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@firkalali5302
@firkalali5302 3 күн бұрын
The music is too distracting and utterly unnecessary.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
What’s the name of your KZfaq channel? If you have one and it has any amount of following then you know that you can put out videos that are absolutely mind blowing with valid and accurate information but if your description is not written properly or your hashtags are wrong or if your videos are not engaging enough or your music is too loud or non existent then you’ll never get a hundred views. In an effort to get as much exposure as possible, content creators need to try all kinds of things to remain engaging. Sometimes we hit and it goes well and continue to use that in future videos. Sometimes we miss and leave it out. Sometimes your headphone settings okay music louder than the voice, while watching it on a TV it sounds perfect. But 99% of people who just talk on a video will never develop a following, even if the information is mind blowing. Creators are battling the algorithm, not what human beings want to see organically. If you don’t play the game you won’t ever reach an audience.
@rushniadavids843
@rushniadavids843 7 күн бұрын
My daughter has lupus for 10yrs now She struggles some days and some days she's ok but not a nice illness Strongs to you as well
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
It sure can be tough. I just want to be stable and my whole life feels like a constant roller coaster. Woke up today puking and dizzy and confused. It’s just like man, can’t I catch a break and rest and reset… ever?!
@SweetMagnoliaAZ
@SweetMagnoliaAZ 9 күн бұрын
The headbanging symptom - does it feel like suddenly there is too much gravity on your brain? Like you are on a roller coaster kinda but times 10. This is one I have never connected to whatever I have going on but experience it from time to time. Almost drops me sometimes.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
It’s almost like I’m tumbling over and over. It’s not so much head banging as it is like being in a tire rolling down a hill. Just end over and over end. The first time it happened I thought I was in a car accident and died. It was so intense it felt like I face planted and then a second later I realized I was alive and it was just light flying by verically so fast I couldn’t make sense of it. Then later on I was around some friends when it happened and they looked at my eyes and they were just bouncing up in down so fast it scared them. It’s terrifying. I haven’t had it horribly in years but I randomly get a mild version of it every couple of weeks or so. Sometimes it’s very minor. I can feel it coming on.
@flea10x6
@flea10x6 14 күн бұрын
Your hydroxychloroquine might need to be adjusted. Glad you went from 200 up to 400mg daily as that is almost a minimal dose but you do want to stay below 10mg/kg/d. Eat “low on the food processing, emphasizing plant based. This seems to be the commonality of the various “anti-inflammatory diets.”
@trussiamontgomery3125
@trussiamontgomery3125 16 күн бұрын
Bless ur ❤, I am right there w/u! I just had reconstruction ankle surgery on both ankles from Lupus attacking them. I have had Saphnelo added to my regime. I can totally relate. ((Soft hugs))
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Thank you! My fingers are just killing me. They all feel jammed. Like every knuckle is jammed and hurt and kinda tingly. Super painful and when my reynauds happens it’s just excruciating.
@olgasampis9745
@olgasampis9745 16 күн бұрын
The severe fatigue makes you depressed
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
It sure can. I’ve had a lot of support from my wife. I actually have asked her recently to verbally give me permission to rest when I’m in that state because I feel so guilty for not working hard but it’s literally impossible. So when she says “it’s ok babe, lay down, I got this today” it takes so much pressure off and I have much less anxiety and depression with it.
@olgasampis9745
@olgasampis9745 Күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus I realized my lupus was due to a toxic marriage. Mine judge me as lazy. After he left, I started healing. Good for your wife
@olgasampis9745
@olgasampis9745 16 күн бұрын
I am healing for systemic lupus Is multi fact peace, less stress, gut, healing from inside out..
@SHILLGATESCRYPTO
@SHILLGATESCRYPTO 17 күн бұрын
You give off Justin Gaethje vibes
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
I’ll take that. He’s a BMF! Lol. I train jiujitsu and judo (seriously modified for my disability) but Justin would destroy me!! 🤣 thanks for watching.
@codyolson170
@codyolson170 19 күн бұрын
Excellent video thank you so much, I have been going through a lot of the same symptoms that you mention. Chronic pain, headches, sweating usally a cold sweat. tingling in hands and feet cold feet and hands. nausea. Very tired even when I wake up. My lymph nodes swelling. throughout the body. Elevated WBC I went to doctor and have more tests coming up but they are thinking maybe Luakemia or lupus. Been dealing with for years. My aunt has lupus so maybe hereditary? Thanks again this video helps me understand.more and sounds like very possible I may have lupus.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Yes they were thinking leukemia or some kind of blood condition or cancer. I spent a year at oncology and they couldn’t find any signs of cancers. I’d almost rather have something so at least I know what’s going on. This whole “we don’t know what to tell you” is really disheartening.
