I wish I would have watched this video 2 years ago before I did the exact opposite and ruined my relationship with my ex. At this point, I need to just detach from him and focus on myself, like you said. And if he comes back, then I’ll handle things better the second time around. ❤

How do you stop the social media stalking? It really affects me but the compulsion argh….

I agree I don’t want to think of 3Ds even if they don’t exist and it’s in my head bc I’m worried if he’s found someone

I’m learning to truly love myself more and trust that whatever is for me is for me.

Found out that my SP is in despair that she and third party have broken up, after 6 years. So how do I behave? I just texted her that I was sorry, and that I know she’s a strong person who’ll get through it. BUT, I don’t know what else to do. Is it bad that I actually feel a little pleased? I kinda feel guilty about that. I also don’t know quite what to do. Manifest that she is healed from a broken heart, even though it might reverse things? Suggestions PLEASE! 🙏

Love this ❤ I’d love more examples of loving yourself and discussing that in depths. Beyond work, hobbies, self care and therapy I think making a circle of connections and meaningful other relationships is key. What else can I do to love myself? What’s missing 🤔💭

You da bestttt corrayyyy (your client from Saturday) 😂

Seriously this is a subject that should be talked about more often. I've been feeling detached and good within myself for over a week then boom PMS strikes and everything seems like the end of the world, sadness, fatigue, melancholy and solitude are nagging at me.

Sorry telling this very respectfully but when you said I won't clutch on to this if we are not together anymore. Idk I won't be able to say or think this way and am saying this being 100% non anxiously. Actually in India we believe in 7 births so i know he is the one i am stuck on for 7 births so i don't believe in this modern concept of sticking on till everything is fine. He is my partner and husbsnd in every birth and nothing will ever go wrong with us. In NC right now but i had manifested him back previously too and now i will again, forever as my husband

I would love to hear about the tools you utilised for nervous sys regulation

Love this video ❤

I manifested 3 sps . The first one (I had no interest in anymore ) The second one after 3 years(I let go , and on this day she came I just know. But , was not in love anymore ) The last one ( I manifested 4 times and I still do )- really bad self concept . But now after all I am happy with my life and I know one day she will come back

why do I have this assumption that I will get her back because she is suffering like I am and in order to end the suffering we need to get back together. like, I get to the point where I’m neutral or even happy and I feel like she is too and she will move on? crazy right

I looove your story ❤

Hello, I was very very ill in a situation that I can’t really explain on here ( too long) but during that time I feel like I manifested a man that ended up coming into my life. I still have health problems and he left very abruptly in Jan. He’s so beautiful and a true empath that I think he just burnt out. More on what he thought I wanted and needed and not what I did. He’s an avoidant attachment style definitely. I just don’t know if he was meant to come and go or not. I still love him so much. I’m not tuned into what is right. I feel like it’s kinder to let him go if he was struggling, but was he for a reason?? I feel like it’s not finished . Are there accidents?

Wow. I think something just clicked… accepting him and understanding it’s a not a rejection and trusting our relationship will improve is different than “affirming the opposite” or “pulling away doing less etc. to create distance” (kind if the hard to get game) which both feel off and awful to be honest. Thank you for this insight! I can make peace with this approach .. I have been denying and/or fighting his emotional personality for years (while totally being attracted to him) that made things worse. I think this approach will work .

Love this! So much of loa teachings emphasize 'how would i feel if i had my sp/desire' the problem with this is that, for me at least, it led to unconsciously believing i could only feel this way if i had my sp or was actively doing techniques to evoke the feeling. It creates so much anxiety. The best thing we can do is find a sense of wholeness, joy, and love within. I also love that you mention setting boundaries, because again so much LOA teachings is 'ignoring the 3d' which led me to ignore my own boundaries. Id love to see a video on partial manifestations, or what to do when your SP isnt quite showing up exactly as you desire. Do you just set a boundary until they do, or do you allow them to slowly trickle in?

This was my recent realisation too. My vague visualisations work a treat ❤️

I needed this. Thank you so much!!!

Wow. I manifested my SP after he was married. It all changed just as I manifested. But when he came back around, I couldn't believe it. My low self-esteem played a role, and I ended up pushing him away. I now see what I did - I was scared from fear that I wasn't good enough Now, I am manifesting once again to have another chance. He is getting married again. 🙏🏽

Thank you for making it short so that it's easier to follow. Great story!

