Brilliant pod cast. Great to hear about men's mental health. South Pacific and the team were instrumental in helping me to discover and repair my journey through Trauma and mental health. Unfortunately to many men suffer some die. From the fear and the stigma of mental health. Being a part of my existence as well as alcoholism. It has been a rocky road at times. But it has only ever been the fear of the unknown. As well as the judgement or thought I am letting other people down. But with the correct therapy, guidance and support. Miracles really do happen. My mental health, trauma and addiction is being arrested one day at a time. My thoughts and support goes out to those that may be afflicted or those that are supporting family and friends. To the 12 Step Fellowship and the professionals. Thankyou for your on going support and friendship. Spp for me was like the icing on the cake for my recovery. I was 8 years sober when I entered. Now nearing 11years. Could not be more grateful for the help I have received. Stay safe and please do not be afraid to ask for help. First time for me was Lifeline. Many years ago. Was so surprised how good it was to speak with someone who understood. Awsome Podcast.🙏
@user-fk9zc5ww7jАй бұрын
This is quite new to me im so glad i stumbled accross it. Hopeful 😊
@michelle5forАй бұрын
Live long with Di Young. Appreciate this channel alot.
@NinaYamuna-yi7hmАй бұрын
Thank you for these sessions.
@NinaYamuna-yi7hmАй бұрын
Thank you so much for your work in this field.
@GemisnotmynameАй бұрын
35:58
@pocahontas3302 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@maragirl16582 ай бұрын
This is enormously helpful. Thank you!
@nowistime80702 ай бұрын
the sound issue is on their end. I turned my volume up and could hear you fine
@rainingpatchouli44762 ай бұрын
This all makes sense to me now, thank you❤
@Dave1832 ай бұрын
Mystory. I am 73, now. Been a searcher all my life. I did a 30 day course to improve my breathing. Then I spent time with the physiotherapist who created the course. This took away my death wish. Got a lot more insight. It is not a magic bullet "cure". I have to work with new insights and new perspectives. I do slide backwards sometimes. I think that checking breathing function could be a component of diagnosis. That is my personal message. Thanks.
@elsewherehouse3 ай бұрын
✔️ ✔️ ✔️ ✔️
@draapulus3 ай бұрын
53:52 What are "SUDS" ?
@joewilson9361Ай бұрын
Probably a reference to the subjective units of distress scale.
@jelenakatic17783 ай бұрын
Excellent talk, but bad quality audio, presenter’s heavy Aussie accent and advertising interruptions are making it unlistenable.
@cubanjulia3 ай бұрын
Wounded child I was 15 years old when I was raped I hate my rapist I can’t believe I actually defended him. I didn’t even know he traumatized me. I can’t believe I defended him 7 months ago and throughout them months is when I realized that I had trauma. I knew my rapist he was like a brother tp me. I never have hates anyone in my life. Now I hate him. I birthed his son and I should have never ever told Anyone. He had the audacity 2 ask me Mine d u thru text how many kid did I have. 😡. I lied to him and told him that our son died. I replied with “that’s what I was about 2 Say let’s hope u don’t lose no more babies” 🤬.. I can’t stand him. I can’t believe I tried to protect him so he would be able to enjoy his life w his wife and kids.. and throughout all Or this I was having movjymares every freaking night with that demon. He is evil. Cold day in hell if he was to ever know that we both have a son together. My son, which suproeed me, wanted to meet him! I could not believe my ears day after day as I was being told by him and his frd and wife that he wanted to meet that no good sob. Now .. because my phone beinr tapped and all that I went thru with online harassment and what not .. I literally had no choice but to avoid my son. 😢 I did this because I did not want his father to know he exist. But this resulted in my son getting arrested and had I would have not avoided him because of that demon 😈 I know in my broken heart that my son would not be in jail right now. O my I hate my so called brother. I hate him.
@hotdogflavoureddrink3 ай бұрын
This might be the most important video I have seen in my adult life. Thank you.
@chillasrolo58973 ай бұрын
Damn so all that trauma in the orphanage really did affect me. 24 and only just safe enough in life to "wake up" this shit sucks, but it'll be worth it. Anyone who experiences this, I wish I could give you a hug, (Blunt if you smoke), and a genuine friend and safe space for you to be yourself. Even if you don't know who in the fuck that is yet.
@carolgerber63753 ай бұрын
That, that, that....and, and, and.....is, is, is, ...ugh
@carolgerber63753 ай бұрын
The um, um, uh, uhs, stuttering is so distracting. It is difficult to listen to. Good content tho.
@carolgerber63754 ай бұрын
Trump is perfectly imperfect? Hitler is perfectly imperfect? This phrase needs qualifiers.
@saramelody94944 ай бұрын
Dian you are amazing ! Thank you
@nourzerouali37865 ай бұрын
How can heal complex trauma
@jimsullivanyoutube5 ай бұрын
Australia is so w0k3.
@whereisscott5 ай бұрын
18:00 yes, most people do not overcome those obstacles - however I did and that’s why the governments around the world are literally poisoning every meal and beverage i ingest. Some people are chosen to be emotional and intellectual slaves- most people don’t even insider this as an option or objective from the institutions. They are the real roadblock to recovery. This is not a coincidence. It’s also why they forced me in gender transition because they were trying hard to set me up. Most people don’t realize this- even those who are living on the spectrum. This is not a coincidence. The biggest key is to avoid toxic people and situations as much as possible. Literal definition of DETOX
@silentservant_5 ай бұрын
May you seek the Love that comes from Jesus my brethren. For it is all that is truly healing me. God is a Father
@user-tn4rg5zh4l5 ай бұрын
Thank you for putting these videos out on KZfaq glad to find SPP really appreciated . found you p melody,p walker all at the same time read road less travelled over 30 years ago been searching ever since . spp finally made cptsd make sense thank you ALL
@rockinrrh5 ай бұрын
I am so grateful that you share your information. I never had the chance to go to rehab. So I enjoy this and your other PowerPoint and slides
@armyforlife31915 ай бұрын
Thank you for this seminar
@gracechapel24645 ай бұрын
You know these obligatory land acknowledgements just seem like fashionable virtue signaling to people outside Australia.