@codyolson170
@codyolson170 Күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus I totally understand that we don't know what tell you thing. I have been dealing with this since before 2016. Done multible tests. never getting answers. Hope to some day but for now more tests untill they figure it out. Sorry that you're going through the same thing.
@nehap5624
@nehap5624 20 күн бұрын
Some tips that may help battle with Lupus. Autoimmune has more to do with emotional experiences of life…. We need to analyze our early life….and think how we felt about self during any traumatic experiences and what kind of beliefs we have created about ourselves after that experience. We need to pay attention to your subconscious thoughts (self talk)and analyze if there are any self rejecting thoughts (I’m not good enough)or beliefs. Nature of autoimmune is self destruction (body’s immune attacking body it self) so root cause can be associated with the self rejection thoughts and beliefs. How we feel has direct effect on our endocrine system and hormonal secretions. Different lower quality emotions(anger, hatred , fear , jealousy, sadness etc.)creates different illnesses in our body. While high quality emotions ( bliss, peace, unconditional love, compassion, acceptance, forgiveness etc.)has healing effects on our body. Painful thoughts creates pain in body. “Staying happy no matter what” is the key to good health. At physical level….gut flora, leaky gut, wrong food habits and wrong sleeping patterns triggers flair ups. To manage gut flora you can take probiotics or cultured yogurt. I believe leaky gut would be the main reason at physical level. Toxic waste particles making escape through gut lining membrane in to the blood vessels. These particles travel through blood and accumulate at various parts of body…which than triggers immune system and creates inflammation in that part of the body.. Various methods can be applied to minimize toxins reaching to the blood. 1)Healthy diet and eating habits so digestive track is not acidic all the time. Excessive amount of gas (vata)and acid (pitta)causes inflammation. Including more raw vegetables with meal can help. Fenugreek seeds can be used to control Vata. Fennel seeds or few ajwain seeds can be chewed after meals to control pitta. Chewing Dhanadal (coriander seeds)also produce lots of saliva which is alkaline ( controls pitta). Dudhi ( bottle garud) juice also good for controlling pitta. Drinking termeric with black pepper or with a drink containing little bit of fat ( milk or coconut milk)can also work as anti inflammatory. 2)Intermediate fasting…good amount of time gap between meals so body has time for self cleaning. 3)Including some herbs in daily routine to properly flush out toxic wastes from the body ( apple cider vinegar, Amla, trifala, tulsi leaves, green tea , some detox teas, ginger tea, psyllium husk etc) 4)Strengthening the intestine lining ….Desi cow Ghee is believed to do that job. Also practice of Kapalbharti or other abdominal exercises may help too. 5)Managing the stress…because stress can also imbalance certain glandular functions and increase toxins. Mind has to be at peace to help body function properly. Mind can not relax when there are Inner conflicts or confusions going on. Anulom Vilom (alternate nostril breathing)is best stress relieving exercise. 6)When there is pain and inflammation, affected area can be massaged with warm sesame oil or any other herb infused massage oils. Mahavishgarbha oil mixed with castor oil would work well. Many people use castor oil packs to manage inflammation of inner organs. Another remedy to draw out toxins from body is soaking entire body in warm epsom salt water. 7)Sleep well…not enough sleep for several days can trigger symptoms. 8)Drink good amount of warm water in morning empty stomach. And stay well hydrated rest of the day. 9)vitamin D supplements must be taken. Also Knowledge of five layers of our body is very important. When physical body is ill, we can work on other four bodies(energy body, emotion body , wisdom body and bliss body ) to heal physical body. Certain yogic breathing such as bhastrika pranayam or kapalbharati prabayam can be practiced to increase life force energy in our bodies.
@TheBlissCatalyst
@TheBlissCatalyst 8 күн бұрын
Thank you for these tips! I am already doing some of these so thank you for the confirmation.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Great post/comment! I struggle with so many of these. My nearly childhood was pretty brutal, I had a lot of violence, abuse, violent bullying and it was the majority of my childhood. Literally until I got my own car. Then I was able to avoid everything and everyone. There’s definitely some correlation.
@Jillybeej
@Jillybeej 20 күн бұрын
The Mediterranean diet is one of the healthiest diets you could live by. I have Hashimoto’s and Lyme disease. Or you could look into the AIP diet. That is supposed to be good to except it’s really restrictive.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
I was just tested for lymes. Waiting on the results. I’ve been bit by hundreds of ticks in my life. Also doing some mold testing as well
@Jillybeej
@Jillybeej Күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus please do keep in mind, standard testing isn’t always accurate enough. If you get a negative result and want to definitively rule out Lyme, look into testing called Vibrant or IGENEX
@pinkpugardens
@pinkpugardens 21 күн бұрын
Please help . I have had the SAME thing 😢. The rheumatologists call it migration arthritis have done absolutely nothing! What tests will show I have it ? I need to get the proper treatment started but they still haven't properly diagnosed me. What do I do? Thank you. I'm suffering over here
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Ugh that stinks. Well to have Lupus you should have an autoimmune panel done and it will, at the very least, show a positive ANA. From there, there area a lot of different possibilities. My lupus presentation is not typical. I have a super high dsDNA but my c3 and c4 are usually fine. Find a new doctor or have your primary run an autoimmune panel test.
