GOT A MASSIVE W TODAY
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Stop Breaking Promises (To YOURSELF)
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Do it Later (Just SLEEP)
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How I Learned to Trust Her
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Do THIS To Be Happy!
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Feel like Sh*t?
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Meditation STOPS Porn Addiction
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Talk to Her NOW....(or they will)
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Lead Her to Your Love bro
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My SIMPLE Productivity Diet
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Channel Update (WE BACK)
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Chanel Update.
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@mekha7298
@mekha7298 4 күн бұрын
I need to rewatch it again because I got confused with your explanation on the youtube 20/80 example.
@jclao
@jclao 4 күн бұрын
Let me make it simple for you bro - Scripting, recording, editing, posting: are the only essential task to move KZfaq forward. Heck, even just Recording and Posting. Those tasks gives you the most bang for your buck when you invest into it. They are the ESSENTIAL tasks. 80% of the benefits - Creating KZfaq banners, SMO maxing, designing channel page, sharing to friends and family, even commenting (I do it because I really enjoy talking with you guys) are the tasks that ARE BENEFICIAL but not important enough to put more time and effort in if you don't have to. They're beneficial, but not ESSENTIAL. 20% of the benefits Basically, everything, every goal, every project/business and tasks all have 1-2 tasks that will give 80% of the outcome. The rest only give 20%. If you know that a test has 8 questions that are algebra and 2 questions that are calculus. And you only have 5 minutes to study. You would know which topic to INVEST your precious 5 minutes on.
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 4 күн бұрын
Hayyy bro ur edit is dope now ahahhahah
@jclao
@jclao 3 күн бұрын
haha just a bit at the start lol. Thank you 🙏
@elise805
@elise805 9 күн бұрын
I have been having this conversation with me every night for the past few years. Keep failing to get the momentum rolling, and then feel miserable at the end of the day. 😭
@sonya8240
@sonya8240 10 күн бұрын
It is so real … i cheated on myself, i will get back on Track !
@xixilove5
@xixilove5 10 күн бұрын
this is true. If I weren't lazy or made myself excuses, I wouldn't have failed my first college class and now I have to retake it and that is burdening my future self. Thank you for this shift in mindset. I need to start thinking "what can I do now won't burden my future self?".
@jclao
@jclao 9 күн бұрын
Exactly brother. We made mistakes in the past, but now we gotta focus on the present so that our future selves don't suffer. And one day he's going to look back on you and be grateful that you did the hard thing. Remember that 👊
@horuzz2009
@horuzz2009 10 күн бұрын
Yeah, thinking too much doesn't produce results. Just starting it is what actually matters. 100% man 💪
@tani4925
@tani4925 10 күн бұрын
Fuck, this video has 89 views and I am one of them. Literally a sign I need stop cheating on myself...I needed to hear this.
@jclao
@jclao 9 күн бұрын
You got this bro 👊
@femkeroozendaal9767
@femkeroozendaal9767 11 күн бұрын
This is something so many know they struggle with, but you just need to hear it out loud to let it sink in. Really nice video, thanks
@jclao
@jclao 9 күн бұрын
Thank you for your words bro 🙏
@kuwemakasiaan3433
@kuwemakasiaan3433 13 күн бұрын
Thank you bro🤝
@jclao
@jclao 9 күн бұрын
🤝
@ra1playz
@ra1playz 13 күн бұрын
valid post peak as always were just lying to ourselves
@jclao
@jclao 13 күн бұрын
Exactly bro, it's so easy to fall into this. We gotta do better bro 🙏
@linaaveya90
@linaaveya90 16 күн бұрын
break up. if you're having doubts that means you aren't meant to be. a good partner will grow with you... duh.
@jessetwentenaer441
@jessetwentenaer441 17 күн бұрын
Check attachment theory
@jude8335
@jude8335 17 күн бұрын
Fix on yourself first, boys. Take care of yourself and only then, you can take care of someone else.
@_Lucary
@_Lucary 17 күн бұрын
I think although your goals should always be important, eventually, when you are in a committed, long-term relationship your partner SHOULD be one of your top priorities if not your top priority. It's not a weakness or a distraction, it's what it means to be a life partner and what it means to have a family if/when you have one. The more "elements" you bring into your life the more you have to balance them, if you have a girlfriend or other type of commitment you won't have time to work quite as much as if you're single, but this other element of your life (should) brings something valuable that you shouldn't overlook. I think putting too much weight on "success" is a trap of its own in which many people fall, often due to their upbringing. Rather than looking at your life in terms of success, I think you will gain more when you look at your life in terms of happiness. What makes you FEEL the happiest? What generates the most joy in your life? Make that a priority, and when possible your top priority. It's more likely to be the people around you than some societal and likely superficial measure of success. If you're very young, I think your education should still come first because that impacts your future and overall life quality, but after that, as long as you have enough to live comfortably (according to YOUR own standards), there's nothing wrong with putting more of a focus on the things that actually make you happy. In fact, you're likely to have a much more enjoyable life that way.
