Thank you so much for this. It’s been really difficult trying to navigate the options out there in the UK, particularly for non binary folks.
@fredphillip89164 ай бұрын
Narcissistic kids
@megasizer51195 ай бұрын
you absolute weirdo...
@hurri-db8 ай бұрын
Heya, I just found your channel as a baby enby in the UK. I was just wondering if you know if the pricing structure is different based on the starting size or if that's not really a factor? Congrats on getting it done and I'm so glad to see how much happier it seems to have made you!
@dragonnymphs58824 ай бұрын
Pricing doesn’t work on size shape or weight it’s purely down to the process your surgeon uses and all the other factors like hospital fees etc, I hope you get what you’re looking for though xx atm in the UK its all got a lot more expensive
@noahcraven Жыл бұрын
that much money and hoop jumping makes me so angry. that much for a piece of paper.
@ryokukagirinai Жыл бұрын
Love it when you finally get that new firmware update for your brain 🧠
@conan4426 Жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this video!! i’m from scotland and came out “late” (21🙄) and the waiting lists on nhs are ridiculous so this is incredibly helpful 🥰💚
@user-linzilou84Ай бұрын
Why do you need the NHS?
@ethanpoole3443 Жыл бұрын
If only you two could have made this video 40 years ago and put it somewhere my 8-year old self would then find it…then the past 40+ years would have made SO much more sense to me as a non-binary person (age 51 today)! I only finally discovered the non-binary identity a few years ago after 40 years of never feeling like I really fit in anywhere, that is how seemingly set in stone the gender binary feels like until you finally learn it is also a spectrum, just like sexuality. The interesting thing, to me at least, is that I have long felt particularly drawn towards the transgender/MTF community (and often felt aesthetic and romantic attraction towards both transgender and cisgender women; sexual attraction is far more complicated by considerable past religious and sexual trauma, so I have never experienced such towards an actual flesh and blood person) but never understood why since I could never quite identify as MTF myself. I was born a boy, but I never fit in with nor understood other boys, yet I was not a girl either, though I was far more comfortable among the girls, whom I could at least understand and identify with in other respects - I was every bit as comfortable playing with the girls and engaging in typical girl’s play, if not more so, as when playing with other boys and my interests as an adult are also somewhat a split. Now, I understand the “why” was because they were the closest (known) available binary choice to my identity. Unfortunately, I fear it is going to take quite a bit of time for the rest of society and the world at large to finally catch up to that same realization as we seem so compelled by social gender norms to gender absolutely *everything* boy/girl, man/woman, male/female in our society that we are darn near blind to any other possibility. I wish you both long, happy, and healthy lives!
@Mariahelena-wy6xc Жыл бұрын
I want to take you serious, but I don’t think that you are.
@martilloc.m.8691 Жыл бұрын
No matter how hard you all try you'll never change nature .. spend all the money you want but at the end the only ones that benefits from your stupidity are farmaseutics , surgeons, hormone and testosterone companies . All becouse you got manipulated into ( i was born in the wrong body ) BS
@MillyMiller842 жыл бұрын
My mothers mastectomy still hurts her to this day. The scar tissue, loss of muscles, and lymphatic flow have left her very damaged. A last resort to help save a life due to cancer, yet celebrated here as some bizarre fashion choice. You will NEVER be able to breast feed and you have lost erogenous feeling. Yeay you.
@ru9969 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that your mother had to go through that. That must have been incredibly difficult and painful, and cancer is a horrible thing. All my condolences to her. However, you using that story to shit on a trans person's (completely different mind you) surgery is just mean and unnecessary. From what you said, it seems that your mother had to undergo a radical mastectomy - where the muscles behind the breast and the lymph nodes are removed as well. That is not at all what happens in top surgery, so there is no loss of muscles or lymphatic flow, and I have never heard of scarring from top surgery continuing to hurt after years (though I can't say that it has never happened to anyone ever). By the way, you know what, getting this surgery greatly reduces the chances of actually developing breast cancer, so people are less likely to need the kind of radical surgery that was necessary for your mother which gave her major complications. Also, I'm sure you probably know this already and are just saying it here too be a transphobic twat but it's not a fashion choice, by any stretch of the imagination. Dysphoria is fucking awful and trans people have this surgery because of how much it improves their quality of life and their mental (and physical) heath afterwards. Also, lol 'you will NEVER be able to breast feed and you have lost erogenous feeling' oh no how terrible! However will any trans person cope? I can't think of anything more terrible myself than not having erogenous nipples or having to bottle feed the baby I'm never going to have. I'm sorry, very few ftm or non binary people I know want to ever carry a child themselves that this statement is bizarre to me. And breast feeding is not the only option even then. For many cis people, this isn't an option either. It really isn't the end of the world. And the erogenous nipples thing is so bloody trivial. So yeah. 'Yeay' them, because they have now had top surgery which they seem incredibly happy with, and a great support system around them. Congratulations and all power to them for doing what is best for them. Why not try stopping going around looking for videos to get mad at so you can shit on other people's parade and go do something fun with your life?
@botanfang5383 Жыл бұрын
Also, obviously this non binary person doesnt want to breastfeed.
@theunboxer3964 Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts why ruin someone else’s day. Just because you are pissed off.
@brandonspivey80202 жыл бұрын
Another very imature young woman plays at being an outcast to had colour to her dull middle class life. Very soon you will be another de transitioner.
@l00ser202 жыл бұрын
Not a woman
@strictlysunny Жыл бұрын
Wonder where you get the audacity and ability to carry yourself like that thinking you can talk about someone’s life like that
@brandonspivey8020 Жыл бұрын
@@strictlysunny Grow up . This woman is clearly very naive and gullible. She as amputated her breasts . That does not make her man.
