In The Trenches of Motherhood.
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@xepherial4725
@xepherial4725 3 күн бұрын
Man. I had a great c-section. 10.5 lbs baby. Pain was very well managed and I was home in 2 days. I was 44 years old.
@hannahcolley6411
@hannahcolley6411 4 күн бұрын
I would like to see your daily/nightly routine
@synxen6275
@synxen6275 5 күн бұрын
@WhitneySt0rmy
@WhitneySt0rmy 6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for describing the difference between an epidural and spinal. I had an epidural with my first emergency C-section and having a spinal with my 2nd. I felt a *ton* of pressure with my epidural and i remember it being quite uncomfortable.
@leapfrog9656
@leapfrog9656 6 күн бұрын
I was wondering what the lights are and what type of paint to use, acrylic?
@inactive8414
@inactive8414 8 күн бұрын
I deleted all Socal Media 2 years ago and plain on taking a long overdue hiatus from KZfaq for the rest of the summer which I can't wait to do.
@katy90roka
@katy90roka 8 күн бұрын
Just found your channel! I’ve been homeschooling for 2 years but I wanted to see new ideas :)
@genesisc3744
@genesisc3744 9 күн бұрын
Dealing with this but I’m the one that got sick and I have a 6 month old 💔💔💔💔
@sscc6853
@sscc6853 11 күн бұрын
Hello, new subscriber. Also expecting baby # 4. Your channel popped up on recommend channel. & i have viewed a few. Random question or i should say request... if you have any easy lunch or dinner meals to share?.. Definitely helpful when your tired and have 3 little ones running around.
@cassandranocos9947
@cassandranocos9947 Күн бұрын
Congratulations! And God Bless you. I'm expecting baby #4, God willing 🙏
@Nomisoto
@Nomisoto 14 күн бұрын
What diaper bag is that ?!❤
@nadiadelong6605
@nadiadelong6605 14 күн бұрын
You did an amazing job. It looks fantastic. Job well done.
@gabralilly1281
@gabralilly1281 14 күн бұрын
I Recommend you Chris Ferrie, he has very interesting books about science for kids!
@kathrynsurles299
@kathrynsurles299 15 күн бұрын
I'm a retired elementary teacher. I would highly recommend the Magic Treehouse book series by Mary Pope Osborne. They are great reading stories and incorporate a lot of history and geography. My students always loved them. You could probably find them in the library.
@rachelhutchison8093
@rachelhutchison8093 15 күн бұрын
You’re so brave to tell your story. These stories need to be told. We should ALL be aware that many of the radical state laws being passed in post-Roe v. Wade America will make this type of situation 100 times worse and more dangerous for countless women, and women of color disproportionately. Children in America should not be losing their mommies to childbirth or miscarriage, but those numbers are ticking up. Read about what the 20 women in Texas went through. Some of them will never be able to become mothers now. They’re even passing laws to make it illegal to be in possession of the surgical implements and drugs used to take care of a woman during a miscarriage. In Idaho, doctors can’t even intervene until a woman is literally dying. Rightwing politicians view women’s lives as expendable in favor of a non-viable pregnancy, ladies. Be aware. Be vigilant. Don’t stop talking about your experiences.
@rachelhutchison8093
@rachelhutchison8093 15 күн бұрын
Bethany, your dollhouse makeovers are gorgeous. I love how you show that dollhouses can be appropriately scaled and designed for kids without all the pink/purple hype. These could be as much at home in a kids’ bedroom or playroom. As in the family living room.
@Paris-wh4db
@Paris-wh4db 17 күн бұрын
I want to cry right now . I’m so scared
@WhitneySt0rmy
@WhitneySt0rmy 6 күн бұрын
It's going to be okay. 🫂🫂
@kiouria90
@kiouria90 19 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video ♥ I am very anxious about the postpartum after a c-section... I hope the pain is bearable😅 Both c-sectuon and vaginal birth sound so scary to me. But due to a pathological problem of mine , i am stuck with the c-section option only
@WhitneySt0rmy
@WhitneySt0rmy 6 күн бұрын
I had an emergency C-section after 36 hours of labor and 2½ hours of pushing. Trying to give birth vaginally was a nightmare for me. I was so relieved to finally have a C-section and get him out. I'm having a scheduled C-section in a few days and I'm so grateful to not have to try to have babe vaginally. Recovery really isn't all that bad either. You're going to do amazing!