@_Lucary
@_Lucary 17 күн бұрын
As for women and love in general, I think women value when a man loves them and can be vulnerable with them, aka when they're "invested". I think the version of you that they fall in love with is not only the one that is driven or focused on whatever you were doing before, but also the one that was pursuing her and being thoughtful of her. So apart from continuing to work on yourself and your confidence, it's also important to continue "pursuing" your partner, and showing affection regardless of how long you've been together. Sometimes relationships decline because one or both people get lazy or comfortable and stop putting in effort or because one or both people stop prioritizing or focusing on the relationship, so try to find a good balance!
@jclao
@jclao 17 күн бұрын
Truly well said. This is all the things I totally agree with and would be beneficial for all of us. Congratualation bro, you have nailed and expanded on all of the things I think would help young men who will go through relationships in the future. I couldn't have said it better myself. This is valuable enough that I will pin this so other guys can learn from this. Thank you for your help 🙏 For the guys still needing some clarity, read this man's valuable comment. I think it would you a lot.
@AONTrappy
@AONTrappy 18 күн бұрын
Lowkey wanna get a girlfriend just to break up with her and get a motivational boost.
@jclao
@jclao 18 күн бұрын
Bro I had the same thought as you wtf 💀
@jazzy010
@jazzy010 19 күн бұрын
Krazy. Being in a relationship means being vulnerable and seeing each other for who they really are. It’s harder to achieve that if you’re always thinking that your partner for some reason is always looking for an upgrade and that they’re gonna be more attracted to more this and that. Sounds like a you problem. Also, why do you make it sound like men who are really into their girlfriends would fall into a trap as if being in a relationship with women is only at a man’s expense when it’s not. I think, instead of going on YT to rant about how they can’t measure up or something, actual men just do it.
@jclao
@jclao 18 күн бұрын
Yo bro, thank you for watching the vid and giving me your thoughts. First of all, that's not what I'm trying to convey at all. The mindset of never being vulnerable or never be emotionally attached is a wrong mindset. Because that's how love is supposed to be. Being anxious, worrying that if we are not our best self all the time is a wrong mindset to be in a relationship with someone. I totally agreed with you on that. I think there is a misunderstanding here or I wasn't clear enough with my message. But Yes, my mindset is to improve myself all the time, not out of fear that my woman will leave me for a better one, BUT out of my love her and wanting to give her the best I could, Because I Love Her. Thank you giving me your thoughts🙏
@aidanmohrman9493
@aidanmohrman9493 19 күн бұрын
This is exaclty what happened to me and I lost her. Got comfortable and thought life was complete with her. Started becoming attached and was no where near who I once was.
@UnflatteringRealities
@UnflatteringRealities 19 күн бұрын
Bro you just have a oneitis for this one chick....Yes she might be a good girlfriend, but there is no the one..if y'all break up, you'll probably meet someone else and feel the same way ABT them as you do for her now
@jclao
@jclao 18 күн бұрын
I don't think so bro. You and me both know that there is a billion other guys and girls out there and no one person is "the one", so I get what you mean completely. BUT, if we don't allow ourselves to fully love our woman with all our heart as ingetting more attached emotionally, then how are we suppose to love them bro? I truly think there is not other way but to risk getting potentially hurt and betrayed, but at least we did with our hearts fully opened. So no matter what happens, we have no regrets.
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 19 күн бұрын
For me I got play by girl so yup 👍 but now back grind start to enjoy myself and my passion ( hobby)
@mob6469
@mob6469 19 күн бұрын
For me, Having a relationship in teenage life is such a waste of time. That's the lesson I have in my life. U can love but love yourself more than others. You're the more important + I love your content, keep it up and nice quality vd as well
@horuzz2009
@horuzz2009 19 күн бұрын
100%. Those teenage love, highschool love almost always like a test period. And if we get a heartbreak from those times, it's more pain than it is pleasure. "Learn to Love slow, but Love properly and wholeheartedly" is what I would say is a better mindset for us men.
