Episode 81: Is Divorce A Failure?
14:39
Episode 77: Is a 50/50 Split Fair?
22:37
Episode 65: The 10 Year Itch
18:19
Episode 64: Alone But Not Lonely
12:53
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@user-bk3qi4tf4n
@user-bk3qi4tf4n 4 күн бұрын
Is there any attorneys that help when you're financially abused and abandoned over two years ago and done your own divorce online and are starving and going to be homeless with your son because he's not paying alimony and child support at all your family won't help you
@Shell-jq6re
@Shell-jq6re 9 күн бұрын
Can I relicate to another state if he has no legal or physical custody and no visitation? Also domestic violence was involved and 2 protective orders in place.
@amyteurlife9408
@amyteurlife9408 9 күн бұрын
I think science is showing it is not a spectrum that everyone or almost everyone has. There may be a difference between degrees of selfishness and true narcissism. There are actual brain differences in the frontal lobe and amygdala. Thank you for your information it is very helpful.
@raihanislam1902
@raihanislam1902 22 күн бұрын
Texas time pls
@Mona_HSP
@Mona_HSP Ай бұрын
25k by cashback for 6 months- is this correct? In other words, 2k per week in cashback in Publix ?
@MrProfessional777
@MrProfessional777 Ай бұрын
How often do GALs lie?
@Orochimaru5353
@Orochimaru5353 Ай бұрын
That is complete bullshit so if I’m paying monthly when she’s remarried, makes no sense that still gotta pay who the fuck made up these fucking laws
@clintwarden6681
@clintwarden6681 2 ай бұрын
Are you kidding me? How is a functional alcoholic gonna drive the kids to ball games? When the get in a wreck and the kids are dead then what?
@DesireeVaughan
@DesireeVaughan 2 ай бұрын
Very informative that you
@lookyhere3725
@lookyhere3725 3 ай бұрын
This is a ridiculous rich person talk. 😂 $5000 each AFTER bills?!! 😂😂😂
@eltielt1609
@eltielt1609 3 ай бұрын
Govts around the world have adopted this extreme feminist gynocentric misandristic system I'm from Africa and basically a man has no chance in court against a woman nomatter the case. False rape accusations are a well known revenge tool used by women (WELL KNOWN). Getting a men's wealth via divorce has become a norm (it used to be soon as you finish building your family house then you "kick the bucket" hence instant $100k house for the widow....loads of widowed women in suburbs) It's not safe out here in westernized socities
@annoravetz5188
@annoravetz5188 3 ай бұрын
So in 2015, I had to cash my defined benefit pension, in order to pay half the equity I owed to my spouse’s bankruptcy receiver (Under our agreement I owed him .25 of the equity $47,000, when son turned 18) to be able to keep my house where both myself and both of my kids, who were college students at the time, lived. My former company happened to be having a cash out option at the time. I paid the rest with savings in an IRA. I need to amend this return to get my pension cash out excused from any taxes. Apparently the law was changed in 2019, but do I have any hope because this happened to me in 2015? My AGI that year was $105,000, but my earned income was only about $60,000.
@psychicmediumtree8743
@psychicmediumtree8743 3 ай бұрын
Excellent video! Thank you.
@oooodaxteroooo
@oooodaxteroooo 3 ай бұрын
i think one very important thing to realize in the beginning is that women cant have an inside view of masculinity and men no inside view of femininity. were just fundamentally different. we can argue about role models etc, but that is built on top of the experience.
@nichole_exposing_unseen_enemy
@nichole_exposing_unseen_enemy 4 ай бұрын
I’m not wanted in my parents house so I can finish my bachelor degree because my oldest is high functioning autistic and challenge to get her to clean up after herself! Yeah, I’d love to power through my education to get my bachelor’s degree but my mom has a rotten controlling heart who didn’t want to help me to begin with. I hate that my dad has to walk on eggshells around my mom though he’s the one providing all the financial means for her to live like a privileged Karen where she is super critical and complains so much, even over which purse to wear! I’ve been in serious conflict, move out and finish my bachelor’s degree slowly and go “no-contact” with my mom who no longer cares or stay at my parents and power through to get my degree in December this year - striving to ignore the toxic relationship my parents have. I fear her unnecessary frequent stress over many little things is what’s aging my dad so much!!! I’ll cry over his loss but not my mom except that she chose selfishness over utilizing her talents to help others!