@edie43215 ай бұрын
Now I see this was four years ago. I wonder how all the recovered are doing now? I cannot get safe enough to recover.
@edie43215 ай бұрын
Doesn't one have to be safe before they can begin to recover? I'm 64 and still cannot find the security to be able to recover. Financial stability is seriously lacking for myself and many these days. I need miracles.
@Pecan2156 ай бұрын
Wonder if because I have some continuous flashbacks, some from over 70 years ago, this may indicate what is causing me to be stuck, and needs to be released and healed? My husband of 12 years was a psychopath and porn/sex addict, mother was a horrible narcissist. As I re-read this, I'm thinking: no wonder you're still not able to let go of all the trauma!
@savagebunny14406 ай бұрын
👍
@marie-evest-louis65366 ай бұрын
Lot of sgame base for me but the result is speak compulsively. Most abuse was public. It broke my hability for verbal innibition. I have not been eared and it gets worst as i am still left without care or justice. I have not been eared.
@marie-evest-louis65366 ай бұрын
My uncinscious became consciois years back. I call it pandoras box. More and more traumas comes tangling toghether. I m trapped in a catch 22. Whenever working on one trauma it teiggers another or few more that gets all tangled up. I am left alone to die by justice and the care system in a condition of cptsd known as degenerative. No matter how i try . aint seem to be any way out.
@michellecox17426 ай бұрын
Living inside your own skin is difficult, man when he said that it hit home.
@Sherry10926 ай бұрын
There are many ways to heal trauma. Plant medicine and energy work to be must most favorite modalities. ❤
@tigere.34627 ай бұрын
🧡
@user-ep7ki6uv3o7 ай бұрын
I, too, have PTSD together. we will all work through this. I will watch this as many times over. Best to all.
@Rosina27277 ай бұрын
Good job i wasnt invited as a guest lol.
@Rosina27277 ай бұрын
If i wrote my book it would hit the headlines, guaranteed! i was forced to do something so horrific i doubt any child has ever done it, no nothing to do with sex! I was told what i was forced to do, i could be arrested even today? That's what you get for having a sick evil SADISTIC WOMAN WHO DIDNT DESERVE TO BE A MOTHER! THEY SHOULD HAVE TAKEN HER BACK TO THE MENTAL HOSPITAL AND THREW AWAY THE DAMN KEY. She had her claws in me until the day she died! And her other six kids, my half sisters have all turned against me, sad when someone like me puts herself out for anyone and everything and is treated like a stranger. Not nice to keep getting suicidal thoughts, not healthy! Good luck all. Rosina from london UK
@janmcsween70797 ай бұрын
I am no longer high functioning. I have lost everything.
@dylanmaxey25317 ай бұрын
Amen, 30 yrs of wrong dx and for me the usa mental health system and disability system has left me hopeless.
@kathyhathaway33188 ай бұрын
These talks are incredible. I am an adult child of an alcoholic and have been in therapy for almost two years as well as attend ACOA meetings. It wasn't until I found all this information on Complex PTSD and my therapist did, I really start healing and it's been brutal at times. I don't have memories, but I have extreme nervousness and anxiety and body symptoms. I was told we just had depression and to take medication. God bless all the work you are doing because this was the missing piece for me!!!!!!!
@theepurposeprofessor49178 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! It hurts and feels overwhelming to hear this as I’m confident love addiction and avoidance explains so much in my marriage. God is using you for me healing.
@carolgerber63758 ай бұрын
Don't bash IFS.
@cqg47778 ай бұрын
How do you think shift work (working midnights at a hospital) affects C-PTSD? The WHO lists shift work as a carcinogen.
@pragmaticpoet8 ай бұрын
My definition of being exposed to trauma is every time anyone has had an experience that oppressed, repressed, violated their clearly informed consent
@cqg47778 ай бұрын
I am just learning about C-PTSD. I paused the video when I saw "Parentified Child." I hope you explain this well. I was abused by a neighbor pedophile from the age of 4 until 9, when we moved away. I've never heard of the term fawn, and freeze was the only description I've ever heard of that fits me the closest. Even though I will be 61 in December, I am just now able to understand how my feelings when triggered by aggression. However, in reading the fawn description, I think I fit that response. What happens when you are sexually abused for years at such an early age, but have parents who love you, and yet are perfectionists, and yet don't verbally push perfectionism on you, yet you pick it up almost by osmosis. I was very well cared for all my life by my parents, although my dad was absorbed in his work and career, having a PhD in Organic Chemistry from Columbia University. At the age of 38, the saying "there's a fine line between genius and insanity" came true for my dad. According to my understanding, 38 is a very late age to succumb to paranoid schizophrenia. At the time, he was a brilliant pharmaceutical research chemist, and at the height of his career. He was also extremely creative as a song writer and poet. It's, well... COMPLEX no matter which way you look at it. Thank you for your service to those of us who have not been able to recognize being triggered or the emotional response. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge. Karen