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Thank you Jim….so helpful

Thank U doc..

Thank you

Sounds like prince H wife megan M ....she is constantly lying

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Yes, my sister tells me i am naive...and manipulates me...

My younger sister, whom I still love deeply, has been dominating and demeaning me since childhood. I was the older quieter person, who had to care for her, wash her clothes, pack her lunchbox etc when mom went to work. She abused both me and mom. We are both grown up now and in our 50s. Whenever, I visit her, she treats me less than a dog. I became suicidal at one point ... only recently I heard this term "Narcissist Personality Disorder." I have reduced my interactions with her but I miss my little sister! My parents have died. She is all I have but she finds me so low class!! God help me.

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I forgive her.

Thank you sir. You awaken myself of who really am i. May God bless you.

Dr Brillon, Would you see this when someone acts or talks brave (regarding a specific or perceived threat) yet their 'bark is worse than their bite', and in actuality they might freeze in the 'face' of real danger?

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BPD is a nice name often given to female Narcissists Nobody likes to be named a narcissist so let's call them BPD.... Sounds much nicer yes? Its time BPD was removed from the DSM manual and call them what they are .... Narcissists. Watch and learn "Jim" ...... kzfaq.info/get/bejne/os-dYJBz1KqVk4k.htmlsi=ERSTNhTF7cwyI_2l

That's me, sadly..

Dude my friend is a phycopath anf she has literally 0% empathy to nobody she pointed out her dad's buldge and said "dad what you got there?" "Sus" and she didnt ever care she scares me sometimes 😊

Oh that's what happened to me. 😪

Pathological Envy -wants what you have and uses charm to try to get it. If they can tell you see through them, they use pity. If you don't fall for the sob story-they bolt and smear you to others to cover their tracks. The mask slips. Oh but they are not done. They will get you back by stalking and imitating what you have and what they want by using others to get it. Then they will text you about it to try to get under your skin. Can be dangerous-no contact-and don't give in and make excuses for them - it's all manipulative tactics.

Thank you, Jim! For making something so complex. So very simple! 😊👍

And being judged for this makes it so much worse.

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I no longer look for love or validation from the mother. It is all a big pretence with her. Once I realised she was a narcissist everything became clear. She has parentified me and wants to be the child in this relationship.

Jim, my mother is the covert narcissist, she is 87 and has dementia. Luckily I don't live with her , minimize contact to functional contact. It took me a long time to realise she was a narc, many years in fact but thought of her more as a Jekyll and Hyde. My recipe to stay sane is minimal contact and the grey rock. The worst part is I ruminate to much about her.

am I a narcissist? I think I do exactly the same things I was in 2 .. 3 relationships with narcs ..now I feel like I'm tte same how to tell if yr yrself a narcissist..I'm telling.g u I'm doing the same ..

:( This 100% contributed to a personality disorder i think, becsuse are generation has been able to doom scroll sense we were 10ish and im 26. Thats a loooooong time coping eith this method. Seems like my generation is all messed up, unable to cope with life and are all on various medications... The next one seems go be even worse because they were born into doomscrolling. Twitter is the worst for doom scrolling too, so much political misinformation from russian bots, endless rage baiting over gender wars and ive seen teens and multiple people with single digit ages conversing with adults and sharing these toxic sentiments... the adults argue with them as if they weren't and i only inagine peopoe feel so ashamed for debating a 9 year old over dating strategies 😂

At first, I couldn't fully understand why I would go for emotionally unavailable, abusive partners or just "friends" in general. It took me years to work out that both my parents were narcissistic. 1 was alcoholic the other, physically abusive. I don't know if I'll ever function normally in a healthy relationship. For the past 7 years I've been thinking that I'm not relationship material and it's totally ok. Being single is the right thing for me.

Make sure you have important papers ...she held onto my passport a year after the relationship.

My mother and my sister perfectly

they don't soften with age they definitely get worse. Using the threat of being disinherited is not even an issue as the golden child has the inheritance. Definitely limiting contact is real , and grey rock, not responding to their snipes.

Yup. That tracks. 😮

You're a genius 🧠

My mum is big people pleaser she was so overprotective and majority if the time forced me to go places that I didn't want to go to

Best part about having bad parents. No worries about them as they age. I could give two fucks!

I'm in No contact with my narcissistic neighbour. I try to not look or glance at him. Wouldn't he see my eye contact as supply?

This guy is literally talking out of his ass. He has no idea what the red pill movement really is. Had nothing to do with feminists or women!

Excellent. Timely. Thank you.

I had a question about the difference between emotional flashback and narcisistic rage. Basically I had a emotional flash back in hopsital cus basically doting on narcisistic ppl that are ages of 8-12 boile my blood. It's not really doting it's just what I call it kinda similar to when narcisistic parents hold court tho they get a different type of supply from it. Also lots of ppl mention being scapegoat and invisble child I find my self more a invisble child and truth teller 😢

This guy is being a simp for feminists 😅

On the contratry I always feel many people gaslight me, or hmm may be I gaslighting myself. I dunno, never mind ignore me

Lived through it for 25 years. Barely. It’s torture.

Everyone has narcissistic traits ... just some people are worse than others

No difference/ same difference

Because, the world is really a cut-throat place.

This guy is a douche. He's only partially right but also majorly incorrect In many ways. And telling people to report each other is the most spineless advice to give to people. That's why social media platforms give you the options of either scrolling away or blocking somebody so you don't need to see them.

My wife just sent me info on echoism last night and we both agree that it describes me to a T. Been married for 9 years now and just in the past 1-2 I've been progressing with self-care, but self-compassion feels so out of reach. It's awesome to put her name to my experience but still feel so unequipped to work on it. Do you have any recommendations like other videos or books?

Most emotionally immature people also tend to lack empathy, if you fall into this category please do not have kids. Your toxic traits will only be projected onto them and leave them with a lifetime of mental trauma.

If you are emotionally immature and incapable of showing empathy, please do not have kids. Your toxic traits will only be projected on to them and potentially leave them with incurable trauma.

That's shits weird

Thank you, thank you, thank you, Jim! For those of you grew up with a narcissistic parent and sociopathic sister, LET them GO. There is no fixing them. Save yourself. ☮️ 💕

EMDR was very beneficial for me!