This little video deserves so much more attention.

Walk through is at around 24:30. Thanks so much for this wonderful interview!

Very fascinating! Thank you for sharing this protocol!

Completely disagree… no facts just emotions

Does ideal parent figure protocol work well self guided ?

Why do we have two?

I love Jeff! Followed his work since his time at Soulforce. How can I hear more from him?

I have a (hopefully) interesting question. I think there is some truth to, in general, men lean blue and women lean red. I believe you both are a couple? Would you say you both lean red, but in your partnership, one of you leans blue? Or would you say that one of you has "always" been blue (ie childhood condition) and that's what lead to your attraction? I am interested in the idea that these polarities can either be highly complementary or polarizing. In the "ideal" we would all be green and be open with each other but with clear boundaries. How realistic is that actually? Is it more accurate to say that a good partnership is 2 people who are insecure but know it, or 2 people who have achieved some sort of consistent green zone relating? I've heard gottman and tatkin talk about mentor couples, as though there are people out there who are a green/green union. Is that real or more of a conceptualization?

Love this dr he’s a gift such a fantastic voice

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✅good video

Brilliant thank you

Me too

I am a HUGE fan of my friend who does Sound Baths ... I feel like I've been cleansed from the top down after one session... I'm new to EMDR. Just finally found a therapist.

Eternity grateful for the peeps at Therapist Uncensored and Dan Brown for collaborating on this episode. I remember listening to this so many years ago and it really set off a spark. I always share this episode and Dan's work and hope it reaches more people. I was so sadden by Dan's passing - an absolutely remarkable man - his work really changed my life.

Just listening to the beginning of this and I'll admit it's a little bit difficult. A lot of us experienced you moralization because of years and years, literally I'm 34 and it's been a lifetime's worth of poor choices both resulting from and resulting in abuse. I'm honestly surprised that wasn't something you mentioned before white privilege.

you don't know what you're talking about. De-humanizing is giving your enemy a different name. Geek, Gook, like those. De-humanize your enemy so your soldiers don't think of the enemy as humans. That's what it is. you're blabbering doesn't make sense

i'm sending this interview to a bunch of friends! thanks so much 🙂

7:10 Wow. Early disorganized attachment aggravated by later traumatization. This one sentence seems to hit the nail on the head of my case. My mother was not predictable when I was 4, mainly ill, absent, then commited suicide when I was 5. And then my father was not able to provide any of the 5 functions of attachment that Dan Brown mentions in his Ideal Parent Figure protocol, and my step mother tried by all means to humiliate me, break me so that I feel repentant for never apologizing nor admitting that I am faulty and flawed. Nice combination these two patterns. Now at 44 I am beginning to finally discover that I might have cPTSD and feel hopefull of finally tackling what's been eating me all life, unknowingly really.

That is my intention. ❤

people should check out CIRS, most often mold exposure or other biotoxins like lyme disease. Its a silent epidemic and when you begin to look at bathrooms, window seals for black mold (not only) you see it everywhere. It can cause soooo many problems, anger bouts, sleep issues, depression, low dopamine, so many issues are excaberated because of these conditions!

I’ve just done the training in this. I highly recommend it.

Online therapy is awful and practisioners probably like it because it cuts their office rental fees. To say anything otherwise, I believe, is bending the truth beyond the breaking point. My therapist is currently wearing a mask, which I think is equal parts cultural, and I feel like I should be getting a 50% discount because we can't see each other's faces.

This Dr. I s the “Truth”, next level Ty!

Wow. This is profound. Im going to look for the book and dive in.

May you feel shame follow you for the rest of your life. Your father failed raising you, then you failed as a man. And you think you're some teacher 😂😂

I would like more examples

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First-class interview. Thank you.

Oh, this was so great! Thank you so much for sharing this.

Such good stuff! Thank you so much for sharing! 👌

Thanks for your work

Aww love Stan! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

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I learned a lot listening to this. Thank you so much!

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I’m curious about the link between populations who experience insecure attachment and if more women are disorganized and anxious? Also I couldn’t help but notice as someone with disorganized attachment traits that dr brown mentioned dismissives being particularly satisfying to work with. Maybe I’m internalizing this as discouraging to a fault. But I’m curious about how oppression of women might factor into women having unique challenges that are “less satisfying” aka more complicated to work with.

"Co-constructing [and collaborating] a new culture from scratch...based on real interdependence...same things to gain and to lose...consider each other...how we manage under stress is different to when we are not" What if a person manages stress poorly every time grievances, in the interest of constructing new ways of being, are brought up, even when that person was happy/calm a minute ago? In that case, a calm moment to initiate such discussions, can never be found.

25:05 this explanation of why conversations that do not validate or see you are painful is spot on 🎯. I felt invisible as a child. Thank you.

❤ excellent communication analogy playing ping pong 🆚 playing catch. One is interactive, a team effort. The other is a competition. Sue’s example of GETTING, ‘catching’ her son’s sleep monsters was outstanding.

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There’s something intellectually dishonest to this. It’s comingling ‘Attachment’ which is an important concept as it relates to human bonding, with advancing a political agenda and viewpoint the speaker posits. This selfish posture undermines ‘Attachment’ and the very important message it brings in lieu of advancing a separate agenda

I am shocked this ep. hasn’t blown up! Best!!! 👏🏼 (favorite) wish he’d be more vocally available. I just love him! He could teach us so much more.

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