I do try this, although admittedly not all the time. Whenever I do something that he either doesn't like, or thinks he wont like (for example, if I need to adjust his clothes and he thinks I'm going to take something off him) he starts thrashing around and crying. If I'm not quick enough to catch him, he'll throw himself backwards on the floor (hitting his head if it's a hard surface), or he'll bang his forehead on the nearest surface. If I hold him to stop him falling, he'll thrash around in my hands until I pick him up, then proceed to headbutt me. He's 16 months old, only saying 3 words and, while he understands some things, doesn't seem to understand when I try and acknowledge his feelings. How can I get him passed this self-hurting phase? His tantrums aren't great but they're made worse when he hurts himself.

You are right ✅

Very good video, thanks

Tks from Bolivia South America

Nice❤

Love this reassurance ❤

Listening to the #replay and learning lots - in the Bay Area of California, USA. Thank you ladies for this very useful info for my almost 3 year old.

P r o m o s m

Thank you for this wonderful talk! Form Madison, WI USA

Reply IL

I feel very happy listening to Simonne

From Lima,Perú Soth America

Pre-frontal cortex isn’t fully developed until 25 YEARS old - is that correct?! Should that be months? Please confirm as that would be major. Thanks

Hi am from Gĥàna

Hi am from Ghana

🎉 congratulations

I’m a nanny to a 4 old and two older sisters, she just started hitting and not listening when asked to do a task.I never really thought her to clean up the toys or anything because she was so small, but I’m still not the parent to discipline her. The mom says it’s normal to hit for her age??

Sanniyah books: “I Did It Myself!” Affiliate link - www.amazon.com/dp/1635865514?linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzguideand-20&creativeASIN=1635865514&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.4TMXQU5DXM1V&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ons_d_asin I Did It Myself!: I Can Get Dressed, Brush My Teeth, Put on My Shoes, and More: Montessori Life Skills (I Did It! The Montessori Way): Khalilallah, Saniyyah: 9781635865516: Amazon.com: Books “I Help at Home!” Affiliate link - www.amazon.com/dp/1635865239?linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzguideand-20&creativeASIN=1635865239&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.4TMXQU5DXM1V&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ons_d_asin

Sanniyah links: Website - www.skmontessori.com/ IG - instagram.com/skmontessori?igsh=MTU0NHZ0bWhydGk3Mw== FB - facebook.com/profile.php?id=22917448&mibextid=hu50Ix

I love your videos. Great examples they really helps to picture the situacion.

Great video. I Learned alot

Parenting school Coupon code to use - GUIDEGROW20 Link to enroll - voilamontessori.com/tps-enroll-now

Montessori activities 0-3 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM-XgZhk1JOncn0.html Montessori activities 3-6 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r7eemrqiv9ycmqs.html Montessori activities 6-9 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p5eAjcJ_1rW5YqM.html Montessori activities 9-12 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/briYqKilnNXdaKc.html

Parenting school Coupon code to use - GUIDEGROW20 Link to enroll - voilamontessori.com/tps-enroll-now

Guide & Grow TV Montessori activities 0-3 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM-XgZhk1JOncn0.html Montessori activities 3-6 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r7eemrqiv9ycmqs.html Montessori activities 6-9 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p5eAjcJ_1rW5YqM.html Montessori activities 9-12 months - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/briYqKilnNXdaKc.html

Very helpful. ❤

👏👏👏😍😍

As much as this pep-talk is appreciated. This didn't really help with the issue at all. Other than saying "deal with it bish"...in the most kindest way possible. 💀

❤ What about nights ?

Thanks this is so important. This video is so helpful.

Can you tell us which age group these material could/ should be used at?

Hello, much appreviated! How to deal with an 11 month old, who insists on touching the toilet and the toilet brush and in general licks the bathroom tiles? I remove her from the bathroom, but she comes back. I don't want to use negative words, but I get really frustrated and I can't help myself saying "Don't touch this, it's dirty!". How do I deal such situation in a Montessori way?

Okay 👍

You can tell this woman never was hit as a child

I do not have kids but i have observed something: my sister had a son and my cousin had a son. My sister punished her son, my cousin didnt even raise the voice, instead was trying to talk to the kid like an adult. 4 years later, my sister had a well-manered kid who is really honest with parents and comes to them with all the issues he has. My cousins son is a misbehaving boy who talks back and even called hos grandpa a stinky pig to his face

And not punishing kids gives you entitled brats, who grow up with no respect for laws or rules. Which, eventually, lands them in jail or dead!

Gentle parenting sounds all good and rosy but bad behavior should not be tolerated. Giving them a time out in their room can give them a chance to recenter their thoughts.

I kad hoe 🤪

The very first thing parents need to accomplish, even before all these wonderful KZfaq videos… No.1 The PARENTS NEED to NOT BITE, HIT, THROW SHIT, OUT OF ANGER and No SELF-CONTROL…Its typically a cultural behavior family lifestyle. Doubt me, look in the mirror..

Ok so what about a child who can't see

I'm a grandmother of five children my number 8 grandchildn nonverbal legally blind 9 years old was neglected probably all his life he has no skills doesn't eat solid food won't bite or try tasting food he simply won't take it he feeds from a sippy cup blended fruit with oats he choked on a hard candy like it was foreign to him. I'm feeling he was exploring something new how can I teach him to chew bite swallow as it's a process Lillian gortarez from Phoenix Arizona

Great video honestly. Hope lots of people see this and actually listen. Kids are amazing and sometimes adults are impatient and focus on things from their perspective rather than trying to consider what or why a child might do something. Sure, sometimes it could be annoying or inconvenient for adults but it is an important thing.

#replay watching from Houston TX, in US but I’m from Mexico☺️

Wah. Wonderful. A, reply faster than a thought. Thanks😊Good 🎄wishes. Blessed🙏 Raj ✨🎼🙋‍♂️🌈💐🌴

Illuminating. Eric conversation was great. 🎉🌹thanks😊

Hi, I am still trying to do this thing with my 18 months old to let him to choose. Sometimes is working but sometimes it doesn’t. The problem that I have is how to stop him to not throw toys in me or in his dad when we try to have a conversation or to pull my hair or to hit us. I really struggle with that

Thank you for posting these helpful videos! What's the best approach to help an 18-month old to ride in the buggy after nursery, rather than be carried? The parent has back problems and finds it difficult to carry the child and push the buggy at the same time.

thanks for sharing about Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids . great video

Wonderful! Thank you both! 👏👏😍😍

(Mod) Stephanie Pinto's socials Facebook: web.facebook.com/stephpinto Facebook group: web.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkids Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniepinto12345/ Instagram: instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parent/ Book (From Chaos to Connection): amzn.to/3Fu7iWX