Compliments are appreciated. For me it’s about YOUR SUCCESS and Leadership because if you go down others go down with you. My calling and intention is to help YOU rise up, dust yourself off, and lead your family back to Joy, Peace and Safety. Be Kingdom focused and the rest will be given to you!! You be the safe place King!! 🤴 you’re Queen needs that. 🫵💪🏽💙⚔️
@bigmike14002 күн бұрын
Thank you Denver! Did my Marriage Mission Statement today. 😊
@DivorceStoppers2 күн бұрын
Stay focused on that Vision!! Believe it!
@DivorceStoppers2 күн бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@jon-jx9cw3 күн бұрын
You know I really like your stuff it's probably better than the other stuff I seen online but it won't help in my case no matter how much I try to convince her like you said she convinced biasedly against me....... and besides for me to be able to prove to her that I won't drive fast with her in the car or I won't raise my voice which we've only had three arguments she lives in Tennessee I live in Texas... 3 years I've flown her down here every 2 months and we've only had three arguments and she thinks I'm volatile and it would never even was a bad argument I mean we never even raised our voice to each other or stood up at each other we were laying on the couch or driving in the car but the point I'm making is if I don't have time around her I'll never be able to prove myself that I changed and to gain trust so what's the point!!! I mean I have to have time around her for her to see me that I have changed just like you did with your second wife but I can't even get that so it's not like she's around the corner what kind of advice would you have for a man like this! Suicide?? Yeah... No that's not going to happen but if you had any advice for this situation I would be amazed !!!!
@DivorceStoppers3 күн бұрын
I did it from Puerto Rico and my wife was in Arkansas. The wonderful thing about today’s technology is we can use it to start the process or reconciliation the way I did it. After doing what I teach myself my wife agreed to meet me for a date in New York in November and we were on a flight back together from Arkansas to Puerto Rico where we live that December. Ask yourself what price am I paying now by not having the relationship restored. What investment of my time and finances make sense to never been in this situation again with very good odds that you might just be able to reconcile this relationship, unless she’s already married another man. What do you to loose… ? If it makes sense to take action for your brother book a call with us after you do the masterclass. The first 3 lessons I teach in the program is PHONE relationship restoration process. 💙💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏽 Whatever you decide for you. I wish and believe for you that your best days are ahead of you my brother!! Choose and believe that also for yourself and get a plan to make it happen. If it makes sense. Also get help. For me I now know to get help if I’m stuck in area of my life because you don’t know what you don’t know.
@stevenramos65906 күн бұрын
Shaniqua is a toxic friend
@DivorceStoppers3 күн бұрын
Perhaps sometimes. I know of 2 That were great friends that believed in marriage restoration. It’s all about our masculine leadership.. 💙💪🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🫵
@ernestwilliams844817 күн бұрын
Problem is it's so expensive. I literally have no way to pay for this.
@DivorceStoppers3 күн бұрын
We have monthly payment plans. What is the costing you to not do it brother ? And there’s zero return on that cost because it’s only expense. Invest what you desire. 💙💪🏽
@DivorceStoppers19 күн бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@shanecoby873625 күн бұрын
I have a question, how do you restore a marriage where the spouse doesn’t want to be a mom anymore? A full time mom. How do you change that , married over 25 years.
@DivorceStoppers25 күн бұрын
I’d need more context brother. Most likely your marriage isn’t going goal because of this. This might possibly be the fruit of a failed marriage. If that’s so, there’s a LOT of things that can be done to restore 💪🏽💙 Have you done the masterclass and booked a call with us brother ?
@shanecoby873625 күн бұрын
@@DivorceStoppers Basically married 26 years, great marriage, then her birthday came around, she said she didn’t feel right, then a boyfriend showed up, a traveling contractor from out of town. She went into limerence which at the time I didn’t know what it was at the time. He showed up in June, she was acting weird in July, quit talking to all of us in August, me and kids, left first week in September, asked for dissolution in October, said she felt free. Gave up willing full custody of kids and said I was the best man she ever knew but I want to be free.
