a time to wait by alicks!

I'm in this situation right now with my wife. She just doesn't show me love like she used to, makes me feel unwanted. And Every time I bring up how I feel she just gets upset.

Alicks- a time to wait 🥲

@@Stupig522thank you kindly

its "A Time to Wait - Alicks" :)

I agree. It's clear they weren't a healthy fit. But you see it all the time with some couples, and it's torturous for them. They have an obsession with each other that's fuelled by passion; making the other person feel "alive". This kind of relationship is borne out of 'self love', rather than 'caring love' for the other person. One is impulsive and the other one takes time to grow. Naturally, those fussy warm feelings don't last and everything turns toxic really quick, and way too often because they are complete opposites. Jealously, disrespect and inconsideration for the other person for example. They were never going to have a 'happy' ending. Just a repeatably unstable, unhealthy relationship. In the end, they both chose to succumb to that because their obsession for one another (like a drug) weighted too heavy. And the alternative is way too unbearable; Clementine uses Lacuna technology because she doesn't have the will power to leave the relationship by her own volition. Then, after the procedure, she presents similar to that of an alzheimers patient who loses their memory (and their mind). Confused, searching, tormented. Returning to places she once visited before with a certain "someone", but she can't quite place that person in her mind. And Joel, realising that the choice of doing the exact same thing was a mistake made out of pain and anger, shouts out from his consciousness "Do you hear me! I don't want this anymore, I wanna turn it off". They've been there and worn the torturous t-shirt. Several times.

well yeah thats the point of the movie is that they know that and thats why they break up and erase their memories. because its like, tryina get their life back on track to what it should have been if they hadnt taken that wrong turn. like.. as close u cant get to going back in time and choosing a diff life for yourself. but the point is that in erasing their memories, they erase the lesson learned and therefore keep repeating the same thing over and over because u need to keep the memories in order to keep the lesson learned and know what not to choose next time and to know that it defintely isnt for you and there is no more doubt about it or "what ifs". the movie is just them choosing eachother over again but in real life ppl choose the same person in a diff body over again, failing to learn the lesson until they finally stop the loop of madness.

@@FIREGOD333 Well the movie ends with Joel and Clementine getting back together. I am saying that I think it would have made more sense for them to not be together considering how much they truly couldn't stand each other. The ending was stupid, to me.

this is such a sweet comment & i'm glad you two found each other and in the words of frank castle, that you never let each other go <3