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THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! I'll be relistening. Got so many insights and Ah's. Will also be getting Deb's books and sharing her teachings with friends. Also - so touched by how compassionate and understanding Deb is. ❤❤❤ 🙏

Great conversation. I really like the attitude towards the pathologising of trauma. It does no one any good to just label and send on their way with meds. I wish this was a video because it is easier for me to take it in when I am watching a person speak but, I still enjoyed the chat. Thankyou to you both.

Psychologically toyed with like an object. Same here.

19:03 OMG!!! I needed to hear this❣️ Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!! ♥️❤️♥️ 26:45 BINGO!!!

I’m looking forward to watching this. ❤

Well. This happened to me. And I let it happen. I came back promising that when it did happen I’d walk. And I did. Right into her bosses office. And reported it.And I’ll never go back there.

When they talked about a "delicious feeling" that was SO uncomfortable to watch. But a great discussion otherwise.

You can observe the same innate love and goodness we have, in animals too. I've seen where horribly traumatized and isolated lab animals were taken into a sanctuary and the sole act of receiving regular compassion from another animal allowed their stifled feelings to bloom. Very moving and insightful to our own human experience. Love and kindness are not acquired from bibles or customs. These feelings are innate and will be expressed when it's safe.

Thank you for this interview and for sharing such a personal experience! This was so helpful.

IMHO: I think that neurons for "empathy" can be burned out/damaged from the brains when young children go through traumatic experiences. Answer for Adult Children: Learn to reparent themselves (the damaged inner child) and have an "inner family" that is healthy (inner world).

It doesnt feel good when they sleep with your husband

Theres no there there

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PLS EXCUSE MY DYSLEXIC CAPS, ITS EASIER. GIRLFRIEND THE SHOW WITH MS HERMAN WOW, THANK YOU. I FOUND YR CHANNEL TODAY AND SUBED YOU. I FIND THIS SOOOO SOCIALLY MEANINGFUL. THANKS TO ALL HERE I ONLY KNOW THE ONE VIDEO SO FAR. BE BACK LATER TO GO DEEPER.. OX OX. ANGELA IN MONTANA

Good book!

Parents suck

Being shown pornography as a small child, is that sexual abuse?

Is this discussion directed at men?

I’m sorry but I don’t know exactly what the abuse was.

Thank you- this is excellent

I learnt this method in a hypnosis course I was taking in South Africa in 2008. It was called Ego states hypnotherapy.

This was the book that turned it around for me. What bllessing

I was rejected from birth. My mother likes to laugh at a story that she told the nurse to take me away so she could watch her soap operas.

Perfectly performing 😢

Excellent thanks very much 😅❤

Excellent thanks very much 😅😮😅

My dad told me more than once in my teenage years that he never wanted me, that i was a mistake and that he and my mom would still be together if it wasnt for me. He was OCD, addict and narcissistic. Then it took me until i was 28 to realize that my mom emotionality manipulated me with guilt and displays covert narcissistic behaviors. I have worked very hard to change my own toxic behaviors, fell short this past year due to old trauma manifesting. Now working damage control and learning everything i can to prevent another emotional and psychological relapse.

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Thank you!! Thank you!! This interview is a lifesaver!!❤️

“Meant to live for so much more” ❤❤❤

I feel seen for the first time in my life hearing about this. Thank you ❤😢

Thank you so much for sharing this. This is unfortunately very familiar to me.

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Beautiful demo, thank you !

What about having emotionally immature parents, spouse, and in laws? I don’t even know how I survived all of these years. God has helped me.

Can’t wait to listen and read the book, Monique!

This was beautiful. Being raised and told how to feel in home and church it has been a freeing journey Ealing this out. Not fully there but on a journey ❤

I don’t have foster parents. I’m 66 years old and a daughter of a King and widowed.

Adult Childrens of emotionally challenged parents!! ~ which means? Crazy by official definitions?

I just love a chill pod where ppl talk like this❤❤ ...because lately podcasts channels are really chaotic its almost a debate lol....🫶🫶...but yeah, keep up...i just randomly found ur Channel.

I confronted the fear of loss and addressed what needed to be repaired, and I indeed lost everything. Dealing with a profound sense of worthlessness that my ex chose to lose everything we had instead of working together. They didn’t have any consideration moving forward.

Not that helpful to be honest! Too much beating around the bush! Can I recommend to interview Dr Vienna dr pharaon. A person who is truly not ashamed of the trauma she has been through. Please also consider Dr Ingrid Clayton she is an expert on the fawn response and narcissistic abuse.

Thank You for allowing us to.listen to this! This is Priceless. Thank You, again!

I'm very familiar with Ms. Gutierrez from listening to Public Radio NPR. I WISH I could see her once a week!

My mother is verbally abusive, and my father is very judgmental of me. He excuses my mothers extreme tantrums, and his own nasty anger towards me. Never understood how they qualified to adopt me. They named me the same name as their first daughters who died at 3 days old of blue baby syndrome. I always think she was the smart one to exit the body, and not deal with these lunatics. I naturally never sized up to the dead on, and was chastised for having my own personality. They’re 82 years old, and I truly will on feel relief when they’re gone. I’m sorry, but they were cruel, unlovable, and very selfish. I wish them well, and a long life, but I truly have no desire to see them ever again.

My mother would scream "You God D**n kids. I wish I never had any of ya". I felt if my own mother hated me I must be deeply flawed. I now understand that she is not only emotionally immature but also mentally ill.

So awesome thanks xxx❤❤❤

Refreshing!

Yes i believe that emotional affair maybe just as bad if not worse then a sexual affair, and Wow Annihilation is great description for the feeling of Betrayal trauma with childhood trauma. You are so on point Michelle Mays i hope to benefit from all your knowledge. Thank you and God bless you!