Bullshit! Read Kitzur Shulchan Aruch chapters 153 - 155. Litteraly the first law: A woman from whose womb there issued a drop of blood, be it ever so small, regardless of the circumstances, whether it is in her nature, as some women, to have a regular period or an irregular period; even if she experienced some sort of accident which caused blood to issue from her womb, she is a niddah (menstrually unclean), until she counts seven clean days, and properly performs the ritual immersion. Anyone who cohabitates with her when she is menstrually unclean, receives the punishment of koras*.1 She too receives the punishment, koras. For touching in an intimate manner, their punishment is flagellation**.2 *Koras Karet or Qareth is the punishment worst class of sin one can perform. God judges persons guilty of such as murderers. **Yes you read that right: Two consenting responsible adults, touching each other is punishable by a whipping. Whilst we no longer whip people; It is still a disturbing part of our culture.
@144Donn21 күн бұрын
I appreciate this very much BUT, a lost article does not resist being found whereas today, so many people (perhaps myself included) are not only lost but are meshuganeh!
@bill9989Ай бұрын
I saw a video of an old man talking to the Rebbe. He was leaning in almost forehead to forehead. The man told the Rebbe that he was raised a Jew but converted to Catholicism. He said he still loves his people. The Rebbe said that if you are born a Jew, you're a Jew forever. The man agreed but said his conversion has given him great inner peace. The Rebbe said that when someone is tormented by an illness, they are in need of immediate treatment. The man said he's certainly not tormented and doesn't need treatment. I'll say this: the Rebbe is correct: one of them has an illness but its not the other man.
@tokes1803Ай бұрын
Spouse.
@DrJackCohenАй бұрын
The first and most important person that you have to be loyal to is your spouse. The loyalty to each other is unimpeachable. So if there’s an issue with the mother or the mother in law who wants to get involved, you’ve got to defend each other. Once you allow them to have a leg in how your life works and they interfere in your house, you’re going to have problems. It’s important that loyalty and reverence to your spouse comes before anything else. You have to give respect to your parents outside your home but don't let them interfere inside your home and do it in a courteous way.
@dovrose5155Ай бұрын
He's a thief and conartist
@TanyaBritoАй бұрын
...I never adapted in my background, I'm a convert, I don't want somebody with my background. What is same background? Even though I was not jewish I pretty much lived like a jew in behavior.
@micheleamisonfellezs293Ай бұрын
Sure would of been nice to have that advice 55 years ago.
@rivkap242Ай бұрын
I hope she found her bashert. 💜
@Theweberofficial2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@BryanKirch2 ай бұрын
Doesn’t God choose your wife? Why do we have to “look” for who we believe is “good” doesn’t God know better than us? Isn’t it that sometimes what we don’t want is what God wills for us for our benefit?
@Newstripper272 ай бұрын
One must find their beshert, sometimes people live in an area where there is no shadchun, the Rabbi wants all Yiddisha kindalach to have 360* nachas 🖖
@Thomas.Bolleiro2 ай бұрын
@@Newstripper27 I lost all hope in Shiduchim, after I realized that, in liberal jewish america, I'm not allowed to be with a young girl, unless I'm no older than 18 I was 33 and the shadchans offered me to marry a 42 year old. Where is the jewish common sense here?
@Newstripper272 ай бұрын
@@Thomas.Bolleiro After the Holocaust, there were few suitors so a younger man might have been paired with a woman 10 year’s older, as long as she could still have children but after the first generation, that would never happen again, unless, and that’s in rare circumstances, there’s an issue, I.e., a divorced Cohen of 35 takes the 20 y/o daughter of a Geordis. As you know, a Cohen cannot take a divorced woman. And a girl who isn’t married by the time she’s 35 is a telling story within the Frum community (not to be taken in an ugly way). I don’t know anything about you so I cannot comment on why you had that experience. If you do have some kind of an issue then that would be the likely reason why a shadchan would rear such a shedach. When it comes to shadekim, you have to know your strengths and weaknesses and be reasonable too. Don’t be fast too pass up an otherwise good shedach. Have you tried finding someone in Eretz Yisroel? That might be your next step. Hatzluach!
@Thomas.Bolleiro2 ай бұрын
@@Newstripper27 Hi. Thanks for the info, did not know about Cohen, not being able to marry a divorced girl. No, I was never married, neither do I have any children. My first shadchan was a woman, in Moscow, they never matched me with anyone and never texted me back, once they realized they won't get a "premium" beforehand. In states, not much different. Though it would cost me around 250 dollars just to talk to him, then a match would cost 4000 dollars. So, these things are strictly about money, it's a business that runs purely on a financial transaction. Why you can expect the relationship to be the same I once went to a Shabbat Dinner, to a Sephardic family. The mother offered me to marry a 42 year old, while holding a straight face I believe the belittling and hatred towards men is Ingrained in a jewish religion. It figures, since all our jews are liberals and feminists. Go figure. So, I left the shiduchim theory. It doesn't work. I'm entering a healthy relationship, on my own, with a not-fully jewish girl, yet she's 250 times better than all our full-blooded jewish girls combined The Shiduchim business won't last, men come to a realization that they're being tricked into a very unknown area, where they're just a target.
@gavnonadoroge3092Ай бұрын
@@Thomas.Bolleiro so where did you find your wife?
@anthonysteyning80322 ай бұрын
Yeah, but what to do with those damn Palestinians..... Though I likie the part of a little less prayer and a bit more self-sacrifice!