@SettieSpaghetti
@SettieSpaghetti 19 күн бұрын
I froze lots of homemade bean and cheese burritos, meatloafs, pasta, and pesto chicken w/ potatoes. I wish I would’ve remembered big undies that would go over my incision. I was happy to have my belly binder and shoes that would fit my giant swollen feet. This time around I’ve almost completely stopped bleeding at almost 4 weeks. My pain was much more this time around, but it made my swelling seem not so bad comparatively 😂. My feet and legs were like balloons both times. I didn’t need the heavy pain meds with my 1st, but absolutely needed them with my 2nd.
@CL-classicgaming
@CL-classicgaming 19 күн бұрын
Where can I find school material for a kidergatener?
@oldsoulmamabear
@oldsoulmamabear 21 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! Starting first year homeschool for kindergarten and this was so helpful. So many helpful resources and tips.
@Ebenezerita
@Ebenezerita 21 күн бұрын
My. Two little daughter are 7 ans 8 years old how can I star school at home?
@Karsyn-ye7lp
@Karsyn-ye7lp 24 күн бұрын
Ginger ale doesn’t have ginger in it
@vonpaul998
@vonpaul998 25 күн бұрын
Im curios are you going to keep homeschooling ?
@gabriellesteele2641
@gabriellesteele2641 26 күн бұрын
You’re doing great mama! We are starting our first year of homeschooling this year. I’m nervous, but so excited. How did you make the hanger for the daily rhythm?
@hopenoland6656
@hopenoland6656 28 күн бұрын
I recall you had C-sections with your other 3 kids. Will you be opting for another or trying for a VBAC?
@crazyleaf257
@crazyleaf257 29 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@emd.3974
@emd.3974 Ай бұрын
You are body building right now! The most beautiful type of body building of creating life ❤
@user-pv6no4ew8n
@user-pv6no4ew8n Ай бұрын
I loved your video :) I hope I can get to the point you’re at someday soon ❤
@brialianabesos
@brialianabesos Ай бұрын
I just had my second a month ago and I didn’t take prenatals nor did I purchase maternity clothes. If I have a third I’m going to do the same. 🙏🏼 I will say, I’m nervous about the first trimester with 2 kids. That first trimester kicked my butt with my second pregnancy - I had migraines for my first time in my life and I was soooooo tired 😩😩
@asankka
@asankka Ай бұрын
How do you manage to exercise during pregnancy? How have you been feeling? I was really hoping to have an active pregnancy with my 1st and found it impossible with constant nausea and fatigue. It's definitely not what I was expecting... now thinking of having a 2nd one trying to plan for a better pregnancy the 2nd time around and would really appreciate some more realistic tips for being active as postpartum recovery took me forever, and I know the benefits are so good.
@BethanyFontaine
@BethanyFontaine Ай бұрын
I had scheduled out time in my day specifically for going to the gym which helped me stay more motivated. Even when I did t feel like it or felt the best I still went and did something. I also made myself a practical plan of exercises to do so I had a purpose to my workouts. Now I’m just mostly prioritizing movement (walking/light jogging) and retaining strength. I hope that helps! 🥰
@asankka
@asankka Ай бұрын
@BethanyFontaine thank you! Xx it's brilliant you've managed all that! Well done! All the best for this little ones arrival ❤️ 🙌
@NisaSimply
@NisaSimply Ай бұрын
Love you love you ❤
@keinohrtini
@keinohrtini Ай бұрын
OMG! YES!!! I totally know what you mean when you talk about that “lack-of-sleep-hangover” I am absolutely experiencing that too when I am slept deprived and my remedy is a big glass of electrolytes! I use the element ones in 32 oz water and it is absolutely amazing how it helps to pick me up and clears my head!!! I highly recommend it!! ❤
@keinohrtini
@keinohrtini Ай бұрын
It would be great if you could link or talk more about your supplement choices! Most of us probably go the conventional route because we have no idea what is needed for a pregnant body and of course the baby!
@BethanyFontaine
@BethanyFontaine Ай бұрын
I’ve actually been taking beef liver capsules or organ meats, magnesium, vitamin c and omega-3’s. I used the brand perfect supplements and have a code BETHANYF10 if you want to use it! www.perfectsupplements.com/?Click=63804067bf4ae
@veggiesarah9437
@veggiesarah9437 Ай бұрын
Bethany! What nrand magnesium are you taking? I am running low on mine but searching for others in case i find a better one.
