i just have a question so they not together anymore ?

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Hey Cerose, I am not a relationship expert, but I have been in the same relationship for over 15 years. (I'm 32) We been through a lot of rough patches and a lot of good patches. Ain't nothing perfect but were still going...To be honest with you, when it comes to submission, it comes after you fall in love with each other. Submission is for the person that you trust and that you are building a life with. Submission is even there after all the rough bullcrap you go through...Submission is not just black and white because everyone's situation is different....When you really think about it, being in a relationship, in simple terms is that you are living with another human being...How much are you willing to sacrifice or deal with, with that other person? Can you see yourself loving and taking care of that person regardless of the ups and downs. Are you willing to help each other when times get tough? Does that person bring out the best of you? How are you helping to bring out the best of that person? Now, I believe that submission is not for some random stranger and the guy that you are talking about is a bit odd in my opinion. There can be a mutual respect until you know for sure if that is the man you want to "submit" to.....and no offense to the bible. It's a bit outdated, but still useful in some circumstances and most of the time I believe it's better when it's kept into context to the chapter as it should be. People take it waayyy out of context to fit their agendas. I would personally choose to love another human being as what Jesus/Yeshua would do.....But yeah, love first and then submission and submission is for your husband "the head". The one that you trust to lead and guide you and your family. I wish you luck girl. Regardless of who you choose, life will always test you lol Just be wise in choosing the person that you are willing to go through it all with. Look at the signs. Look at how the person reacts to things, Look at their habits etc...The signs are always there.

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Kendrick Lamarr won!! You wasted alot of your valuable time twice with this man. Very creepy!! He needs serious psychological therapy. You need more of Godly discernment when dealing with the opposite sex. Dating is not a joke when most people are hiding behind a mask. A deeper knowledge of God's Word and how it applies to your life. Just know that it's poor spiritual hygiene to give everyone access to You and your boys!❤❤❤ Auntie from Virginia in America 🇺🇸 😍 06/12/2024

Okay, I'm late here. But, my mom said one thing. Gonna share with you. She said that the faster a man comes to your life, the faster he'll be out as well. Coming to what I feel about him, HE'S A RED FLAG. Don't walk out. Run at this point.

Love definitely comes first then submission. Why should I willingly submit to a partner who I don’t love, nor has shown any love to me?

This guy is a complete weirdo. I think I'd switch churches just to avoid that guy.

Beautifully done video. It makes sad to see you leave.

Girl where have you bin

I want a man like him

I believe submission comes first for true love, call me crazy but i believe submission is a form of vulnerability. To be vulnerable especially in the atmosphere of potential love means showing your whole heart confession of your feelings, and in turn the opportunity to be rejected. This is a possibility that everyone must open themselves up to for anything meaningful to form. That's just my opinion though

No offense cuz I love you girls but I hate it after you drink something and you start smacking it's annoying not trying to sound rude I'm just saying just sound annoying

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Love definitely comes before submission. A man should give a woman what to submit to.

Please please don’t think about a man. Focus on Jesus

God loves you ❤

I think love comes before submission. It is also important to know when a role deserves submission. We submit ourselves to God throughout our lives. This is out of faithfulness, obedience and respect for the Lord. The Bible also tells us that it is okay to be in our singlness as long as we dedicate (submit) ourselves to the Lord "But I say to the unmarried and to the widows, [that as a practical matter] it is good if they remain [single and entirely devoted to the Lord] as I am." 1 Corinthians 7:8. So in our singleness our submission is to the Lord. In God's eyes we are single until married. 1 Corinthians chapter 7 is a great chapter to go over for this topic. But once someone is married they now are to show submission to there husband as well as God. There definitely needs to be love in the mix or the submission will come with unforgiveness and lack of trust. It's also important to study what biblical submission is for yourself. Sometimes there are people in your life that you're just meant to pray for not create a relationship with (whether thats friendship or relationship). Its okay to set boundaries. Also we show submission to our husband because he is meant to reflect the Lord. The husband's desires and life is supposed to be as close with Christ as Jesus is with His father. I always believed that submission comes with love and trust because sometimes the Lord is going to tell your husband things that you won't know. But with the trust that your husband is being led by Christ you are able to have confidence and go with his leadership. This is why when we submit ourselves we don't submit ourselves to the world but to the Lord. When you get married the Lord has been telling us he wants us to submit but to our husbands because our husbands are meant to love us as Christ loves us and they are meant to lead a life that Christ would want for the both of you. This is why wisdom and discernment are so important when it comes to making the decision of who you marry, or even who you surround yourself with.