@pieterroose-rapconsciente957226 күн бұрын
Be a nice guy, fine with everything??? Realy, fine with anything, no bounderies?? Pleezing, adapting?? Alot of good points bro
@DivorceStoppers26 күн бұрын
@@pieterroose-rapconsciente9572 glad to hear there was some value in there for you brother 🙏🏽💪🏽
@DivorceStoppers2 күн бұрын
100 percent do have boundaries. Agreeing with someone’s negative FEELINGS is aligning your actions with your goals. Agreeing to screw yourself or agreeing to something that would harm you in anyway is not smart or what I’m suggesting. I hope that’s helpful!! This ain’t about pleasing her. It’s about making her feel seen, feel heard and feel valued. If she has negative FEELINGS they are TRULY her TRUTH. You can’t deny Truth if you want the live or marriage you’re called to have!! 💪🏽🙏🏽💙🫵
@DivorceStoppers28 күн бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@DivorceStoppers28 күн бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@ParkerBradshaw29 күн бұрын
I told my wife I wanted a divorce 3 or 4 times and the last time I said it front of the kids. I was so frustrated bc I felt she never cared. She then honored my request and left the house and I'm devastated. I really didn't want the divorce but didn't know how to fix us. She's at the point of no return. I've tried and tried and tried. It isn't working so now just going to try no contact. It's just crazy bc we didn't have the major issues and the issues are fixable.
@DivorceStoppers28 күн бұрын
Hey brother this is a normal thing. It’s very common out of frustration to make the marriage better to use the D word and then the other person is scared. There is most likely a path to restoration. Do the Masterclass. Link is in comments. If you feel like you need help book a call Strategy session call with us to see if Divorcestoppers program is a fit for you Here’s link to book that call if you believe you need that. 😊🙏🏽 calendly.com/denvergriffin/breakthrough_strategy_session_team_denver
@ParkerBradshaw28 күн бұрын
@DivorceStoppers she moved out completely a few days ago into an apartment. Her 16 yr old still comes by. She's wayyy too stubborn. It forced my hand to file divorce papers. It's just so weird. I'll consider that class but I think it's too late. I've admitted all my faults all the things. She just agrees now what I've always said that we don't have anything in common. I guess I got the answer I didn't want to hear bc she was going through the motions never wanting to work at things. It was always "I have and you don't listen"
@dwightwiley490Ай бұрын
Great content Denver
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
Thank you Dwight 🙏🏽
@Mac_D83Ай бұрын
Good points. Our problem is we’re both avoidant. We don’t talk. About anything. No arguing, no yelling, just quiet resentment between “roommates”. I can focus on myself all I want but if I can never talk to her I can never begin to reconcile. I have no idea how she really feels so I don’t know what to address. Papers are already filed, it’s just a matter of time now. She just stopped sleeping in the bed with me last night too. It’s over, and I have to be okay with that and look to the future. Maybe when we’re both healed we can give it another chance, but this marriage is dead.
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
With MINIMAL conversation you can most likely change this. Inside the divorcestopers program we dig deep to teach how to make her feel HEARD, her to feel SEEN. We do this by showing you how to see and hear her. Once this happens she will SEE you. Step 1. Do the Free MASTERCLASS in the comment above. If you feel like you need more help, book a strategy session call with us. Time is only on your side if you put it there brother. 💪🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫵💙
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@mylesrain2952Ай бұрын
I need help
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
Book a call with us calendly.com/denvergriffin/breakthrough_strategy_session_team_denver
@arccityangelsАй бұрын
so I should stop wearing my ring because it pisses her off 😅
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
If she isn’t wearing hers and you are yours often times this can appear weak and may cause her to feel disrespect towards you. If disrespect exist, meaning there’s zero respect in the relationship, she will never fall back into the relationship, similar to what experiences when you fall in love when there’s arguments and one spouse wants out of the relationship if you don’t experience the falling first, it’s almost impossible to have a restored relationship. I show my clients in the divorce shoppers program how to fall and we land on a foundation to build on. Not everyone needs that program, for these KZfaq videos are adequate to get everybody back on track. I hope this channel is a blessing to you & hope it’s very helpful.
