❤ this is your best video ❤️

Get out of my head 🫂

Thank you for this!

Being 42 I connect with so much of what you talked about in this video. UPS and downs, highs and lows, joys and sorrows. This is such an interesting time that I’m learning to embrace.

I had a baby girl at 41. Got pregnant at 40 and she was born when I was 41. 😅such a blessing I thought I would never be a mom.

This is really encouraging. I think many of us need to do this reflection beyond self care - giving ourselves grace for the ways life did not work out.

Love this video. Really deep and authentic conversation about the realities of life. I don’t come by real videos like this on realities of aging

Thanks you Scarlett to Share your winsdom. Its just the Beginn 😊

Scarlett thank you for sharing your thoughts on being 42! Social media is awash in glamorizing youth so it’s so refreshing to see someone in their 40’s talk about how good life can be in this era!

I hope to have a lovely friendship with my future adult children (no kids yet) one day. Growing with a toxic mother, I decided to refrain from going that road.

Are you going to do Any more vlogs????? I use to love those

Very good...can you link the hair spray?

49 year old mom here of three adult children…ages 20, 26, 31. The empty nest syndrome is very real and after mommying 30 years, navigating this new “life” is scary and different and just trying to figure out what I like, how I like it, etc because I’m not ripping and running and running and ripping! We do a lot as moms so embracing the change and being able to take a step back and focus on self is NICE!!

For me thinking about aging has been linked to not being able to have kids and living my life month by month. I closing to 40 and I want to feel like myself and not so much like what society wants me to become

This was so beautifully said❤❤❤

The second half of this video resonated with me. I'm 41 without children and realizing that door is shutting. I have a family member that I have been estranged from for over 10 years and am learning to accept it. Just moving forward with life as it is.

You look 10 to 12 years younger and beautiful skin.

Happy Birthday! You are correct with that reflection. I did a paper test, folded it in 10 sections and tore off the time I've lived - the time I would still be in great shape and was scared that the time was ticking a lot faster. Great perspective.

I’m in my forties and I’ve noticed we look much younger than I thought forty-something would look like! I’ve just started getting joint pain and thinking of how that will affect my future. Also now starting to notice beginning of wrinkles too.

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Im starting to make a vision board today.

Thanks for sharing, one of my fears is the "fear of the un-lived life" i pray i get to live the life i desire 🙏

Happy birthday 🎂 🎉

42 but looking 24 ❤!

Aging beautifully!💗💗 Glad you’re back after not posting for SO long!

Happy belated birthday and thank you for sharing! ❤🙌🏿

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Thank you for sharing your story Scarlett. I have been listening to other peoples stories about changing their name as I am starting the process myself. I am 65 and I realize it is late in the game for me to do this but I feel to be true to myself, I am doing it. I have never resonated with my birth name. As a child in elementary school, I remember writing other names on my papers as I never identified with my name. My first name came from someone my mother was friends with, this was not a family member. I knew this person and I have nothing against her but I felt it was someone else's name and not one I identified with. My father was originally from another country, when he became a US citizen before I was born he took a different name. He lived in Italy and changed his last name to that of an Opera House in Naples. I have never identified with my first or last name. So I am actually changing it to my fathers birth name, When I say the name I feel a lightness if being on the inside. I am taking a feminine version of his first name. I can't explain it but it just gives me happiness and joy! It truly resonates. I have a family history , blood line and DNA with the name, I have none of than with my birth name.

Thank you so much for bringing up the origins of a name and race/ethnicity. I’ve been struggling to pick a name based on whether it’s a name usually used with someone different than I. I’m glad you’ve* found the one for you 💛

How did you start to be a lawyer and why

I am using cousin cell as well :::::::; and do homeschooling as well need as well reaching tool

