My neighbor is a textbook know-it-all. Her life is a total disaster yet she still judges other people and acts like she’s some supreme intellectual. She told me she doesn’t like to be around people who aren’t “working on their shit” even though she is quite literally a gigantic mess.

This seems to be more work related. My problem is with my brother. Several of my friends have said “he thinks he knows everything”. It embarrasses me.

I have a friend like this

I just came home from a friend's house early because of this I don't understand it this is what she does she'll ask me a question I'll answer her and then she'll say no its not your wrong or no I don't really think so but she does it over the smallest of things or she has tried twisting situations to where like say she buys me something months prior then I (say it's a shirt) I wear it she says that's cute shirt where'd you get and I'm like you bought it for me and she's like no I didn't I'm like yes you did .. it's little stuff like this but it adds up plus just last night I caught her in another contradiction/lie about her home life growing up and certain stories she has told me before , we just happened to talk about it like 10 hours ago again and she completely changed her story for the 3rd time which leads me to believe she is making certain memories up about her childhood/life growing up ..why?? I have no idea but she seems like habitual liar/ covert narcissist possibly. I just don't know what to do cus I've known her for like 14 years been friends with her during that time I do love her but I know if I confront her she will deny it and say I'm just trying to argue with her

In this life.. Know-it-alls know absolutely nothing. Insecurity is a hell of a drug.

Like every person in LA.

Her name should be Google.

Thank you! Great show!

That person, is my EX. I just couldn’t take it anymore. I wish I had seen this video a few months back. I didn’t have the proper tools to deal with him. He literally said others see his value and respect his knowledge. He would speak to me like I was a child , constantly. I’m in my 40’s. He said part of his provision is being my earthly dad.

I honestly have a hard time being empathetic to insecurity. Because a lot of times these know it alls can be extremely rude and i dont get why people fall for that.

Thank you for your knowledge

grazie 😊

Learn them all.

I don’t care

These people are so ANNOYING 😠

Lol

Man, your really a know it all on this subject. Jk, good video

I have a colleague who is a know it all just joined my company recently now he teaches my boss and me. 😂😂. They are impossible to change.

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I find myself in this video. I am insecure

I like this but what if it's your ex that lives with u and every single day is a comment about this is hetter, Commenting, criticizing. Controlling..gets upset if u don't agree..etc etc I have to control my frustration esp because he is loving and Caring but omg I feel mentally tortured sometimes! Help! And we have spoken about it so much! Ugh

The most important part is to have a heart ♥️ to heart 💜 conversation with the other person 🧍 but that might not always work but it is worth a try.

I know a lot of people who think they know everything and are better than everyone else. It is frustrating that there are so many people like that out there

If you say you’ve been there they have been there too and then you get to hear about it before you even finish your story.

Ugh, we have a high-ranking chef at my catering job who is stuck up. On one of her first days, we were doing a service at this university's hockey/basketball location, and she was telling us how to do things the "right" way, acting like an experienced leader. Thing is, _we've_ been doing this service for years; _she_ was new, and already acting like she knew better than us. She practically said she was better than us. And last week, she got in my face about filter. Apparently I said something wrong, but I don't even know what; she never specified, and she told me I can only talk about work and school. That is absurd and unreasonable. And the next day, she told me she wasn't trying to give it to me (while gesturing like an angry person), she was trying to help me be successful. Oh, why? Because I'm a big Ioser without her help?

I got one at the workplace. I let them talk it up, then when I need them they are there for me.

In the workplace I think its better to tell them in front of a group. Speaking to them alone opens up an opportunity for false statements of bullying against you. These days its important to cover yourself in the workplace. Find a nice way to establish peace again

Gosh im dealing this a friend thats a know it all, lately ive been distancing myself cause i thought i was the problem then i stumbled across your video and you described the kind of person she is

I remember one time I had a conversation with someone and she explained some facts that I challenged. She then said, you think you know it all. I'm far from perfect but in today's society even challenging someone's fact will be dealt with passive-aggressiveness. I wanted to listen to this video to get a better perspective and I can't find myself in any of these signs.

I just became a supervisor at work (it's really not a title I hold to, I still do my old job too, I just also do other things now), and I have to deal with this 16-17 year old kid (I'm aware they're a kid, and I hope they grow out of it), who's constantly talking loudly, thinks they're the best at their job while they're often on their phone and talking with coworkers instead of focused, and is constantly trying to prove themselves a "better supervisor" than me despite them actually not being one. They want to become a teacher and enjoy french, both admirable, but instead of saying the truth that they're doing an internship in helping to teach a class on choosing careers in french, they keep telling people they "teach French". I could go on, but they're just impossible to talk with in any grounded way. I already try not to speak with them outside of necessity to get the job done, but it gets draining to hear them speak at times. I also feel bad cause they're a kid... but I hope they get some humility over time and don't stay stuck in narcissist land forever.

I praise my husband all the time. This just makes it worse. If I don't give into him, he tries to make me feel bad for not listening to him.

I love how you use the " she" because it mostly is women I work in a female orientated profession, and it's a big problem. Especially with the younger workers

this is like exactly me . but I don't know how to change this personality. I feel I know everything after it turns out wrong .then I question is i am stupid or did I learnt it wrong . then how I did got wrong. 😢😢😢 anyone suggestion is welcomed

I just had to cut off a friend that I've known for almost 35 years because he was just like this and after all of those years I finally couldn't take it anymore.

You prolonged so much in start

U can tell by that shirt hes been castrated for a long time

I just say what i need to say without trying to offend you. Fed up with not being able to say what you want. We was less offensive when it was like that,as we was all a bit more chilled ,with all what is going on in the world and in our life we have become defensive over the little things that do not matter. Just shame we losing how to speak to each other before we shout. Remember we are all the same ,but just have our differences. Peace out people.

My equals at work? Believe me, I make fun of them to their face about being a know it all then proceed to ignore them. It has worked 100% of them time brotha

Or, just tell them: "Thank you for the tip" and go back to what you were doing.

Thank you for this!

Sometimes at laugh but sometimes they r annoying. I don't need to be schooled on shit I've mastered thank u

I laugh at KIA MFs. Let them ASSume, talk over you, and not listen. Don't say anything. Let them make an a** of themselves. Then klown them. Put them in their place. They won't approach you again with the KIA sh**t. I cuss my sister out all the time when she THINKS she's right.😂😂😂😂. Afterwards, she doesn't want to say anything to me. Bye culo!

Very often, people who simply share information are labeled as know it alls by other insecure people. Important to make that distinction. I think this video is rather describing rude, overbearing people who don’t respect boundaries.

what if i told you... that having a lot of knowledge about something doesnt make you a know-it-all or means that you have a big ego. if someone is right about a lot of things that doesnt make them a bad person.

Nobody likes a know it all! White folks be thinking they know it all😂😂😂😂

All good advice. But sometimes complementing them only makes their head swell and their attitude gets worse. More so If all of these compliments are encouraged by others in a Tactless way. Eventually, the person becomes hard to deal with as now they live in a delusional state of mind thinking they do indeed know everything. You can't feed bad behaviour with good rewards. And the worst thing about people of this nature is they talk over the top of others in conversation and are really quite forceful with the Topic. Gernrelly it is always centered on them. Trying to have a conversation at times is down and outright rude.

Great advice! There are so many of these people, including on the internet ;) Maybe that’s why society can be so dysfunctional and disconnected.

Most know it all just telling opinions none of the stuff they saying is set in stone they always I would have did this are that more than one way to do stuff so go sit yo ass down and get out of my face

This is ridiculous. Ive tried killing with kindness. Its never worked for me or anyone else. It can make things worser xx