Why do I have SA and my sis not?
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Trauma - Dissociation - Numbness
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@MichaelAbah-nu1bc
@MichaelAbah-nu1bc 11 сағат бұрын
Great video For me, I have a really strange quirky personality. I try acceptance but it’s hard to do with constant SOFT backlash. I understand “find your tribe” but how do find peace in the regular day to day?
@rickfrombohemia9550
@rickfrombohemia9550 Күн бұрын
In medical terms it's just about overactive amygdala, which is a part of the brain putting emotional stamps on memories. Some individuals (including me lol) are more sensitive / succumb to it more when experiencing similar events in present or thinking about future. That could be partly genetic imo (i.e. combination of "right" genes and certain triggers from your surroundings). One isn't born with SAD tremor etc. but with more and more memories and triggers it eventually happens, intensifies but probably reaches a peak at some point in life. Something like a "deliberate dissociation" or depersonalization help me, but sometimes it's really tricky to achieve it when the situation is for some reason too overwhelming for me.
@Ghostt.Protocol
@Ghostt.Protocol 2 күн бұрын
What is this tapping thing??
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 2 күн бұрын
Great video Seb - love your vulnerability in this one ❤
@Kp-mx1xi
@Kp-mx1xi 2 күн бұрын
Whaaaatttt? 🥹A whole video about my comment, oh my God, i feel so honored💖 thank you so much Sebastian i thought you would not even look at my comment, what a great surprise💝, you just responded me in a whole video, thats so sweet, you can't even imagine how much this means to me, thank you so much for taking your precious time to help me and others too that are experiencing the same problem, that shows how much you care about us, I promise I am going to work on it, You just gave me the precise tools to finally heal my heart❤️‍🩹 Now I feel more empowered than never before 💪🏻🦾🌪️⚡ God bless you Sebastian 🫶🏻😊❤
@ungarbagebin
@ungarbagebin 3 күн бұрын
I zoned out while listening to you😭😭😭
@Hi_how_r_u_
@Hi_how_r_u_ 5 күн бұрын
Always good hearing advice from people who went through this shit instead of someone who's merely reading theory. Also wondering did you purposefully chose this setting to record? (people in the background), it;s probably something you wouldn't have done before with social anxiety, good for you. Thanks for sharing your message i'm hoping to get rid of this insecure shit not being able to talk to people and connect
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 5 күн бұрын
Glad it's helpful. I don't think I purposely went to the airport to shoot the video, but I did think it was fine to have a noisy background with people potentially hearing me or watching me (what we often fear, but in reality people for the vast majority of the time don't care) as it shows this no longer is a problem for me ;)
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 7 күн бұрын
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@Social-anxiety-solutions
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@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 7 күн бұрын
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@taylorgoodin3513
@taylorgoodin3513 7 күн бұрын
I’m so confused. The more I “perform” the easier it is to “blend” and not bring extra attention to myself. I’ve noticed when I’m genuinely excited about topics / conversations once I express myself it usually puts me at a distance from my peers The eye rolls / cuts / snickering So I as I go off and find something to do to entertain myself the same ppl reach out to me I don’t get it.
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 5 күн бұрын
It might just be the crowd that you hang out with... If I start talking about healing your inner child to some of my old druggie friends, I'll experience the same! Some level of adjusting yourself to your environment is only common sense. And... how great would it be to hang out with people who -when you passionately speak about what you're into- reciprocate your passion? They exist. It's a big world ;)
@taylorgoodin3513
@taylorgoodin3513 4 күн бұрын
@@Social-anxiety-solutions im not sure. every job I ever had is that way. so I just try to stay neutral. talking to my therapist about this now. the hardline between making people uncomfortable being yourself and trying to blend
@212daniel3
@212daniel3 8 күн бұрын
U are such a blessing to us🥹❤ Love u broo Really need this🙌🏽❤
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 7 күн бұрын
🙏💪💪
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Want to overcome your Social Anxiety without awkwardly facing your fears? Start with the FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence "Mini Course! Bonus: Get a 22 minute Transformation Video to instantly reduce your Social Anxiety! Sign up and begin reducing your Social Anxiety today! bit.ly/socialconfidencenow
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Want to overcome your Social Anxiety without awkwardly facing your fears? Start with the FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence "Mini Course! Bonus: Get a 22 minute Transformation Video to instantly reduce your Social Anxiety! Sign up and begin reducing your Social Anxiety today! bit.ly/socialconfidencenow
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@Social-anxiety-solutions 9 күн бұрын
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@Social-anxiety-solutions 9 күн бұрын
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@natty_ankrah
@natty_ankrah 10 күн бұрын
I thought I was alone
@ruby9719
@ruby9719 12 күн бұрын
I have this problem where whenever someone gives me instructions or just tells me something, my brain instantly focuses on my facial expressions while listening to them rather than actually listening to them. This makes me miss a lot of what people say in convos. It sucks. I'm hating myself because of it. I am poor in following instructions in real life because I don't actually listen to people
@christinakaleta1162
@christinakaleta1162 10 күн бұрын
You are not alone in this. I deal with this problem, too. It seems like it has gotten worse for me over the last 5 years. It's so frustrating! I'm on the hunt trying to find a solution.