@Cyhcg5uhgb
@Cyhcg5uhgb 19 күн бұрын
I think it is very healthy. I only got into a relationship in my early twenties. It was also my partners first long relationship. The relationship dragged on for way longer than it should and was quite a bad relationship. I will never allow myself to be in a similar relationship. If I went through a relationship ealrier in life (high school) when my life was less stressfull, I would have learned the same lesson without the negative effect it had in my proffesional life. I would have probably also taken it less serieusly and broke it off earlier instead of trying to "fix" something that can't be fixed.
@mob6469
@mob6469 19 күн бұрын
@@Cyhcg5uhgb It's like you have experienced a relationship in your teenage can bore u in the twenties, it is Bc U already knew what the relationship is and starting to take not seriously for that. Such a rare to find true love in this generation for teenagers
@mob6469
@mob6469 19 күн бұрын
@@horuzz2009 love the quoto
@LickeyTongue
@LickeyTongue 18 күн бұрын
You learn a lot about your outlook on life, and yourself. Everything is a learning curve. I agree the relationship its self prolly was a waste of time but learning what you don’t like at that time, Is better then figuring it out at 25-35 or older.
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 22 күн бұрын
Good bro I train boxing 🥊 also fun hahaha
@italoore6279
@italoore6279 22 күн бұрын
Good for you brother. I train jiu jitsu, try it out, it’s crazy what it does to you
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 26 күн бұрын
Still love ur content talking some good topic👊 I also use to break my promises to build a aesthetic or dream body I want but fail then I lose trust myself so now been working out by being discipline and consistency and have a goal and stick it haha
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 26 күн бұрын
Don’t be the thinkers but the doer
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 26 күн бұрын
Be the doer not a thinker
@jclao
@jclao 23 күн бұрын
100% bro 🤝
@NxtetoSelf
@NxtetoSelf 27 күн бұрын
Love the content. Keep em coming dude.
@jclao
@jclao 26 күн бұрын
Thank you so much bro 🙏
@ra1playz
@ra1playz 28 күн бұрын
brother can u make a video about no label relationship ? need some advices right now enlighten me if you could
@jclao
@jclao 26 күн бұрын
Maybe I can help you personally about that. Wanna hop on discord and talk? Azizphs#8926
@ra1playz
@ra1playz 24 күн бұрын
@@jclao i couldnt my pc microphone isn't working at the moment its just she loves me shows all the ways she could but we been at it for almost a year now I'm thinking is all the time used gonna be wasted? stuff like that her mother is abit strict so that might be one of the problems i don't even know what to do should i pursue or stop
@jclao
@jclao 23 күн бұрын
@@ra1playz I didn't mean calling bro, just text me. I'll see if I can understand your situation. But I'm starting to see what you mean bro. hit me up if you're interested in chatting a bit 👊
@NobleNutshell
@NobleNutshell Ай бұрын
Bro! I literally did the same at the start of 2023!
@jclao
@jclao 28 күн бұрын
Let's goooooooo 🔥🔥🔥
@youtubewithabid
@youtubewithabid Ай бұрын
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@justinlovesjesus
@justinlovesjesus Ай бұрын
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.”” John‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬-‭21‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ 1. Romans 3:10 As it is written: “None is righteous, no, not one; 2. Romans 3:23 For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God 3. Romans 5:8 But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 4. Romans 5:12 Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned- *5. Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.* 6. Romans 10:9-11 Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.For the Scripture says, “Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.” 7. Romans 10:13 For “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” *Please think about the message, Christ lived, died, and rose, Absorbing and satisfying the justice of God for sin, so that all who believe/trust in Him will not die in their sins and face justice but receive the gift of eternal life* ““Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And He said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and foremost commandment. And the second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang the whole Law and the Prophets.”” Matthew‬ ‭22‬:‭36‬-‭40‬ ‭LSB‬‬ ““You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. But if your right eye makes you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand makes you stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to go into hell.” Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭27‬-‭30‬ ‭LSB‬‬ ““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”” Matthew‬ ‭11‬:‭28‬-‭30‬ ‭LSB‬ “Jesus *said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Me.” ‭‭John‬ ‭14‬:‭6‬ ‭LSB‬‬ “Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins. For unless you believe that I am He, you will die in your sins.”” John‬ ‭8‬:‭24‬ ‭LSB‬‬ “So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you abide in My word, then you are truly My disciples; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” They answered Him, “We are Abraham’s seed and have never yet been enslaved to anyone. How is it that You say, ‘You will become free’?” Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who commits sin is the slave of sin. And the slave does not remain in the house forever; the son does remain forever. So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.” John‬ ‭8‬:‭31‬-‭36‬ ‭LSB‬‬
@user-ih8mh7qu9p
@user-ih8mh7qu9p Ай бұрын
That's the advice i needed to hear
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
Dang also congratulations for 147 sub u did ur milestones hahaha
@horuzz2009
@horuzz2009 Ай бұрын
This is an actual solid advice, thanks bro!