@kristykrogh615
@kristykrogh615 22 күн бұрын
When you have a flare, have you gotten your vitamin D level checked? I have lupus as well, and if my vitamin D level is low, I can become depressed and I can be more prone to contracting a bug that can trigger a lupus flare. That's what I have noticed
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
I have. My levels have been fine. I haven’t ever correlated that with mine.
@Intwodeep902
@Intwodeep902 25 күн бұрын
i’ve been off prescriptions for over a year now. Is there a link between high anti stones and long Covid?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
That I do not know.
@jackiecoy5546
@jackiecoy5546 25 күн бұрын
I am 63 years old I found out I had lupus in my early thirties it really took me down I couldn't even get into a car I would have to rush home and vomit all day couldn't even get out of bed then it was a time that when I was trying to raise my grandchildren the things that help me there cuz I couldn't sleep worried about them the whole time and I kept getting worse and worse so I had to let my grandkids be adopted out so that wasn't all of it it just got worse and worser I tried to work I'd be sick all day long I have to force myself to work because my joints I still kept making myself work but as I got older and older my eyesight got worse than me and my brother has got a i bread is called blindness without darkness can't see small print everything looks fuzzy sometimes yes I get these bad headaches it's like somebody's stabbing something in my brain I've had two double hernia operations I've done had one of my sciatica nerve or out of living in an upstairs apartment couldn't even go nowhere couldn't even sit on the toilet to use the bathroom it was so bad but the doctors would not help they tried to give me pain pills then they try to say that I didn't need them then they were supposed to give me a surgery because it tore something in my back Bear valley I kept getting myself going I didn't want none of the pain medicine because all it does is mask it but I hate to tell you there's so many different kinds a lupus a lot of it they don't understand they don't know about but there's different kinds of lupus I don't have the butterfly lupus there's more than others I have a friend she can't go outside of all it done made tumors go inside her body and they cannot take them out because there's just too many of them I used to not be able to be out the Sun at all but I try to get out the Sun a little bit because I do need the vitamins from it that's best for your bones but honey I got fibromyalgia and the lupus on top of it what we all go through from lupus but they call mine the cousin of Lupus they said if it was regular lupus and not the cousin of Lupus I would probably not be here you know what I'm saying I mean it's just bad for everyone but yes honey it will take everything in your body all your tissue your whole body is a different kinds of tissues so yes it can take any of it and then medicines I want to go there because the Sony medicines I can't take if I'm sick the only thing I can take is the Alka-Seltzer cold or a phenergan for my stomach I have to take that every night a half an hour Alka-Seltzer tablet and then again before I go to bed and then I wake up not even getting no sleep I toss and turn all night my whole body hurts so when my back was real bad with the sciatica therapy and it was just nothing but I couldn't even do it the the lady said cuz you are in too much pain that didn't help but I look up online and there's this lady her name is Barbara O'Neill she's in with all-natural stepssome of the stuff out there we can use as medicine and that's all kinds of herbs and spices and different kind of vegetables fruits that you can take and do in the seeds all kinds of seeds different kinds of plants that can help you and if you get on there on Facebook and look up for Barbara O'Neill and she is really good because she's all with natural stuff not the stuff that you get from pharmacy it's got all kinds of stuff in it to hurt you it will make your lupus work and that's something you don't want to go through believe me I can't take anxiety medicines I can't take a lot of medicine because I went through that and had to end up getting rushed to the hospital so no I don't take no medicine for my lupus like I said 63 years old be 64 in November so honey I've been through so much of the stuff that you're talking about but you got to keep making yourself go and push at it look into all the natural stuff look up Barbara O'Neill you can't get up there and ask questions but she is about all natural stuff so I would do that it's better than the crap they tried to keep giving us so I think I'm going to try a lot of that I've lost all of my hair just about I got so many bald thin spots my hair breaks and just falls like I said in the mornings and like you said I don't have no energy I got to make myself get up and push myself through each day people does not realize there's times I'm okay some days are okay I get through those other days it gets to so bad but there's nothing we can do about it but they keep putting us through stuff and they don't really even know about lupus that much but I know there's a lot of us go through a lot of similar things and some of us go through a lot of different things I need to wear my little my blood level goes up and down I can't get on swings I can't go on right so much things I can't do because I have blackouts I get so they got me on