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@S1lverspikeАй бұрын
The only thing good about marital counseling for me and my wife is that it let her vent in a safe space and get it off her chest. 6 months in to separation we had up and downs. Last month she was taking about coming back then talked about filing in the next few months. I believe I’ll get my wife back I’m committed to the process.
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
As you’re going through this process, if you feel like you know that you need help. Go through our master class and book a call with us if you feel like it’s something that you need. Time is only on your side if you put it there. Your commitment to save your marriage is very commendable and respectable. 💪🏽💪🏽
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@jamiedudek79602 ай бұрын
Josh Hudson' s course is great, for building self asteem and masculine frames , but didn't help me get my girl back and it was spendy
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Yes. I hear that. We get a lot of clients from that group that are wanting the marriage restored.
@DesignsbyDeYoung2 ай бұрын
Jason! I have been wanting to be Denver’s client. He will not work with women apparently. I tried to schedule a call. I remember you from GOATSWIN and I am losing my game. I would love to talk to you and see if there is anything you can offer me for advice if you have any. I’m exactly where you were and it’s feeling like a death spiral. Finding coaching for women to men is hard as hell. Nothing out there. Not sure how to get in touch without you exposing more of your information or mine. I seriously would love to catch up. You did it!!!! I’m so happy for you!
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
We’re not opposed to working with women. The program caters mostly to men. I’ll askJason reach out to you and if you feel like this is what you need certainly we will schedule a call with you. Very sorry to see what you’re going through. 🙏🏽🙏🏽😢
@DesignsbyDeYoung2 ай бұрын
@@DivorceStoppers would like that. When I booked my intake call I was denied so that’s why I drew that conclusion you do not work with women.
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@jamesweston99572 ай бұрын
My wife had ac3 month affair she left 3 weeks ago because she said that she cant look at me because of what she did. We have only seen other twice in that time. I had my faults in this. I wasn't taking care of what needed to be done at home. I was in a job transition and though we weren't struggling financial do to my retirement. But I began to look less manly. I'm fighting for our marriage and I think she is to. But get her to see ne as a man again that's where I am lost. How do I get her to see me and the changes I'm implementing
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
You’ve got to position yourself so that she sees and believes your grace, she feels seen and heard. What you’re dealing with is so complicated that KZfaq alone in my experience is not enough for you. You don’t need information you literally need transformation. Go through our masterclass. That should be very helpful as a 1st step. The link is above in the comments 💪🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@user-zx1ip8mk8y2 ай бұрын
Are you assuming that everyone has been faithful and that trust is not an issue?
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
100 percent assuming up to 40 percent of our clients have infidelity. So no sir I’m not assuming that. This is one topic but I have videos regarding this as well.
@DivorceStoppersАй бұрын
Inside our program we teach how to heal and regain mutual trust. ❤️😊💪🏽🙏🏽
@troycarlsen28782 ай бұрын
What is the cost of the program???
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Go through the masterclass and if you still feel like you need the program we’ll go over different options and payment plans that will fit your individual situation. 😊🙏🏽
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
Use this link to book a call. Prob be good to do the masterclass in the comment above too.
@jamesweston99572 ай бұрын
What if she was the cheater
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Her cheating may not be reason the relationship is failing. Often times cheating is the fruit of a failed marriage. If this is the case, you can lead her back in and fix it brother 💪🏽
@justinleary29652 ай бұрын
This video is literally a gold mine!
