I do not understand HOW to let go of attachments to people. Therefore I am single indefinitely and have only one friend and no other relationships. It seems that the loner life is the type of lifestyle that will cause me the least suffering because relationships bring me suffering and when I’m in relationships, I cause those people suffering.
@ME-ot2ceАй бұрын
This should be seen by millions
@sharonwyus12 ай бұрын
❤
@thomthegotti4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this Masterpiece!❤
@nuthainguyen77706 ай бұрын
NAMO Budhaya 🙏🙏🙏
@renclairerjclarito94436 ай бұрын
2014 I watched this video because I was badly heart broken. now December 22 2023 I watch this again, I searched for it to remind myself 😢😢😢❤❤❤
@ChaiTogether6 ай бұрын
Then I’ve loved.❤
@anto9757 ай бұрын
How does one overcome attachments to places, our city our house and learn to let them go? This helps with relationships with people but I wish it could help with my problem I have to move for financial reasons but I love this house and city my birth city and I've lived here a long time and I am too attached to this house and to this city to let them go. The last time I tried to move 2 hours before the movers came I had a severe panic attacks that stopped only when they said ok we're turning around.... thank you to whoever can help
@Summer-tk8yk8 ай бұрын
I love you, thank you ❤
@zunfeu74308 ай бұрын
Understood, but hard to follow
@meganitpossible33048 ай бұрын
This brought me to tears. Thank you for your wise words <3
@willkeir1559 ай бұрын
Wisdom, truly appreciated. 🙏🏼
@avillagestory-abcsinitiati987310 ай бұрын
Someone sent me this video link to tell me what he thinks of me. But unfortunately that is only unreal and acting remains to me.
@dr.kenmiller4227 Жыл бұрын
☺️👨🎨🎨🎼🥰😜
@official7809an Жыл бұрын
Is it unconditional love.?
@cosmicpuma Жыл бұрын
Love is the only truth, it is not a mere sentiment but the very essence of creation. Love, the energy, is the absence of everything else.... like light is the absence of darkness, not the presence of light, so Love, not the romantic kind but rather the universal kind, is the absence of everything else...the absence of greed, hate, fear, discrimination, guilt, shame etc.... thus, it is the only truth.
@cosmicpuma Жыл бұрын
Saw this a while back and it remains the best insight Iand advice 've ever heard about loing another.
@smorgasorc6864 Жыл бұрын
No disrespect towards Buddhism because I respect Buddhism a lot. I think it's one of the few religions on earth that actually make a good bit of sense. BUT this sounds awfully similar to when my dad always says nobody should ever have pets because all that happens is you get attached to them just for them to die. Just because everyone and everything you will ever love in this lifetime dies, doesn't mean you shouldn't get attached to anything or anyone. Also, attachment and love don't have to be separate things in order for love to be real or pure.
@ajitthorat2008 Жыл бұрын
very nicely explained! but somehow its the way human emotions work, attachment is integral part of life. For e.g. Look at attachment between mother & son or daughter so its more about self realization of this attachment knowingly instead of resisting with it. Human survival exists because of desire and attachment otherwise everyone will become Buddha :)
@JC60143 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it's me but, I feel like when she says "in our relationships" I have interpreted it to mean, friends, family, partners, and strangers. I have not seen a single post about other forms of relationships and I wonder if people truely understand that this can be applied to all relationships then just your partner.
@lukedahl8502 Жыл бұрын
NAILED IT!
@jamisedenari2449 Жыл бұрын
This is deep. Even in our loneliness it is only our attachment that makes us feel this way. Letting go of attachment of craving and clinging is the way
@ferdikadatu687 Жыл бұрын
If you want someone you love happy, you must have joy first in you heart. God bless you
@rb3CPO Жыл бұрын
Authentic love also says, “I’m already happy, and want to see you happy too”. Wonderful video 🙏
@Angel-dj3hn Жыл бұрын
So it was attachment all along...
@lebo3793 Жыл бұрын
There is a difference between bond and bondage. Union and yoga is bonding
@justmejm Жыл бұрын
Powerfulllllll
@1luv4j Жыл бұрын
Everything is love when we make the value of zero nirvana is love. Love is a heart expression not brain selfish narsisest ego brain feelings. Love taies 2 way streets. It a force that dont force it catalyzes. Let go, be, flow. Peace in stillness zin nirvana merkaba shaktipat. Peace
@50centricher9 Жыл бұрын
THIS is what I'm looking for
@50centricher9 Жыл бұрын
because THIS is the truth
@otheusischirosathanatos1035 Жыл бұрын
Wow perfectly said❤
@kjh77006 Жыл бұрын
💓
@amarshrivastava2753 Жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@boyakishore7662 Жыл бұрын
Good understanding about things and thank you for making it simple for us...🥰
True love is about caring, freedom and selflessness where as attachment is selfish and has no freedom
@orii-raepoole5446 Жыл бұрын
But wanting the other to be happy is still an attachment. True love is acceptance of whatever is happening
@LIVdaBrand Жыл бұрын
0:45 this is why narcissists will always be an empty shell. Cuz it’s all about them.
@lenk26602 жыл бұрын
This video kinda slap me hard it showing me that i actually kinda have an attachment problem
@Shhells192 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@katiagajewski2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@cyntcam91052 жыл бұрын
ive been dealing with attachment all of my life. i am learning how to get rid of this.
@JotaTondi2 жыл бұрын
Crystal clear ! I needed this .
@margaretquitoriano97302 жыл бұрын
The person I loved the most sent me this when he wasn’t ready to commit.
@Nicmmm4 ай бұрын
Ditto
@pranav79312 жыл бұрын
Beautifully explained
@pradnyatambe25992 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for this, am feeling so relief
@kundansanap10422 жыл бұрын
Am in a very bad situation, am attached to my best frnd and have started expecting same things from that person, I know that's wrong but my heart is out of control.. It's literally like if that person is not around, I am not able to function properly, but how to get out of this situation.. This is d toughest phase of my life to deal with.. Someone plz tell me what should I do.??