@BethanyFontaine
@BethanyFontaine Ай бұрын
I use perfect supplements. Here the link for you! 🙂 I also have a code BETHANYF10 for 30% off if you buy 3 of any perfect supplement brand products. www.perfectsupplements.com/?Click=63804067bf4ae
@jocelynnelson
@jocelynnelson Ай бұрын
I’d love to see a video about things you won’t be buying if you haven’t done one already!
@BethanyFontaine
@BethanyFontaine Ай бұрын
Maybe I’ll do a video on that! 🙂
@mariasunbury4788
@mariasunbury4788 Ай бұрын
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@canadafragrancereviewerdia9119
@canadafragrancereviewerdia9119 Ай бұрын
Bethany i occasionally have watched your videos over the years especially when you were pregnant with your last son because my daughter was also pregnant with her last son at the same time he being born in August of 2021. My daughter also has 4 kids, 2 girls and 2 boys just like you will have only she had her 2 boys last and girls first. You seem to be just the sweetest young woman and i am so happy you are having a girl for your last baby, much congratulations.
@BethanyFontaine
@BethanyFontaine Ай бұрын
You’re too sweet. 🥹
@ahnikastowell3882
@ahnikastowell3882 Ай бұрын
Hi! Just wondering what brand is the powder you use for your smoothies?
@BethanyFontaine
@BethanyFontaine Ай бұрын
Here you go! ✨ www.perfectsupplements.com/Perfect-Hydrolyzed-Collagen-p/ps-collagen.htm?Click=63804067bf4ae
@snorlund1
@snorlund1 Ай бұрын
Love your spice rack! A great find! 😊
@TodaysBibleTruth
@TodaysBibleTruth Ай бұрын
I'm wondering if anyone could recommend some reading books for a thirteen year old. I am tutoring this student for SAT and scholarly writing, but the parents would like me to recommend some library books. The family is from India. I am not sure of their religion. I want to give him books that will influence him in Judeo- Christian values and beliefs without being overt. Thanks for any help with this. 🤍
@MamaGG16
@MamaGG16 Ай бұрын
Girl. You have just taken a million pounds of stress off my shoulders. I’m over here thinking I have no room in my house for a “classroom” setting or room for all these things you see people have. Thank you for showing us that it’s possible without all of that!!! I am subbed now!
@juialam9732
@juialam9732 Ай бұрын
Please mention syllabus and book name for children
@mixunamii
@mixunamii Ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video. Tomorrow is my scheduled c-section. Since im high risk t1d, I've been the whole pregnancy filled with fear about the consequences and dangers by the Dr and gynos. Some as scary as "you can die on the table!" And Ive done everything to avoid the dangers. Unfortunately, the little one is happy being breeched and refused to flip so Im stuck doing c-section. These last days have been emotional roller coaster fearing the worst but hoping for the best. Your video truly helped ease the tension i had and i thank you for that.
@evm13626
@evm13626 15 күн бұрын
How was your experience I hope everything went well for you and and little one
@evm13626
@evm13626 15 күн бұрын
Sending ❤
@mixunamii
@mixunamii 14 күн бұрын
​@evm13626 I was so stressed out the night prior, my sugars and BP were everywhere and had diarrhea 😂. The day of, I let them know and the team was super kind and joked with me and they let me know everything they were doing which was very helpful. I got in, they gave my my robe and had me changed. They took me and the husband to the recovery room. Checked my vitals and inserted the iv, put these boots on my legs which they will later pulse to keep blood flow . Hubby was given the scrubs but had him wait til they were ready. We arrived at 8am. Surgery wasn't til 10am. A nurse came in and did a final ultrasound tonmake sure baby was still breech (he was) At 9:30am the anaesthesiologist came in and explained everything we signed some final paperwork and they brought the wheelchair. Hubby was told to scrub up and wait outside. I was wheeled into the operating room (super cold and super intimidating) they had me sit on the table. Gyno came in and played music. A nurse stood in front of me and explained to bend over like a cat over a pillow while she helps me and I would feel a pinch but try not to move. The anaesthesiologist then rubbed something and I was expecting a bee sting but honestly, maybe my pain levels were high, it just tickled and then a second later, I felt a warmth from my stomach go down my legs. They then helped me on the table and strapped my arms. I heard from another video suggest to tap your fingers so you concentrate on that instead of your