Nah he seems scary intentional and doesn’t listen listen to boundaries. Pushing and ignoring with “charm” to make it seem less creepy/scary what he’s doing.

7:37 He’s so cute😭

Sometimes I dont trust content creators to be telling the truth... I love this girl & many other KZfaqrs but some of the things they share cannot be real... especially about unhinged people. I would personally be scared that they'd come after me or become psychotic about it being shared like this. So this person & story has to be made up for the most part.. maybe it happened to someone else? Idk y'all.

They already married ?

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좋은남자 만나세요! 전 처음부터 새롬씨 응원했었어요!!❤ 새롬씨 안목이 좋으신거에요ㅎㅎ 그런남자는 지나가는 사람 중 한사람이라 생각하고 잊으세요!! 솔직히 그 X 볼때마다 별로였어요 자아도취, 잘난척도 심하고 나쁨이랑 착한게 뭔지 모르는 사람으로 보였어요 미성숙해보였기도 했고요 , 아무튼 새롬씨랑 새롬씨 아이들의 삶이 제일 중요하잖아요 굳이 떠나간 사람 붙잡을 필요 없어요😉

Get a skill and a real job. Enough with the yt sillyness. Grow up.

The Bible says "Wives, Submit to your own husbands". This guy sounds like what the Bible calls, "Shrine Prostitute:" Spending money on a man tells him you are desperate. Desperate women look like crabs to men. Get a clean booty call with a clean health card. He may be the local S.P.. Wait a while. The water is too cold right now.

Gohan I think you is so five I'm only 13 so I'm not old enough to date and you already have a wife so yeah it's literally like spell Korean Japanese Chinese Asians it's like you'll never age

This question along with the story is PACKED girl. It's a question that can't be answered simply. I would first like to say to you that all the wisdom you need to navigate any issues you have in life will be in the word of God. although fellowship with other believers is important, it isn't as crucial as reading and studying the bible for YOURSELF. There are many hypocrites in the "church" and the only way to get discernment is to routinely examine the word God has graciously given to us. Rather than focusing on any relationship as you stated in the video, focus on reading the word DAILY to know what God thinks about all of this. Starting with the New Testament is best. Start with one of the gospels (John would be a good start) then read the rest of the New Testament in order chapter by chapter. In the case of submission, the first person you should submit yourself to is God. Allow him to help you overcome your sin and be your first leader. Before you do this, submission to a man will make no sense. After this you will start walking in truth and denying your flesh more you will start to have spiritual eyes that see and is able to discern these everyday situations. do NOT let the "church" be the dictator of how to follow Jesus in your life. Let God himself show you through his word because once again there are many hypocrites and they tend to lead babies in Christ far far astray from the truth. Submission after you've submitted to God is ONLY to the man you marry because as a man of God he should be willing to lay his life down for you as well as his submission should be fully to God. he should be truly living a life for Christ and overcoming sin. Because of this, before you chose to marry, make sure that he is truly a man after God's own heart. That's the only way you would be able to fully submit to him because you know he is being led by the creator of the universe. To conclude, submission is essential and is part of life, we all submit or have submitted ourselves to many things. Whether it is earthly authority such as your boss at work or spiritual authities such as sin or righteousness, our souls submit everyday. you must simply have the discernment to only submit youself to what is right and the place to start as I keep repeating is GOD and HIS WORD!! I pray that you truly seek the Lord with all your heart Cerose. There is so much he wants to teach you and help you overcome as he has taught me and fellow believers. Be blessed!

