I believe Gucci Mane called this lost in the sauce.

Quick in, quick out is my mantra

I needed this bc I’ve been fighting to make him act right and drove myself crazy in the process. I found I’m actually more peaceful when I don’t interact with him, which says a lot right there. ❤

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Women date dumb because sometimes they want a man that sometimes they compromise standards., been there. Let's make better choices ladies, we got this 🎉❤

This is why im still single i love to hard never gonna have my heart broken

I guess you ghost them back ❤🙂👍

This is a huge issue especially in this demographic: black women dating married men. We have several recent case examples of blk women being with married men going to their rooms like with Bill Cosby. Now I find it peculiar a bw can find the best weave hair stylist in the city but can't figure out if a man is actually married. So that only leaves me to think it's a voluntary decision, they like dating married men or they simply don't care. Or maybe there aren't enough available single men out there for them. Or it could be that the available, single, successful, blk men in their city don't want them, well, least not in marriage they don't. Which explains why they're the least married women compared to all other US women, even compared to bm.

No amount of make up would help you to cover that ugly attitude. Stop generalising half of the world population, good luck finding a good man.

😂😂😂😂 you are embarrassing lol

That's sooo true, and also many of the reasons why men are choosing to not get married. Just swap "her/she" for "he/him"

I see the inside of ur nose lady

100% And who in their right mind would want to be with him KNOWING that he has no respect for himself, his wife AND his kids??

I have never heard so much projection.

So true ❤

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Thanks

Thank You, Coach B Wiley ♥️💪🏼

I needed to see this today! Thank you 🙏🏼

TBH The Babydaddy Has a More Special Relationship with Her Because They Have a Baby Together. The Bf is just There just to be There.✌🏽

🎉ALL THIS 110%!!!

This is my problem! I didn’t ask him & now I’m stuck with 3 kids & 11 1/2 yrs relationship with no marriage or commitment and he play games so I or he can break up with me & tell me what is wrong so he can leave but grass wasn’t greener & I’m healing so I’m ok now; kind of!! 😢😮❤

🎉HALLELUJAH! WELL STATED!! took it much slower than he wanted 🐌 keeping my legs 🦵 closed & NOT ignoring the red flags. saved 🙏 me. his masks started dropping at 4mos.

WhasGood😎

Please take your time in getting to know someone… don’t overlook the red flags! Been there, done that! Much wiser now.

Facts! It happened to me with my ex narc. I experienced everything you mentioned at the beginning of that toxic relationship, then he turned into Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde! A complete 360 degree turn. I had to discard him when he hit me once in the face. Blocked. No contact for five years.

I did exactly what you described in the beginning of your video when I realized I was done with my 4.5 year relationship not going anywhere. I must keep it moving 💃🏽 💃🏽 💃🏽. Bye-bye-bye ❤🎉❤🎉❤

True! I beat myself up five years ago for being in a two year relationship with a narcissist. It ended up with me discarding him after one hit to my face for looking in his phone. He had been texting another female and I asked him about it, which resulted in my being hit and cursed out for my looking. Now I’m more wiser in recognizing the red flags with guys, because I ignored many red flags 🚩 in that toxic relationship . Truly it was a learning experience.

Dating is not a game. It is to observe a person in every situation whether good or bad. It is to choose a mate that is Godly, faithful and loving that wants to provide what is needed to a life and family. Are you marriage material? Are you a Godly woman who is faithful and loving and provides a home that speaks Christ.

Finally 👏👏👏

Thank-you for the free booklet. I'll read it from beginning to ending. There's so much I don't know and am trying to learn.

No lies detected here. Far too many women are just not ready for any relationship.

Didn't 🙈 see it coming 😢

Be 👍✅ Done

He's unavailable, move around 👌⚔️💯

Exactly ❤

That's not swindled. Wrong terminology here. Here's the definition of swindled: "use deception to deprive (someone) of money or possessions." How is it swindled if he bought dinners? So wrong term. This is nothing more than a guy who lost interest like women who lie about their relationships, still involved with her baby daddy, play games, dating under false pretenses, lie, and use men for money maybe the very reasons why he lost interest. "Swindled" lmao.

You are absolutely RIGHT ❤

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Amen Queen ❤

❤Thank you 🌹

Walk the bird aha so true guys will literally say anything 😂😂.

I wish there were more poeple who thought like this, because the ungodly amount of people who get offended because they don't match with the person they want is baffling to me.

For men to "Fall in Love" they need to: 1. Be ready and open for a relationship in the first place (more than likely, unless that woman was exceptional and ticked all the boxes in his checklist probably - Age, race, etc.). 2. Be attractive according to his eyes. 3. Be healthy and perfect lol. Otherwise, just sadly forget it. People are so shallow/superficial these days. I wonder how they would feel if they were judged left and right, especially for things people can't control like race, age, maybe even disability, etc. But yeah, it's fine, at the end of it, being in a relationship with someone is a priveledge, not a right like they said.

Why not just tell the person that you no longer want to date them!!!

0:30 this is typically what women do. good men don't do this. if a good man isn't interested, he'll simply say "this isn't working for me." because he respects her & doesn't want to waste her time. the only men that do this are bad boys. but we all know women love men who aren't interested in them, which is why women run into this issue so often. women only see value in a man if he makes himself unavailable to her smh

Happy Birthday 🎉😂❤

I had a great childhood though, yet I still attracted assholes/jerks.. I don't think it's really me. The pickings are kinda bad out there in my opinion.

🎉powerful wisdom: well said!!! 👏 he "UNO reversed on me. wanted to stay but my awareness wouldn't allow it. he was now my enemy. 🏃‍♀️ bloc-delete. dignity over everything.

This is because he doesn't want her anymore. I think I know why, too. This happens to men especially bm alot. The only thing left is to take personal responsibility for one's choices and accept the consequences for one's actions like an adult and move around.