@tomstulc9143
@tomstulc9143 4 ай бұрын
Yeah tips how narcissistic women destroy men in divorce him and take the money
@JoeKeeling-gp6rz
@JoeKeeling-gp6rz 4 ай бұрын
Yea do something about it, then post this. When we find this, it’s already 2 late.
@Norgesky
@Norgesky 4 ай бұрын
No.1 thing...I was smart,stoic and playing the long game. He was loud,damaging and completely emotional. I ended up getting what was most important to me . I beat him in court.
@livkind3522
@livkind3522 5 ай бұрын
My daughter shut down. Then after he left he acted like he was pushing for her to talk to someone when it was his toxicity that caused it. So twisted when she had to keep going to stay with him every other weekend. She’s coming out of it thank god. To live in such chaos then be forced to talk to him about what’s wrong and what can he do. She would tell me he keeps asking me but how do I say it’s him. There’s nothing to do. It’s him. So glad we have ended it. But it’s bever really ended is it. Thank you! Love your videos 💖
@shelleyd9910
@shelleyd9910 5 ай бұрын
Although Parallel parenting, it is also very important that you give age appropriate truth to your child. This will sound like you are criticising the other parent so it is important to state the truth without labelling the other parent. “This is what is going on…” instead of “No that’s a lie…”
@tamlamoore7962
@tamlamoore7962 5 ай бұрын
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@Freedom_Peace838
@Freedom_Peace838 6 ай бұрын
Excellent information. Thank you ladies. Powerful.
@ladykd2355
@ladykd2355 6 ай бұрын
How can you prevent the ex from wrecking your life? I don't think most people want to walk away from their children - they want to separate themselves financially and permanently from the ex who has made the act of parenting impossible and sucked any joy right out of it. It's hard to have a bond with your child when they are constantly being weaponized against you by the other parent. But unfortunately, as in the case of single mothers, the legal system supports them and rewards them for doing that!
@AngelDay1101
@AngelDay1101 4 ай бұрын
That'll show the real heart of the mother
@1mikesofocused42
@1mikesofocused42 3 ай бұрын
Hey I feel you
@ladykd2355
@ladykd2355 6 ай бұрын
Man - why would ANYONE wanna have kids these days. You are stuck with them for life and the ex can make your life a living hell for 18 years of your entire life. No waaaay.
@CareyBross
@CareyBross 6 ай бұрын
This woman soo phoney listen to what she saying,she said you cant terminate your parental rights and gives no solution this is designed to keep blk men dealing with focked up children and situations
@sergeyo2264
@sergeyo2264 6 ай бұрын
very insightful and unique info! Thank you
@Thankful305
@Thankful305 6 ай бұрын
It’s a huge PIA! Who’s got that much time for 78 discovery questions that use legal jargon and Latin verbiage just to confuse you even more TG most of them are repetitive.
@user-xk9zu6rc5w
@user-xk9zu6rc5w 7 ай бұрын
Get a passport
@user-vz8ju8fb9v
@user-vz8ju8fb9v 7 ай бұрын
What if we have no children and no mariatal property and it is still contested?
@belalhosensarder7277
@belalhosensarder7277 7 ай бұрын
I am very interested it?
@michiganlighthouse
@michiganlighthouse 7 ай бұрын
My husband has refused for our entire marriage to discuss finances with me as our philosophies are worlds apart. I would have left him long ago, but I've had a series of health problems, including cancer. While I have battled chronic pain and multiple surgeries, he has taken over all bill paying. Now that we are divorcing, I find our finances are in shambles, including 3 decades of IRS debt. I have not seen or signed tax returns for at least ten years. He uses my electronic signature, apparently. How much of this debt will I have to share? His abuse has gotten worse and worse until it reached the physical - which is when I said, no more - in spite of my physical ailments. I'm told by my neurosurgeon that ongoing stress can delay healing and, wow, after several months being separated, my pain has drastically reduced. Now I'm wondering if his abuse and the pain it has caused might be taken into account by the court concerning my debt responsibility?
@sammyparadero8762
@sammyparadero8762 7 ай бұрын
Would you guys able to talk more about the POSTNUPTIALS? I know it could be similar to prenups but it is really different •How to begin or start? •What it makes it enforceable or How to make it enforceable? •Can I include alimony in the statement? •Can I protect my personal bank account in post nuptial agreement?