a blood thinners and I'm anemic Anna got thyroid problems and yes it can make your throat sore and make it takes all your tissue and your body and you don't know where it's going to hit next but the thing is you got to watch about medicine to take because the side effects of got on it you got to watch cuz lupus will pick up the side effects and you never will get rid of it I'm telling youI'm telling you don't take a bunch of medicine look at all the side effects because I've got things like that goes on from side effects so I just quit taking it they had me on so much medicine I went cold turkey and got off of all of it the only thing I take now is my blood thinners and my thighs were in medicine and then I do take my dinner can now I'm a pre-diabetic as well lupus will attack everything and anything that goes on in your body you just got to look for things and try to find solutions on your own like I'm trying to tell people that if you don't look for something natural it it's going to get worse so that's what I do I don't take none of the medicines for no lupus because I have Lupus so I still don't take nothing for it I just tried to find a way to do it on my own do stretches for your muscles yes it hurts got to keep working at it and try to find natural ways medicine waste in herbs and spices and even different kind of seeds and some of our fruits that you can smash up get get up there and look for Barbara O'Neill she will tell you different kind of things that will help you naturally what God gave us in this world believe it or not there's always medicine that will cure a lot of things and help us through it that would make our bodies stronger naturally not what pharmaceutical giving us all they're doing is poisonous I don't take none of that I just do what I got to do naturally I'm going to try a lot of randomize that Barbara O'Neill has and see if help me in a lot of ways with my joints and stuff like that I'm an old woman that ain't going to give up I'm going to keep pushing myself through it and pray to God prayers helped you as well pray to God because it prayers has got a lot of power and it is a lot of miracles with it but keep pushing yourself through it we all are going through all kinds of things so God bless you
@lynnettecapozio7327
@lynnettecapozio7327 26 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for the video... I was diagnosed with Systemic Lupus two weeks ago after routine Labwork came back with my Platelets in critical level (had zero symptoms) I am now on a 6 week high steroid treatment and will start taking Plaquenil today. I am with you and absolutely hate the steroids and is near unbearable at times.... Stepped down weekly from 100mg 60mg and am starting to get a little bit of sleep but my stress from this drug is through the roof and related with your theory that it is counterproductive to keeping myself calm. UGH I know it is necessary though and hope I will be taken off in 4 more weeks after my step down process is over.... Anyway, I am a bit nervous about starting the Plaquenil today so thought I'd do KZfaq research and came across your channel. Also, interesting fact: 4 members of my family now have Lupus. My Mother (who started out with Discord in 1973 and has since crossed over to Systemic at 81 yrs old) Her Brother who has since passed always had systemic Lupus and was diagnosed back in the early 1970's with a life diagnosis of 10 yrs max - You are correct in saying it was a death sentence back then. Now, the second generation finds my brother with Discord Lupus and myself with the Systemic Lupus. I would like to debate those that say their is no genetic link to Lupus 😐
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Yeah that whole thing confuses me too. Like discoid lupus just doesn’t seem like it’s the same. But that being said, I have horrible skin lesions on my back that they always say are pimples but I know they’re not. The discharge smells so horrible and they are so painful it’s completely unbearable. I recently watched a Tucker Carlson inverview of Cassie and Calley Means talking about why all of us are getting so chronically ill. It wasn’t a very political interview so if you hate Tucker or Republicans it’s still watchable. But it was eye opening and packed with pertinent info. They advise RFK Jr. and I hope these people are brought into start working in the epidemic of young Americans being chronically ill.
@MayraOrtega-x9h
@MayraOrtega-x9h 27 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 26 күн бұрын
My pleasure
@laurensouthgate2458
@laurensouthgate2458 28 күн бұрын
This was good to find take care , I have lupus also and my kids never new me when i WAS having seizues and weakness but all of a sudden within a year i went into remission for 24 years so it can happen. 2 years ago i got phenmonia related to my lungs and it started again and now im on meds again .Deal with a bit of anxiety but have managed fine. I will be 67 in 3 months and am lookin forward to many more years.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 26 күн бұрын
Ugh. This is such a tough disease to fight. I hope you find a good solution and a good doctor!!
@annazannetou7320
@annazannetou7320 28 күн бұрын
Thanks a lot for your video...I am from Cyprus...I diagnosed with lupus ...before 1 month ...at first i thought is denontydis one year ago.... I wandering if with diet we feel petter...❤❤ thank again...
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Best of luck! Thanks for hanging out for a bit.
