he rages at me and i can let him know i know the why to his treatment of me now...
@darleenham6590
@darleenham6590 8 күн бұрын
Needed this thank you
@DrCarolMinistries
@DrCarolMinistries 8 күн бұрын
@@darleenham6590 grateful this was meaningful.
@joefarrow487
@joefarrow487 9 күн бұрын
Women can have sex without enjoying it or caring for their partner & when a man figures out a woman is doing that he will lose interest in having sex with her as he is poring his love into her & she's not returning it. He then has two choices, leave or stay. If he stays he has two choices, cheat or go sexless. Nothing a man will do will change a woman's attitude on how she views him & sex. Only trauma & reflection will she be forced to change her mind
@pross6525
@pross6525 9 күн бұрын
I haven't had sex with my wife in a year. I get it with her medical issues. But if I wanted a celibate life I would go become a Monk.
@snowplow7883
@snowplow7883 9 күн бұрын
I said no because she had weaponized s3x, gaslighting, manipulation, infidelity, etc
@user-ob6dl3ln4g
@user-ob6dl3ln4g 10 күн бұрын
If the man doesn’t help any chores , doesn’t do any chores in the house and the wife always have to remind each week and the wife really hate him and doesn’t want to come close to him or sex
@aarongravit7606
@aarongravit7606 10 күн бұрын
Maybe she is the reason he doesn’t want sex from her. Maybe her attitude and bad behavior, insults, nasty underhanded comments, lack of respect turns him off but he stays because of the kids or remembers a time when she was less like that. I know his sex drive is still there and he would rather run one out says more about what the wife isn’t noticing about her behavior to cause this. Almost every relationship I have been in is make the first move or try to get some almost daily but some relationships I had the lack of respect, manipulative behavior just killed the mood. It’s like I love you but I don’t like you right now and if he says something it turns into a fight because she refuses to see she is doing anything to cause his reaction. Instead she will gaslight the situation and make it so she is the victim.
@sheetalsaini8901
@sheetalsaini8901 11 күн бұрын
Jesus never had sex, he was pure soul and sex is not pure to invite God when having sex lady
@Lacuna1122
@Lacuna1122 11 күн бұрын
Get God right in the middle. Have a hot MMF with God 😂
@andrewm4057
@andrewm4057 11 күн бұрын
This is great advice for beta plough horses. Sxl desire isn’t something you ‘negotiate’ into; it’s self-evident or it ain’t. Let her go. Stop torturing yourself.
@PaulC65777
@PaulC65777 11 күн бұрын
I fixed the problem. I got a gf and I pay for higher end escorts
@kat-601
@kat-601 15 күн бұрын
Welp when a man admits he needs a woman to the woman the games are on & sex will go away because she gets unhappy 90% of the time.
@_specialneeds
@_specialneeds 16 күн бұрын
Really? Sex really isn't "that" important. Is it? I don't know I guess it's just not something I think about on a regular basis. Just seems kinda silly.
@birdiesanderson
@birdiesanderson 17 күн бұрын
I will share how i feel then act according
@charlesdarwin5185
@charlesdarwin5185 20 күн бұрын
The only biological reason for male female interaction is procreation via copulation and DNA fidelity.
@charlesdarwin5185
@charlesdarwin5185 20 күн бұрын
Find another agreeable woman
@veritasaequitas9277
@veritasaequitas9277 25 күн бұрын
If you just decided one day you were never going out to dinner again with your wife, do you really think she wouldn't secretly go to restaurants and eat some really good meals? You know what to do.
@davidwhite207
@davidwhite207 26 күн бұрын
My wife has PTSD, so it's never going to happen.
@Kristy_not_Kristine
@Kristy_not_Kristine 8 күн бұрын
Ayahuasca. Have her look into it!
@sadguru1969
@sadguru1969 27 күн бұрын
If your husband does not want to have sex with you then you should be free to choose another partner to fulfill your biological need ! And same goes with the men ! Life should move on and that's the rule of nature ! The institution of marriage is man made and so the rules don't mean anything !
@gabriel-gc4uf
@gabriel-gc4uf 5 күн бұрын
Damn I so agreed.. there's nothing to force, let nature follow the natural way
@peoplehavetherights
@peoplehavetherights 28 күн бұрын
God bless you, Carol.
@wellsgriffin8211
@wellsgriffin8211 28 күн бұрын
This was good
@greysonguffey4139
@greysonguffey4139 28 күн бұрын
Amen
@gabegoldweight1854
@gabegoldweight1854 28 күн бұрын
After watching this, i am beginning to see why BLM lifestyle works, ain't nobody got time for this.
@gabegoldweight1854
@gabegoldweight1854 28 күн бұрын
Now i know why some men turn gay, they basically just gave up with having to deal with all this luggage. 🤡
@angelicahalpern7166
@angelicahalpern7166 28 күн бұрын
Thank you I finally heard something that made sense to me.. I so needed this 💝
@DrCarolMinistries
@DrCarolMinistries 28 күн бұрын
So glad this was helpful. Blessings to you.
@hajb23
@hajb23 28 күн бұрын
Very good thank-you. Have been experiencing condemnation the last few days. And will reconsecrate myself to Jesus.
@gregorybaldwin1658
@gregorybaldwin1658 29 күн бұрын
The old saying goes that if she is not getting sex with you, then she is getting sex with someone else. In other words, she may be someone else 304.
@annabanzon313
@annabanzon313 29 күн бұрын
ED
@user-it6ey8fx4d
@user-it6ey8fx4d Ай бұрын
Thank you for your helpful information in this video. ... Really brought Revelation Knowledge unto me. I simply cannot thank you enough! Very helpful! My first seeing your video/videos. Grateful GOD LEAD me here! GOD BLESS you, Dr. Carol! THANK you!!! ❤🙏🙏🙏
@dougg4633
@dougg4633 Ай бұрын
Romance my wife ... Didnt work fornthe 1st 25 years Dont think itll help the next 25
@dougg4633
@dougg4633 Ай бұрын
Talk about it 😂
@dougg4633
@dougg4633 Ай бұрын
Ok, so give up on sex ... Got it
@bigboy11271
@bigboy11271 Ай бұрын
lol #5 is number one! Wives reject husbands for years tearing them down then they wonder why his self esteem is low and why he’s put his attention on other things (things that don’t tear him down)!
@jerrycolon8289
@jerrycolon8289 Ай бұрын
God bless you both, this video was so impacting and I relate so much, thank you for making this video
@peoplehavetherights
@peoplehavetherights Ай бұрын
I agree.