@HumbledbyGod316
@HumbledbyGod316 7 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🙏🙏🙏
@basicprogrammer6147
@basicprogrammer6147 8 ай бұрын
3:10 For recording someone: Georgia is a one party consent state. Illinois is a two party consent state. This means it is a felony to record someone without their consent in their private residence. In fact, I believe in all states, you cannot record someone in their OWN HOME without their knowledge or permission. In Illinois, my wife purposely picked fights with me. Little did I know that she had been recording me. Some idoit family "friend" coached her into doing this. So, not only did my wife commit felony eavesdropping, her friend may also be culpable for acting as principal in eavesdropping. See 720 ILC 5/14-1 for my wife and 720 ILCS 5/14-1 (c) (2) for the friend.
@basicprogrammer6147
@basicprogrammer6147 8 ай бұрын
Who are the witnesses at a divorce trial?
@sherineroberson6019
@sherineroberson6019 8 ай бұрын
What if the other parent is incarcerated for 2 or more yrs
@MENSA.lady2
@MENSA.lady2 8 ай бұрын
Am I glad I don't live in the USA.
@eltielt1609
@eltielt1609 3 ай бұрын
Well lucky you, your govt hasn't adopted this extreme feminist gynocentric misandristic system I'm from Africa and basically a man has no chance in court against a woman nomatter the case. False rape accusations are a well known revenge tool used by women (WELL KNOWN). Getting a men's wealth via divorce has become a norm (it used to be soon as you finish building your family house then you kick the bucket instant $100k house for the widow....loads of widowed women in suburbs) It's not safe out here in westernized socities
@Adventures_without_NickNamin
@Adventures_without_NickNamin 8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@TheHolliHolland
@TheHolliHolland 8 ай бұрын
There must be a showing of harm in all cases. It's in the statute 19-7-3
@galagems9449
@galagems9449 8 ай бұрын
I dot know, how this in oth states, but in min, when I told them I could not afford the lawyer, they suggested to file a spouse support with the domestic relationship office.
@mirola73
@mirola73 9 ай бұрын
Choose folks that have adult kids, simple.
@NikkiBNice
@NikkiBNice 10 ай бұрын
This is spot on!
@attractarattigan3574
@attractarattigan3574 10 ай бұрын
Not one adviser on Narcissism has ever mentioned Farmers and Divorcing them & settlements
@Ben-eh2bq
@Ben-eh2bq 10 ай бұрын
If men have to pay for, seek lawyers, go to court, have a 3rd party make decisions for them…… ITS NOT A RIGHT!!!!!! Fathers for years have had their constitutional rights trampled over!!!!! We need federal laws to change!!! Single women don’t need anything done to get rights and time with their children that took TWO to create
@csx6910
@csx6910 10 ай бұрын
Takeaway message? Don't marry. Date seriously but with no further development in the relationship. And be careful of those common-law states.
@boop8127
@boop8127 10 ай бұрын
He so wants this house. Its in my name and worth $600k. Id give it if he asks no alimony, no retirement/benefits, enough for a downpayment and a mortgage equal to what im paying now. W/ current interest rates, im taking on double the APR. Give me enough for a $2k mortgage out the door or enough to buy a low $300k house cash. Ill cover child under my healthcare. We split kids tuition. Kid has 3 years til 18 so thats not a big obligation. He can have 90% of items in the house. I feel this is super fare.
@pocahontas4583
@pocahontas4583 11 ай бұрын
Just described my whole situation.
@savinya5367
@savinya5367 11 ай бұрын
What if they want absolutely everything?
@Janis-ug3ch
@Janis-ug3ch 5 ай бұрын
My ex wanted everything and made me look like a thief. I am 71 and only wanted some, not all, of money in retirement accounts. Divorce lasted 3 years Married 30 years. He got everything. I got nothing. He paid off my attorney. Be careful.
@BlackBeauty-yl8uq
@BlackBeauty-yl8uq Ай бұрын
What a dirty itch
@dinni1807
@dinni1807 Жыл бұрын
'PromoSM'
@basicprogrammer6147
@basicprogrammer6147 Жыл бұрын
We are not divorced yet. I do not want to get divorced. She filed in a no contest state. Neither of us wishes to sell the home or move out. The judge cannot force either one of us to sell. But, she wants exclusive possession of the home per her divorce demands. What happens?
@titop6152
@titop6152 27 күн бұрын
That’s a tougher situation