@donnadeandean2720
@donnadeandean2720 29 күн бұрын
I have skin lupus and systemic. Was treated with Benlysta IV treatment with lupus specialist. I have had it for years and the deadliest fatigue has left me to stay indoors to sleep all the time. Effected kidneys and lungs. Then crossed over to Mixed Connective Tissue Disorder and Sjogrens disease. I am constantly fatigued and my quality of life is not good. Did they give you Plaquenil and steroids?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
You’re just the person I’m looking for. What does skin lupus look and feel like? I have had horrible “acne” down my back for years but I have always known it’s not acne, I have some thing else going on. My dad thought I had something in my blood. But I just get very strange cystic like boils and at times when it gets bad I can have a hundred or so on my back. Sometimes I only have a couple. I have scars from them. No acne meds would touch it. And the fluid inside smells horrible like infection. Does any of that sound anything like Discoid Lupus? My wife and I were just wondering last night if you can have both forms.
@fallon7616
@fallon7616 Ай бұрын
I take Plauqunil ❤
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Me too! 😃
@loosemouthcowboy4790
@loosemouthcowboy4790 Ай бұрын
Are you able to work full time still? I'm finding it tough.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
No. I can basically work about 2-3 hours/day max. When I wake up it takes me a couple hours to get through the pain and severe stiffness of waking up. I can’t close my hands when I wake up; they’re so stiff I have to work them in, and it’s excruciating. The same with my feet. I don’t feel safe to drive. Then the medications I’m on can make me tired and have issues with memory and things. It’s taken me years of playing with my schedule to figure out what works in a way that allows me to not feel overly sick. I always hurt and I’m always a a bit sick, but if I push myself past that line, I will pay for it. After a week I’ll be a little sicker. After 3 weeks I’ll be hobbling. After a month I’ll be puking and unable to stand on my feet. I’ve been fighting for disability for 2.5 years and we will see how that goes. I’m not holding my breath over it. But I surely have no other option. I go to the gym 2x week for an hour or so for exercise and that also took a long time to dial in. And I work part time for a real estate brokerage doing marketing from home.
@eranbenavraham
@eranbenavraham Ай бұрын
I have Lupus Nephritis and was diagnosed in 2014. I've had 2 serious flares. I was in remission for 6 years before my last flare. I've never been prescribed HC but Myfortic(Mychophenolate).
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Interesting. Wild that you have nephritis but only two flares. Ever since I was diagnosed they have seen signs of active lupus, I don’t think I’ve been out of a flare, mainly in my dsDNA numbers and nothing with my kidneys. I just feel like I never get a break and I always feel so fatigued and in so much pain. It hurts everywhere in my body.
@kellyfish920
@kellyfish920 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! My dad has lupus and recently the Dr thinks I may too. I get my tests results in a few weeks. I’ve been in chronic pain for 12 years and lupus explains why even after back surgery it’s never stopped hurting.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Ugh well good luck! I sure hope you fail that test!!! But if you do have Lupus there’s a lot of support. It’s a long slow road but there is support.
@lizaoweniudreieeu75dryitrw46
@lizaoweniudreieeu75dryitrw46 Ай бұрын
Your story really resonates with me. Thank you for sharing.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
You are so welcome, hope you have a wonderful day! 😊
@pawsforblessings127
@pawsforblessings127 Ай бұрын
So this may be a dumb question. So far I was investigated for MS. But si far not enough typical lesions. It is 100% inflammation that comes in flares. Also evidence in the spinal fluid. Now the MS clinic is testing for Lupus. I can not see this being positive. But it may explain the breathing problem and hypoxia. Do some people have problems with walking, standing and arms quitting?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
First, sorry you hear you’re sick but I’m glad you’re here talking. I was tested for MS but did not have lesions. They found some small white matter lesions that they felt were normal for my age, however they did find a bone marrow issue in the base of my skull. Still no diagnosis or answer to what that is or why. But to answer your question; it’s complicated. Short answer is yes, I have days where I can barely stand and where my knees give out and I have fallen. The causes as to why could vary widely.
@pawsforblessings127
@pawsforblessings127 24 күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus Thank you so much for the reply. Not many understand what it feels like dealing with this. My blood tests are done and almost all are now related to Lupus, Ana, Ena and so on. I still don't think that could be positive. But it is clearly an inflammation issues that comes and goes. I have the lesions, but not many typical once and they didn't get more yet. My breathing problems and low oxygen levels from time to time are not explained by MS, but could maybe by Lupus??? The spinal tap clearly shows inflammation. So it will be interesting to see where this goes. I understand MS from my nursing background, but have to say, have not had any patients with Lupus. So much has changed in the last 30 years too. But am learning now, so I know what questions to ask. At the moment my arms give me trouble, hopefully it settles quick again. And hope the hot weather is over soon, it makes a huge difference.
