this kind of informal content should be WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more common

Sadly it's very relatable. My ex had something like BPD and was great at manipulating. First 3 months were heaven but then it very slowly started creeping in, making me care for her, getting isolated from my network, until I got completely trapped. I never really noticed until it was too late (also my fault. I had been single for so many years so I really wanted this relationship to succeed, and also my upbringing influenced me in sacrificing myself for others. And I was really confused and didn t realize what games were being played. I felt something was off, but she was great in making these constructions against me, i had no clue, I learned that now). It s been 10 years and I am still recovering. As I was visiting a therapist, weirdly enough, there was no recognition for what had happened and how badly it had broken me, my confidence, my joy, my trust,... It left me again in a weird experience of gaslighting. I'm a man and felt so alone, isolated, not heard, not understood, and on the contrary, it was as if I was the problem as I had become anxious, depressed, distrusting,... Just terrible... I don t wish this to anyone. Get out as soon as you can. It is not normal behavior and no, you cannot fix it. It will only get worse and will damage you and take the best of you. In general: listen to your center and inner voice. It knows the truth ❤

Wow that was really disturbing . A friend of mine was in this kind of relationship for a long time before she broke out finally one day.

Ok.im leaving the video at 8:00… i fear i might slam my phone on the floor.😂 And i dont want that…2200€…

The only way people have power to abuse you as an adult is if you were set up in early childhood to accept such shitty treatment.

Parents & friends shouldstop pressuring people to get partners

Omg my ex husband, used to do the same thing! He assaulted me and threatened to kill himself. I’m so glad I moved out. I had no place to live. No car to myself. And it was worth it, to never be abused again! What worse is he was a ministry school student 😂

Wow.. that hit deep. I just got out of a narcissistic relationship and I feel like the shell of a person. Who I used to be isn't there anymore. This makes me so sad and angry, that those people can't be arrested for what they are doing. They basically go from one person to the next and suck them out of life force. And I need to rebuild myself completely after this. Also, completely isolated and lonely. Before I had a huge friend group, life was easy until I did not listen to my gut feeling at the very first date and stayed way too long.

The end made me cry. wow.

I'm halfway invested like.... he never said a time right? I hate him.

Nice one. We must recognise this pattern and no matter what.. please don’t make baby from a narcissist. Their kids turned out soulless bastards as well.

Divine Gratitude 🌻🌹🌻

I watched this video a long time ago... And never forgot it. Haunting.

I don't know you. I'm not going to your house.

Feeling blessed while watching this

That was hard to watch, I got the chills. From the smug smile at the beginning when he paid for the drinks to the comment about her being late for the first date... The very first signs. I hope anyone going through this can find someone to tell. And yes I have been through it myself as well

They make you apologize even when they’re wrong

Both great actors, great acting. Mark character is disgusting, narcisistic, toxic. Really well played by the actor.

1st red flag- targeting her. He "happened to be" sitting, looking out the window in her direction. His gesture of buying coffee was weoponized when he reminded her of how he saved the presentation. Oh, if only I'd had this insight before I likewise got targeted. It's so very sneaky.

Well damn it man… this cut deep

Basically what all western governments have been doing to the general public.....

Oh no! For the first 10 minutes, I thought she was the one who was wrong!!! Ducking hell, that is unbelievably heartbreaking.

If a guy treat me like this by gaslighting me oh boy his gonns recieve bad karma

Toxic relation can ruin everything around.

I can't get past the $12.50 for 2 cappuccinos, 1 latte and 1 green tea.

What does this mean exactly? Because I'm looking at my life rn...and how it's looked for 10yrs of marriage

If you change roles, you'll see the "ok picture". Very regular situation, you'll see a reality.

Wish they taught this in high school. Instead of nonsense like algebra.

Nice play, really is what unawared people needs to have. To live safe

A new promise to You Dr. Rakshita from me, Dr. Jenifar (2025)

And she does drink a lot!

The girl is acting scattered and kind of strange!

This brings back memories, I was losing myself, but God freed me and my sons from a narcissist..... God be with you all who are currently in this type of situation.

Alicia needs to dump her friend also who is not a loyal friend and would take Mark's word over her own best friend poor Alicia she's gotten herself into a situation and she needs to leave it immediately‼️

Alicia needs to realize that Mark is a big evil narcissist and she needs to pack up and move out immediately when he is not home and sever the relationship completely🔥

Awww! Poor little Mark never made it past four years old🤪

My narcissist abuser would constantly make me question my memory and shift the blame onto me for the things he would be doing then play the victim and then act concerned and suggest therapy to make me question my sanity. He had lied so much about the dumbest things like his damn age. So when I woke wake up with questions asking him why he lied about everything he did he would just deny and make me question my memory like I’m some fool who doesn’t have a brain like he does. Having me around his friends who would have his version of the reality also so I think oh wow it must be me because there are multiple people who believe what he is saying. He turned out to be the biggest loser who was an over grown broke man child who had to spin all these lies just because he couldn’t stand to face the truth about his own existence. God protected me from this person in multiple ways tho. My intuition just wouldn’t let him get away with his lies and I would confront him. He couldn’t handle me questioning him about all his lies all the time so just 3 months in he decided to shift the blame on me and accuse me of cheating so he could go through my msgs and have me share my location with him. He had me almost move in with him when I had a place of my own and when he realized I wouldn’t let go confronting and holding him accountable he accused me of cheating on him and kicked me out in the middle of the night and stopped responding to me for the next 5 months. Just to come back acting like he overreacted and “didn’t remember” what happened.

It’s loser men who have nothing going for them who try to reel successful women into their web of lies and deception only to break their spirit and look better in comparison. Most of this has to do with jealousy and their lack of self worth. Notice how the woman had so much going on for her while the man was a barista and in the end she finds herself ruined and nothing going for her while she doubts even her own mind while the guy suddenly is important enough to be going to high profile parties. Sickening to the max. Narcissistic abuse should be taught in school!!!

My ex

The way a narcissist interjects themselves into your business life! Maddening!

Her not using a coaster later on was a nice touch.

Man that hit me right through my heart 💔😢

Been there for a few years… not sure how I survived all that. Unfortunately it’s so hard to recognize that… so blessed to be out. Whoever need to read this: please be strong, you are not alone. You aren’t crazy. Hugs!

Nice treatment. Great movie.

If someone can leave you emotionally unstable leave. They don't like you.

Also the majority of people on mental health medication choose to do so because we know it makes things easier for us. Usually in the beginning it may be forced, but that’s when we’re really unwell, but later on we choose to continue to take it because it helps us. I’ve never heard of a partner forcing their partner to take mental health medication. Once, but the person was very ill and needed it. - Smashing mental health stigma & mental health myths.

“ you made me hit you “ !!!!!! RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK

This is a very mild form of what I’ve been living for the last 7 years of my existence. We’ve got two children and he uses them in his games every chance he gets. Thankfully they’re too young to understand what is happening, and they see his fake “love” for mom, and my complacency as nothing more than two happy healthy parents who love them and one another. I’m literally a shell of who I once was. I cringe every time he touches me or spews his bullshit, thankfully I love my kids enough to keep it to myself and just survive for them.

Sorry but what kind of award did this flat, pathetic Movie win?

Just like my ex "you got so wasted and screamed at that bartender" No, I didn't have more than half a drink and that never happened. He finally admitted to lying about it, the first time in 3 years.