@samgreeneggs2 ай бұрын
I dont understand how to walk down the mountain where shes at if your blocked on social media is this a form of no contact or smart contact 🤔? And how much is the class ?
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Do the masterclass and book a call. We have payment as low as $180 bucks if you ask for that option. Book a call link is at end of Masterclass. Link to masterclass is here in these comments
@samgreeneggs2 ай бұрын
My wife left me last week and says its not fixable to much damage has been done .shes texting me but only short text blocked me on all social media idk what to do ?
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
You need to watch all of these videos here and make sure and do the Masterclass You need to book a call with us ASAP. The link to book a call is at the end of the masterclass www.denvergriffin.com/
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@ryanr66072 ай бұрын
Would have been nice to hear some practical tips to apply to specific scenarios that they went through
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Thanks for that feedback. I’ll keep that in mind for upcoming videos. I appreciate you taking the time to provide that feedback @ryanr6607 🙏🏽🙏🏽💥
@dilligaff19792 ай бұрын
What if she says she's still in love with me but she doesn't want to be a wife and mother anymore?
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Check out my video when she says I love you, but I’m not in love with you.. this is most likely what she’s meaning.. might be a great idea for you to do our free Masterclass ASAP
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@justinleary29653 ай бұрын
Great video!!! 😊
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Glad it’s helpful brother!! 💪🏽🙏🏽
@DivorceStoppers2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@sshadows89743 ай бұрын
I got the bomb drop a month ago, She said we just werent on the same page. (I had already recognized inward where I failed to be a masculine leader, and started the shift by now) I agreed, calmly and sincerely thanked her for the courage to speak up and held her hand. For two weeks we gave eachother space, keeping it business only (kids/house/bills). She slept in another room, this went on for two weeks. She came in afterwork one afternoon and hugged me tightly, whispering I dont want to leave. It brought me to tears and we acknowledge there was alot of work to be done. We never addressed the status of things but I did not need definitions at that time. It was a clear path that she wasnt leaving. We have been here for about a month now, sleeping in the same bed although not yet intimate and I have been following the positive polite playful. Weve had a couple covos (not too deep or long) on how she just isnt happy and couldnt remember that last time she was. They have been positive for the most part but never clear talk of reconciliation or even. Some days I get kiss on lips, somedays just hugs, somedays nada. I have to catch myself saying the habitual "I Love yous", habits die hard, right my man? Denver, I've been watching your vids and the free masterclass and saw the ones about not addressing the relationship, period. A little late, I know But following all the coaching i havent since. I think the tide has turned, it will just take time for healing. Ive noticed her ring being off for over a week now when she wore it all thru the bombdrop, guest room, etc prior. Can you ask Brandy (for a friend) what might be going on in her mind right now? Is time still of the essence where I may need to I ask my wife about it, being cool with whatever and just lean closer to her for it, unbothered, but also showing I no longer femininely avoid difficult convos? After the masterclass the link was broken so I couldnt see the offer. Thanks again for the guidance. SS
@MegaMania913 ай бұрын
My wife told me to leave our home 32 days ago. We’ve struggled with communicating. I struggled with drug addiction and anger issues as well as working so much I was basically only working and sleeping. I begged my wife to work on things with me. In the beginning she told me she hoped this separation could save our marriage and now she’s saying she doesn’t want to be with me ever again and she just wants to be able to co parent. I begged and begged until she said she was done. I lost my home, my wife, I only get to see my children on the weekends, and I’m giving her more than half of my income to make sure her and the kids can survive. I practically fell apart. I just lost my entire world. For the last 8 years everything I’ve done was meant to be to give her everything in life she deserves. I don’t know where to go or what to do. I just want my wife in my arms again.
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Hey brother, do the master class. After you go through that if you feel like you need more help book a call with an enrollment specialist and apply for the program. It sounds like you’re an ideal fit for it and it can actually help you restore your home fast. 🙏🏽💪🏽😊
@MegaMania913 ай бұрын
@@DivorceStoppers is it free?