@ElissaRobinson
@ElissaRobinson Ай бұрын
Hey. I have lupus also. Had lupus for a long time but didn't know it. How I found out was when I went to the emergency room due to one day my legs were getting a rash that got so bad that one of my legs had a giant hole. It looked like someone shot me in the leg. I still suffer today with fatigue, depression, anxiety, rashes that causes an urge to itch,. I cannot wear any tight fitting clothing. I would start itching severely. I try to stay fit and I work 2 jobs. It's a struggle but I push myself. i Did you know that there is a type 1 and type 2 Lupus?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
I did not know that. Please share more!
@laurakent2127
@laurakent2127 Ай бұрын
I also experienced a lit of pain etc with covid and other viruses. The extreme emotional symptoms sound like herxheimer reaction from detox, which would make sense, bc your body will actually use a virus as an opportunity to detox. Another possibility is that you may have viruses etc. In the brain (that become m9re active when you are ill) like has been found in MS
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
I was tested for MS. They found some white line lesions but nothing too abnormal. Interesting!
@laurakent2127
@laurakent2127 24 күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus I just learned today that when people lose visceral fat (tied to a lot of disease bc of the direct link to impaired bloodflow), they apparently have a substantial decrease in lesions also
@layneannen
@layneannen Ай бұрын
Love this video! White female here diagnosed in 1985, dealing with all this for almost 40 years. Such a frustrating illness! Everything you said is true. I quit talking to people about it. 😢 keep pushing forward!!❤
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Omg you’re my hero!! I was born in 83. 😂 I admire your ability to persevere because there are days that I seriously consider giving up. The never ending fight is exhausting. Dealing with this every single day and it never seems to get better. It just sucks, there’s no other way to say it.
@layneannen
@layneannen 24 күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus i hear you!! I've felt like giving up too, but you will have good days and you learn to be really grateful for those days! Keep pushing on, one tiny step at a time. I will be thinking of you and praying for your strength to endure! I was born in 1951, so it's possible to have a long life with lupus ❤🙏
@LadyFoxHound
@LadyFoxHound Ай бұрын
i have lupus and RA and i relate to your story sooooo much. i got so bad one year i couldnt walk to the toilet or get out of bed, or bend down to tie my shoes, frozen hands, horible neck pain, migraines, photosensitivity, black spots in my vision, tinitus, all of it. i thought i was going to end up in a wheelchair within the 6 months, thats how bad i got. on top of it all the other stuff… night sweats, feaver, anxiety, depression, mouth sores, throat flares, not being ablw to lift my arm, EXTREME pain in my joints, thin hair that falls out, constant anemia, bruises all over, huge bloated stomach, TERRIBLE allergies as well, hypermobility, fatigue, bad teeth, and i do not get taken seriously because i look “normal”. its hell. ive had heat stroke, light heat and humidity sensitivity, constant migraines to the point of throwing up from how extremely painful they are…. its incredibly frustrating. neck and upper shoulder pain that is constant. trouble sleeping.
@LadyFoxHound
@LadyFoxHound Ай бұрын
also let me add like most who go thru this, it took me 6 years to get a dx and referal to rheumy and 1 year to actually SEE the rheumy
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Omg. Yes our stories are so similar. I’ve found someone who gets it. Most Lupus folks that I talk either have like deadly nephritis or they’re like “I take my meds and barely notice”. Whereas I am just like the walking dead. I hurt all day every day to the point where I cry, I can’t tie my own shoes some days, my memory is horrible and my fatigue is just brutal. It’s exhausting just to exist. I sure hope my disability comes through at some point because I really need to feel a little secure here at some point. I’ve been sick a long time and diagnosed a few years back. And I just keep getting a little worse and a little worse and a little worse. It never ends and it’s SO exhausting.
@LadyFoxHound
@LadyFoxHound 24 күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus Im so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and anyone going through this. Hopefully there are better medicines, therapy and or cures soon. Its awful to live with a constant wild fire in your body. ♥️
@Ana-zw4sf
@Ana-zw4sf Ай бұрын
Sorry you’re going through this. I know from experience how this feels. However, changing eating habits, exercise and supplements for the gut/others have really helped reduce the pain. I guess at this point we all have to try whatever we can and see what works best for you. Low vitamin D usually comes from GI issues. God bless.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Yeah I’ve spent a few years here trying to find a balance. Trying to figure out what works for me. The best I’ve come up with is the lion diet, martial arts training 2 days per week (keeping it light) and then sleeping better and being on a normal schedule. But I can also be doing all of those things and just get hit like a ton of bricks so it’s not fool proof.
