I was nearing the end of a toxic abusive relationship during Covid and trapped in the house with my ex. I had a major heart surgery and was on heavy meds. We hadn’t slept together in over six months and he was supposed to be sleeping on the couch downstairs. One night I didn’t take the narcotics and awoke to him Sexually Assaulting me And Called the Police. They had refused to make him leave when he destroyed my property and threatened me but a Rape kit was UNDENIABLE Evidence. If you don’t treat us right Outside the bedroom, We DON’T just Disconnect Once We’re In it. We are Not 🤖 Robots….😌

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When a couple experiences difficulties it doesn’t mean the sex is gone, if you’re happy to be intimate and work on the issues at hand that’s a great way to keep the connection. No where in this video did he say anything about abuse just saying before any one throws that in

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Im shame free 😔 Oh yeah 😎 😊 A man still has passion for the satisfying feeling. My brother 👎 she looking for getting passion and pleasure. With, Out commitment or control 🤔 💯 partner ⁉️🤗

Women feel the same way.

That's why I am single, sex is an abuse for me especially when things don't go well

I am a woman who believes real love can't be turned on and off like a faucet. I can be mad at my husband but being mad does not change my love for him and vice versa. I get that most women have sex for the emotional connection and for men, it's more about pleasure but the woman who asked the question needs to ask herself how would she feel if he was the one withholding affection/sex? Why is she mad that even in anger he still wants/desires her? I believe a partner no matter whether male or female is inviting trouble into a relationship when they withhold affection because it clearly says I only love you in the good times. Realistically everyone should know there's never gonna be 100% good times in a relationship. Pick a partner that you can love completely in the good times and bad times. The singer Avant said it best "Love me when it hurts".

"We are what we think about"

Nah bro. To her the problem is that you're angry. To you it's what caused you the anger. She is able to overlook the cause of the disagreement while the man can't,because he is naturally a fixer.

Why do you wish to be protected and provided for when you don't get along? You do want to eat the food he provides, you do want to sleep under the roof he provides? You tangibly provide one thing to a relationship and it is sex. Nothing else tangible that he needs you for. He does his duty. You do yours.

If we’re fighting, touch me at your own risk☠️☠️☠️

Men use women purely for sexual needs...whether they are married or not. Just the facts of life.

That's also why men can cheat so easily with other women than their spouse. They don't care about emotional attachment. It is just the pleasure of sex for them.

Men are telling you they see you as utility. Believe them

What baffles me is what these people call intimacy. They call sex, which is a physical experience for them intimacy, but they do not value intimacy with their partners. Intimacy means sex, even if that sex is without intimacy.

Women are more evovled in the prefrontal cortext and when it comes to dealing with and evaluating emotions and a lot of men hate it bc they know they dont have that ability and they punish and use women as a result, bc at the end of the day they feel like they NEED sex. Sex for ALOT of men is no more than eating a very good sandwhich. When ure done eating u just throw the scraps away and wipe ur face (in their case its their d***) and u dont think about it again until the next time their hungry. And some day u dont want a sandwhich, u want a meatloaf or a cherry pie maybe some icecream with the sandwhich and maybe for a while u dont eat sandwhiches and u try some okra soup. Thats why its so easy for them to cheat and I promise ypu they dont act like they dont care. They REALLY dont care until u take that away from them and they no longer have access bc how dare u tell them they cant keep eating ur sandwhiches. A lot of men lack the nessccary requitements to have healthy long lasting relationships and women suffer bc we keep thinking that theyre like us, and we suffer bc we keep trying to impose this idealization on them. In lame mans terms U bought a honda with a BMW emblem on it, and wonder why when u look for parts when its btojen it dosent fit, and u look at other bmws and its just not the same as yours and then u find out this whole time thr honda wasnt even the bmw and not only did u get tricked but u invested wayyyyy more for something u didnt even want in the first place and since life isnt fair no one is going to shed a tear, that the con man of a car dealer tricked u into spending ur time money and emotional efforts into this thing u thought was an asset but is now a major liability that is going to affect u long after its gone. Thats why so many women are chosing not to be with men anymore. But they need us biologically (with the exception of the unicorn man, a man who is actually worth comprasing which is wwaaayyy.more rare than society made it seem) so when u tell a grown toddler of a man no more cookies bc you cant behave, we all know what comes after. And hey say men are more logical? No they are more selfishly enclined and the world encourages it.

Stop marrying,problem solved

Nooo. Women Need to be stimulated

Very sound advice. It's nice to hear people using their platforms to offer positivity and upliftment

THIS WAS VERY ON POINT. I WAS GENUINELY IMPRESSED 😇 x🦸🏽‍♂️x

I would say women take longer, we practice the silent treatment

Hahahahahahah oh my. 😂😂😂 I'm glad im building a childfree community of women. Don't want to be bothered. Yuck. Just thinking of this disturbs me. 🤢

An uncle told me that a man can have ten children with a woman and not love or be in love with her. That was an eye opener for me.