@nolickspittle47532 ай бұрын
These programmes are appalling!! They make a mockery of yiddishkeit.
@bentzionshemtov21282 ай бұрын
Very interesting thank you for sharing!
@martonbraun36343 ай бұрын
The rebbe was an epic leader and educator but l regret his medling in lsrael politics.
@goldengun99702 ай бұрын
You can't separate Israel from Judaism
@Thomas.BolleiroАй бұрын
Wasn't he the only one, who pointed out that too many non-jews are entering Israel? He was not wrong about that. Look at the outcome.
@najiahommaid89653 ай бұрын
Thank you, Dr. Cohen for your amazing vidoes. They are very useful for young people to watch and learn good information and tips. I watched some of your videos as a mother I learned many new things that helped me to be aware of some challenges that our young people are facing. Dr. Cohenis giving good advices in his classes that be helpful for the young poeple to recogise those challnges and how to overcome of those challanges. I think the parents also can be benefit from Dr. Cohens's vidoes that help them to be good source of information for their children when it comes to dating and marriage , Thanks again.
@yiddena3 ай бұрын
Rabbi, Does this not apply to the husband looking handsome? Why the double-standard?
@yiddena3 ай бұрын
But men like natural women (their eshes chayil) and prefer that women are not caked with makeup! Sorry. Farshtey nisht
@adams23854 ай бұрын
Great class Rabbi Dr Jack Cohen!!!!! Ty so much!
@jacobsolomon4274 ай бұрын
Yasher koach
@najiahommaid89654 ай бұрын
It was such good good topic and discussion All those things that you mentioned so important. It is important to take time and know the person as whole and not just rely on emotions
@jacobsolomon4274 ай бұрын
Very important advice! Yasher koach
@Meitsjustmereally4 ай бұрын
Great! I think the point about looking for something lost is that you know for certain it’s out there. Therefore you look for it with certainty. Very different to “is there even someone out there for me”
@Newstripper272 ай бұрын
It’s a big mitzvah to match. The beshert is waiting to be found, the significant other is never lost.
@american-made30695 ай бұрын
My sister is dating a guy for about 2 years but they haven't meet yet we called and they told my sister in order for that to happen that must first meet in person..? Another agency didn't require that what's your thoughts 🤔
@joshantebi41265 ай бұрын
Thank you for all these videos!
@joshantebi41265 ай бұрын
Ha great intro 😂
@zvell6365 ай бұрын
He's 💯 right
@Shidduchcoach5 ай бұрын
Your intro, the story of your life is Fascinating. Now I understand why you're so well rounded and able to relate so well to so many people
@guyw995 ай бұрын
Another beautiful video! Thank you for your hard work in traveling and creating content. I understand it's challenging to be away from your family, but your work is vital. For anyone interested in this content or coaching, it's crucial to recognize that dating requires time and effort. Sometimes it doesn't work out with the first or even the hundredth person, for various reasons. The key is to stay positive and not get discouraged if things don't go as planned. Keep trying, stay positive, and success will come. Remember, Walt Disney faced bankruptcy several times before achieving success.
@guyw995 ай бұрын
Another beautiful video! Thank you for your hard work in traveling and creating content. I understand it's challenging to be away from your family, but your work is vital. For anyone interested in this content or coaching, it's crucial to recognize that dating requires time and effort. Sometimes it doesn't work out with the first or even the hundredth person, for various reasons. The key is to stay positive and not get discouraged if things don't go as planned. Keep trying, stay positive, and success will come. Remember, Walt Disney faced bankruptcy several times before achieving success.
@Bulvan1236 ай бұрын
The better question is what did Rav Miller think about racial segregation.
@jenniferurbina17616 ай бұрын
I agree tho we are not the same but this I believe
@baraskparas95598 ай бұрын
Theists of all types start the brainwashing from childhood so that by the time they are idealistic teenagers they become hard line entrenched fundamentalist zombies with nothing to offer but slogans and fables of a creation myth, God.
@ETC_Rohaly_USCG8 ай бұрын
December 2023 thank you Dr. Jack. I needed to hear this. 42 and Shalom❤
@bruskqadir62088 ай бұрын
I bet the devile loves jews a lot; they are the apple of his eyes
@Ben-sv9op8 ай бұрын
Shabbat shalom ❤
@MoussBen-cl4ey8 ай бұрын
For sur if I open my heart I m dead man .....
@midishh10 ай бұрын
❤
@A_few_minutes_of_torah11 ай бұрын
Thank you for the lesson rabbi ❤
@A_few_minutes_of_torah11 ай бұрын
Thank you for the lesson rabbi ❤
@A_few_minutes_of_torah11 ай бұрын
Thank you for the lesson rabbi ❤
@Jay6110211 ай бұрын
Beautiful and very insightful speech thank you rabbi
@Ben-sv9op11 ай бұрын
Hashem should bless you !!!
@Ben-sv9op11 ай бұрын
Amazing, beautiful words ❤ God bless you
@minniecoolahan833711 ай бұрын
Promo*SM 😜
@421sap11 ай бұрын
B''H, Amen
@user-zy2ff8fk2y11 ай бұрын
Men are from Mars Women are from Venus
@Ben-sv9op11 ай бұрын
Thank you !!!!
@chaimberger539211 ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful energy 🌟
@staceyg6366 Жыл бұрын
Excellent
@phillipdavis4507 Жыл бұрын
My daddy always said," a strong building need a good foundation". Will, you definitely have a good start!😂😁👍🙏