@Thinkforyourselves64
@Thinkforyourselves64 Ай бұрын
Can a person with lupus get any financial help from anywhere? Disability?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 24 күн бұрын
Yes you can possibly qualify for disability. I have been fighting for it for 2.5 years and most people say it’s a fools errand. Problem is that Lupus is so broad and these doctors don’t seem to understand how hard it is to hold down work when you’re always sick and in pain. And if you take the meds they give for those issues then you’re tired and groggy. And if you have a flare then you’re absolutely done for and can’t keep a damn schedule and get fired. So it’s like what do we do?? But if you do try for disability, I suggest you get a lawyer to do it right from the start.
@TrigereBeres
@TrigereBeres Ай бұрын
So many of your symptoms are what I have experienced for many, many years. I had doctors dismissing my symptoms. So much on my Bloodwork was flagged and they still blew me off and gaslighted me. Finally, with my list of symptoms, bloodwork and even pictures of my rashes I finally have a doctor who wants me tested for lupus. Thank you for sharing this video. Those phantom pains is something that made me think “WHOA”! I know exactly what you mean! Most painful feeling I have ever felt. God bless and keep being your best advocate for your body.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
Thank you! I don’t get too many people who relate to my “phantom pains”. My wife Katy laughs that I call them phantom pains haha. She’s like what in the world is that?? But it’s just like I’m looking at my arm, nothing is wrong and it feels like someone is sticking a screwdriver through my flesh down to my bone. It last 10 seconds or so and then it’s done. I also have fibromyalgia and I’ve often wondered if that pain is more neurological or fibro related. Either way, they hurt!!
@osvaldobarragan1501
@osvaldobarragan1501 Ай бұрын
Hey Ryan. The video was sad and inspiring at the same time. I hope you are doing well. I wanted to ask since you responded to my comment in your last video which was appreciated greatly. In that response you said that you had done the lion diet? How long did you do it for? I appreciate your responses. It makes me feel less alone 😢.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
I did it for about 3 months and I was loving it. My whole family was upset with me saying that I was going to kill myself only eating meat. And they rode my ass for like a month straight and I finally gave up and now I’m having a hard time getting back on it. The first 2-3 weeks was hard and after that it was totally fine and I felt strong and relatively limber. At one point your body will switch from using carbs to using fat for energy so make sure you’re eating fatty meat like ribeyes.
@user-zw2uv9it5z
@user-zw2uv9it5z Ай бұрын
As an old geezer found out I have SLE and APS both; still it's nice to put a name to this after 10 yrs. Quite a journey so far
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
I bet!! Not knowing is the worst feeling in the world.
@user-zw2uv9it5z
@user-zw2uv9it5z Күн бұрын
@@manwithlupus completely agree
@justicewarrior8061
@justicewarrior8061 Ай бұрын
Lupus, fibromyalgia, protracted benzodiazepine withdrawal symptoms, All have very similar side effects which one could it be ?
@KimberlyMcDonald-v4l
@KimberlyMcDonald-v4l Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I feel so lost but trying to be positive. I was recently diagnosed with lupus and rheumatoid arthritis 3 months ago. I am trying to figure this out I am currently on plaquenil which is helping a lot but now my doc wants to also put me on methotrexate or benlysta and I’m just trying to research. I honestly don’t want to be on any meds and just go natural but I know deep down I need it. It’s good to hear other people’s perspective. Thank you!
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Күн бұрын
This autoimmune stuff is so hard to deal with. Honestly, I don’t think the doctors really know what they’re doing. They’re making educated guesses at best. I was on benlysta for a while but honestly, nothing I’ve been on has really changed anything. My labs get better then they get worse again. I’ve gone off my meds against doctor advice and had my labs get better. I’ve been in the meds and watched my labs get worse. But the bottom line is that I just always feel bad. So it’s like nothing seems to help. My rheumatologist admitted to me that unless you have major organ involvement that the labs are mostly useless and don’t really accurately indicate anything. He’s like you can have great labs and feel horrible. We just don’t know enough about it all. Autoimmune conditions needs some serious attention. Hopefully if Trump is elected he will truly utilize RFK Jr. and the Means to come up with a better health plan for Americans. Something doesn’t add up. Young people are getting severe chronic health issues at alarming rates. I’m convinced that it’s our food, plastics and pesticides. Almost unavoidable unless you raise your own.