@vanwilderx2927
@vanwilderx2927 13 күн бұрын
I feel people will know what im thinking and more that they might get affected with this too, i try to pretend im careless because of same reason
@RDEYE-gx1pj
@RDEYE-gx1pj 14 күн бұрын
My aunt is very mean and always ready to curse argue about anything!! We live in SAME home and she's everything at once she's very mean and trouble making I feel nauseous around her ..I am trying very hard to avoid her shes horrible
@barakarichard9624
@barakarichard9624 14 күн бұрын
Hi seb... i wanna share my bit of progress. I've been tapping for three months 50 mins daily tapping. I usually judge my self so much of sweating as a sympton of Social Anxiety disorder. Today i went in more than 3 social situation that always trigger me. NO anticipatory anxiety... when i reached there i was sweating and i didnt have any reaction to it, people where looking at me.😂... what a progress. Tapping realy works. Thanks alot
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 12 күн бұрын
Hi @barakarichard9624, That's fantastic news! We're so happy to hear about your progress. 🥳 It's amazing that you've been able to face social situations without anticipatory anxiety and stay calm even when sweating. Keep up the great work with the tapping-it's clearly making a big difference. 💪 Thanks for sharing your success! Warm regards, Aira (Team Social Anxiety Solutions)
@amazonfire-hn6br
@amazonfire-hn6br 15 күн бұрын
Can we buy past prerecorded courses? I don’t know if that’s an option, but it would be cool
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 12 күн бұрын
Hi @amazonfire-hn6br, Thank you for your interest in our past pre-recorded courses! ☺ Regarding the webinars inside the club, they are exclusively available to our current members of the Social Confidence Club. However, we have a variety of other programs and courses that might interest you. Please visit our website to explore all the options we offer here: socialanxietysolutions.mykajabi.com/products If you have any questions or need further assistance, feel free to reach out. Aira (Team Social Anxiety Solutions)
@versaceace1567
@versaceace1567 16 күн бұрын
Actually worked!
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 16 күн бұрын
Awesome. This is just a taster, when you learn how to address social anxiety with tapping properly, you can overcome it completely and feel calm and at ease socially. Free mini course, the 7 secrets to social confidence: bit.ly.socialconfidencenow
@sandyavalos3305
@sandyavalos3305 18 күн бұрын
Nosey people make me anxious
@Dibbz_TV
@Dibbz_TV 20 күн бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this.
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 20 күн бұрын
Good to hear that, glad it's helpful :)
@Dibbz_TV
@Dibbz_TV 20 күн бұрын
@@Social-anxiety-solutions Thank you so much ❤️ 2024 has been rough for a recently social aware with ptsd. God bless
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 19 күн бұрын
@@Dibbz_TV Sorry to hear that. Studies have shown that tapping is very effective for PTSD. Take care 🙏
@Transform_with_Tea
@Transform_with_Tea 20 күн бұрын
This is superrrrr helpful thank you!!
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 20 күн бұрын
Awesome :)
@dri_pygrogu586
@dri_pygrogu586 22 күн бұрын
Great advice bro
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 20 күн бұрын
Thank you!🙏
@amazonfire-hn6br
@amazonfire-hn6br 22 күн бұрын
This is such a good video. I never thought about his ears 👂 and I never focused on them until he mentioned them. Even looking at them now, they’re normal and fit Sebastians face (in a positive way). My own social anxiety disorder started at 12
@Social-anxiety-solutions
@Social-anxiety-solutions 22 күн бұрын
Thank you!🙌
@brandongunn5367
@brandongunn5367 23 күн бұрын
my hands shake 24-7 but it’s not noticeable for others but me how do i fix
@juliecano9691
@juliecano9691 25 күн бұрын
I had an incident at my son's school. This lady was raising her voice. I was with my son , we were in line to get a snow cone The kids were having a color run event the line got shuffled around and everyone was trying to get their place in line. These kids like in 5th grade cut in front of the little kids. The adult decided to raise herself voice and embarrass them. We got our snow cone and I reported the incident to the teacher. They wanted me to talk to the principal to file a report I was so upset I was shaking both of my hands. I wasn't able to file the report due to the fact I was scared for the teacher. a teacher was raising her voice embarrassing these little kids. She was wrong there was a time and place for that situation and she handled it wrong. I'm going to file a report to the principal. Possibility even with the school board and the police.
@uzayluzaylu6069
@uzayluzaylu6069 25 күн бұрын
1.54 i started laughing😂😂
@Lala20257
@Lala20257 26 күн бұрын
I think I need someone i can talk to in the same boat as me. So if you are here and willing< let's talk. Maybe we can work on this thing together and update each other on our progress. I cant feel this way anymore because it has been hindering me in so many important areas in my life