Interesting. My new therapist just excused me after our first session because of transference. I wonder what it was. Initially she left a vm saying it was a personal issue and that I could call her back if I had any questions or wanted to discuss. I called her back and left a vm asking for more info. She never called me back. The next therapist at the same place answered my question by saying that it was “transference on the other therapist’s part - something she realized she needed to work on” and had nothing to do with me. I wonder and will never know. It feels somewhat unsettling but the positive side is that my subsequent therapist has been great.

I trust him already

I wish there were more Psychologists that acknowledge the effects of Modern Day Societies stressors on individuals ?

Dr. carveth:)

Nice rhetoric but it just doesn't work.

so there is hope🥹

These are the minds i prefer to be around daily. The lady is beautiful and respectful didn't interject at all.type of intelligent women i honor and respect 🙏 ❤️

Im so not laughing. My gosh.ok that made since at um Arnold swortinager.

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Dragging up peoples pasts brings a continual present income.

Both positive and negative transference is potentially bad. Because people have flaws or we change which makes the illusion of transference to break down

Psycho the rapist

Bunch of arse basically

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It’s very worrying that analysts seem only to view negative feelings as transference. It negates the possibility that people enter into an unknown situation and find it unhelpful. Analytic ideas are pseudoscience and it is reasonable for people to feel resistant to a strange dogma. Videos like this show the aggrandising indulgence of analysts and the highly problematic culture of certitude that they know the mind of people better than they know themselves. It is NOT always transference. Sadly this dangerous power dynamic can lead to people being pressured to continue in what can be a damaging situation. It certainly was for me. Like being in bind that you are being misunderstood whether you continue or leave. The confusion remains long after for many. As a field they show no interest in harm.

Who benefits ? The analyst's bank balance mainly .

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If you can reflect on yourself pretty reliably it's a bit easier to notice negative transference. If you are extremely mad over something that happened that wouldn't seem like THAT big of deal to others it's a possible clue. Then while angry or soon after if you can reflect when you felt that way before it can really help. Have a great shrink and relationship built up is key. If you already have your doubts then experience this you're sol.

Strange that he'd fail to mention that Freud lied about every one of his "successful cures" and Melanie Klein drove her son to suicide and her daughter disowned her.

"non-judgmental and non-authoritarian" Mwahaha. This is doubly precious after Freud's letters got published, his patients (which he fraudulently claimed to have cured) were researched, after we've learned what happened to Klein's children, after all the suicides in the Vienna Psychoanalytic society, after all the psychic invalids psychoanalysis left in its wake... There's enough literature out there, I won't bore you with details. But shamelessly propagating this, fleecing the suffering and the vulnerable...

This is boring but my mom loves it

GANDALF IS A PSYCHOANALYST ?

They were happy to read kernberg.

Sir please call extreme ends of normal distribution as outlier observations. Any ways thank you for such a good insight.

3:02 "I forget what the event was" What kind of therapist would forget such a pivotal moment? He is incompetent.

Thank you very much.

amazing thank you

Thank you this is very helpful and interesting 😊

Psychoanalysis is too long, too expensive and no longer a viable therapy considering the alternatives. I label him Sigmund Fraud. He has saddled the mental health world with the requirement that if the patient wants help, he must tell us his stories (traumas). As a therapist I don't want to be vomited on, as abuse is abuse is abuse. The patient doesn't need to re-experience the traumas in any way shape or form. Thank God, there are several fast and permantly effective alternatives that break this horrendous and time wasting therapeutic cycle. Sigmund Freud is a fraud.

Super cute!

This doc baby is super 😍 😍

such a helpful description thank you

These videos are really informative, too bad there are no more of them.

Very Insightful talk.

Thankyou.

this is amazing information, thank you for speaking out on this topic!

Your conversation is highly appreciated. For me, Don Carveth's lectures are informative and soothing at the same time. I listen to him when I want to learn about something, and also watch his video lecture on my breaks. Thank you!

And now in 2021 it turns out people with Bpd are indeed psychotic.

Seeing Susan do feel transference

Great work [email protected]

It would be interesting analyzing his slip "There are child therapist" at 6:10

Very enlightening.. An open-minded view of the field and sharp and useful observations in contemporary practice. Thanks and greetings from Portugal.

This is so incredibly helpful, thank you!

What a perfect voice for psychoanalysis

Or you might have been asshole to her?

When it comes to modern therapies, there are positive end goals to change thinking that is ego dystonic or harmful to an individual. This is delivered effectively and for a short period of time. These coping skills can effectively rewire the brain. My take on psychoanalysis is that it's an almost never ending dive into a person psyche which is essentially unnecessary. There is never a definition of a normal human condition, being weird and wonderful should just be taken as fact as long as a person can function and be content with themselves.

My experience is that the analyst is in essence a psychic prosthetic who forms a mirror for the analysand to be become aware of and eventually integrate that which is repressed or hidden. It is a very strange and unique process, not without hazard, which requires considerable commitment and hard work on the part of the patient and of course patience and dedication on the part of the analyst. The significance of the couch is that the patient sees the analyst when they enter and leave, during the session the patient is only aware of their own thoughts and the disembodied interventions of the analyst. This seems significant as the temptation is that the patient will look to the analyst for direction, rather than as one who simply clears the path for the individual to progress under their own agency.

Transferrence is very difficult if its negatively focused on you. Very informative.

"Health is an abnormality"

Very insightful, thank you!