Man i miss these couples they separate and its cause of gohan. But i miss these videos hope my boyfriend doesn't do it to me... Luckly hes respectfully man🤗🤗

Is she talking about the guy jin... Or another guy.....

You are looking really good :)

Pre-Story Time Thoughts: Both scenarios sound impossible. "Loving" someone with conditions, hoping to meet certain expectations, has a high chance of failure. Relationships rely on mutual understanding and agreement, which can only be achieved with open discussion and realizing the hard truths of the reality of your current relationship. Submitting to someone can lead to heavy reliance, feelings of inadequacy, and frustration for the partner. It can also result in a loss of sense of self. Thoughts post video: You got this. Keep God and prayer in your heart, and ask for what you want. God will give it to you. Please don't stay in contact with him for the plot 😖

Love comes first

Please do pranks with jin’s brother again it was so funny😭

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Love is the reason we submit to someone. We don't place conditions on love because then it isn't love, it's possession and obsession.

I think what he means about submitting is letting him Take the lead as a man. Men want to be and feel masculine when they are with their women, as in letting him open the door, and hunt and gather and bring home the bacon… girl let him pay for your meal and thats it. He sounds like a headache

You're kids so cute. 😃

First of all that fool is coming off like you all are in a relationship. That's Red flag number 1. Red flag number 2.He is coming on two strong. I wouldn't talk to him outside of church anymore. Just be careful. Love you and the boys.❤

" there is only 10 of you" is wild work ...crazy work. please don't give these people time a day.. you are inviting trouble ma'am.

honestly cerose i'm so proud of you for staying always so strong no matter what, being a mom of two little boys is so hard on its own such a big responsibility and you're honestly doing such a good job. such a loving and caring mom. also you look so beautifullll as alwaysss!!!

You are attracted to jerks who shoot their shot. You need a friend who blocks for you. Answer to actual question: Submit to loving yourself and God typically happens that way. Falling in love then submitting to that love with people tends to happen that way. You do know that dude is gaslighting you and grooming you for an abusive relationship. Curious how you will play this out 😮

Wow what a man. You gave more grace than he is due. He was trauma dumping and requesting personal information from you before he earned your trust or consent and was then trying to guilt you into trusting him. Where do people get the gall??? That's not how trust works. You don't even need a friend like that. Why was this man soooo bent on pushing you to act against your instincts?? It's definitley not your job to find out. He's making me mad and I wasn't even there lol. The man enjoys negativity and wants to spread it around and have company to share it with. Everything you shared about him sounds predatory. If he doesn't like questions, he verrrrryyy likely doesn't like accountability andddddd he was using misogynist tactics to influence your actions. Please be safe and prioritize your peace, safety, well being, and presence of mind. Your light shines bright and people who who are miserable will try to take it from you. And on the question you posed, I think love is both an experience and a practice. Because the idea of submission plays a heavy part in religious ideology, I wont speak directly on that, except to say that your submission to the wills and whims of others is never a requirement in this life. If you have to ignore your gut instinct or distort and minimize yourself, in order to get to the point of either love or submission, then it is atleast in part, a farce. Also, I really wanna recommend Chidera Eggerue (Slumflower). She's an author and activist and has a podcast I really enjoy. Well wishes!

gurl...why you went to dinner in the first place 🤯 that intro was a huge red flag, I haven't even been in a relationship or date ever and I felt the weirdo/shitty vibes from a mile away lol, he was hot, that must be it lol

Love before submission…especially if you are raised to be independent and submission doesn’t come way, once you love, it becomes easier to submit…it’s also easier if he’s submitted himself to Christ ❤ Also don’t fool with Mr from church.., he’s stressful 😂😂😂