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@robertbuck7186
@robertbuck7186 5 сағат бұрын
Where they would even send me to just even touch something and then I'd get blamed
@yudwigludwig6583
@yudwigludwig6583 13 сағат бұрын
Amen
@iritatur1415
@iritatur1415 3 күн бұрын
Well this is a church person turning my friends and turning my friends there against me and she serves the body of our lord
@kolbybeautymakeupartist
@kolbybeautymakeupartist 5 күн бұрын
I don’t care who gossips about me ever!!!!
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy 2 күн бұрын
Amen! That's the best attitude for peace and a stress free life. Press on!
@j.r.nvision-imagination77
@j.r.nvision-imagination77 6 күн бұрын
Thank you Rene. This has helped me recognize many things, even about self. ❤
@APerez89
@APerez89 7 күн бұрын
I have a dog Never undermines me or wants my money
@isabellaswanepoelbella2769
@isabellaswanepoelbella2769 9 күн бұрын
Thank you Rene for the video and it helps to know my actions at work it 100% right. I don't speak to my co-workers because of gossipers and fun makers. I just keep my mouth shut and do my job everyday.
@Jessemanning126
@Jessemanning126 10 күн бұрын
I got rid of my Best friend Because He is not. A Good person
@Jessemanning126
@Jessemanning126 10 күн бұрын
Gossiping is wrong no one should Do it
@FikileMbele
@FikileMbele 14 күн бұрын
Yoh I am facing the same problem with my husband's uncle 😢, and the sad part is that u will hear my husband lough so hard
@pluton1263
@pluton1263 15 күн бұрын
My ears start to ring. Or they plugged up. Also, I get immediately sick to my stomach. I excuse myself from their energy asap!
@BTLSoftware
@BTLSoftware 17 күн бұрын
Thanks Sir, this really help won't let peoples wrong saying about me run me down
@jpwall
@jpwall 19 күн бұрын
Thankyou :)
@anniebengtsson5893
@anniebengtsson5893 20 күн бұрын
Before I Hade a fake friend and she keeps Yapping About ME for no reasons she keeps getting jealous😭😭
@leilanisunsets1362
@leilanisunsets1362 21 күн бұрын
How about making them accountable ❤
@boaz.bananas
@boaz.bananas 26 күн бұрын
Oh great.. telling myself more lies, can't live with myself anymore.
@SusanOttewell
@SusanOttewell 26 күн бұрын
What happens if the gossiped is your boss? Please can you advise me ❤
@LouiseP7756
@LouiseP7756 27 күн бұрын
People are going to Gossip About You till the day you die and there's nothing you can do about it, it's out of your control. The only thing you're in control of, is how you let it affect you.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy 27 күн бұрын
Yes. Yes. The gossipers will always be among us. The only control we have is how we choose react. We can feel sorry for them or allow them to stress us out.
@AllistorQuillton
@AllistorQuillton 27 күн бұрын
The annoying part is when you leave they always follow you
@darkweblou1891
@darkweblou1891 28 күн бұрын
4:32 😂😂😂 selling drugs on the property. The lies are wild.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy 27 күн бұрын
Yes. Very wild. My boss couldn't believe it. My records are clean. I don't event have a traffic ticket on my license. The only time I saw a court room was for jury duty.
@theelfchannel
@theelfchannel Ай бұрын
Can you also make a video on how to increase gossip and rumors about you?
@leahcorrethers6591
@leahcorrethers6591 Ай бұрын
This content is very helpful. As an HR Manager, I am planning a meeting next week with a supervisor to address the behavior of a high-performing employee. Despite the value of her work, she has repeatedly exhibited negative behavior towards other employees and customers. Although she has apologized for her attitude in the past, the pattern persists, necessitating this meeting. I'm glad I watched this to help prepare for our discussion with her.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
That's a tough one. It's sad when the gossiper is a top performer. In this case, take a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle. Put pros and cons on each side. Start listing them to see the balance. One thing is for sure: one toxic employee can ruin the workplace for everyone. It's the kind of negative energy you don't want in the workplace. All of us can have a bad day. But when the behavior is consistent, we need to deal with it quickly. The best solution is to pay for an outside coach to help the top performer. By the way, I have a training on positive attitude that is fun, high energy, and transformational. You might want to consider it. It's a full or half-day training. Go to www.renegodefroy.com to get in touch or send me a DM on LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/renegodefroy/.
@malookiat5406
@malookiat5406 Ай бұрын
I am commenting on this hope that you will reply n guide me. I have a roomate who has some influence on the hostel warden. She is spreading rumours in hostel which is deteriorating my image. What should i do? I dont want to change the hostel.. rather i want to give her a bit revenge so that she may hurt. Its not my evil intention but she did bad for me by trying to destroy my image.
@yarazard
@yarazard Ай бұрын
That is exactly the kind of response that you should be receiving from your boss. Sadly, most of us are not that lucky.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
I understand. Most leaders in the workplace are not fit for the job. They lack self-awareness. That's why sometimes they are the gossiper who is doing the damage. That means they are not fit to take care of the gossiping. Too bad. By the way, I have an awesome training program on self-awareness and positive attitude that is fun, interactive, and transformational. Mention that to your HR manager. I'm on LInkedIn. DM me. www.linkedin.com/in/renegodefroy/
@dawnanderson7153
@dawnanderson7153 Ай бұрын
thank you.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
You are very welcome.
@user-ht4ll9dy2l
@user-ht4ll9dy2l Ай бұрын
so true, toxic people have the most friends but for the wrong reason, they miss out on deeper meaningful relationships. Everything this guys says is so true.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
Yep! Well said. Thanks for your comment.
