I’m not sure that’s true. A lot of men come across insecure when you are accomplished. They may not say it, but you feel it. Also, I want someone I’m attracted to, he may not be good looking up everyone. My attraction would be based on more than the physical attributes. I think that’s the issue, you say I walk into Walmart and say oh she fine. I say date who you want to date. But, I think it’s more if she’s making less or less accomplished she idolizes you. So the truth is your own self-esteem pushes you to feed your ego. You shouldn’t date people based on what they have, however, you should date someone that wants something out of life and doesn’t become your misery or burden.

Thank You 💯🎉

Oh yes Kirk!forgive and move on ❤

I hear you 🙂👍

LOL, HOW did you handle it?

Talk to us😊

It’s so sad that those of us who truly love with the love of Jesus are penalized and overlooked because some person can’t move on because of a past relationship. It’s almost as though toxic relationships are preferred while we who have so much love to give to someone are alone.

I realized i am unavailable but working on it

we fall for this babying our own Emotions!!! Indeed!!!

6:48 onward 🔥🔥🔥

Drk Yes in time it's good to talk with God and only he and no one else can bring peace with in that heart that can hurt so bad but in due and the power of God u will be okkkkkkkk😊 yes

This is the best advise all in a short 10 minutes. Sweet. Repeat. Share this with your daughters ladies. Thank you so much Kirk🙏

What about the man the make you feel love? He will be there when you are sick, call you first thing in the morning last thing at night. He cannot get to you he look looks for you ar your home to make sure that you are okay. You can go to his home at anytime without let him know. The only he doesn't help financially?

Well said ❤ some of us women instantly knows when a man isn't in love with us but we ignore the red flags just to have the man around us.

Why is your voice that of a woman? High? I mean

This is so true...the peace you find after releasing and letting go is overwhelming.

If he doesn’t want u he will tell u that he ain’t ready for a relationship. So right there and then u will know that u are not his priority. Keep moving….

I don't wait or get attached to a man. If his actions show that he doesn't want me, I walk away. That's the beauty of not getting attached. I know my worth!

Love your content and this video was really great there are things on that list I did and will never do again. Lesson learned!

Let me tell you something. A man know that he wants you in a nano second. I’ve been through it twice. He will name you and claim you. It’s soooo true. If he’s taking more time, he’s playing you.

Bro big up uself dis message is for me & thank you for these Divine inspirational words which are facts all applied to me..❤

You're so right. I am so happy on my own .. why do i I need a man who is not grown up? ❤❤ Sending love and blessings. .

Too many males have a hidden agenda which makes them so dishonest lacking integrity towards females. They don’t care about hurting female’s feelings…

Facts!!! But it's easier said THAN DONE😕🫤😐

I never ran into that kind of man 😊❤Thank God

You have to forgive yourself. You can forgive the situation but you do not need to reconcile. That is not always possible or safe.

Thank you for the wisdom

I just forgave after 4 years and I immediately felt the release!!! Moving on 🙏🏽

Thank you. Everyday it's something different with him. Not only is he going through a divorce. We are only friends. Long distance. Never met just talk on the phone. Now it's all these excuses. If you talked to your ex that left. Anyway you talked to me in the last 2 weeks after 6 months of friendship. I don't blame her for leaving. Period. Red Fag blocked

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It's very sad how judgemental men can be! I mean people, but in this particular instance, MEN!

Well with my last ex, he clearly wasn't ready because he still lived with his folks.

Why can't people just have a damn conscience! Morality! ...What would happen if this game playing and lying was done to his wife, mother, sister, girlfriend, cousin, daughter, etc! My god seriously. Life's too hard already, we don't need people who do this sh*t 😞.

Thanks for the reminder, Kirk! Holding on to the emotions (anger, resentment, jealousy) means you have not left the person. The emotions tied you to the past relationship. Release them in love and peace. Whew! There you have it!

Hurt people hurt people. 💯

What if he wants you but you don't want to be in a relationship with him. But you like being with him.

Thank You, I agree 💯. 🙂

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Drk Women keep moving its like the market there is a vsriety u might want to start with 3or4 and tske your time to to see the which is the best but stay celibate and if he marry someone he wasn't for u ask God for directions in aman if u are ready to marry when i say God will direct u if u are willing to listen. Make your life happy and keep moving make your money and secure your bag😊😊😊

I needed to see this today! Thank you!🙏

So true! Still, it’s the hardest thing to do.

Yes so true you must forgive them ❤

So very true. Forgive them so that it may be well with you.

So true facts 💯❤ thank you

Seeing this at 555 likes-focus is on radical change in creating harmony....definitely done when we're done. It feels so good to focus on myself-I definitely am appreciating my singleness. I require reciprocation. It's been challenging yet, the peace of mind that surpasses all thought is priceless. Love to Love 💯

Hello Kirk, Thank you!

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I just wrote a post about trauma bonding. If the person makes you feel exactly how he is describing those points. Also they will use the same tactics to push you away. If they disrespect your boundaries they are absolutely not for you.

Are you back already?

Thank you 🎉