legs so I desperately tapped my fingers (but honestly I was more scared than anything it's not bad) you can't feel your legs at this point and you can't feel your toes move. Gyno and the team started rubbing this orange stuff and marking the location while the anaesthesiologist explained what he was connecting to my iv. There was two interns in my room which I joked around with cause they seemed more nervous than me. They finally put the curtain up. And Let me tell you, I was balling tears at this point, excited and nervous. I had mucus in my nose while the nurse by me cooed me that everything would be OK and put the hose on my nose for oxygen (they don't insert it, its just , on the surface) omg, the oxygen and my snot made bubbles and tickled my nose and I thought both my hands were strapped down. Found out quick on hand wasn't strapped and I thought someone messed up so when the two dr turned around I quickly scratches dmy nose and hid my hand. They brought the hubby in and then the nurse told me he left one arm loose just in case I needed to scratch so I felt like an idiot. 😅 anyways not even 5 mins the gyno was telling the hubby to take out the phone to take photos and videos. That's when we heard our baby and hubby nervously took photos. I was high risk t1d so they had to check the baby's vitals make sure his sugar didn't drop so they couldn't bring him to me asap but they had the hubby go to him. BTW you don't feel anything except what feels like someone moving your belly around and some slight pressure but no pain. Once the baby was ready they brought him to me. I was with him for a bit and then they had hubby and the baby go to the recovery room. I was in the room another 15 mins and they finished closing me. They brought another bed and pulled me onto it. By this time the tap was slowly going g away, still didn't feel anything but I felt my toes move (felt asleep) we were in the room for 2 hours had nurses checking on me 30 mins make sure I can move my legs. I was allowed 1 visitor at a time or I could've slept. I was so nervous I couldn't sleep so my close family one by one came to see see me.(baby was with nurse regulating his dropped sugar) once the 2hrs was good and I had a room, they rolled me to my room and baby was brought in if say 10 mins later. HIGHLY RECCOMEND TO BREASTFEED ONCE THE BABY ARRIVES NO MATTER IF THEY SUFFER SUGAR DROPS. IF YOU CANT LATCH, ASK FOR A PUMP IF YOU DIDNT BRING ONE!!! anyways, you can't eat anything for 24hrs so they give you juices and water. Make sure to raise your legs to get all that excess liquid out of your legs or you'll ve super swollen like me. BTW you have a catheder so once the pitocin is gone, that's when they remove it. Feels weird being removed. They change you to the hospital undies with the big pad ifyo didnt bring your own. (Go a size bigger if you do buy depends) After 6hrs a nurse comes in and helps you up. They give you this breathalyzer to test your lungs and they help you up. You slowly walk, (please be careful you will feel drunk and drowzy) everything else is just recovery which i think is worse thsn the surgery itself. You might feel strong to do it yourself, dont. Ask for help, this is your time to recover. 1st night you wont sleep at all. Between checking baby's breathing, feeding baby every 2 hours and just sore, you wont sleep. try to get rest the second day. BTW, gyno will come in and will remove the gauze over the incision. ASK THEN TO BE NICE CAUSE MINES RIPPED THE GAUZE AND I LEFT BRUISES ON THE POOR NURSES ARM FROM THE PAIN AND JUST NOT EXPECTING IT) other than that, its not that bad.
@WhitneySt0rmy
@WhitneySt0rmy 6 күн бұрын
​@@mixunamii Thanks so much for all the details from your surgery! I'm so happy it went so well for you. ❤ Your comment might've made me feel better than the multiple videos I've watched. 😅 You're the best!
@mixunamii
@mixunamii 6 күн бұрын
This video was the one that made me feel the calmest and I'm so glad I found it before going under the knife.
@violetbarroso8254
@violetbarroso8254 Ай бұрын
Is that a real sponge
@magiegerman6505
@magiegerman6505 Ай бұрын
Can you show us how to make the hanging swing in the bedroom please
@Vics98
@Vics98 Ай бұрын
Congratulations, very sweet.
@dove.9833
@dove.9833 Ай бұрын
I have heard general anesthesia is an option for c sections? Can anyone explain if that may be true?
@jenniferfrazierlpc7171
@jenniferfrazierlpc7171 Ай бұрын
So helpful!🙏🏾💕
@user-me2bc2zd8q
@user-me2bc2zd8q Ай бұрын
So many helpful tips!! I love it!
@user-me2bc2zd8q
@user-me2bc2zd8q Ай бұрын
Always flex foam pads are so good!!