New on there's

I miss you and your teachings! 💛

This video speaks to me 😊

I like Scarlet. 😍😍

9 years of trying never been pregnant NOTHING. 💔 we finally found out a year ago in April 2023 we were finally expecting unbelievable thought I’ll never see TWO pink lines after being told for years I’ll never conceive kids naturally🥹💔💔💔💔 but unfortunately that ended on MAY 10 2023 ectopic(stuck inside my tube) had to get emergency surgery I was only 6 weeks & 5 days💔💔💔I miss being pregnant so crazy how quick a pregnancy can go away💔😢 so we seen a IVF SPECIALIST IN FEBRUARY 2024 he told me he wishes they took my other fallopian (left)tube out because it’s still blocked & inflamed so than he tells me I have to LOSE WEIGHT there’s a weight limit at my IVF CLINIC IN SOUTH NJ I was currently weighting at 273 he told me I needed to lose a lot of weight & that I needed to be at 260 for the egg retrieval surgery just in case anything happens if I stayed at the weight I was so I left his office in February crying didn’t know what else to do or how to lose the weight so I cut out a lot of junk food, fast food, sodas I barely drink that anyways but still cut that out, also candy, bread, pastas, pizza and started drinking more & more water everyday that’s all I would drink like 5 water bottles a day & also seeing a herbal life nutritionist who helped me a lot to lose the weight and it worked wonders I was going to the gym everyday kept pushing myself I told myself if I really want this baby I would do whatever it takes to have this baby so I went into the office MAY 13 I REACHED THE GOAL WEIGHT I FINALLY WEIGH 249.9 so we finally had a set date to start our IVF JOURNEY JUNE 23 2024 but unfortunately they rescheduled me because my doctor wants me to go to their office & spend 800$ out of pocket since they don’t take my health insurance for the HSG SONOGRAM to see if my other tube is open or blocked I suggested that I go to the hospital and schedule an appointment for that procedure so my health insurance could pay for it but they said NO they rather have me do it at their office they get results same day😫😡🤦🏻‍♀️I already told my nurse that I know he’s only doing it to see if they need to remove it or not but I told them if that’s the case I AM SEEKING FERTILITY TREATMENTS SOMEWHERE ELSE FOR A SECOND OPINION💔💔💔 so we start July 2024 if everything goes well with my HSG SONOGRAM🙏🏻🤞🏻

Resourceful. Innumerous information can be gleaned from this one video alone. Bellissima!

Hello my name 👋🏽 is Chaleika ❤️👸🏽❤️ & I am 23 & a half years old young autistic female person. But soon is about to turn 24 this summer 🏝️🌞🏖️ which is actually going to be on the 9th of August. So anyways I just recently decided not to go by one of my 2 middle names anymore which was actually assigned to me at birth by my both parents Rokeisha right next to Ester just quite literally because I didn't like how that one middle name Rokeisha was pronounced, or spelled that way. While growing up & not just only that I've gotten bullied like ever since when I was in elementary school 🏫🎒 right through to high school too like pretty much all of my whole entire life. Meaning that I have been having a very low self-esteem like that also does includes by moving to many different cities like eight times in my life. & even too by switching many different schools like pretty much like eleven times. Which wasn't very fun for me at all. Just quite literally because I didn't have many friends 😢😭 while, growing up. Like even too that I have also started to realize about the whole fact that my second middle name rose 🌹 was actually supposed to be assigned to at birth by just only from my dad too in real life. Just quite literally because I was given by a most very beautiful lovely ring that I actually used to have 💍 which did had a pink rose 🌹 stone on it too like ever since when I was just at the age of 12 while growing up down in southern Hamilton Ontario of Canada. Just a little further away from in the city of Toronto that I used to live too. And btw the reason why that I have decided to call myself rose 🌹 as my second middle name just quite literally because. I have really truly do feel like a rose 🌹 just right inside of my heart ❤️ & not just only that I also did found that one middle name rose 🌹 more suitable for me. Just like my sister who is actually both the youngest in the family. Yes 😉❤️ most definitely at a 💯% for sure indeed.

Love this! I am so glad I met you and your family because you join our club to play tennis!!

Hi, thank you for the inspiring videos. You mentioned in previous videos how you managed to get your law degree even though you were making very little money, I wonder how did you manage to fund your law degree while supporting yourself and your daughter?

You are legit my online life coach! Such amazing advice!

Thanks for sharing all of this! It's so reassuring to hear such relatable insights.

The main issue is the unforseen factors. No one can guarantee anything - good 8% return on investment, secure job, healthy body, forever good housing market or low mortgage percentage. We know for fact that consistent investing will win and housing value usually go up. Other than that, it's all psychology. I would rather establish a plan to do the middle ground - do some investment, make some extra payment payment for mortgage and pay off mortgage a little earlier (but not too crazily early). Able to sleep at night is my plan for success.

Love your video. Thanks for sharing

Great video. I ate up every word

So does that involves litigation when working with the government against banks?

Making time for hobbies like tennis and carving out time for fun really stood out to me and it’s something I want to implement.

Love the reflections on success markers and being vulnerable and open to life pivots

Wow❤

Happy Mother's Day!