@freemanfornow2642 ай бұрын
I am right there with you buddy....30 days ago my wife of 20 years left and well half of me us gone too.... I've been down that addiction rd too and that is a relationship KILLER
@ismaelalmaraz3684Ай бұрын
Brother read scripture look for God, 🙏
@justinleary29653 ай бұрын
Looking forward to trying out your program!
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Glad the content here is beneficial for you my friend 🙏🏽🙏🏽🚀
@sshadows89743 ай бұрын
Denver, married almost 14 years and we are in still in the "need space" period. During the space period i backed off and started making the shifts to a new man. Its slow, painful but i am learning everday to keep it positive polite and playful. Weve both acknowledged we have work to do seperately but never defined where we are at after she came in and embraced me saying she didnt want to leave. Love is still there but im not there yet in there yet in getting her intimate. I've notice she hasnt been wearing her ring for the last few days. previously i would have avoided bringing it up to her, but in becoming a new man and getting my masculine self back, i am working on addressing things that may concern me in a polite, calm, and open ended way to build back that emotionally safe environment. Should i address it with her (i know it must be calm, collected and not pressure inducing) or should i not let it bother me?
@sshadows89743 ай бұрын
Give up control to be in control?
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Exactly!! To give up control of her positions you in the masculine to be in control of your own future. Also don’t be married to outcomes of your “old” needs. It’s just a strong personal preference. Stay in your lane and with enough time you won’t be able to pry that ring off her finger. ! 🙏🏽💪🏽🔥🚀
@zakattack427429 күн бұрын
I need some help my case is kind of complicated. I have PTSD from my time in the sandbox I don't ever talk about it to anyone. Not even my wife. I had a breakdown due to stress and everything getting to me things from my child hood ptsd from that too. I'm back to work doing the best I can. My wife asked for separation. I begged and pleaded out of desperation. I just want to save my marriage. We have 4 kids a house and the whole thing. I miss her terribly and don't know where to start. I am in therapy for my trauma and she has been going with me says she just wants change.
@stefaniemitchell79933 ай бұрын
Please pray for my marriage... I cant loose my husband.❤
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Will do
@stefaniemitchell79933 ай бұрын
@@DivorceStoppers 💞 Thank you
@justinleary29653 ай бұрын
Still live together and get along. She doesn’t know if she wants to divorce or not. I’m being friendly and not being pushy anymore. Should I still tell her I love you at all?
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
That’s a dangerous place to be brother… Do the masterclass!! The answer is NO you should not, it right now. But relationships are complicated and there are a LOT of things you SHOULD be doing. Do the masterclass. If you need more help book a call with us after the Masterclass ends.
@3sixtynow8503 ай бұрын
Great advice! I've been standing by thinking that if I pray enough, God will change her heart. I haven't been putting in the work on myself to change why she wants to leave. I was being lazy. God wants you to do the work, not sit on your but and hope her heart will soften and she'll come back to you.
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
💪🏼Here is the link for the MASTERCLASS! (WARNING: Space Is Limited) -> urlgeni.us/Divorce-Stoppers-Masterclass 🎉To see how all my clients have achieved massive success even when it seemed hopeless CLICK here! urlgeni.us/youtube/playlist/Client-Testimonials
@DeltaLead653 ай бұрын
This is so right. I reacted one time after 4 months of doing great. She handed me the ring. She put it on the next day, but it still feels like we are starting back at square one. Don’t do it!
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
Spot on brother 💪🏽 If it is to be, it’s up to me 😊😊😊
@aceshi31733 ай бұрын
How much is your program
@DivorceStoppers3 ай бұрын
We have different options available. We have a high ticket program, for those that go through the masterclass and then apply.. if you have interest go through the masterclass and book a call if you want to apply. We do offer financing with approved credit as well. 💪🏽🙏🏽