@user-vc5wl7uq2x
@user-vc5wl7uq2x Ай бұрын
Hello, how is the current treatments and advancement going? In all those years (after diagnosis), were you able to achieve remission?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Ай бұрын
I have not. My lupus has always been a non typical presentation and I have some other issues going on that they can’t figure out. So for me it’s a bit confusing on what is Lupus and what is attributed to these other conditions. My kidney function is on the lower side but still in range so that’s good. But I have SO much pain it’s unbearable. It’s like most of the joints in my body just get locked up and stiff and it’s so painful to move at all. That could certainly be attributed to Lupus. My dsDNA has always been very high and just remains there. I don’t feel any better and I never have. I’ve continuously gotten worse. Over the last few years I have cycles where for part of the year, typically the cold part, I’m in excruciating pain and my reynauds just kills me. It all hurts so bad. And in the summer months I still have an extreme amount of pain, however it’s not as bad as the winter. But in the warm months I throw up constantly. I wake up nauseated every day and eventually that turns into throwing up daily for months. Again, the throwing up is usually in the summer. Then I have constant low grade fevers, headaches, horrible memory issues. I don’t know what to make of any of it. And nothing seems to really help. Even when my labs look better I feel the same. Someone is missing something.
@KarenvanderWalt
@KarenvanderWalt Ай бұрын
Sounds like you also have Sjögrens with your lupus as well, like me. I have cured myself over the last two years with Ivermectin and can finally function without chronic medication
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus Ай бұрын
Which parts of my story make you think that? Genuinely curious! I have so many symptoms that are unexplained and it’s hard to figure out what’s what.
@supynorr
@supynorr 2 ай бұрын
It really hurts when the comments come from family. They love you but are in serious DENIAL.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
Yeah I agree. The closer the person is to you the more it stings. I try toner they usually mean well, they just truly don’t get it. This is relentless and never ends and it’s so hard for someone who isn’t dealing with it to understand.
@supynorr
@supynorr 2 ай бұрын
Excellent video
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
Thank you very much!
@supynorr
@supynorr 2 ай бұрын
Also I subscribed today
@RZR-p6x
@RZR-p6x 2 ай бұрын
@RZR-p6x
@RZR-p6x 2 ай бұрын
💪💪
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
🤜🏼💥🤛🏼
@RZR-p6x
@RZR-p6x 2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@RZR-p6x
@RZR-p6x 2 ай бұрын
@@manwithlupus I am presenting going into a flare. I'm trying to control it before it gets full-blown. Do you have any suggestions?
@RZR-p6x
@RZR-p6x 2 ай бұрын
This is very true. As much as I try to prevent myself from sun exposure, No matter how little time in the sun. Thank you, Man with Lupus ❤
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
You’re very welcome!! I’m in the midst of a brutal flare from about an hour of sunlight on Wednesday. Regretting my decision majorly!
@osvaldobarragan1501
@osvaldobarragan1501 2 ай бұрын
I gas a question. I watched your video of your story of your journey with lupus. I did the math of when you said from 10 to 12 years old symptoms started and your current age of 39. Since you have had lupus for 29 years have you constantly taken medication or tried avoiding it and eating s diet which causes less flare ups?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
I did not find out it was lupus until 2 years ago. I was told there was nothing wrong with me and I was too young to have the symptoms I was complaining of. I was not taken even remotely seriously until my wife was able to start coming and saying that something is seriously wrong with me and this is not in my head. Since that time I have tried numerous diets and meds. I’m truly not feeling much, if any better however the one diet that seems to make a difference is the lion diet. But that is pretty controversial and doesn’t work for everyone.
@simhifree
@simhifree Ай бұрын
What is the Lion diet please?
@DazzlingAngelBundy-gm3wz
@DazzlingAngelBundy-gm3wz 2 ай бұрын
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@treecek
@treecek 2 ай бұрын
Did you do a lot of biking when you were young?
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
Not excessively. I rode bikes almost daily but it was transportation mostly. It wasn’t that we rode all day long.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
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@simhifree
@simhifree Ай бұрын
Hi Thank you. I'm looking forward to watching all your videos. Now 63 , RA X 30YR HASHIMOTO'S CUSHINGS Sjodren's and most recently? Drug induced Lupus!! Imo everyone needs to know that there are known drugs, for high blood pressure and others, that can trigger Lupus to become active. Dr's, nurses a d pharmacy need to know not to give patients with autoimmune issues Any of the over 80 drugs. PleSe make some needed videos on this . Thanks
@user-fe8yp1rb9m
@user-fe8yp1rb9m 2 ай бұрын
Well presented. I was diagnosed with lupus SLEN 1994, 30 years ago. Somewhere in the journey they added lupus nephritis to my condition. In general I am living a very enjoyable fulfilled life. I do have a very severe joint deformity in my fingers however. I found certain foods are potentially the biggest trigger for the swelling and pain.
@manwithlupus
@manwithlupus 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for all that info! I have been fortunate that I do not have much organ involved yet, however, I joints are in excruciating pain all day every day. What was the progression of your joint issues? When did it start? How painful was it? And how long until you started noticing deformities? I am starting to get knobs and horns on my joints in my fingers and they hurt so bad sometimes I can’t even type right or tie my shoes. And nothing seems to really away. Pain medication help take the edge off, but they are always in pain.