@gananamtva7651
@gananamtva7651 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@jasonkyer8572
@jasonkyer8572 Ай бұрын
They should fired the gossiper
@kendraheard1097
@kendraheard1097 Ай бұрын
Absolutely hilarious
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
I know. 😀
@hckhck6408
@hckhck6408 Ай бұрын
ѕнσω тнєм ву α¢тιηg ησт ѕαуιηg.
@SpaceCityTuan
@SpaceCityTuan Ай бұрын
I’m not sure how this has one like.
@christopherennevorennevor7507
@christopherennevorennevor7507 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I now know I have a partner with the same experience. The difference is I almost did something terrible to the person but God spoke to me and I prayed and drop it 🙏. Much blessings. I too is writing a book and would love to be motivational speaking. One love 🇯🇲. Keep safe. 🙏. 🙏.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
You got it. I'm glad God intervened. Keep pressing on. Let me know if you need some coaching.
@dnr540
@dnr540 2 ай бұрын
one thing i learned is when u trying to confront them in ur work environment, people tells u that ur wrong and its only ur imagination. so u cant confront them once and for all. they will never tell u the truth in ur face because they know they just fuling wrong things about u, but thats what bring them together. i used to be very confident. my town is very small so people knows each other, and even when i left my working place it came with me to the other one. so how u deal with that? people like that gave me social anxiety. hope to get out of that one day.
@vishnusahasranamamlalitha5848
@vishnusahasranamamlalitha5848 2 ай бұрын
Yes
@Bugs11000
@Bugs11000 2 ай бұрын
You are on a higher vibration. But there are other people that are on a lower vibration. Lots of them are caught in this lower vibration and living hell. They need your help to get out of this lower vibration. Don't turn your back on them . They need you.
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy Ай бұрын
Brilliantly said.
@sylviasanchez3975
@sylviasanchez3975 2 ай бұрын
They act like selfish kids 😡😡😡 and they get more pay .
@Faith_and_Hope_07
@Faith_and_Hope_07 2 ай бұрын
Sorry. In straight out infracttions complementing them in the beginning does not work. Most of these rude employees just don't value their jobs and need to be fired. Period.
@user-zu9un6st4t
@user-zu9un6st4t 2 ай бұрын
3 yeats ago I finally got the job I worked so hard and prayed for. I was really happy and although I joined the senior most position, I was very liberal and friendly with my juniors. But they had other things in mind. They started spreading rumors and it got so bad that everybody at the company turned against me. And I did nothing wrong. Nothing. It affected me so much that I had to leave the job and now I am jobless, have social anxiety and I am so afraid to get another job, or even go out with a group of people cause I am scared that everyone is going to turn against me😅
@bestvideoforcats
@bestvideoforcats 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. Every word resonated with me.
@MrSwish702
@MrSwish702 2 ай бұрын
This employee keeps leaving his trash in my section and I'm a dishwasher the chef does nothing he leaves the dirty mop bucket I have to empty is dirty water I've been emptying it for years extremely depressing
@Takumiotoko
@Takumiotoko 2 ай бұрын
Ever watch that horror movie? Called the shining? That's basically what gossipers are... the brighter you shine the more they feel the need to target you. It's the negative thoughts rejecting positivity
@loado6787
@loado6787 2 ай бұрын
You have just described what devils agents in the form of humans do. They can also be stopped with prayers to Almighty God in the mighty name of Jesus
@MrEverything173
@MrEverything173 2 ай бұрын
I am just an 11 year old girl who goes to a sports ground to play different sports and there is this girl whose mom is a docter and works with my dad she has started gossiping about me and spread rumours about first we both became friends she was nice but i did not know that it was just a trap i never enjoyed or even thought about gossiping but she would gossip behind my back then she started hurting my little brother and broke his leg and almost his back during gymnastics i think she is jealous of me because i am getting compliments about my kindness my beauty and other stuff and she does not maybe otherwise she kept hurting my brother and that day when she broke his leg i had enough i got angry and told her why did you do that then she ran off with her other friends then she started spreading rumours and calling me an overeactor and now after months i finally told my mother but she is always busy and can never really do anything for me for atleast 3 years now so now i am trying to ask friends to be spies andn record her conversation so my dad could confront her mom . I hope this is not too boring and that mean of an act 😥😢😭
@MissTia777
@MissTia777 2 ай бұрын
Weak solution @ 5:20! Quitting and running! Acting wht!
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy 2 ай бұрын
If you want to learn the opposite, read this post on LinkedIn. It's about how to give negative feedback without causing animosity. Go here to read it: www.linkedin.com/posts/renegodefroy_i-was-broke-depressed-and-frustrated-activity
@knowledge_follower
@knowledge_follower 2 ай бұрын
Wow. Thanks. I wonder why this video is not getting likes. So genuine 😇
@e4peace
@e4peace 2 ай бұрын
I’m at the point at my work that I no longer want to interact with anyone because they just gossip about anything they can. Why is it on me to redirect them? Especially when it’s in the fabric of the culture of my workplace. I am the only one that doesn’t gossip about co workers, my employer, or our clients. I tired in the beginning to shine my light and help move them away from gossiping and then I started getting gossiped about. So now I’m just a gray rock, excluded from everything and still gossiped about, not fun but it also wasn’t fun the other way. I hear what you’re saying overall, but it’s so hard to just cope being treated like this and I haven’t found any effective ways to just be okay with it, quitting seems the only solution
@sherrysunshinefreeman3434
@sherrysunshinefreeman3434 2 ай бұрын
@sherryc2443
@sherryc2443 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate you
@renegodefroy
@renegodefroy 2 ай бұрын
Likewise! Thanks for your comment. 👍🏼
@WendyCarz
@WendyCarz 2 ай бұрын
Yessss and she sends her dad to harass me and is just rude n nasty to me but won't come to my house