My fiancé is avoidant dismissive and he is in depression, we ddont talk anymore and i can't accept that, this is so hard to live, I'm fearful of the future...

This is amazing love it ❤ i wanted to ask what's the simplest way to manifest without much stress ia it just decide its your and move on with your life?

Even in a NC situation? I did the same thing as you and I went NC because I refuse to continue that dynamic. I feel strongly like we’re meant to be together. I don’t want to reach out. I was so patient, for years, but patience does run out. I’m trying to trust that he will come back again and have dealt with his avoidant issues. In the meantime I’m just living my best life and if someone else happens to come along in the meantime, I’m open to it.

Bring Johnny in your next video

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😅 I am no stranger to relationships and dating a fearful avoidant that had a horrific childhood. I have so much empathy for her and I've learned when to back off. Staying with them and keeping them happy is like learning to play a violinn but sometimes they are worth it you definitely have to be empathetic and self-confident. They are in desperate need of love and feeling safe.

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thats the only video that helped me

'Anxious' is the term used for people who are repeatedly willing to put up with recurring abuse.

I just want to have to faith my relationship will last and be steady. I feel that is so hard when it never has been that way.

The short version of this is to just not care. You can be crazy about this guy but just don't care to the point where you live so much of your time in a desperate, anxious, depressed limbo wondering what you could or could not have done to stop him from ghosting or ignoring you. Don't call him, don't text him ESPECIALLY after you've had a particularly good time together. Stay in control of YOU once you've experienced this dude and know what you're dealing with. Always let him call you and do not hang on the phone with him. When you see him, be your usual kind, funny, charming, beautiful self. Do not let him or his trauma/s change who you are. You had a life, a career and friends you enjoyed before he entered your world. Once you're not asking him for his emotional support, he'll feel comfortable enough to give it. Also, unfortunately, this means you need to keep your options open because this dude has trigger words which include just normal conversaysay for most folks. One minute you're flirting and next thing you know, you haven't heard from him in a month or more. Just don't depend on him unless he's talking about being exclusive or even marriage. At that point, you can be very honest with him about your observations and your boundaries; expectations. If he wants you, he'll invest in therapy. If he's not serious enough about you to deal with his situation, continue to be kind and understanding. Just know that he's not the one.

Love this video!! Amazing & spot on!

Really helpful <3 <3

Geezus. I'm a caring deeply empathetic person but I'm not going to be someone's full time therapist while walking on eggshells around them. Don't sacrifice yourself for people that need counselling.

Hello corrí I wanted to ask you but how can you keep doing daily activities when the 3D is getting harder and harder supposedly the universe tests you let me explain my situation. I am a bi man I met my sp at the gym who’s a married straight man no kids though. We were working out together at some point I thought he liked me and I did confess to him after that he told me he wouldn’t be interested in same sex relationship that wasn’t him. I felt hurt and after that we kept communication back and forth until it started to decrease now he’s gone cold I barely have seen him at the gym and i decided not to contact him because he doesn’t text me at all. Moreover, problems at my current job my parents are losing their home and possibly I have to relocate i am going through a very difficult time at the moment. Consequently, all I wish is I had a sp by my side to get things out of my chest to have a shoulder to cry to and feel that things will be alright I really do feel this person is the one for me and it’s been month trying to manifest and things just keep getting worse and worse for me. I don’t even know what to think anymore sometimes I am hoping not wake up at all. I thought my self concept was helping because I workout everyday I do look great and other people are interested in me but the person whom I wish in my life doesn’t feel the same way for me at the moment. So my question is how can live in the 3D facing all this I am facing if anything I feel I am being bombarded circumstances and sometimes I can’t even face the day with some much going on.

I was thinking about it, I did manifest my SP. it was a disaster. I’ll never try again, it was everything I didn’t want to happen. I like your stuff though. Keep going!!!!

You are so right ❣️ If you just enjoy life everything will magically fall into place for you. Anytime I have just relaxed and been happy, spend time with friends, walks in the park etc… things just always go so well for me and I don’t need to put any effort in.

Well expressed! 🏆💯

Hw do you differentiate between what is dwn to you to adjust and where a boundary needs to be implemented?

Can’t you accept them and move on? Is it worth being with someone who isn’t emotionally available?

This is very good stuff!