Bad vibes, no sex for women.

GOD MADE US BOTH TO FELL THAT WAY! MEN ARE JUST MORE SELF-CENTERED BECAUSE SOCIETY ALLOWS IT! UNTIL THEIR LUST BACKFIRE ON THEIR LIVES AND THEY LASH OUT ON SOCIETY AND HAVE TO BE 🥊!

Or cheat

Lol I'm glad that is not me. Lol we going to F...k and we going to get that argument back started. 😅😅😅😅 Lol especially if so good. 😊😊

In the eyes of many men, and legally, sex is a form of forgiveness. Its a way fot them to sidestep accountability and responsibility. They don't want to get to the root of the disagreement. They don't want to find a resolution to the problem. They don't want to create a system or boundaries to ensure that things don't escalate to being a problem again. Nope. They'd rather pivot towards their carnal desires and think with their little head. By pivoting to sex, they're manipulating their spouse. Its a show of force. Its a way to dominate. Men who are about having and maintaining power in the relationship do mess like this. This time he's ASKING for sex. Next time, he may not ask ...

He shuts down so he doesn't kick ur azz!!!!!!😂😂😂❤

And then men say they are capable.of love😂 this just proves they are not. He can put you in boxes and sometimes take you off the shelf ,sometimes not. I swear to god men deserve nothing .

A ton of these husbands out here actually abusing their wife and expect sex like they’re stellar people.

Mens souls are more infested with lust as opposed to woman I believe it's genetic not particularly a fault of the man just his largest flaw. Sex is as important to men as water is to a fish they can only be without it for so long. He's giving a scientific explanation which sounds better than the bare truth.

Wow.

So then use your hand

It's also a place of healing. Most women who go ahead and make love in those times feel a lot better afterwards and good communication comes as well.

Because a man's need to unload his testicles every 24 hrs has nothing to do with him being in love or desiring you. A man will unload in a woman he hates. He wants you to submit to his carnal desires regardless of the circumstance.

Could also be that the man, considers the sex as a sign of long-term commitment despite the temporary challenges

He's evil

It's an activity for them, they can have it anyway, like exercise, don't have to be connected.😮

Perfectly explained. Trying to balance the communication tug-of-war is exhausting. Having the right words in the moment is tough…I wish I had heard this before communication was lost. 😞

Stonewalling is immature. Its equal to a child covering his ears and refusing to talk because they are upset. Why do GROWN women need to baby GROWN men? If the women is at fault for her approach, than a mature man would be able to communicate that to her. Most of the time men/women Stonewall to avoid accountability

Men needs his lady or hell go eksewhere.

EWWWWWW thats so Rapey. That ColourPurple shit. Ceiley with the belt buckles across the bed

Women are like the energizer bunny They will repeat one issue over and over to wear the man down. Because they have to get their way. Observe keenly a man that stonewall. It is most likely on an issue brought up 100times

…because it’s your HUSBAND! 🤨 Boyfriend, “situationships”, etc. you can walk away. But in a MARRIAGE, there are responsibilities on BOTH sides. Now, I would advise the husband to FALLBACK in that situation because that sort of intimacy can build resentment. But, if you’re going to get married in a CHURCH.. using a Bible, Koran, or Tora, I highly advise reading it first..

FILL YOUR OWN NEEDS 👐 DAMN!!

When we’re mad at each other we’re still intimate if we’re in the mood. I never tell him no and he never tells me me no. We have good enough sense to let the other sleep if we had a particularly hard day but for the most part, but neither has been unfulfilled. We just talk better shit to one another. “You know you’re wrong, right.” “Why can’t you just listen to me like I’m listening to you call my name.” “I hate how you piss me off then love me like this.” Do not let your anger ruin the relationship. You can both be mad before, during 😊, and after. I remember one night after an argument about “herb”, he was turned his back on me after we pecked “good night”. His voice is extremely deep, like Bain’s from Batman (the movie not the cartoon). I pressed myself against his back - it was on. “I’m still mad at you but I love you” both of us saying something like that during. A quick shower. Then we fell asleep with our legs wrapped together. I apologized in the morning because I’m usually wrong 😂 and then we made up😉. It’s not convenient. It’s keeping the relationship loving and compartmentalization - for us.

I get it, men dont often get enough physical affection, so when it comes to sex. They get all their affecrion that way. Maybe time to change up the affecrion game in general. Cause if I am arguing with someone. I dont always fully like them in the moment. And physical intimacy wont be easy.

It is selfish