@kuromistan645 Жыл бұрын
Why do you care what someone does to their body? Mind your business.
@brandonspivey8020 Жыл бұрын
@@kuromistan645 Breast amputation and plastic surgery is not very cool
@matagot00132 жыл бұрын
Thank you both so much for covering this debate, it made it much easier for me to understand and much more enjoyable to watch. I was horrified at the revelation that the conversion therapy ban only applied to under-18s and that it wasn't mentioned in social media posts that I came across mentioning the ban. Loved this video and am looking forwards to watching your videos of future debates!
@mobolite2 жыл бұрын
A while back I coded a program of a magic 8 ball that would give indecisive answers such as “depends on the weather” or “that’s quite the dilemma”. On retrospect, I think I coded the British government.
@mobolite2 жыл бұрын
Seeing you two makes me more hopeful about my future (I’m gay, asexual, and non-binary.) The fact that you continue to laugh, are in a relationship, have a dog, and may or may not be getting a machete is really inspiring.
@shannaveganamcinnis-hurd4052 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best. This is BEYOND STOMACH CHURNING. My god. Big PHARMA wins once more. The medical establishment $$$$$ The media $$$$$ The PHARMACEUTICAL mega companies $$$$$$$. For the love of god, why does no one see this?????
@giraffe68562 жыл бұрын
I remember the first time I got a present from my mom and it was a bra. And my first response to that was "Should I wear that?" and she was like "yeah of course! you're a girl! every other girls wear it around your age!" But for some reason I didn't want to? so I asked her "Maybe...later? like..years later?" and of course, she was like "no?.. you have to wear it now" And I knew what non-binary was but I didn't know I would be a non-binary person. so I thought to myself...'maybe I'm thinking this way because I'm immature than others mentally.' 'Maybe it's because I think of myself as a kid still' I heard other girls talking about how wearing bra is uncomfortable some time to time so I thought to myself "maybe what I'm feeling is exactly that, just uncomfortable of wearing" But what I didn't know is..no girls would want a binder to actually bind their chest or get a surgery for it just because wearing bra is uncomfortable.
@rebeccabrettell37172 жыл бұрын
Well who the hell knew, I don’t actually exist!?! What a bloody relief, there was I thinking I had to actually try and do stuff with my life. Might as well not bother with the rest of this med school thing because clearly being even remotely informed gets in the way of doing your job properly
@oyster48172 жыл бұрын
omg i think the first mp to talk was the same one who said doctor who being a woman is causing young men to commit more crimes LMAO
@rebeccabrettell37172 жыл бұрын
“We are a tolerant nation and we accept people as they are. HOWEVER…” he didn’t even manage one second of tolerance hahahaha 🙄
@oyster48172 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccabrettell3717 Ikr haha
@oyster48172 жыл бұрын
U two are super wholesome!
@xcuttsx932 жыл бұрын
how is your chest update Arlo.
@mobolite2 жыл бұрын
Does that mean if I go to the UK I’m a criminal? 😏
@hollyyates52022 жыл бұрын
I want to get top surgery but I don't want to become a male, I just have chest dysphoria, I feel like I'm gonna struggle saving for it and I'm from Plymouth in the UK so London is quite far and I'm over 17 years old
@meYogii_2 жыл бұрын
Love your transformation!! Looking forward to my own top surgery, i'm waiting... I've heard of Miles Berry bc i've seen Noah and his top surgery video. (a trans guy on yt)
@WrenderUntoTheDM2 жыл бұрын
I have my initial appointment with Dr Paterski later today, been really nervous about it. Not been able to find anything that prepped me for what was about to come like this vid has, thank you!
@nefelh832 жыл бұрын
Women chopping off their breasts to please a gender god that doesn't exist.
@oyster48172 жыл бұрын
<3
@frankcollis48842 жыл бұрын
Do they accept insurance? I've been searching for an answer everywhere and wondered if you'd have the answer?
@keyboarddancers77512 жыл бұрын
1:37-1:58 Sounds very creepy indeed. You may've been played, bubba: you could be an internet star and you don't even know it yet! The message is clear; if you want to undergo an elective double mastectomy for purely psychological reasons and you don't want to wait for several years for even an appointment with the NHS, it's best to be earning enough to pay for it or to have relatives or friends willing to stump up the cash. It certainly doesn't help to be on a low wage or unemployed!
@symone-daniellejames35562 жыл бұрын
When did you get the letter?
@mobolite2 жыл бұрын
Arlo: Being a lesbian was.. okay. And Rosie took that personally
@scubagrace2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much
@lourose75192 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!
@lourose75192 жыл бұрын
Really helpful video thank you! 💜 hope you're doing well
@LifeofRiley42 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video. Thank you.
@_whatis.mylife_2 жыл бұрын
ahh thank you, ive been trying to find someone that has had top surgery being non-binary and not on Testosterone so this is very helpful
@jam-yh3bl2 жыл бұрын
thanks so much for this!!
@jam-yh3bl2 жыл бұрын
thanks for this really helpful!!
@arlorosie10302 жыл бұрын
We're really glad you found it useful :)
@GingaSubadub2 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to watching this. Sending lots of love and support your way! Xx
@arlorosie10302 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!x
@GingaSubadub3 жыл бұрын
I'm so pleased you're happy now. Can see the difference in your confidence and general body language. Really really proud of you Arlo, you are amazing! X
@jam-yh3bl3 жыл бұрын
this is so sweet and meaningful thank you so much :)))
@stevehallowes-green30703 жыл бұрын
What an amazing video. I'm so proud that you are living your own truth and have found it as a couple. Beautiful video and inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
@jlam57373 жыл бұрын
i had shiny blue docs for years and now i have silver holo ones :)