@sararais2459
@sararais2459 Ай бұрын
Thats a good plan !
@CreativeArk999
@CreativeArk999 Ай бұрын
Ehh bro you are doing great alr, don't stop posting stuff like this keep it up. This was one of the best advices I could've ever gotten. Thanks✨🥷
@jclao
@jclao 26 күн бұрын
Thank you so much bro 🙏
@thebrokeguy711
@thebrokeguy711 Ай бұрын
"Cause I'm Asian, you know how it is"
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
fr 😂
@NxtetoSelf
@NxtetoSelf Ай бұрын
I seriously needed this. I've been struggling to fix my sleep schedule, so thank you for this. Btw, I have to commend you for your effort on this channel.
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
Thank you man, I try to make sure I don't give up, that has been the hardest part about doing this. Hope you're able to fix your schedule and improve your life bro🙏
@kelbiy
@kelbiy Ай бұрын
found this while i was doing my assignment, now that youve said it, might as well just do it
@Unpos_sible
@Unpos_sible Ай бұрын
Wow this is my first time finding a criminally underrated channel
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
holy sh*t, bruh you have no idea how much encouragements those words gave me 🙏
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
To be honest I have bad sleep too but now be relax and do it later is a great video.
@thunderstrikebs5556
@thunderstrikebs5556 Ай бұрын
I beat myself everyday in the shower 💪
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
shhhheee bro 💀
@kimmoou1417
@kimmoou1417 Ай бұрын
I have no clue as to how KZfaq has for the first time in a decade shown me a video with less than 200 views. This is a great confidence booster and motivation to anyone who has either given up on finding someone or that just needs that little push to go talk to the 1 girl they like. As I have a 12 year old coded brain the phrase that you keep repeating "just beat yourself" is just perfect. It makes my mind subconsciously change the meaning to "just beat your you know what"
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
Appreciate the stop-by bro 🙏. Just get that first step of talking to her done. It's actually easier than we all thought.
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
U talk good fact and good messages 😎
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
Is true ur challenge is yourself
@riccardobenitez1069
@riccardobenitez1069 Ай бұрын
'Promosm'
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
Nice video talking some good stuff keep going bro 😎
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
Can’t wait for next video ahahha
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
Always appreciate the encouragement bro 👊. School finally started so I got pretty busy, but I'm trying, I hope you're doing well too brother 🙏
@pisseth3002
@pisseth3002 Ай бұрын
Hay ur welcome I like ur video I been in self improvement so support the bro and like ur video also i know u going to get 100 sub for sure 👊😉fist bump
@Yoursecretadmirer-mv7pc
@Yoursecretadmirer-mv7pc Ай бұрын
This mf in love bro
@Yoursecretadmirer-mv7pc
@Yoursecretadmirer-mv7pc Ай бұрын
Show her✨😁
@Yoursecretadmirer-mv7pc
@Yoursecretadmirer-mv7pc Ай бұрын
It’s beautiful
@mekha7298
@mekha7298 Ай бұрын
Cool hair
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
bed hair go hard 🔥
@ra1playz
@ra1playz Ай бұрын
damn man i needed this my girl is doing everything she could to prove it to me but i doubt it because i grew up ugly while she's pretty, thank you for posting this brother
@ra1playz
@ra1playz Ай бұрын
i'm always jealous and i think i'm so replaceable do you have tips to remove those?
@ra1playz
@ra1playz Ай бұрын
she's pretty kind giving nice smart all those a solid 10/10 i'm abit of a red flag myself because of this issues of mine and i have a negative mindset
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
Yo bro, you said you grew up ugly and have a negative mindset right? So you already know which part of you makes you feel bad. That's good, you're already aware. The next step is simply bro, find a way to fix those or improve yourself. You think you're replacable but there's a reason she chose you yeah? Find that reason and grow on it. Another thing is to keep improving yourself in all areas even if you already have a girl. Fitness, meditation, gratitude journaling and constant learning of new and interesting things. Instead of thinking so negatively, try doing 10 push ups. If you can even do that, you're already better than half the other guys in your school. You're doing good bro 👊
@ayushsharma655
@ayushsharma655 Ай бұрын
finda japanese gf and learn from her broski
@sekterdxd8654
@sekterdxd8654 2 ай бұрын
I love how you are trying your beat bro keep going ❤️‍🔥
@jclao
@jclao Ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words and encouragement bro, I'll stay strong 🙏